{"id":141354,"date":"2022-01-06T13:30:15","date_gmt":"2022-01-06T13:30:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=141354"},"modified":"2022-03-02T22:47:08","modified_gmt":"2022-03-02T22:47:08","slug":"se-o-teu-ex-te-bloqueia-ganhaste-significado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-o-teu-ex-te-bloqueia-ganhaste-significado\/","title":{"rendered":"Se o teu ex te bloqueia, ganhaste: significado e 10 raz\u00f5es para ele o ter feito"},"content":{"rendered":"

You noticed that your ex blocked you, and now you’re freaking out.<\/em><\/p>\n

You’re wondering if you did something wrong or said a mean thing without realizing it. You’re even wondering if he ever loved you at all.<\/p>\n

Num minuto, culpamo-nos a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios e, no seguinte, culpamo-lo a ele.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Did all the memories mean nothing? Have you become ‘just some woman’ that he can get rid of that easily?<\/em><\/p>\n

Now, I know it’s frustrating, but let’s not jump to conclusions. If you stay with me, I will guide you through all the possible reasons why he might have blocked you.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, mostrar-lhe-ei como \u00e9 que, se o seu ex a bloqueia, voc\u00ea ganha, o que significa que n\u00e3o tem nada com que ficar triste. Continue a ler e tudo se tornar\u00e1 muito mais claro.<\/p>\n

Se o teu ex te bloqueia, tu ganhaste: Significado<\/h2>\n

\"raparigas<\/p>\n

You have heard this so many times by now, yet you still don’t understand what it means.<\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que voc\u00ea \u00e9 o vencedor se algu\u00e9m que voc\u00ea costumava amar o bloqueia? Como pode esquecer esse facto?<\/em><\/p>\n

Bem, eu sei que te sentes mal porque provavelmente pensas que ele te odeia. Achas que nunca foste assim t\u00e3o importante para ele, para come\u00e7ar, se ele foi capaz de fazer isto.<\/p>\n

But, that’s not quite true.<\/p>\n

What he did doesn’t erase his past actions<\/h3>\n

That’s right. Just because he decided to block you doesn’t mean his feelings were never real. It just means they somehow changed.<\/em><\/p>\n

Appreciate the way he loved you before, but don’t blame him for his current actions because honestly, you\u2019re nothing to each other anymore.<\/p>\n

You can’t be mad at him for moving on (because that’s probably what he’s trying to do).<\/strong><\/p>\n

That’s better than holding on to something that will never again be alive.<\/p>\n

Ele provavelmente s\u00f3 quer um rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/a>, but can’t do it with past memories still hovering over him.<\/p>\n

Mas, independentemente das raz\u00f5es dele, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada de que se deva sentir mal.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 o vencedor aqui<\/h3>\n

How someone treats you tells you how much they deserve to be in your life. If your ex blocks you, you won meaning that you don’t need someone who doesn’t fight for you.<\/p>\n

And, since you’re wondering about his reasons, I’m sure that is exactly what you expect him to do.<\/p>\n

Mas, uma vez que ele decidiu bloque\u00e1-lo, isso diz-lhe qu\u00e3o pouco ele est\u00e1 preparado para fazer o que \u00e9 correto para si.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Vais mesmo perder o teu tempo a pensar na pessoa que te fez isso? Acho que n\u00e3o.<\/em><\/p>\n

Por isso, fica feliz por saberes finalmente qual \u00e9 a tua posi\u00e7\u00e3o e vai atr\u00e1s de algu\u00e9m que te veja como algu\u00e9m por quem vale a pena lutar.<\/p>\n

O que significa quando o teu ex te bloqueia<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ele bloqueia-o ou porque ele quer-te de volta<\/a> ou porque he\u2019s over you<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n

A \u00fanica maneira de ter a certeza \u00e9 perguntar-lhe. Envie-lhe uma mensagem de texto e alivie a sua alma.<\/p>\n

If you’re not ready to do that, then wait it out and things will be much clearer soon.<\/p>\n

A verdade encontra sempre o seu caminho para a superf\u00edcie.<\/strong> S\u00f3 precisa de ter paci\u00eancia porque ainda h\u00e1 muitas raz\u00f5es que se enquadram nas duas categorias acima referidas.<\/p>\n

10 raz\u00f5es poss\u00edveis para o teu ex te ter bloqueado<\/h2>\n

If you’re wondering why your ex would block you in the first place, consider the following reasons:<\/p>\n

1. He can’t look at your life without him.<\/h3>\n

\u00c9 o tipo de mulher que publica todos os pormenores da sua vida? Partilha fotos todos os dias e gaba-se do seu novo namorado e de como est\u00e1 feliz com ele.<\/em><\/p>\n

If so, then you can’t blame him for blocking you. Whether he has feelings for you or not, things can still affect him because it\u2019s hard to recuperar depois de uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Or, perhaps he doesn’t even have you on social media anymore, but a mutual friend told him about your new relationship.<\/p>\n

Provavelmente, isso magoou-o muito e ele come\u00e7ou a lembrar-se da sua vida contigo e de como era boa.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Now that he sees you\u2019re feliz sem ele<\/a>, it hurts, even more so if he doesn’t have anything interesting going on in his own life.<\/p>\n

2. He’s angry about something you did.<\/h3>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

A raiva indica que ele ainda sente algo por ti<\/a>. But, obviously, blocking isn’t the healthiest way to deal with your emotions.<\/p>\n

Mesmo assim, ele f\u00e1-lo porque tem rancor de si.<\/p>\n

Perhaps you ignored him when he said hello the last time you saw him, or he’s still angry that you managed to fall for someone else while being in a rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia<\/a> com ele.<\/em><\/p>\n

He is annoyed at whatever is separating you. It\u2019s an fase inevit\u00e1vel de uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Whatever it is, it is so big in his eyes that he decided to block you. But, in reality, every problem is too big for him because he loves you, yet can’t have you anymore.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Either way, if your ex blocks you, you won meaning that you don’t deserve someone so immature that they focus only on the bad times.<\/p>\n

RELACIONADO: Est\u00e1gios da separa\u00e7\u00e3o - Por dentro da mente de quem inicia uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a><\/p>\n

3. Ele encontrou um novo amor.<\/h3>\n

This can mean many things. Maybe he still has feelings for you, but another girl got his attention, and he doesn’t want his past to come and ruin his nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>.<\/p>\n

It’s also possible that he has completely moved on, but just doesn’t want to have an ex-girlfriend on social media.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Tenho uma melhor amiga que apagou todos os seus ex-namorados porque achou que era uma erro de separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> para os ter nas plataformas das redes sociais enquanto est\u00e1 comprometido com outra pessoa.<\/p>\n

Talvez o seu homem pense o mesmo e queira tratar a sua cara-metade com respeito.<\/p>\n

4. A sua nova namorada pediu-lhe para.<\/h3>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Yes, this is possible, too. Some women want to make sure their boyfriend can’t contact his ex-girlfriend, so they tell him to block her to ensure it.<\/p>\n

Maybe he would never do that by his own will, but he wants to respect her wishes because he can’t lose her, even if he hurts you in the process.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You can’t really blame him if ele seguiu em frente com outra pessoa<\/a>, tu podes? Afinal de contas, a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o acabou.<\/p>\n

5. Ele ainda te quer.<\/h3>\n

This one’s obvious. Him blocking you often means that he’s not all that indifferent when it comes to you…<\/p>\n

He can’t stand looking at his inbox and seeing that the last message to you was sent so long ago. He can’t stand looking at your pic knowing that he’ll never again touch your face.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So, he chooses to block you. That’s the only way he can seguir em frente<\/a> \u2013 se ele nunca mais vir nada relacionado consigo.<\/em><\/p>\n

6. Ele sabe que o queres.<\/h3>\n

Sim, eu sei que parece confuso, mas oi\u00e7a-me.<\/p>\n

Even if it’s hard to accept it, you have to consider the possibility that he no longer cares about you romantically.<\/p>\n

But, that doesn’t mean that he doesn’t care about your feelings.<\/em><\/p>\n

Maybe he has found a new girlfriend and wants to show her off to the world, but he’s too empathetic and knows you’re going to see it all.<\/p>\n

Ele sente-se mal por iniciar a rutura<\/a>e ainda te v\u00ea como um bom amigo.<\/p>\n

Knowing how you feel about him, he decides he doesn’t want to hurt you, so he blocks you because he knows it’s the best way he can protect you \u2013 by staying away.<\/strong><\/p>\n

And, no, don’t confuse this with him still wanting you back. Sometimes, men can truly care about you without wanting to be romantically involved.<\/p>\n

E, quem sabe? Talvez you actually don\u2019t want him back<\/a> either. Maybe you\u2019re just used to being with him.<\/p>\n

7. He’s putting his past behind him.<\/h3>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

He either moved on or is trying to move on. But, one thing is for certain \u2013 he doesn’t want to have anything with you ever again.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Creating a whole new life is at the top of his priority list now, and you’re not included.<\/p>\n

Mas ser\u00e1 que se pode realmente ficar zangado com ele por fazer isto?<\/em> I know it looks like an immature move, but nothing is immature until you look at someone’s reasons.<\/p>\n

If he’s doing it for his own well-being, then it’s actually the most mature move he could have made.<\/p>\n

8. It’s all a game to get you back.<\/h3>\n

Ele pode ainda estar apaixonado por si, mas ficar longe n\u00e3o \u00e9 certamente o seu plano.<\/em><\/p>\n

He doesn’t block you because it’s hard for him to deal with his feelings, but rather because he knows how it will affect you.<\/p>\n

Pode n\u00e3o ser um cl\u00e1ssico guy\u2019s behavior after a breakup<\/a>mas acontece na mesma.<\/p>\n

O meu ex-namorado tamb\u00e9m o fez por esta raz\u00e3o. Ele bloqueou-me apenas no Instagram e no Snapchat.<\/p>\n

Ele queria provocar uma rea\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00e3o intensa que eu acabaria por enviar-lhe uma mensagem<\/a> para perguntar porque \u00e9 que ele o fez. Ele queria que eu pensasse duas vezes antes de acabar com ele.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00c9 por isso que o seu homem tamb\u00e9m se vai certificar de que tem uma forma de o contactar.<\/p>\n

Maybe he won’t change his phone number, so that you can send him a text message or send a message via WhatsApp or Viber.<\/p>\n

9. He’s just trying to hurt you.<\/h3>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

If he blocks you because he’s trying to hurt you, then he still loves you, and doesn’t know how else to deal with it.<\/p>\n

His level of immaturity is over the roof, so he doesn’t know how to communicate with you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Instead, he opts for blocking because that’s the only way he can show his love.<\/p>\n

In the end, he’ll probably unblock you and try to talk it out, but his immature nature will ruin it again.<\/p>\n

Sim, o seu comportamento quente e frio<\/a> is childish. Let’s be honest \u2013 you don’t need this kind of man in your life.<\/p>\n

10. He’s fighting his insecurities.<\/h3>\n

Whether he’s still in love with you or not, the way you ended your relationship might have left him with a lot of insecurities.<\/p>\n

If you were the one to break up with him, then maybe he’s struggling with problemas de autoestima<\/a>e acredita que nunca ningu\u00e9m o poder\u00e1 amar.<\/p>\n

Para combater estes problemas, decide ir \u00e0 fonte<\/strong> \u2013 you. So, he blocks you.<\/p>\n

I know it’s got to hurt, but this is his way of aumentar o amor-pr\u00f3prio<\/a>, so you can’t really be angry with him for trying to take care of himself.<\/em><\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9 que ele est\u00e1 a bloquear e a desbloquear?<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

It’s either because he’s confused about his feelings… or he knows exactly what he’s doing.<\/em><\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 que eu quero dizer com isto?<\/p>\n

Bem, se ele acaba por o desbloquear<\/a>, that means he’s still thinking about you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He blocked you because he was struggling with his feelings. He wanted to distance himself from you, but couldn’t do it for long, so he decided to undo his actions.<\/p>\n

This isn’t confusion. He knows exactly what he wants, and that is YOU.<\/strong><\/p>\n

But, he still doesn’t know what to do about it, so one day, he blocks you, and the next day, he comes back to where he started. And, if it’s not his first time doing it, then his struggle is even bigger.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, he’s blocking and then unblocking you as a deliberate act of getting you back. No, it’s not very mature, but he believes it to be effective.<\/p>\n

I mean, you are here wondering why he did it, aren’t you? It seems to be working.<\/em><\/p>\n

But, don’t let him get away with it. Tell him you want to meet up and then confront him. Explain how there are healthier ways to deal with your emotions.<\/p>\n

Or, better yet \u2013 desistir dele<\/a> inteiramente.<\/p>\n

O que fazer se o teu ex te bloqueia<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I know you’re overwhelmed right now, thinking, ”What do you do if your ex blocked you? How do you deal with it?”<\/p>\n

Well, don’t worry because I’ve got you covered. This is what you should do:<\/p>\n

1. Realize he isn’t a part of your life anymore.<\/h3>\n

Sim, ele pode t\u00ea-la bloqueado, mas porque \u00e9 que isso a preocupa? It’s okay to wonder for a minute, but to devote any more time than that is unnecessary.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He has been gone for a couple of months or years now, and you were still able to continue living your life. Him blocking you doesn’t change much.<\/p>\n

Ele j\u00e1 n\u00e3o \u00e9 nada para si, por isso, o facto de o ter ou n\u00e3o nas redes sociais n\u00e3o tem qualquer import\u00e2ncia. Por que n\u00e3o abandon\u00e1-lo de vez<\/a>?<\/p>\n

2. Don’t stalk him anymore.<\/h3>\n

I know. You’re too curious about why he blocked you, so you’re probably tempted to find other ways to stalk him. But, don’t you know?<\/p>\n

A curiosidade matou o gato!<\/p>\n

By prying further into his business, you’ll only do yourself harm. All the memories will come rushing back, and you’ll end up where you were before \u2013 pining over him.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Do you really want someone who blocked you to have power over you? Don\u2019t you want to diga adeus ao seu amor t\u00f3xico<\/a>?<\/em><\/p>\n

3. Encontrar o lado positivo.<\/h3>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

If your ex blocks you, you won meaning he’s now completely erased from your life.<\/em><\/p>\n

It’s easier for both of you not only to respect the regra de n\u00e3o contacto<\/a>mas tamb\u00e9m n\u00e3o ter sequer a oportunidade de enviar mensagens de texto um ao outro.<\/p>\n

That’s why he didn’t just unfriend you. Se n\u00e3o h\u00e1 forma de chegar, ent\u00e3o n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada a esperar.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Also, not being able to see each other’s photos will help keep the memories away.<\/p>\n

You don’t have to cry anymore over how handsome he is, but you can seek other opportunities and look at guys who are actually available for you to date.<\/p>\n

4. Persegue os tipos que te perseguem.<\/h3>\n

Maybe a part of you still wants your ex back, and that’s why you’re so overwhelmed by his decision to block you. In that case, I only have one thing to say:<\/p>\n

Ele deixou-te ir e tu deves fazer o mesmo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Aborde aquele empregado giro que estava a ver ontem \u00e0 noite ou envie uma mensagem de texto ao rapaz que claramente gosta de si, mas tem medo de dar o primeiro passo.<\/p>\n

If your ex blocks you, you won meaning he doesn’t deserve your attention.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Instead of still thinking about him, focus your attention on guys who actually want you. You’ll be happier for it.<\/p>\n

5. Concentre-se em si pr\u00f3prio.<\/h3>\n

That’s right. You and your well-being come FIRST.<\/p>\n

You don’t always have to follow your heart. Following your head from time to time might save you a lot of trouble.<\/p>\n

There’s no point in holding on to someone from your past when they’ve clearly let you go.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Em vez disso, concentre-se em criar um uma vida mais f\u00e1cil e feliz<\/a> para si pr\u00f3prio. Cuide da sua sa\u00fade mental e fa\u00e7a a sua rotina de cuidados com a pele todos os dias. D\u00ea a si pr\u00f3pria todo o amor que esperava que ele lhe desse.<\/p>\n

Quando se aprende a ame-se mais<\/a>, you won’t be bothered by someone else denying you that love.<\/p>\n

Bloquear o seu ex \u00e9 normal?<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

The answer is yes… if you’re doing it for the right reasons.<\/em><\/p>\n

If you’re genuinely concerned about your mental health and can’t stop loving your ex<\/a>bloque\u00e1-los \u00e9 um ato de autocuidado.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Anything you do that serves as an act of self-care is understandable and excusable. Besides, since your relationship ended, you don’t owe your ex anything.<\/p>\n

Por outro lado, se os bloqueou porque quer recuper\u00e1-los<\/a>, and this is your twisted way of showing them how much you care, then no, I’m afraid it’s not normal.<\/p>\n

Talvez seja melhor reconsiderar a sua maneira de agir e tentar aprender a comunicar corretamente, porque se continuar a lidar com as coisas desta forma, nunca vai acabar bem. Podes apostar nisso.<\/em><\/p>\n

Conclus\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

Do you get the bigger picture now? You may be hurt by the fact that he blocked you, but in the end, it’s you who comes out victorious.<\/p>\n

Sim, se o teu ex te bloquear, ganhaste, o que significa que o tipo indigno saiu da tua vida.<\/em><\/p>\n

Ele pode ser um ex-parceiro, mas \u00e9 \u00f3bvio que ainda sinto algo por ele<\/a>. O que ele fez deve fazer com que esses sentimentos desapare\u00e7am.<\/p>\n

As any relationship coach would advise their coaching client \u2013 someone who doesn’t come to your door saying ”Hey, I still want you!” but chooses to block you instead shouldn’t have a place in your life.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You noticed that your ex blocked you, and now you’re freaking out. You’re wondering if you did something wrong or said a mean thing without realizing it. You’re even wondering if he ever loved you at all. One minute, you blame yourself, and the next, you blame him. Did all the memories mean nothing? Have…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":141356,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-141354","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/If-Your-Ex-Blocks-You-You-Won-Meaning-And-10-Reasons-He-Did-It-1024x678.jpg",1024,678,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","parent":29627,"count":263,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29628,"category_count":263,"category_description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","cat_name":"dealing with breakup","category_nicename":"dealing-with-breakup","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/141354","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=141354"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/141354\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/141356"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=141354"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=141354"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=141354"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}