{"id":141290,"date":"2022-01-05T18:13:33","date_gmt":"2022-01-05T18:13:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=141290"},"modified":"2023-01-10T16:14:57","modified_gmt":"2023-01-10T16:14:57","slug":"porque-e-que-me-sinto-atraida-por-homens-mais-velhos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/porque-e-que-me-sinto-atraida-por-homens-mais-velhos\/","title":{"rendered":"Porque \u00e9 que me sinto atra\u00edda por homens mais velhos? 20 raz\u00f5es surpreendentes"},"content":{"rendered":"

Porque \u00e9 que me sinto atra\u00eddo por <\/i>homens mais velhos<\/i>? Que feiti\u00e7o \u00e9 que me enfeiti\u00e7aram para eu mal reconhecer algu\u00e9m da minha idade?<\/i><\/p>\n

If these questions bother you as much as they do me, then you’ve come to the right place.<\/p>\n

Eu digo-vos porque \u00e9 que est\u00e3o interessados rela\u00e7\u00f5es com diferen\u00e7as de idade<\/a>A diferen\u00e7a entre homens mais velhos e mais novos, e tudo o que influencia a sua escolha de parceiros.<\/p>\n

Stay with me, and let’s explore the minds of both older men and us!<\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9 que me sinto atra\u00edda por homens mais velhos? 20 raz\u00f5es<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Se quer saber porque \u00e9 que as rela\u00e7\u00f5es com diferen\u00e7as de idade lhe parecem apelativas, veja as 20 raz\u00f5es que se seguem:<\/p>\n

1. T\u00eam um aspeto mais masculino<\/h3>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Not that there’s anything wrong with feminine men (God forbid), but there’s just something about the manliness you can see in older men.<\/p>\n

It isn’t about looks but rather their energy. The way they move screams confidence and experience.<\/p>\n

Estas raposas prateadas t\u00eam a capacidade de o arrebatar numa quest\u00e3o de segundos.<\/p>\n

Tudo o que define um <\/b>homem de verdade<\/b><\/a> is there: strength, decisiveness, wisdom, intelligence, fearlessness… You can sense all that without even speaking to them.<\/b><\/p>\n

It’s really true what they say… <\/i>Homens mais velhos<\/i> s\u00e3o como o vinho <\/i>\u2013<\/i> melhoram com a idade.<\/i><\/p>\n

2. S\u00e3o mais maduros<\/h3>\n

Younger partners call women out for being drama queens, but in reality, they’re no different.<\/p>\n

They create problems where there aren’t any. They are often so possessive that they expect you to be there 24\/7. Not even aconselhamento de casais<\/a> could save these types of relationships\u2026<\/p>\n

Um homem mais velho nunca faria nada disso.<\/p>\n

He’s self-sufficient and values his time, so he understands if you need some solitude. He understands the importance of <\/b>limites nas rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

When there is an actual problem, he doesn\u2019t fight or give you the tratamento silencioso<\/a>. Nunca o ver\u00e1 reagir de forma exagerada, mas sim procurar ativamente solu\u00e7\u00f5es para os seus problemas.<\/p>\n

You shouldn’t be asking yourself ”Why am I attracted to <\/i>homens mais velhos<\/i>?” but rather ”Why wouldn’t I be?”<\/i><\/p>\n

3. Eles sabem o que querem<\/strong><\/h3>\n

You’re probably attracted to <\/i>homens mais velhos<\/i> because they always have a clear goal in mind. There’s no room for doubts or <\/i>inseguran\u00e7as<\/i>.<\/i><\/p>\n

Even when they are at a crossroads, they handle it like mature men. They’re not confused for long like their younger counterparts tend to be.<\/p>\n

If they like you, they won’t sit in silence and hope for the best. They’ll reach out straight away and charm you with their decisiveness.<\/b><\/p>\n

They won’t hide behind social media and dating sites but will prefer to talk to you in person.<\/p>\n

Even if you’re a big challenge and give them a hard time, they won’t easily back out.<\/p>\n

Acreditam demasiado em si pr\u00f3prios para desistirem.<\/p>\n

4. They\u2019ve already built a life for themselves<\/h3>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Younger men usually don’t have anything figured out. It’s like they’re totally excluded from real life and all they do is play video games and party with their friends.<\/p>\n

How can they be capable of being a good partner then? It’s no wonder women find older men attractive.<\/p>\n

Most of them have a career and a home of their own. Of course, this doesn’t mean that we are materialistic. It’s not about wealth at all.<\/p>\n

It’s just a <\/b>grande excita\u00e7\u00e3o<\/b><\/a> to see a man who’s accomplished all of his goals, a man who overcame every obstacle to get what he wants.<\/b><\/p>\n

Algu\u00e9m que \u00e9 capaz e forte ir\u00e1 certamente captar a sua aten\u00e7\u00e3o!<\/p>\n

Since you (probably) haven’t accomplished your goals due to your age, you are inspired by his abilities. You want to be a part of his life because you think he might help you find your own purpose.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, algu\u00e9m assim \u00e9 uma escolha muito melhor para um <\/i>rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria<\/i><\/a>N\u00e3o \u00e9 verdade?<\/i><\/p>\n

5. Apreciam mais a vida<\/h3>\n

When you’re younger, your main goal is to have fun. And you think that by having fun, you appreciate life more. But that’s not exactly the case.<\/p>\n

Homens mais velhos<\/b> j\u00e1 tiveram a sua quota-parte de divers\u00e3o, por isso sabem que apreciar a vida \u00e9 abra\u00e7ar as suas muitas oportunidades.<\/b><\/p>\n

They won’t hesitate to accept a job offer or form a relationship with you. This is because they aren\u2019t looking for temporary excitement.<\/p>\n

They’re aware that life is passing them by, and they want to be truly HAPPY. They don’t waste their time with the ‘what ifs.’<\/p>\n

E acredita em mim, algu\u00e9m que percebe o valor da vida saber\u00e1 amar-te da forma que mereces.<\/i><\/p>\n

6. Est\u00e3o mais dispostos a empenhar-se<\/h3>\n

Sei que os homens de todas as idades se debatem com <\/i>quest\u00f5es de empenhamento<\/i><\/a>, but let’s be honest <\/i>\u2013<\/i> homens mais velhos<\/i> est\u00e3o mais preparados para uma <\/i>rela\u00e7\u00e3o de compromisso<\/i><\/a>.<\/i><\/p>\n

O que quer que tenha causado problemas com o compromisso ainda est\u00e1 fresco na mente dos homens mais jovens, pelo que os afecta mais facilmente.<\/p>\n

Se ficaram com o cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido, demoram s\u00e9culos a confiar novamente em algu\u00e9m. E quando tentam, acabamos por ficar presos a uma homem emocionalmente indispon\u00edvel<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Por outro lado, os homens mais velhos tiveram mais tempo para clarificar os seus pensamentos e descobrir quem realmente s\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Uma vez que conseguem lidar melhor consigo pr\u00f3prios, est\u00e3o mais preparados para serem <\/b>emocionalmente ligado a si<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

Mesmo que lutem contra o desgosto (e todos n\u00f3s lutamos), acabam por come\u00e7ar a v\u00ea-lo como uma coisa do passado.<\/p>\n

This is because the years are passing by quickly, and they don’t want to die alone without a legacy. So, it’s not only that they don’t fear commitment, but they are desperate for it.<\/b><\/p>\n

7. S\u00e3o mais atenciosos<\/h3>\n

Have you ever seen a 40-year-old man who doesn’t know how to take care of a woman?<\/p>\n

Exatamente.<\/p>\n

So, why do you still keep asking yourself ”Why am I attracted to older men?”<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o s\u00f3 nos mimam, como tamb\u00e9m sabem sempre as palavras certas para dizer. S\u00e3o verdadeiros cavalheiros que a tratam com gentileza e respeito.<\/p>\n

Nada de cruel ou inapropriado sair\u00e1 das suas bocas.<\/p>\n

V\u00eaem-no como um ser precioso que t\u00eam de proteger, por isso fazem o seu melhor para satisfazer os seus desejos.<\/b><\/p>\n

If all of this sounds like a Hollywood romance movie, that’s probably because you’ve had too many rela\u00e7\u00f5es imaturas<\/a> with younger men…<\/p>\n

8. T\u00eam mais experi\u00eancia de vida<\/h3>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

That’s the first thing you think of when you look at an <\/i>homem mais velho<\/i>, isn’t it? You are attracted to how much they know about life, how much they have been through.<\/i><\/p>\n

Pode j\u00e1 ser uma jovem experiente, mas continua a olhar para elas e a sentir-se tentada por tudo o que elas lhe podem ensinar.<\/p>\n

Se se sente perdida ou sem esperan\u00e7a na vida, \u00e9 prov\u00e1vel que se sinta atra\u00edda por homens mais velhos.<\/p>\n

You want a lover, but you also want a mentor, a guide. You want someone who will save you from the misery of life you don’t yet know how to deal with.<\/b><\/p>\n

9. Proporcionam uma sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de seguran\u00e7a<\/strong><\/h3>\n

There are many strong and smart young men nowadays, but security isn’t about that…<\/p>\n

Don’t you always feel safer when you’re with someone who knows more than you? That’s why you’re into <\/i>homens mais velhos<\/i>.<\/i><\/p>\n

O facto de sabermos que eles s\u00e3o experientes cria uma sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de seguran\u00e7a. Pensa-se que eles j\u00e1 lidaram com todo o tipo de situa\u00e7\u00f5es e que provavelmente t\u00eam uma solu\u00e7\u00e3o sensata para tudo.<\/p>\n

In reality, you just want a hero. And you don’t see heroic potential in men your age.<\/b><\/p>\n

10. Os homens mais novos continuam a desiludir-te<\/h3>\n

When I think to myself: ”Why am I attracted to older men?” the first answer that comes to mind is:<\/p>\n

Porque <\/i>homens mais jovens<\/i> s\u00e3o demasiado decepcionantes!<\/i><\/p>\n

I mean, no offense here, but let’s be honest… They never know how to handle their problems like adults, and it only ends up ruining your relationship.<\/p>\n

Os homens mais velhos nunca permitiriam que isso acontecesse. Trazem consigo a sua bagagem, mas as suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es permanecem intactas.<\/b> Isto deve-se ao facto de n\u00edveis de maturidade mais elevados<\/a> e intelig\u00eancia emocional.<\/p>\n

11. Est\u00e3o mais confiantes<\/h3>\n

Quantos romances falharam por causa de jovens inseguros?<\/p>\n

So many of them don’t have the courage to approach you, and if they do approach you, it only turns into a very rela\u00e7\u00e3o complicada<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Older men rarely have these problems! They\u2019ve probably had many relationships in the past that made them confident enough to namoriscar como um profissional<\/a>.<\/p>\n

You don’t ever have to worry that it’s not going to work. If they like you, that’s already finished business. Nothing will stop them from getting your attention.<\/b><\/p>\n

And let’s be honest… Who doesn’t like to be chased?<\/p>\n

12. S\u00e3o mais atraentes<\/h3>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

What? This is a valid reason! Some women just like you better when you’re older. Some prefer 30-year-olds, whereas others are attracted to men twice their age!<\/p>\n

Why wouldn’t they be? There’s nothing NOT to like. Just think about Dr. House or Aaron Hotchner from Mentes Criminosas<\/i>. Deus sabe que o fa\u00e7o todos os dias.<\/p>\n

We get to see scenes where they’re younger, yet I can’t help but be more attracted to them when they get older. Does that happen to you, too?<\/p>\n

Don’t think that there’s anything wrong with you, though. You have the right to like whoever you want.<\/i><\/p>\n

Besides, isn’t this encouraging? We often fear old age because we think our beauty will disappear, but look! There’s always someone who will find you attractive.<\/b><\/p>\n

13. Tens problemas com o pai<\/h3>\n

It’s always some kind of trauma, isn’t it? Well, sadly, yes. Your fascination with older men might just stem from problemas com o pap\u00e1<\/a>. O que \u00e9 que isso significa?<\/p>\n

It means that your father didn’t offer you the love and protection that you deserved as a child.<\/p>\n

Como foi emocionalmente abandonado, procura agora uma <\/b>figura paterna<\/b> that will make up for what you didn’t have in childhood.<\/b><\/p>\n

Sounds complicated, doesn’t it? But it’s valid.<\/p>\n

You’re not unstable for having <\/i>problemas com o pap\u00e1<\/i>. It’s okay to want someone to protect you, especially if nobody ever did.<\/i><\/p>\n

So, don’t think that this is wrong. You are not weird or messed up. Don’t let anyone convince you that you are.<\/p>\n

14. Respeitam mais as mulheres<\/h3>\n

When you’re in a relationship with someone your age, they rarely know how to appreciate you. And since they don’t appreciate you, they have n\u00e3o vos respeito<\/a> ou.<\/p>\n

They’re just too young to understand what partnership means.<\/i><\/p>\n

That’s what’s so appealing about older guys. They’re aware that you’re two individuals but you still function as a TEAM.<\/p>\n

And a team values the opinion of everyone. They will always listen to your advice carefully. You don’t ever have to worry about not being taken seriously.<\/b><\/p>\n

Older guys will never see you as ‘just a girlfriend’ but rather as a human being and a partner who’s equally as important as them.<\/p>\n

15. T\u00eam experi\u00eancia sexual<\/h3>\n

Well… we are sexual beings, too, aren’t we? Having an older partner who knows what he’s doing is bound to make sex much more exciting!<\/p>\n

After all, you’re young and (probably) don’t have much sexual experience. So, it’s not unusual that you want someone who does.<\/p>\n

At least one of us has to know what they’re doing, right?<\/b><\/p>\n

Tu queres experi\u00eancia e eles querem algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o a tem.<\/p>\n

Yes, as men age, they are more into younger women, in the age range of around 20\u201330, because they want to prove to themselves that they\u2019ve still ‘got it.’<\/p>\n

Quando t\u00eam rela\u00e7\u00f5es sexuais com um 20-<\/b>mulher de um ano<\/b>, they get their validation, and you get great sex! It’s a win-win situation!<\/b><\/p>\n

16. Sabem comunicar<\/h3>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Do you often ask yourself: ”Why am I attracted to older men?” Yeah, me too… Or at least I did until I figured out the answer.<\/p>\n

It’s because I never have to worry that they’ll misunderstand me!<\/b><\/p>\n

Mesmo quando o fazem, falaremos sobre o assunto como adultos e descobriremos onde est\u00e1 o problema.<\/p>\n

Eu sei que eles nunca ficar na defensiva<\/a> ou apontar o dedo. Compreendem que nunca se pode resolver nada sem comunica\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

O seu objetivo \u00e9 resolver o problema em conjunto, e n\u00e3o estarem uns contra os outros, o que \u00e9 um sinal de rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Besides, you can\u2019t form a liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional mais profunda<\/a> if you don\u2019t hear each other out.<\/p>\n

17. Est\u00e3o financeiramente seguros<\/h3>\n

More often than not, older people have steady jobs and a secure future, so it’s understandable if you’re attracted to them.<\/p>\n

But that doesn’t mean you want them for their money. You just want someone who’ll be able to take care of you.<\/p>\n

Isto \u00e9 especialmente compreens\u00edvel se o seu objetivo \u00e9 ser uma dona de casa.<\/a><\/p>\n

And even if you’re employed, too, it’s okay if you don’t want to be the only provider. It’s okay to want a capable man who’s ready to help you out.<\/b><\/p>\n

18. Queres um sugar daddy<\/h3>\n

Sim, talvez encontre o <\/i>diferen\u00e7a de idade<\/i> attractive just because there’s something in it for you!<\/i><\/p>\n

A sugar daddy doesn’t mind paying for whatever your heart desires, and you’re happy because you’re able to live the life of your dreams.<\/b><\/p>\n

Ser um beb\u00e9 de a\u00e7\u00facar<\/a> benefits both you and your ‘benefactor.’ That’s why you shouldn’t feel guilty for doing it. If both sides are happy, then there’s nothing wrong with that.<\/p>\n

19. Namorar com eles \u00e9 um ato de rebeldia<\/h3>\n

Seja sincero. Quem \u00e9 que alguma vez apoiaria a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o com um homem mais velho<\/a>? Rarely anyone would…<\/p>\n

And that’s exactly what strengthens your desire!<\/b><\/p>\n

It’s a turn on to look at someone nobody would approve of, especially if you’re in your early to late 20s…<\/p>\n

O seu esp\u00edrito rebelde ainda est\u00e1 muito vivo e dirige os seus desejos. Queres o que a sociedade rejeita.<\/p>\n

O <\/b>diferen\u00e7a de idade<\/b> n\u00e3o significa nada para si porque significa tudo para eles.<\/b><\/p>\n

This isn’t wrong, but still make sure that you actually like the person, and not just what they represent!<\/i><\/p>\n

20. S\u00e3o mais c\u00f3modos<\/h3>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Mesmo quando os nossos <\/i>idade pr\u00f3pria<\/i> manage to approach us, they’re still struggling to relax. They try to look all macho but don’t know that we have a sixth sense that tells us a different story.<\/i><\/p>\n

Older men, on the other hand, don’t have those problemas de autoestima<\/a>.<\/p>\n

They approach you with confidence and talk to you in a relaxed manner because they’re not intimidated by women.<\/p>\n

Their beauty and intellect aren\u2019t something to be afraid of, but something they need to conquer. And they usually do… because they believe they can.<\/b><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Como fazer com que um homem mais velho a queira em 27 passos infal\u00edveis<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Considera\u00e7\u00f5es finais<\/h2>\n

I hope that the question ”Why am I attracted to older men?” no longer keeps you up at night. See, it’s not just the influence of Lana Del Rey’s music!<\/p>\n

Mulheres namoram<\/b> homens mais velhos<\/b> porque t\u00eam mais para oferecer.<\/b><\/p>\n

It’s the same with <\/b>rapazes mais novos<\/b>. Est\u00e3o sobretudo apaixonados por <\/b>mulheres idosas<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

A <\/i>muitas pessoas<\/i> quer um parceiro experiente que lhe proporcione uma sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de seguran\u00e7a e prote\u00e7\u00e3o. A <\/i>muitas pessoas<\/i> querem algu\u00e9m que lhes mostre como viver corretamente.<\/i><\/p>\n

It’s no wonder we are attracted to people who are different from us. We want something that we don’t have because it’s new and exciting.<\/b><\/p>\n

And don’t EVER think there’s anything wrong with that!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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