{"id":140989,"date":"2022-01-04T14:47:28","date_gmt":"2022-01-04T14:47:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=140989"},"modified":"2022-07-31T23:36:30","modified_gmt":"2022-07-31T23:36:30","slug":"o-amor-e-complicado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-amor-e-complicado\/","title":{"rendered":"O Amor \u00e9 Complicado: 20 raz\u00f5es para o fazer e o que fazer em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a isso"},"content":{"rendered":"

How many times have you thought to yourself: ”Man, love is complicated. Why don’t I just give up?”<\/em><\/p>\n

Too many times, I’m sure.<\/p>\n

Pode ser cansativo querer algo real quando s\u00f3 nos aparecem problemas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mas, o que \u00e9 que faz aparecer estes problemas? O amor \u00e9 realmente complicado? Se sim, porqu\u00ea?<\/em><\/p>\n

If you want to know the answers, read on and you’ll have them, along with some beautiful cita\u00e7\u00f5es de amor<\/a> que descrevem perfeitamente a complexidade desta emo\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

O amor \u00e9 uma emo\u00e7\u00e3o complicada?<\/h2>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

Nem por isso, mas somos n\u00f3s que complicamos as coisas.<\/em><\/p>\n

Real, amor incondicional<\/a> \u00e9 uma coisa bonita, e muito simples.<\/p>\n

It encourages you to become the best version of yourself all the while showing you that you have been worthy all along. It makes you realize why all the previous relationships didn’t work out.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So, unless your person makes you feel that way, they are not the one. But, if you believe them to be, despite that, that’s where issues arise.<\/p>\n

20 raz\u00f5es pelas quais o amor \u00e9 complicado e o que fazer<\/h2>\n

Rela\u00e7\u00f5es rom\u00e2nticas<\/a> can be a very complicated thing. I know you just want to make sense of it all, so if you’re having a hard time accomplishing that, take a look at the following possible reasons why love is complicated for you:<\/p>\n

1. Muros demasiado altos.<\/h3>\n

O amor \u00e9 complicado porque tens medo de o deixar entrar. Est\u00e1 em constante sofrimento por n\u00e3o ser capaz de encontrar algu\u00e9m que te fa\u00e7a feliz<\/a>mas assim que o fazes, afasta-los.<\/p>\n

You find excuses to convince yourself that they’re not really your type, but in reality, you just don’t know how to accept someone’s love.<\/strong><\/p>\n

F. Scott Fitzgerald disse uma vez: ”I’m not used to being loved. I wouldn’t know what to do.”<\/em><\/p>\n

And, that’s understandable. If you’ve never had a vida amorosa feliz<\/a>, you will be scared because it’s a completely unknown universe.<\/p>\n

Still, remind yourself of how you deserve the kind of love that is real, and even if you don’t know how to act, in fact, all you need to do is let it happen.<\/p>\n

2. Demasiado ou pouco.<\/h3>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

\u00c9 uma triste verdade que, na maioria das vezes, um dos parceiros ama mais do que o outro. Se estiver aquele que d\u00e1 mais amor do que recebe<\/a>\u00c9 natural que se sinta exausto com isso.<\/p>\n

Isto pode at\u00e9 criar problemas de baixa autoestima. Pode pensar-se que se \u00e9 indigno de amor<\/a> s\u00f3 porque your person doesn’t love you<\/a>.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, if you are the partner who loves less, you might feel guilty. You stay in the relationship because you’re medo de ser solteiro<\/a> ou porque estamos habituados a isso.<\/p>\n

Em qualquer dos casos, n\u00e3o \u00e9 justo para nenhum de v\u00f3s continuar a estar um com o outro. Talvez devessem pensar numa separa\u00e7\u00e3o; caso contr\u00e1rio, s\u00f3 se sentir\u00e3o mais infelizes com o passar dos dias.<\/strong><\/p>\n

3. Haunted by the past…<\/h3>\n

Acredita que ningu\u00e9m \u00e9 capaz de ser leal? Acredita que est\u00e1 destinado a ser tra\u00eddo se o deixar aproximar-se?<\/em><\/p>\n

Bem, nesse caso, n\u00e3o \u00e9 de admirar que sinta que o amor \u00e9 complicado.<\/p>\n

I don’t blame you for ter problemas de confian\u00e7a<\/a>. That’s the fault of those who betrayed you the first time you experienced love, but you need to realize that you are still responsible for your own recovery.<\/p>\n

You don’t need to forgive them, but you do need to let go. Not every person is the same.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Tell me… would you ever betray your loved one? Well, there’s your answer.<\/em><\/p>\n

There are a lot of people out there like you, but you don’t find them because you aren’t really looking. It’s time to change that.<\/p>\n

4. Love isn’t enough.<\/h3>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Amar algu\u00e9m \u00e9 f\u00e1cil, mas gostar dessa pessoa \u00e9 a parte mais dif\u00edcil.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Talvez pudesses conquistar o mundo com a quantidade de amor que tens por eles, mas continuas a tremer cada vez que eles s\u00e3o rudes para algu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

Or, perhaps you’re looking for a mature partner, and can’t help but feel bad every time they avoid their responsibilities.<\/p>\n

Either way, that may be a sign that you’re not right for each other.<\/p>\n

Naturally, you can work on all your problems. Nothing is unsolvable. But, remember that it’s possible to have an epic romance where you both love and like someone.<\/p>\n

Permite-te encontrar algo que te satisfa\u00e7a. O meio amor nunca fez bem a ningu\u00e9m.<\/em><\/p>\n

5. Things change…<\/h3>\n

Different personalities are attracted to each other… or are they?<\/p>\n

Well, yes, when you notice someone who’s your total opposite, your dopamine levels will be through the roof.<\/p>\n

Todos n\u00f3s queremos algo excitante. Raramente algu\u00e9m quer outra vers\u00e3o de si pr\u00f3prio.<\/strong><\/p>\n

No entanto, aquilo que nos entusiasma no in\u00edcio \u00e9 muitas vezes aquilo que nos enlouquece ao fim de algum tempo.<\/p>\n

That’s why you should remember that differences indeed are okay, and necessary, at that. However, there should still be certain similarities that will help the relationship to stay alive.<\/p>\n

Figure out what’s truly important to you, and make decisions accordingly.<\/strong><\/p>\n

6. A idealiza\u00e7\u00e3o traz problemas.<\/h3>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Alguma vez conheceste algu\u00e9m de quem gostasses muito, mas exageraste as suas boas qualidades ao ponto de as come\u00e7ares a glorificar?<\/em><\/p>\n

Apaixona-se pela vers\u00e3o que criou deles, mas a sua mente recusa-se a aceitar quem eles s\u00e3o na realidade.<\/p>\n

So, if you think that love is complicated, it’s because you make it so.<\/strong><\/p>\n

People aren’t projects for you to work on, so stop amando-os condicionalmente<\/a>. See the person before you as they are, so that when you fall in love, you’ll know it’s real.<\/p>\n

7. Sem amizade.<\/h3>\n

The biggest mistake people make is entering into relationships where there is no friendship. That might excite you in the beginning, but eventually, you’ll get tired.<\/p>\n

O seu parceiro deve ser tamb\u00e9m o seu melhor amigo, a pessoa com quem partilha tudo.<\/p>\n

If you can’t communicate nor have fun, but see each other merely as PARTNERS, then I am afraid that might easily turn into a heartbreak.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Para qu\u00ea querer uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00e3o complicada quando se pode olhar para algu\u00e9m e ver verdadeiramente tudo o que sempre se quis?<\/em><\/p>\n

8. O romance \u00e9 uma coisa do passado.<\/h3>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o, o fase de lua de mel<\/a> won’t last forever, but that doesn’t mean you should entirely give up on romance. If all that remains in the relationship is friendship, that’s just not enough.<\/p>\n

So, never stop going on dates or organizing small, exciting trips together. Never stop flirting with each other because what’s a relationship without that?<\/p>\n

Mant\u00e9m a chama entre voc\u00eas viva a todo o custo.<\/strong> It’s never a bad time for some romance.<\/p>\n

9. Souls that aren’t connected.<\/h3>\n

It’s not enough to proclaim that the other person is your partner. A relationship is much more than that.<\/p>\n

It’s accepting each other’s worst parts and offering comfort and love whenever you need it. It’s being there no matter how difficult it gets.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If your partner is prone to repressing their emotions and dealing with problems alone, that’s a major issue. But, not one that can’t be solved.<\/p>\n

Comece por ser a pessoa que se abre com eles. Mostre-lhes que vulnerabilidade emocional<\/a> isn’t a weakness, but a way to heal your sad soul and strengthen your relationship in the process.<\/p>\n

10. Valores fundamentais opostos.<\/h3>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Voc\u00ea e o seu parceiro t\u00eam valores completamente diferentes?<\/em><\/p>\n

Perhaps you’re extremely ethical whereas they are prone to cheating. Or, perhaps, you have a tendency to fight for the weak whereas they are the one who belittles the weak.<\/p>\n

Se assim for, a sua hist\u00f3ria de amor pode n\u00e3o ter um final t\u00e3o feliz. Mas n\u00e3o se preocupe!<\/p>\n

If you are willing to put in hard work, you can strengthen your relationship. But, both of you have to be prepared for what’s coming.<\/strong><\/p>\n

On the other hand, if nothing changes, there’s no point in pushing it.<\/p>\n

There is an ideal partner out there with the same core values as you. Once you let go of what isn’t for you, you will find them.<\/em><\/p>\n

11. Problems don’t mean the end.<\/h3>\n

So many (potential) couples observe a problem as proof that they shouldn’t be together. This couldn’t be more of a wrong approach.<\/p>\n

In reality, you are a team that should overcome every obstacle with healthy communication. It is you two against the problem. You aren’t competing with each other.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Por isso, da pr\u00f3xima vez que surgir um problema, pense nisso. Sente-se com o seu parceiro e alivie o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o pesado.<\/p>\n

Depois, procurem solu\u00e7\u00f5es. O que \u00e9 que se pode fazer para fazer a outra pessoa feliz?<\/em><\/p>\n

Nunca esquecer o verdadeiro valor do amor<\/a>.<\/p>\n

12. Infatuation isn’t love.<\/h3>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

It is not uncommon for people to fall for each other’s looks or to fall victim to idealization all the while never truly getting to know each other.<\/p>\n

But, this isn’t really love. This is paix\u00e3o<\/a>.<\/p>\n

You can’t expect something to work if you don’t know who the person in front of you is. You can’t expect a relationship to be ideal only because you are attracted to them.<\/p>\n

Se nos apaixonarmos pelas raz\u00f5es erradas, \u00e9 prov\u00e1vel que fiquemos desiludidos!<\/strong><\/p>\n

I’m sorry, but you need to reevaluate your checklist, and start looking for someone you truly like despite all their flaws.<\/p>\n

13. Obsess\u00f5es pouco saud\u00e1veis.<\/h3>\n

Too much of anything is not good. As hard as it might be for you to believe that, it’s the truth.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o importa o quanto amamos algu\u00e9m ou alguma coisa, se dedicarmos uma quantidade de tempo n\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel a essa pessoa ou a essa coisa, isso acabar\u00e1 por ter um efeito negativo.<\/p>\n

Are you too clingy? Do you get angry if your partner doesn’t respond to your message immediately? Do you expect to see them every day even when you know they’re busy?<\/em><\/p>\n

Se for esse o caso, \u00e9 preciso repensar os vossos m\u00e9todos.<\/p>\n

Your partner has their own life, and you have yours. You can’t expect them to live for you and be there 24\/7.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Depois de aprender como estabelecer limites<\/a>, you will learn to respect each other more, and perhaps love won’t be so complicated after all.<\/p>\n

14. Desejar outra pessoa.<\/h3>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

Uma das raz\u00f5es mais comuns pelas quais o amor rom\u00e2ntico \u00e9 complicado \u00e9 o envolvimento de uma terceira pessoa.<\/p>\n

Are you still in love with your high school ex? Do you secretly have feelings for someone, even though you keep saying they’re ‘apenas um amigo<\/a>‘?<\/p>\n

Se assim for, isso pode afetar muito a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Se voc\u00ea ou o seu parceiro interessado noutra pessoa<\/a>, it’s not fair to continue being together.<\/p>\n

You will be unhappy because in your mind, you will always be elsewhere, and your partner will never fully understand why you can’t love them the way they love you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

15. Anos a separar-vos.<\/h3>\n

Are you in love with someone who is ten years older than you? Or, perhaps, someone who is a lot younger, and you feel more like a parental figure than a partner? Are they your ‘a pessoa certa na altura errada<\/a>‘?<\/em><\/p>\n

Bem, o rela\u00e7\u00e3o de diferen\u00e7a de idades<\/a> is the one that’s causing you such difficulties.<\/p>\n

But, the real problem isn’t the age gap; it’s society that convinces us that an age gap is something to be worried about when in reality, it isn’t.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Naturally, you will not date a minor and justify it by saying that it’s amor verdadeiro<\/a>. But, in other cases, if you really love each other, you shouldn’t let your age be the problem.<\/p>\n

Se tiver diferentes n\u00edveis de maturidade<\/a>, yes, that can be frustrating, but love really conquers all. You should help each other grow, and not be angry over what you don’t understand.<\/p>\n

16. O seu destino est\u00e1 nas m\u00e3os dos outros.<\/h3>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

We all want our family to approve of our partner. It’s understandable to want everyone to get along. But, some of us take it to a whole new level.<\/p>\n

What you need to understand is this \u2013 it is YOU who is dating your partner, NOT your family. It is YOUR future that’s on the line, NOT theirs.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you really love them, you shouldn’t let anyone else’s opinion intervene with how you feel.<\/p>\n

Lutem por isso, porque o mais importante s\u00e3o os vossos sentimentos.<\/p>\n

17. O medo a vencer os teus desejos.<\/h3>\n

Perhaps you adore this person, but there’s something inside you that keeps finding reasons to end it. Well, that might be because of your quest\u00f5es de empenhamento<\/a>.<\/p>\n

People who are afraid to commit convince themselves that they don’t really need anybody, or they constantly question the other person’s love.<\/strong><\/p>\n

O que tem de fazer \u00e9 ir ao fundo da quest\u00e3o. Descubra a raiz do problema e lute contra ele com todas as suas for\u00e7as.<\/p>\n

Ser\u00e1 que alguma vez encontrar o amor<\/a>? Well, that’s up to you.<\/em><\/p>\n

18. Amor n\u00e3o correspondido<\/a>.<\/h3>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

We’ve all been there \u2013 loving someone who doesn’t love us back<\/a>. Como somos tolos por desejarmos que as coisas fossem diferentes! Porque \u00e9 que nos deixamos sentir assim?<\/em><\/p>\n

Well, you don’t really choose who you love, but at the same time, you do.<\/p>\n

Have you heard that quote ”We accept the love we think we deserve”? That’s not far from the truth.<\/p>\n

If you keep holding on to someone who’s not ready to reciprocate your feelings, you need to aprender a gostar de si pr\u00f3prio<\/a> mais.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Just know that it’s okay to be struggling with this. You are not the only one. But, at least try to remind yourself daily that you deserve a new love story.<\/p>\n

Pr\u00e1tica autocuidado emocional<\/a> diariamente e acabar\u00e1 por l\u00e1 chegar. Passos de beb\u00e9!<\/p>\n

19. Secret loves…<\/h3>\n

Ah, a dor de estar apaixonado por algu\u00e9m em segredo e n\u00e3o poder dizer-lhe! A dor de a ver todos os dias e de se esfor\u00e7ar por esconder o que se sente.<\/p>\n

This is painful no matter which scenario you put it in. Perhaps you’re apaixonado pelo seu melhor amigo<\/a> or a person you’ve just met, but who keeps giving you sinais contradit\u00f3rios<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Meu Deus, o que \u00e9 que se faz?!<\/em><\/p>\n

Well, you can start by telling them how you feel. This doesn’t have to be done in a direct way.<\/p>\n

Pode explicar-lhes a profundidade dos seus sentimentos, mantendo contacto visual prolongado<\/a> ou tocando-lhes suavemente com um sorriso malicioso na cara.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Or, it’s best that you figure out what their linguagem do amor<\/a> \u00e9, e mostrar o seu afeto em conformidade.<\/p>\n

20. Alerta de narcisista!<\/h3>\n

N\u00e3o h\u00e1 falta de pessoas com tend\u00eancias narc\u00edsicas<\/a>. Se encontraste algu\u00e9m que continua a ignorar os teus sentimentos, ao mesmo tempo que te faz sentir respons\u00e1vel pela sua felicidade, ter\u00e1s dificuldade em acreditar no amor.<\/p>\n

I hope you understand that love isn’t supposed to hurt. You’re not supposed to lie down every night wondering what you did wrong.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If your partner makes you feel sad rather than happy, then maybe it’s time to seguir em frente<\/a>. There is someone out there who will treat you better, and don’t you forget that!<\/p>\n

\u201cLove Is Complicated\u201d Quotes<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

1. \u201cThey say if the love is true, then it\u2019s easy. But, that\u2019s false. Love is complicated. It\u2019s sticky. It\u2019s bliss and it\u2019s a mix of emotions. It\u2019s not easy.\u201d \u2013 Dominic Riccitello<\/strong><\/p>\n

2. “Love.” \u201cShe looked at me with those blue eyes. Isn’t it astonishing how confused and complicated such a small, simple word is?
\nIt attracts so many other things, doesn’t it, that stick to it like barnacles on rock\u2026 fear, guilt, need. You can’t even see the rock anymore. I imagine love in its purest form is a rare thing.” \u2013 Deb Caletti<\/p>\n

3. ”From the complications of loving you, I think there is no end or return. No answer, no coming out of it, which is the only way to love, isn\u2019t it?” \u2013 Mary Oliver<\/p>\n

4. ”It’s not gonna be easy. It’s going to be really hard; we’re gonna have to work at this everyday, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, forever, everyday. You and me… everyday.” \u2013 Nicholas Sparks<\/strong><\/p>\n

5. “Love enters us like a vague ailment. Your head spins. Your underarms tingle. Love hurts and love has consequences: marriage, babies, separation, longing, human complications.” \u2013 Chloe Thurlow<\/p>\n

6. \u201c”Complicated – shmomplicated,” she said, waving her hand. ”If you love her, you make it work.\u201d \u2013 Fiona Cole<\/p>\n

7. \u201c”But, love? Is that what you feel for Morpheus?\u201d I swallow hard. \u201cI\u2019m not sure… But, there\u2019s something real between us\u2026 something powerful.\u201d I sink further into my seat. \u201cIt\u2019s complicated.\u201d\u201d \u2013 A.G. Howard<\/p>\n

8. “Love should be easy. Life is hard. Relationships are complicated. But, the love, that\u2019s the one thing we should be able to count on.” \u2013 Jacqueline Simon Gunn<\/p>\n

9. “And, maybe that is what it comes down to, knowing what the other person needs even before they know it themselves. Maybe it\u2019s just that simple, and it is only us who make it complicated with our anniversaries and our gifts, with grand declarations and public demonstrations, empty words and valuable stones.” \u2013 Shitij Sharma<\/strong><\/p>\n

10. \u201cEven so, in the midst of this complicated love, there is a holy union.\u201d \u2013 Lorna Jane Cook<\/p>\n

Considera\u00e7\u00f5es finais<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

As you can see, love is complicated… but not in the way you might have thought. It’s really up to you to fight your inner demons that stop you from accepting it.<\/p>\n

O seu destino est\u00e1 nas suas pr\u00f3prias m\u00e3os.<\/strong> Certifique-se de que cada decis\u00e3o que tomar o conduzir\u00e1 a um uma vida mais f\u00e1cil e feliz<\/a>.<\/p>\n

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