{"id":14135,"date":"2020-03-08T11:33:44","date_gmt":"2020-03-08T11:33:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14135"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:33:40","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:33:40","slug":"se-ele-fizer-estas-11-coisas-deixa-de-ser-prioritaria","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-ele-fizer-estas-11-coisas-deixa-de-ser-prioritaria\/","title":{"rendered":"Se ele faz estas 11 coisas, voc\u00ea n\u00e3o \u00e9 mais a prioridade dele"},"content":{"rendered":"

Durante a \"fase de cachorrinho\", \u00e9 f\u00e1cil ser #1 para um homem. Mas o que \u00e9 que acontece quando essa fase de cachorrinho j\u00e1 passou?<\/p>\n

What happens when the amusement ends and when we\u2019re left with our true selves?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s more than logical that you\u2019ll be a priority at the very beginning of a relationship when everything is still fresh and while the two of you are still unknown to each other.<\/p>\n

No entanto, ao fim de algum tempo, quando se habituam um ao outro, os homens podem come\u00e7ar a tom\u00e1-la por garantida e facilmente negligenci\u00e1-la.<\/p>\n

Maybe you\u2019re one of the lucky ones who didn\u2019t experience this, but if you feel like your man has changed, we bring you 11 signs to see if he doesn\u2019t treat you like a priority anymore.<\/p>\n

Ele demora horas a responder<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

In the beginning, you probably texted a lot and you didn\u2019t have to wait longer than a few minutes for his reply.<\/p>\n

Mas, passado algum tempo, as vossas mensagens de texto tornaram-se mais raras, as mensagens mais curtas e at\u00e9 o amor que expressavam um ao outro atrav\u00e9s de mensagens desapareceu de alguma forma.<\/p>\n

Now, it takes him a few hours to reply and it doesn\u2019t even make sense to continue the conversation after so much time.<\/p>\n

Whatever excuse he might offer, never forget that you can\u2019t be so much busy to be unable to find less than 30 seconds to reply.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not about the time; it\u2019s about priority, you know.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m:<\/strong> 11 Signs You\u2019re Someone\u2019s Priority<\/a><\/p>\n

He Doesn\u2019t Pick Up The Phone When You Call<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

No in\u00edcio, ele telefonava s\u00f3 para ouvir a tua voz. Falavam durante horas antes de adormecerem, mas agora tudo isso desapareceu.<\/p>\n

Now, he hardly picks up the phone when you call and he doesn\u2019t even call anymore.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, j\u00e1 n\u00e3o tem o h\u00e1bito de lhe ligar de volta quando v\u00ea uma chamada perdida.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s much easier for him to come up with excuses such as \u201cMy phone was on silent\u201d, \u201cI forgot to call you back\u201d, \u201cI was too busy to pick up the phone when you called\u201d.<\/p>\n

His excuses are all lies, but what they\u2019re telling you is true\u2014you are no longer his priority.<\/p>\n

He Doesn\u2019t Want To Spend Quality Time<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Quando come\u00e7aram, tudo o que ele queria era passar algum tempo a s\u00f3s consigo.<\/p>\n

He used every window of opportunity to steal some minutes of your time and he loved planning \u2018getaways\u2019 just for the two of you.<\/p>\n

Now, he doesn\u2019t even bother to accept the call out\u2014he rather stay in.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s just that he doesn\u2019t see the point of going out with you and spending time just with you when there are other people you could hang around with.<\/p>\n

Make no mistake: regardless of how long you\u2019ve been together, in order to have a healthy relationship, spending quality time just with you is a must.<\/p>\n

In case he\u2019s constantly avoiding this, be smart to figure out what this means.<\/p>\n

He Doesn\u2019t Care About Your Feelings Anymore<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Talvez v\u00ea-lo feliz fosse a coisa que ele mais gostava e fazia tudo o que podia para lhe p\u00f4r um sorriso no rosto.<\/p>\n

He did even the impossible in the beginning and now it seems like he doesn\u2019t care about your feelings anymore.<\/p>\n

When you try openly to tell him how his actions make you feel or that you\u2019re bugged by something he did, he says something just to brush you off or make you stop talking about it.<\/p>\n

Muitas vezes, ele muda de assunto e come\u00e7a a falar de outra coisa porque os seus sentimentos j\u00e1 n\u00e3o s\u00e3o a sua prioridade.<\/p>\n

Ele escolhe passar tempo com os outros em vez de passar tempo consigo<\/h2>\n

\"tr\u00eas<\/p>\n

When you first started, you had your own rituals and days in the week when you knew you\u2019d be spending time together.<\/p>\n

Agora, parece imposs\u00edvel apanh\u00e1-lo sem outras pessoas \u00e0 sua volta.<\/p>\n

Every time you\u2019re supposed to spend time together, there is always someone showing up \u2018all of a sudden\u2019 to spend time with you, too.<\/p>\n

Quando lhe sugere que fa\u00e7a algo consigo, como ir \u00e0s compras, ao cinema ou ao parque, ele opta por passar esse tempo com outra pessoa.<\/p>\n

If he\u2019s choosing to spend time with others instead of spending it with you\u2014you two have a problem.<\/p>\n

He Doesn\u2019t Listen When You Talk<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Once, maybe a long time ago, you were often flooded by the questions, \u201cHow was work?\u201d, \u201cHow was your day?\u201d, \u201cHow are you feeling?\u201d etc., but now he doesn\u2019t even listen when you talk.<\/p>\n

Passam a maior parte do tempo em sil\u00eancio ou a percorrer as redes sociais juntos.<\/p>\n

Quando se tenta iniciar um assunto, ele parece pouco interessado em participar.<\/p>\n

Quando tenta contar-lhe como foi o seu dia ou contar-lhe algo engra\u00e7ado que lhe aconteceu, ele parece aborrecido ou a conversa termina sem que ele mostre qualquer interesse.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, he even nods to something you tell him or ask him and later on, he doesn\u2019t do it, telling you he forgot when in reality, he wasn\u2019t paying any attention to it.<\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t listen when you talk, that\u2019s the ultimate sign he doesn\u2019t see you as his priority anymore.<\/p>\n

Ele arranja sempre desculpas<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Before, he was doing everything in his power to get you to like him. Now, it looks like he\u2019s doing everything so you\u2019d fall out of love.<\/p>\n

Instead of giving you what you deserve, treating you with respect and being there for you, he just keeps making excuses as to why something can\u2019t be done.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s easier to make an excuse than it is to make an actual effort<\/a>. And when all you get are excuses, it\u2019s a red flag that something is going downhill in your relationship.<\/p>\n

Ele vai-se embora a meio de uma discuss\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Leaving an argument is okay only if you want to give yourself some time to chill so you\u2019d be able to asses the problem cold-headedly.<\/p>\n

But if he\u2019s constantly running away from you in the middle of an argument, that won\u2019t solve the problem, but it will create even bigger ones.<\/p>\n

In case he has this habit of leaving in the middle of an argument, it means he doesn\u2019t really care anymore if the problems get solved or not.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t care if you two are on good terms or not.<\/p>\n

Leaving you in the middle of an argument and leaving things unsolved would never be done by the person to whom you\u2019re a priority.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s Cutting You Off When It Comes To Hanging Out With His Friends And Family<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You used to hang around a lot with them, but now he doesn\u2019t take you to any family dinners, he doesn\u2019t invite you out with his friends and he plans things with them but doesn\u2019t include you.<\/p>\n

This means he\u2019s slowly brushing you off from the people he cares the most and from the people that are his priority.<\/p>\n

In case you\u2019re not invited to these gatherings, it means you\u2019re no longer a priority.<\/p>\n

Ele abandona-te quando mais precisas dele\"mulher<\/h2>\n

Em tempos, ele era o homem que corria para o salvar, acontecesse o que acontecesse.<\/p>\n

Independentemente da situa\u00e7\u00e3o complicada em que se encontrasse, sabia que podia contar com ele. Mas agora, as coisas s\u00e3o diferentes.<\/p>\n

If he leaves you alone at the times when you need someone to be there for you, if he doesn\u2019t show up when he promises and if he doesn\u2019t care about your needs anymore, unfortunately, things are not great.<\/p>\n

Doesn\u2019t Treat You With Love<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Sabes que \u00e9s amado ou, pelo menos, sabias que eras amado. Mas agora as coisas mudaram. J\u00e1 n\u00e3o te sentes assim.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t see yourself in his eyes anymore. And each thing he does seems to be done so he\u2019d push you away<\/a>.<\/p>\n

In the beginning, he did everything to win you over, but now you don\u2019t see a trace of that man anymore.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t text you often, he doesn\u2019t call to hear your voice, he doesn\u2019t want to know how your day was, he brushes you off often and you can\u2019t remember the last time he made you feel special.<\/p>\n

Perhaps now things seem a bit hopeless, but it doesn\u2019t have to be this way. You have two choices. You can either do something about it or you can walk away.<\/p>\n

Pode tentar reconstruir a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o e encontrar uma forma de trazer de volta todos esses momentos felizes e bons ou pode optar por se afastar de algu\u00e9m que o tirou da sua lista de prioridades.<\/p>\n

Seja qual for a sua escolha, lembre-se que a decis\u00e3o \u00e9 apenas sua.<\/p>\n

Certifique-se de que segue a estrada que faz tu<\/strong> feliz.<\/p>\n

\"Se<\/p>\n

\"Se<\/p>\n

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