{"id":14105,"date":"2021-04-29T08:17:56","date_gmt":"2021-04-29T08:17:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14105"},"modified":"2022-07-19T08:44:13","modified_gmt":"2022-07-19T08:44:13","slug":"8-sinais-de-que-ele-e-emocionalmente-inseguro-nao-se-preocupe-em-namorar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/8-sinais-de-que-ele-e-emocionalmente-inseguro-nao-se-preocupe-em-namorar\/","title":{"rendered":"8 sinais de um homem inseguro a que deves estar atento"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>If you ask me, insecure men are a toxic version of &#8216;the One&#8217;. They are masters at making you feel like you&#8217;re the only girl in the world and they are masters at covering up their insecure behavior with <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/5-comportamentos-toxicos-que-destroem-uma-relacao\/\">padr\u00f5es comportamentais t\u00f3xicos<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Embora a maioria deles nunca o admita, muitos homens t\u00eam egos muito fr\u00e1geis que podem ser facilmente quebrados. Para ser mais exato, os homens inseguros t\u00eam uma baixa autoestima e um ego fr\u00e1gil que tentam esconder a todo o custo.<\/p>\n<p>Pode n\u00e3o o saber, mas quando um homem \u00e9 emocionalmente inseguro, o seu comportamento inseguro tem impacto em todos os aspectos da sua vida.<\/p>\n<h2>A inseguran\u00e7a \u00e9 normalmente desencadeada por acontecimentos passados<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-36826\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/shutterstock_506799721-1.jpg\" alt=\"8 Sinais de que ele \u00e9 emocionalmente inseguro (nem se d\u00ea ao trabalho de sair com ele)\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/shutterstock_506799721-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/shutterstock_506799721-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/shutterstock_506799721-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Something probably happened to him in the past which caused him to be this way, and with time, his insecurity became one of the biggest reasons why his relationships don\u2019t work out.<\/p>\n<p>Se gosta mesmo deste rapaz e quer ajud\u00e1-lo a ganhar confian\u00e7a e a mudar para melhor, recomendo vivamente que desbloqueie o seu instinto de her\u00f3i com <a href=\"https:\/\/a03d70e-aobu5qeavnv3scpi04.hop.clickbank.net\/?tid=HASE_ALIC\" rel=\"noopener\">A sua obsess\u00e3o secreta<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><b>When you first meet this guy, you don\u2019t see his true face right away.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Em vez disso, provavelmente ficar\u00e1 calado e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/os-homens-tendem-a-sentimentos-misteriosos-16-sinais-subtis-gosta\/\">misterioso<\/a> que o vai intrigar e fazer com que queira descobrir todas as camadas da sua personalidade.<\/p>\n<p><b>Nevertheless, as time goes by, you\u2019ll notice that this man isn\u2019t sure about himself.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll see that he is actually <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ele\/emotionally-unavailable\/5-sinais-de-que-ele-esta-emocionalmente-indisponivel-nao-se-incomode-em-namorar\/\">emocionalmente indispon\u00edvel<\/a> e que ele carrega muita bagagem emocional que se tornar\u00e1 um enorme fardo para si antes que d\u00ea por isso.<\/p>\n<p><b>Suponho que estas s\u00e3o as perguntas que est\u00e3o a passar pela sua cabe\u00e7a neste momento:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><b> <\/b><b><i>O que s\u00e3o exatamente esses avisos ocultos? <\/i><\/b><b><i>sinais de inseguran\u00e7a<\/i><\/b><b><i> num homem?<\/i><\/b><\/li>\n<li><b> <\/b><b><i>What are the clues that can help you figure out if a man has confidence issues and if you\u2019re dealing with an insecure partner?<\/i><\/b><\/li>\n<li><b><\/b><b><i> Como \u00e9 que se lida com um <\/i><\/b><b><i>homem inseguro<\/i><\/b><b><i>?<\/i><\/b><\/li>\n<li><b> <\/b><b><i>Quais s\u00e3o as principais causas da inseguran\u00e7a?<\/i><\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><b>Continue a ler e descubra.<\/b><\/p>\n<h2>Homens inseguros: Quais s\u00e3o os sinais de inseguran\u00e7a?<\/h2>\n<p><a style=\"background-color: #ffffff;\" href=\"https:\/\/a03d70e-aobu5qeavnv3scpi04.hop.clickbank.net\/?tid=HASE_ALIC\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108026\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/His-Secret-Obsession-3-3.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1202\" height=\"677\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/His-Secret-Obsession-3-3.jpg 1202w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/His-Secret-Obsession-3-3-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/His-Secret-Obsession-3-3-1024x577.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/His-Secret-Obsession-3-3-768x433.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/His-Secret-Obsession-3-3-150x84.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1202px) 100vw, 1202px\" \/><\/a>O maior sinal de inseguran\u00e7a \u00e9 a baixa autoestima. As pessoas com baixos n\u00edveis de confian\u00e7a pensam mal das suas compet\u00eancias, capacidades e podem tamb\u00e9m ter inseguran\u00e7as em rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 imagem corporal. Uma autoimagem negativa reflecte-se geralmente em todos os aspectos da sua vida.<\/p>\n<p>Se pesquisar no Google<i> significado inseguro<\/i> ou <i>o que significa inseguro, <\/i>you&#8217;ll get this answer: uncertain or anxious about oneself; not confident. However, low self-esteem is not the only sign of insecurity.<\/p>\n<p><b>Outros <\/b><b>sinais de inseguran\u00e7a<\/b><b>:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><b> Perfeccionismo<\/b><\/li>\n<li><b> Estilos de vincula\u00e7\u00e3o ansiosos ou evitantes<\/b><\/li>\n<li><b> <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/a-ansiedade-fez-me-prisioneiro-da-mente\/\"><b>Ansiedade<\/b><\/a><b> ou depress\u00e3o<\/b><\/li>\n<li><b> Inseguran\u00e7a no emprego (mau desempenho profissional)<\/b><\/li>\n<li><b> Auto-isolamento<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><b>Estilos de vincula\u00e7\u00e3o ansiosos ou evitantes<\/b><\/h3>\n<p>Quando se trata de rela\u00e7\u00f5es rom\u00e2nticas, as pessoas inseguras t\u00eam uma atitude ansiosa ou evitante <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/3-principais-estilos-de-vinculacao-e-como-afectam-a-sua-relacao\/\">estilo de fixa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Por outras palavras, t\u00eam uma abordagem disfuncional das rela\u00e7\u00f5es. As pessoas que t\u00eam um estilo de vincula\u00e7\u00e3o ansioso tendem a ser emocionalmente dependentes do parceiro, t\u00eam medo de ficar sozinhas e, muitas vezes, t\u00eam uma atitude irrealista em rela\u00e7\u00e3o ao relacionamento. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/gerir-as-expectativas-na-sua-parceria\/\">expectativas numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>They fantasize about being in a perfect relationship which is not really possible because such relationships don&#8217;t exist.<\/p>\n<p>As pessoas com um estilo de vincula\u00e7\u00e3o evitante mant\u00eam rela\u00e7\u00f5es superficiais e evitam estabelecer liga\u00e7\u00f5es \u00edntimas com os seus parceiros.<\/p>\n<h2>Quais s\u00e3o as principais causas da inseguran\u00e7a?<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-36825\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/shutterstock_498291007-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/shutterstock_498291007-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/shutterstock_498291007-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/shutterstock_498291007-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/h2>\n<p>As principais causas da inseguran\u00e7a s\u00e3o a falta de auto-confian\u00e7a, o medo de falhar e a falta de confian\u00e7a nos outros. Uma dose saud\u00e1vel de inseguran\u00e7a \u00e9 desej\u00e1vel, mas o problema surge quando as inseguran\u00e7as se tornam constantes e graves.<\/p>\n<p>A baixa auto-confian\u00e7a, o medo do fracasso e a falta de confian\u00e7a s\u00e3o influenciados por muitos outros factores da inf\u00e2ncia ou da vida adulta:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><b> Div\u00f3rcio<\/b><\/li>\n<li><b> Um acontecimento traum\u00e1tico<\/b><\/li>\n<li><b> Fal\u00eancia<\/b><\/li>\n<li><b> Ambiente<\/b><\/li>\n<li><b> Perda<\/b><\/li>\n<li><b> Os media<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Gostaria de referir duas coisas desta lista: um acontecimento traum\u00e1tico e os meios de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o social. Se uma pessoa passou por algo traum\u00e1tico, como uma trai\u00e7\u00e3o numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o anterior, \u00e9 prov\u00e1vel que tenha problemas de confian\u00e7a na rela\u00e7\u00e3o seguinte.<\/p>\n<p>They will constantly be in a state of anticipating the worst. Every single person will be a threat to them (be it their partner&#8217;s friend or a colleague). This will trigger their insecurities and make them overreact.<\/p>\n<p>Outra das principais causas de inseguran\u00e7a (talvez a maior causa de inseguran\u00e7a em geral) s\u00e3o os meios de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o social e as redes sociais em particular.<\/p>\n<p>If you haven&#8217;t noticed so far, the media is skilfully imposing this message to you: &#8220;You need to look &#8220;perfect&#8221; or &#8220;exactly like this&#8221; if you want to find a partner or if you want others to like you.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><b>O que \u00e9 que isto lhe faz?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Well, you start thinking that you&#8217;ll never <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/7-regras-de-vida\/\">ser verdadeiramente feliz<\/a> if you don&#8217;t look like Irina Shayk or Robert Pattinson. Wait, you can look like Irina Shayk if you use the same products as she&#8217;s using, right?<\/p>\n<p>Or maybe you can&#8217;t? Does this make you feel a little bit insecure? Does this force you to think of other ways that can make you feel prettier?<\/p>\n<p>You can spend tons of your money on trying to reach perfection or trying to be who the media wants you to be but the more you&#8217;re doing it, the more insecure you&#8217;ll feel.<\/p>\n<p><b>Tu \u00e9s bela. Tu \u00e9s digno. Tu \u00e9s importante.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Insecurity doesn&#8217;t make you who you are. The truth is, we all feel insecure from time to time but not all of us are ready to stop for a moment and think about what causes it. Well, now it&#8217;s <b>tempo para o fazer.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Compreens\u00e3o = supera\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/b><\/p>\n<h2>Quais s\u00e3o as caracter\u00edsticas de um homem inseguro?<\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/a03d70e-aobu5qeavnv3scpi04.hop.clickbank.net\/?tid=HASE_ALIC\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/His-Secret-Obsession-1-3.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1202\" height=\"677\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/His-Secret-Obsession-1-3.jpg 1202w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/His-Secret-Obsession-1-3-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/His-Secret-Obsession-1-3-1024x577.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/His-Secret-Obsession-1-3-768x433.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/His-Secret-Obsession-1-3-150x84.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1202px) 100vw, 1202px\" \/><\/a>An insecure man is prone to love bombing. He has trust issues and he requires constant validation. There are many other characteristics of such a man, so let&#8217;s see!<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">He\u2019ll love bomb you way too soon<\/h3>\n<p>Um dos primeiros sinais de inseguran\u00e7a num homem est\u00e1 relacionado com<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/5-coisas-a-saber-sobre-o-bombardeamento-amoroso-narcisico\/\"> bombardeamento de amor<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Quando conheces um tipo assim, ele come\u00e7a imediatamente a agir como <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/actos-de-homens-apaixonados\/\">tu \u00e9s o amor da vida dele<\/a> and the one he\u2019s been waiting for all along.<\/p>\n<h4>Everything will seem perfect&#8230;<\/h4>\n<p>Of course, in the beginning, you\u2019ll be more than happy that you have met this man who isn\u2019t afraid to express his feelings after all those douchebags who were stringing you along for ages.<\/p>\n<p><b>Uma experi\u00eancia emocional <\/b><b>homem inseguro<\/b><b> declara-te de imediato o seu amor eterno por ti.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Not only that\u2014he will also start talking about <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/10-sinais-de-que-se-esta-a-namorar-com-o-futuro-marido\/\">o futuro que ele planeou para si<\/a>Mesmo antes de se conhecerem bem.<\/p>\n<p>Ele vai imediatamente publicar fotografias suas em todas as suas contas nas redes sociais e apresent\u00e1-la a todos os seus amigos, mostrando ao mundo como est\u00e1 orgulhoso de a ter ao seu lado.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c0 primeira vista, \u00e9 prov\u00e1vel que uma coisa destas a lisonjeie e que esteja a transbordar de felicidade por finalmente conhecer um homem que v\u00ea o seu valor e que obviamente a considera especial.<\/p>\n<h4>After some time you&#8217;ll realize that something&#8217;s off.<\/h4>\n<p>Nevertheless, after you think about it, you\u2019ll find that something is wrong with that picture and that you\u2019re dealing with <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/parceiro-inseguro-esgota-a-relacao\/\">um parceiro inseguro<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><b>How is it possible that he already loves you and you\u2019ve only gone out on your second date?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/14-sinais-romanticos-amor-a-primeira-vista\/\">amor \u00e0 primeira vista<\/a> probably exists, but even if it does, you wouldn\u2019t be telling your date that you love them right away.<\/p>\n<p>So, you can\u2019t help but wonder what is wrong with this guy who is obviously too good to be true.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Fazer<\/i><\/b> <b><i>homens inseguros<\/i><\/b><b><i> jogar jogos? <\/i><\/b><i>Ser\u00e1 que ele est\u00e1 a mentir-lhe s\u00f3 para a manipular e para se atirar \u00e0s suas cal\u00e7as? Ou ser\u00e1 que ele est\u00e1 t\u00e3o desesperado por amor que est\u00e1 a mentir a si pr\u00f3prio?<\/i><b><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Seja como for, algo est\u00e1 claramente errado. Afinal de contas, voc\u00eas n\u00e3o s\u00e3o adolescentes e as declara\u00e7\u00f5es de amor n\u00e3o s\u00e3o algo com que um homem adulto deva brincar.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ele \u00e9 demasiado ciumento<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-72956 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-talking-at-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"casal a conversar num caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-talking-at-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-talking-at-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-talking-at-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Outro sinal de inseguran\u00e7a num homem \u00e9 o facto de<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/5-sinais-vermelhos-de-que-o-ciume-dele-nao-e-saudavel\/\"> ci\u00fame doentio<\/a> ou comportamento possessivo.<\/p>\n<p>Claro que todas n\u00f3s nos sentimos lisonjeadas quando o rapaz com quem estamos a sair mostra um pouco de ci\u00fames, porque isso \u00e9 um sinal claro de que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-ele-faz-estas-7-coisas-tem-medo-de-a-perder\/\">ele tem medo de a perder.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>No entanto, este homem \u00e9 diferente e tem literalmente ci\u00fames de tudo o que fazes. \u00c9 como se ele esperasse que deixasses de existir como pessoa s\u00f3 porque est\u00e1s numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o com ele.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ele quer que passe todo o seu tempo com ele e que se concentre apenas nele.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>This guy is jealous of everything and everyone you give your attention to\u2014your male friends and coworkers, your family, basically anyone who has any kind of contact with you.<\/p>\n<p>Whenever you go out without him, he\u2019ll ask you not to hang out with guys in general.<\/p>\n<p>He will call you and text you to check up on you and see who you\u2019re with, using the excuse that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/sinais-de-que-ele-sente-a-tua-falta\/\">ele sente a tua falta<\/a> or is bored and wants to know when you\u2019re coming home.<\/p>\n<h4>O controlo do comportamento tornar-se-\u00e1 uma parte da sua rotina di\u00e1ria.<\/h4>\n<p>He might even try controlling your phone and social media activity. He wants to know who you\u2019re texting and where you\u2019re going at all times, which is nothing more than a display of his insecure behavior.<\/p>\n<p>No in\u00edcio, este tipo de comportamento f\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 sentir-se especial e amado, mas com o passar do tempo, ficar\u00e1 farto de n\u00e3o ter a sua liberdade.<\/p>\n<p><b>You will be sick of him smothering you and checking your every move. After a while, all of it will start to suffocate you, and you won\u2019t be able to help but wonder why he acts that way.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Well, it\u2019s actually pretty simple\u2014a man who is insecure constantly feels threatened and intimidated, and it is definitely a red flag you should pay attention to.<\/p>\n<p>Insecure people don\u2019t think they are <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/a-verdade-e-que-nunca-seras-suficientemente-boa-para-o-homem-errado\/\">suficientemente bom<\/a>E vivem com o medo constante de que voc\u00ea acabe com eles e os deixe por outra pessoa.<\/p>\n<p>A sua falta de auto-confian\u00e7a faz com que todos \u00e0 sua volta pare\u00e7am a sua concorr\u00eancia, e ele est\u00e1 convencido de que a \u00fanica forma de a manter ao seu lado \u00e9 agarrando-se a si o mais poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ele compara-se com o seu ex-namorado<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-33450 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/eric-ward-501550-unsplash.jpg\" alt=\"8 Sinais de que ele \u00e9 emocionalmente inseguro (nem se d\u00ea ao trabalho de sair com ele) \" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/eric-ward-501550-unsplash.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/eric-ward-501550-unsplash-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/eric-ward-501550-unsplash-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/h3>\n<p>When you\u2019re dealing with an insecure man, he won\u2019t only be jealous of the men who are present in your life now.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, he will obsess about your past relationships too\u2013he will want to know what happened before him and what might happen if he happens to leave your life as well.<\/p>\n<p><b>This guy just can\u2019t face the fact that you dated someone else before him, and that is nothing but a serious sign of insecurity.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Ele vai falar constantemente sobre o seu ex, investigar os seus perfis nas redes sociais e perguntar-lhe sobre todas as pequenas coisas relacionadas com a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o passada, especialmente nos momentos em que a sua inseguran\u00e7a entra em a\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<h4>As acusa\u00e7\u00f5es ser\u00e3o constantes.<\/h4>\n<p>Sempre que lhe fazes uma cr\u00edtica construtiva sobre a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, ele acusa-te de quereres que ele seja igual \u00e0 tua ex.<\/p>\n<p>He constantly suspects that you\u2019re searching for this man from your past and that you\u2019re trying to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/reconstruir-a-confianca-numa-relacao\/\">reconstruir a rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> que tiveste com o teu ex.<\/p>\n<p>Although you are trying to convince him that you and your ex are ancient history and that you have lost contact, he won\u2019t stop.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ele \u00e9 t\u00e3o inseguro em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a si pr\u00f3prio, e pensa que o vai deixar e <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/uma-carta-para-a-rapariga-que-quer-voltar-para-o-seu-ex-namorado\/\"><b>voltar a estar com a tua ex.<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Not only that\u2014he will probably talk trash about all of your ex-boyfriends, simply because he is afraid that you are constantly comparing him to them and that each one of them has something he doesn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>Even though you are very much aware that this is all nonsense, after a while, this guy will get into your head to the point where you\u2019ll even start feeling guilty for daring to have a life before him.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ele tem problemas de confian\u00e7a<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-36829\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/shutterstock_194608523.jpg\" alt=\"8 Sinais de que ele \u00e9 emocionalmente inseguro (nem se d\u00ea ao trabalho de sair com ele)\" width=\"863\" height=\"700\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/shutterstock_194608523.jpg 863w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/shutterstock_194608523-300x243.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/shutterstock_194608523-768x623.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 863px) 100vw, 863px\" \/><\/h3>\n<p>Outro sinal de homens inseguros est\u00e1 relacionado com problemas de confian\u00e7a, que normalmente v\u00eam de m\u00e3os dadas com problemas de inseguran\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<p>The guy we are talking about has probably been hurt in the past or he didn\u2019t get enough attention from his ex-girlfriend or maybe even as a child.<\/p>\n<p>De qualquer forma, tudo isto causou um problema grave na sua personalidade, deixou consequ\u00eancias profundas na sua sa\u00fade mental e tornou-o na pessoa insegura que \u00e9 hoje.<\/p>\n<p><b>O facto de ter sido tra\u00eddo pela sua ex-namorada no passado fez com que este homem esperasse o pior de todos, incluindo de si.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>He simply can\u2019t force himself to trust you completely, due to his <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/6-dicas-para-problemas-de-abandono-de-alguem\/\">quest\u00f5es de abandono<\/a>e vive com medo constante de que tu possas acabar com ele.<\/p>\n<p>Mesmo que lhe mostre que o ama e que quer estar com ele, ele vai duvidar de si porque uma rapariga o enganou e lhe partiu o cora\u00e7\u00e3o antes de si.<\/p>\n<p>Naturalmente, esta falta de confian\u00e7a m\u00fatua torna imposs\u00edvel que os dois <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/principais-regras-de-relacionamento\/\">construir uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/a>independentemente do que se tente fazer.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ele faz jogos mentais<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-72960 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-covering-her-head-with-hands-while-her-man-stands-next-to-her-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a cobrir a cabe\u00e7a com as m\u00e3os enquanto o seu homem est\u00e1 ao seu lado\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-covering-her-head-with-hands-while-her-man-stands-next-to-her-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-covering-her-head-with-hands-while-her-man-stands-next-to-her-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-covering-her-head-with-hands-while-her-man-stands-next-to-her-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Jogar <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/3-jogos-mentais-que-todas-as-pessoas-toxicas-fazem\/\">jogos mentais<\/a> \u00e9 um dos sinais de um homem inseguro e uma das ferramentas que os homens emocionalmente desequilibrados e inseguros utilizam para encobrir o seu comportamento inseguro.<b> <\/b>E o seu homem n\u00e3o \u00e9 exce\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p><b>Este homem tem o desejo de a manter sob controlo o mais poss\u00edvel, porque espera que isso aumente a sua <\/b><b>baixa autoestima<\/b><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>He will manipulate you into doing things he wants you to do, just so he can be sure you are going to stay with him, that you are not going to hurt him, and that you won\u2019t find someone better. Sometimes, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/12-razoes-pelas-quais-ele-nunca-te-manda-uma-mensagem-primeiro-mas-responde-sempre-quando-tu-lhe-mandas-uma\/\">he&#8217;ll avoid texting you first<\/a> apenas para nos fazer pensar no que est\u00e1 a acontecer exatamente.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4>Even though he doesn\u2019t show it at first, he doesn\u2019t think that he is good enough for you.<\/h4>\n<p>\u00c9 claro que ele tem medo que se afaste dele no momento em que vir a verdade, por isso est\u00e1 a fazer tudo o que est\u00e1 ao seu alcance para inverter a situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Para disfar\u00e7ar as suas inseguran\u00e7as, este homem usar\u00e1 diferentes truques e t\u00e9cnicas de manipula\u00e7\u00e3o para a fazer pensar que \u00e9 a sortuda que o tem.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>Sem que se aperceba, ele vai tentar faz\u00ea-la acreditar que nunca encontrar\u00e1 algu\u00e9m melhor do que ele e que at\u00e9 deve estar grata por ele a aturar.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Of course, in the beginning, you don\u2019t let him get to you, but with time, his <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/5-formas-sorrateiras-de-os-homens-toxicos-tentarem-seduzi-la\/\">manipula\u00e7\u00f5es sorrateiras<\/a> fazer-vos acreditar que tudo isso \u00e9 realmente verdade.<\/p>\n<p>This all happens due to this guy\u2019s insecurities, but it is very dangerous because it can destroy your life and mental health as well if you don\u2019t figure out what\u2019s at stake right from the start.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">O mundo dele gira \u00e0 tua volta<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-72963 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-sitting-alone-on-boat-dock-in-front-of-sea-1.jpg\" alt=\"homem sentado sozinho numa doca de barco em frente ao mar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-sitting-alone-on-boat-dock-in-front-of-sea-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-sitting-alone-on-boat-dock-in-front-of-sea-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-sitting-alone-on-boat-dock-in-front-of-sea-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Quando se conhece um <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/5-jogos-mentais-que-os-homens-emocionalmente-inseguros-fazem-com-as-mulheres\/\">homem emocionalmente inseguro<\/a>Se n\u00e3o for o caso, est\u00e1 mais do que feliz por finalmente ter um namorado que se esfor\u00e7a na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e que lhe d\u00e1 prioridade como deve.<\/p>\n<p>Tem um<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/os-homens-a-serio-escolhem-sempre-o-amor-a-longo-prazo-em-vez-da-luxuria-a-curto-prazo\/\"> homem de verdade<\/a> que passa o dia inteiro a mandar-lhe mensagens e a telefonar-lhe, e voc\u00ea \u00e9 a atriz principal do filme dele.<\/p>\n<p>Tudo gira em torno de si. Ele p\u00f5e as tuas necessidades \u00e0 frente das dele e faz tudo o que est\u00e1 ao seu alcance para te agradar e fazer com que te sintas perfeita.<\/p>\n<p><b>Doesn\u2019t it sound great? Well, it does, but what happens when you want some personal space, sometimes just for yourself, and he is still there next to you, watching you like a hawk?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, when you dare to do something he doesn\u2019t want you to do, he gets upset because he can\u2019t control you or he is too possessive and he thinks that no one has the right to \u2018share\u2019 you with him.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 \u00f3bvio que este homem a v\u00ea como propriedade dele e, desde que esteja ao seu lado, tudo \u00e9 perfeito. No entanto, quando decides fazer algo por ti pr\u00f3pria, tens um problema.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Tem muito poucos ou nenhuns amigos<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-72964 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-while-she-sitting.jpg\" alt=\"homem a falar com uma mulher enquanto ela est\u00e1 sentada\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-while-she-sitting.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-while-she-sitting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-while-she-sitting-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Um dos sinais de alerta dos homens inseguros \u00e9, sem d\u00favida, a sua incapacidade de socializar e de estabelecer rela\u00e7\u00f5es saud\u00e1veis com os outros.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014this doesn\u2019t mean that all <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/10-coisas-que-os-introvertidos-desejam-nos-relacionamentos-romanticos\/\">introvertidos<\/a> are emotionally insecure, but the fact is that men who have self-confidence problems are usually loners and don\u2019t feel comfortable around people, which is one of the first signs of insecure behavior.<\/p>\n<p><b>Maybe they\u2019ll have one or two <\/b><b>amigos homens<\/b><b> ou <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/20-sinais-inequivocos-de-que-um-colega-de-trabalho-gosta-de-si-e-quer-algo-mais\/\"><b>colegas de trabalho<\/b><\/a><b>mas mesmo esses ser\u00e3o afastados a dada altura.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>People who don\u2019t recognize emotional insecurity in a man will describe such a person as a shy introvert and won\u2019t see any red flags in their behavior.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, a verdade \u00e9 que t\u00eam problemas graves e quest\u00f5es de inseguran\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<p>They are emotionally unavailable, and if you try to date such a man, you\u2019ll probably end up regretting it.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ele precisa de valida\u00e7\u00e3o constante<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-128835 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-talking-over-breakfast.jpg\" alt=\"um homem e uma mulher a conversar ao pequeno-almo\u00e7o\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-talking-over-breakfast.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-talking-over-breakfast-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-talking-over-breakfast-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-talking-over-breakfast-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-talking-over-breakfast-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-talking-over-breakfast-320x214.jpg 320w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-talking-over-breakfast-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-talking-over-breakfast-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-talking-over-breakfast-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-talking-over-breakfast-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-talking-over-breakfast-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-talking-over-breakfast-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-talking-over-breakfast-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/>A \u00faltima, mas definitivamente n\u00e3o menos importante, carater\u00edstica das pessoas inseguras \u00e9 a sua necessidade de valida\u00e7\u00e3o constante. Um homem emocionalmente inseguro procurar\u00e1 sempre a sua aprova\u00e7\u00e3o em todos os aspectos da sua vida e nunca ser\u00e1 capaz de aceitar qualquer cr\u00edtica construtiva.<\/p>\n<p><b>At first, you might see this as proof of his undying love for you\u2014the fact that he values your opinion and always takes it into consideration.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>No entanto, passado algum tempo, v\u00ea que esse homem n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficientemente maduro e que precisa da sua m\u00e3o para o guiar na vida.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019ll ask questions like: \u201cWhy do you like me?\u201d or \u201cOut of all the men in this world, why did you choose me?\u201d<\/p>\n<h4>Com o tempo, a sua inseguran\u00e7a transforma-se em ego\u00edsmo.<\/h4>\n<p>You want him to feel good, so you\u2019ll compliment him and tell him how awesome he is, which will give him an <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/10-sinais-de-que-ele-esta-a-usar-o-ego-boost\/\">aumento do ego<\/a> para passar o dia.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe this doesn\u2019t sound that bad. Maybe you\u2019re thinking he is just a poor, insecure guy who needs help.<\/p>\n<p><b>Est\u00e1 bem, pode ser assim. No entanto, o que acontece quando isto se torna demasiado sufocante e cansativo?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>What happens when you\u2019re the one who needs to be encouraged, but he can\u2019t do it because he\u2019s even more insecure than you are?<\/p>\n<p>If you try to claim your right for attention, he\u2019ll lose it and accuse you of not caring about him now and that you never did.<\/p>\n<p><i>Queres mesmo namorar com esse tipo de homem? Um homem que \u00e9 t\u00e3o inseguro que se torna ego\u00edsta?<\/i><\/p>\n<h2>Como \u00e9 que se lida com um homem inseguro?<\/h2>\n<p>The best way to deal with an insecure man is to show support and encourage him to open up to you. You need to give him some time to improve himself. If you&#8217;re dealing with an insecure man, here&#8217;s what you need to do:<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Avaliar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-128836 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-1.jpg\" alt=\"um homem e uma mulher sentam-se \u00e0 mesa e conversam\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-1-320x214.jpg 320w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-1-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-1-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-1-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-1-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-1-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When it comes to dealing with insecure men, the first step is evaluating your relationship aka finding the root of your man&#8217;s insecurities. Think about whether your behavior is <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-coisas-que-fazem-os-homens-sentirem-se-inseguros-que-as-mulheres-nem-se-apercebem\/\">fazendo-o sentir-se inseguro<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Estar\u00e1 a provocar-lhe ci\u00fames inconscientemente? Est\u00e1 a ser totalmente honesta com ele? H\u00e1 alguma coisa que precise de ser mudada na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o (exceto o facto de ele precisar de ultrapassar as suas inseguran\u00e7as)?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Think about these questions and be honest with yourself. Evaluate your relationship, your personality, and your behavior. If you&#8217;re one hundred percent sure that his insecurities have nothing to do with your behavior, chances are the root of his insecurities is linked with his past.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ser solid\u00e1rio e compreensivo<\/h3>\n<p>Ser solid\u00e1rio e compreensivo \u00e9 a chave para ajudar o seu homem a ultrapassar as suas inseguran\u00e7as. Evite julg\u00e1-lo ou for\u00e7\u00e1-lo a mudar, porque isso n\u00e3o vai ajudar. Pelo contr\u00e1rio, vai piorar ainda mais as coisas.<\/p>\n<p><b>O que tem de fazer \u00e9 comunicar com ele e tentar eliminar todas as suas d\u00favidas e preocupa\u00e7\u00f5es. <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/9-compromissos-que-nunca-fazem-a-relacao\/\"><b>Compromisso<\/b><\/a><b> \u00e9 mais do que bem-vindo nesta situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>For example, if he&#8217;s feeling insecure about certain people you hang out with, then<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/devo-convida-lo-para-sair\/\"> convidem-no a juntar-se a v\u00f3s.<\/a> Once he sees that these people aren&#8217;t really a threat, he will be less insecure and he will act less like it.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, you shouldn&#8217;t fulfill his every wish if it is unreasonable. There&#8217;s no point in calling him every two minutes so that he knows what you&#8217;re doing at the moment.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Mostre-lhe o valor que ele acrescenta \u00e0 sua vida<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-128837 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-stand-and-talk-2.jpg\" alt=\"um homem e uma mulher est\u00e3o de p\u00e9 e conversam\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-stand-and-talk-2.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-stand-and-talk-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-stand-and-talk-2-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-stand-and-talk-2-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-stand-and-talk-2-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-stand-and-talk-2-320x214.jpg 320w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-stand-and-talk-2-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-stand-and-talk-2-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-stand-and-talk-2-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-stand-and-talk-2-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-stand-and-talk-2-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-stand-and-talk-2-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-stand-and-talk-2-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/>When someone is feeling insecure, they think that they aren&#8217;t worthy of being with you. That&#8217;s exactly how your man feels.<\/p>\n<p>And that&#8217;s why you need to let him know the value he adds to your life. You need to remind him of the importance he has in your life.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>So, what are the things he&#8217;s really good at? Do you like when he gets up before you only to make you a cup of coffee in the morning or when he helps you with your tasks? Do you like how supportive and caring he is?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>If you can&#8217;t remember the last time you surprised him with those little <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/23-pequenos-gestos-romanticos-que-segundo-os-homens-farao-de-si-a-namorada-ideal\/\">gestos rom\u00e2nticos<\/a>, now it&#8217;s time to change that. You can make his favorite meal, buy him a cool T-shirt, play video games with him, buy him a special beer mug, you name it.<\/p>\n<p>Also, don&#8217;t forget to kiss him, hug him and tell him how much he means to you because insecure people often forget that and need to be reminded of it more often.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Incentive-o a abrir-se consigo sobre o seu passado<\/h3>\n<p>Os problemas de inseguran\u00e7a com que o seu namorado est\u00e1 a lidar podem dever-se \u00e0s suas experi\u00eancias passadas. O que precisa de fazer \u00e9 encoraj\u00e1-lo a falar sobre isso.<\/p>\n<p><b>Talvez tenha tido pais t\u00f3xicos ou a(s) ex-namorada(s) o tenha(m) obrigado a <\/b><b>sentir-se inseguro<\/b><b> no seu <\/b><b>rela\u00e7\u00f5es passadas<\/b><b> e agora ele tem problemas em confiar em si.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>The fact that he is talking about his past is progress in itself because he&#8217;s accepting that he has a problem and he&#8217;s ready to work on it. Of course, you cannot expect him to start talking about it immediately.<\/p>\n<p>Normalmente, essas pessoas precisam de mais tempo para se abrirem consigo sobre coisas do seu passado, pelo que \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio ter paci\u00eancia.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ser t\u00e3o honesto quanto poss\u00edvel na rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-128842 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-standing-holding-coffee-in-their-hands-and-talking.jpg\" alt=\"um homem e uma mulher de p\u00e9, com caf\u00e9 nas m\u00e3os e a conversar\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-standing-holding-coffee-in-their-hands-and-talking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-standing-holding-coffee-in-their-hands-and-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-standing-holding-coffee-in-their-hands-and-talking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-standing-holding-coffee-in-their-hands-and-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-standing-holding-coffee-in-their-hands-and-talking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-standing-holding-coffee-in-their-hands-and-talking-320x214.jpg 320w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-standing-holding-coffee-in-their-hands-and-talking-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-standing-holding-coffee-in-their-hands-and-talking-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-standing-holding-coffee-in-their-hands-and-talking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-standing-holding-coffee-in-their-hands-and-talking-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-standing-holding-coffee-in-their-hands-and-talking-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-standing-holding-coffee-in-their-hands-and-talking-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-standing-holding-coffee-in-their-hands-and-talking-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/>Provavelmente j\u00e1 sabe que se lhe mentir (ou continuar a mentir), as coisas v\u00e3o piorar ainda mais. As inseguran\u00e7as dele v\u00e3o aumentar e a sua <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/psicologia\/problemas-de-confianca-que-arruinam-as-suas-relacoes\/\">quest\u00f5es de confian\u00e7a<\/a> tornar-se-\u00e1 grave.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t EVER lie to him (even when you&#8217;re sure that he won&#8217;t find out). When you feel the urge to lie to him only to make him feel less worried, stop for a second and think about the consequences.<\/p>\n<p><b>Even if it&#8217;s something totally trivial, he won&#8217;t be happy once he finds out that you lied to him. This will make him <\/b><b>sentir-se inseguro<\/b><b> sobre todos os seus movimentos no futuro.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Instead of lying to him to make him feel less worried, try to explain to him that there&#8217;s no need to worry about anything and that you&#8217;re always 100% honest with him.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/como-criar-confianca-numa-relacao\/\">Criar confian\u00e7a numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> requer passos de beb\u00e9, por isso n\u00e3o se esque\u00e7a disso.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Partilhe com ele as suas preocupa\u00e7\u00f5es e inseguran\u00e7as<\/h3>\n<p>If you want to help him open up to you about his insecurities and past, then you&#8217;ll have to share your concerns and insecurities with him. Mutual sharing and confiding in each other will <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/citacoes-de-intimidade\/\">refor\u00e7ar a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><b>J\u00e1 sabe que ser aberto e honesto um com o outro \u00e9 a base de qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>T\u00eam de se sentir \u00e0 vontade um com o outro para poderem partilhar os vossos sentimentos e falar de coisas que vos fazem sentir vulner\u00e1veis.<\/p>\n<p>Encoraje-o a falar sobre o que lhe vai na cabe\u00e7a, os factores de inseguran\u00e7a e a forma como v\u00ea a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ser um bom ouvinte<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-128838 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-are-talking-1.jpg\" alt=\"um homem e uma mulher est\u00e3o a falar\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-are-talking-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-are-talking-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-are-talking-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-are-talking-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-are-talking-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-are-talking-1-320x214.jpg 320w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-are-talking-1-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-are-talking-1-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-are-talking-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-are-talking-1-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-are-talking-1-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-are-talking-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-are-talking-1-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/>What does it mean to be a good listener? Does it mean only nodding at his every word or it&#8217;s something more than that?<\/p>\n<p>Claro que ser um bom ouvinte significa estar pronto para ouvir o seu homem quando ele tem algo para lhe dizer.<\/p>\n<p><b>Significa estabelecer <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/5-coisas-que-ele-esta-a-tentar-dizer-usando-um-contacto-visual-prolongado\/\"><b>contacto visual direto<\/b><\/a><b>O que \u00e9 importante \u00e9 que o seu interlocutor se concentre no tom da sua voz, observe os sinais da sua linguagem corporal e fa\u00e7a-o sentir-se compreendido.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Show concern and let him know that you&#8217;re worried about his mental health. Don&#8217;t act like he needs to stop being insecure just because of you.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, his insecurities are damaging both your relationship and your well-being but you need to understand that he&#8217;s the prisoner of his own mind.<\/p>\n<p>Insecure people don&#8217;t act like that because they want to but because they don&#8217;t know how to get out of this confusing labyrinth.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Elogi\u00e1-lo<\/h3>\n<p>Every single one of us loves receiving compliments, right? Compliments make us feel noticed and appreciated. Regardless if it&#8217;s a compliment on our personality or appearance, every nice word means a lot.<\/p>\n<p><b>Se quer ajudar o seu homem a ultrapassar as suas inseguran\u00e7as, ent\u00e3o <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/her-and-him\/o-que-e-que-os-homens-gostam-de-ouvir\/\"><b>elogi\u00e1-lo<\/b><\/a><b> de vez em quando. Pode elogiar o seu penteado, a sua roupa, as suas capacidades para resolver certos problemas, os seus dotes culin\u00e1rios, etc.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m sure there are lots of things your guy is good at so focus on those things when it comes to compliments. This will boost his self-confidence and it will make him feel worthy.<\/p>\n<p>It will let him know that you notice things about him and that you truly care about him. The more you compliment him, the more effort he&#8217;ll make in the future. Through time, his insecurities will vanish into thin air.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Falar com um terapeuta<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-128839 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-talks-to-a-therapist.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher com cabelo frisado fala com um terapeuta\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-talks-to-a-therapist.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-talks-to-a-therapist-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-talks-to-a-therapist-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-talks-to-a-therapist-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-talks-to-a-therapist-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-talks-to-a-therapist-320x214.jpg 320w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-talks-to-a-therapist-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-talks-to-a-therapist-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-talks-to-a-therapist-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-talks-to-a-therapist-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-talks-to-a-therapist-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-talks-to-a-therapist-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-talks-to-a-therapist-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/>Uma das minhas amigas estava numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o com um homem inseguro no ano passado. Ela esfor\u00e7ou-se muito para o ajudar. Apoiava-o, dava-lhe carinho e esfor\u00e7ava-se literalmente por o ajudar a ultrapassar as suas inseguran\u00e7as. Infelizmente, nada resultou.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s when she proposed to him to talk to a therapist. At first, he was hesitant to do it but in the end, he did.<\/p>\n<p><b>Um terapeuta ajudou-o a abrir-se sobre o seu passado e os seus sentimentos. Ensinou-o a manter as suas inseguran\u00e7as sob controlo. Hoje em dia, est\u00e3o num <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/tipos-de-intimidade\/\"><b>rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>If your guy doesn&#8217;t make any progress on his own, maybe it&#8217;s time to speak to a therapist. You can also learn a lot by listening to podcasts about insecurity or talking to other people who have gone through the same.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Dar-lhe tempo e espa\u00e7o para lidar com as suas inseguran\u00e7as<\/h3>\n<p>Don&#8217;t expect him to change overnight. You and I both know that this will not happen. Instead, give him time and space to improve himself.<\/p>\n<p><b>Try to be as patient as possible and don&#8217;t rush the process. Still, this doesn&#8217;t mean that you should keep fighting for him if you see that things are getting worse.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Without a doubt, you should try to help your guy but if you don&#8217;t see any signs of improvement after some time, you need to protect yourself. There&#8217;s no point in staying in a relationship with someone who isn&#8217;t ready to work on themselves.<\/p>\n<p>The key term here is &#8216;working on themselves&#8217;. So, yes, every relationship has its ups and downs and\/or <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/6-problemas-de-relacionamento-mais-comuns-que-nao-tem-solucao\/\">problemas de relacionamento que n\u00e3o t\u00eam solu\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>. As inseguran\u00e7as n\u00e3o s\u00e3o uma dessas coisas.<\/p>\n<p>If your guy is willing to overcome it, he will succeed in doing so but if he&#8217;s not ready to do anything about it, know that you deserve much better.<\/p>\n<h2>16 Cita\u00e7\u00f5es de homens inseguros<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-128840 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-sits-on-the-sand-and-looks-out-to-sea.jpg\" alt=\"um homem senta-se na areia e olha para o mar\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-sits-on-the-sand-and-looks-out-to-sea.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-sits-on-the-sand-and-looks-out-to-sea-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-sits-on-the-sand-and-looks-out-to-sea-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-sits-on-the-sand-and-looks-out-to-sea-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-sits-on-the-sand-and-looks-out-to-sea-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-sits-on-the-sand-and-looks-out-to-sea-320x214.jpg 320w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-sits-on-the-sand-and-looks-out-to-sea-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-sits-on-the-sand-and-looks-out-to-sea-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-sits-on-the-sand-and-looks-out-to-sea-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-sits-on-the-sand-and-looks-out-to-sea-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-sits-on-the-sand-and-looks-out-to-sea-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-sits-on-the-sand-and-looks-out-to-sea-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-sits-on-the-sand-and-looks-out-to-sea-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/>1. \u201cPeople that don&#8217;t know what they are worth will always see their capture&#8217;s wings, but never their tail.\u201d \u2013 . Shannon L. Alder<\/p>\n<p>2. \u201cGuys have a level of insecurity and vulnerability that\u2019s exponentially bigger than you think. With the primal urge to be alpha comes extreme heartbreak. The harder we fight, the harder we fall.\u201d \u2013 John Krasinski<\/p>\n<p>3. \u201cMan who hates cats is insecure, but a man who likes them is one worth keeping. If he can appreciate a cat, he can appreciate a strong, independent woman.\u201d \u2013 Larissa Ione<\/p>\n<p>4. \u201cOnly insecure boys will belittle a woman. The greatest way to &#8220;man-up&#8221; is to empower women.\u201d \u2013 Steve Maraboli<\/p>\n<p>5. \u201cMost bad behavior comes from insecurity.\u201d \u2013 Debra Winger<\/p>\n<p>6. \u201cI get insecure about a lot of things. In my line of work, unfortunately, your appearance is important, and I&#8217;m always like, &#8216;Am I going to the gym enough this month?&#8217; I get insecure about things from time to time.\u201d \u2013 Jesse Mccartney<\/p>\n<p>7. \u201cThe task that we must set for ourselves is not to feel secure, but to tolerate insecurity.\u201d \u2013 Erich Fromm<\/p>\n<p>8. \u201cOne reason why people have affairs is the need for attention. It often indicated deep insecurity and a constant need for attention.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>9. \u201cI&#8217;m the most insecure guy in Hollywood. If you had it good all your life, you figure it can&#8217;t ever get bad, but when you had it bad, you wonder how long a thing like this will last.\u201d \u2013 Alan Lado<\/p>\n<p>10. \u201cA guy is only insecure about losing his girl when he knows someone else can treat her better.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>11. \u201cJealousy doesn\u2019t show how much you love someone, it shows how insecure you are.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>12. \u201cOne of the worst things you can ever do to a woman is make them feel insecure about themselves.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>13. \u201cPeople are never more insecure than when they become obsessed with their fears at the expense of their dreams.\u201d \u2013 Norman Cousins<\/p>\n<p>14. \u201cA lot of men these days are insecure in front of women, because women have become so strong. Men are very frustrated because they don&#8217;t know what women want.\u201d \u2013 Pernille Fischer Christensen<\/p>\n<p>15. \u201cAs a teenager I was so insecure. I was the type of guy that never fitted in because he never dared to choose. I was convinced I had absolutely no talent at all. For nothing. And that thought took away all my ambition too.\u201d \u2013 Johnny Depp<\/p>\n<p>16. \u201cI had hit a critical period in my life, where I changed very much as a person. I consider the person I used to be, dead, and I&#8217;m glad that he is. Insecure, frightened, confused, much like a lot of people I know today.\u201d \u2013 Peter Steele<\/p>\n<h2>Embrulhar tudo<\/h2>\n<p>Be careful of insecure men because they can be very dangerous. Some of them are just insecure and they need a little push\u2014they need your approval to get their self-esteem back.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, h\u00e1 homens cujos problemas de inseguran\u00e7a os transformam em pessoas perigosas. Consomem-nos, e depois, se os deixarmos, eles consomem-nos.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-128841 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/8-Signs-Of-An-Insecure-Man-You-Should-Look-Out-For-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"8 sinais de um homem inseguro a que deves estar atento\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/8-Signs-Of-An-Insecure-Man-You-Should-Look-Out-For-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/8-Signs-Of-An-Insecure-Man-You-Should-Look-Out-For-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/8-Signs-Of-An-Insecure-Man-You-Should-Look-Out-For-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/8-Signs-Of-An-Insecure-Man-You-Should-Look-Out-For-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/8-Signs-Of-An-Insecure-Man-You-Should-Look-Out-For-pinterest-320x480.jpg 320w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/8-Signs-Of-An-Insecure-Man-You-Should-Look-Out-For-pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/8-Signs-Of-An-Insecure-Man-You-Should-Look-Out-For-pinterest-360x540.jpg 360w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/8-Signs-Of-An-Insecure-Man-You-Should-Look-Out-For-pinterest-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/8-Signs-Of-An-Insecure-Man-You-Should-Look-Out-For-pinterest-800x1200.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/8-Signs-Of-An-Insecure-Man-You-Should-Look-Out-For-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you ask me, insecure men are a toxic version of &#8216;the One&#8217;. They are masters at making you feel like you&#8217;re the only girl in the world and they are masters at covering up their insecure behavior with toxic behavioral patterns. Even though most of them would never admit it, many men have very&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":72949,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14105","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/8-Signs-Of-An-Insecure-Man-You-Should-Look-Out-For.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14105","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=14105"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14105\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/72949"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=14105"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=14105"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=14105"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}