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<\/p>\nAmo-te tanto que at\u00e9 d\u00f3i, o que significa que daria tudo por ti. Eu estimar-te-ia acima de todos os outros.<\/p>\n
Alguma vez te sentiste assim?<\/i><\/p>\n
If you have, then you probably believe true love comes with heartbreak. But I’m here to tell you that this isn’t quite true.<\/p>\n
A forma como amamos algu\u00e9m reflecte o que sentimos sobre n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios.<\/b> What do I mean by this? Read on, and you’ll see!<\/p>\nAmo-te tanto que at\u00e9 d\u00f3i: Significado<\/h2>\n
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Love does hurt, but it’s because you give it the power to hurt you. You’re obsessed with the idea of romantic love and will do anything to experience it.<\/p>\n
When you fall in love, it consumes you. You start not just wanting the person but needing them. And that’s a problem.<\/p>\n
O seu <\/b>ente querido<\/b> doesn’t just become your partner <\/b>\u2013<\/b> eles tornam-se o vosso salvador. Diante de ti, v\u00eas algu\u00e9m que vai consertar a tua vida.<\/b><\/p>\n
That’s why you keep getting hurt… because you don’t value yourself enough.<\/i><\/p>\nO amor pode ser auto-destrutivo<\/h3>\n
I’ve been hung up on a past relationship for three and a half years, and it really is true… love can be painful.<\/p>\n
Quando encontrei a perfei\u00e7\u00e3o nesta pessoa, nunca pensei em procurar noutro lugar.<\/b><\/p>\n
It’s painful because I’m stuck. It’s painful because I <\/b>amo a minha<\/b> person more than myself… even if it harms me.<\/b><\/p>\n
Talvez a tua dor seja diferente. Talvez a sua pessoa esteja mesmo ao seu lado, mas os seus pensamentos excessivos est\u00e3o a destru\u00ed-lo lentamente.<\/p>\n
Either way, you are in pain, repeating to yourself the same words…<\/p>\n
Amo-te tanto que at\u00e9 d\u00f3i<\/i> meaning that I can’t love you the way I want to because we aren’t together.<\/i><\/p>\n
Amo-te tanto que at\u00e9 d\u00f3i<\/i> meaning that so many words are left unspoken, and venting to friends isn’t enough anymore.<\/i><\/p>\n
Amo-te tanto que at\u00e9 d\u00f3i<\/i> meaning that you have power over me. You’re here, but I’m afraid you’ll slip through my fingers as soon as I look away.<\/i><\/p>\n
Amo-te tanto que at\u00e9 d\u00f3i<\/i> meaning you don’t love me back.<\/i><\/p>\nTu vens primeiro<\/h3>\n
Yes, love can be self-destructive, which is why letting go of everything that doesn’t serve you is so important.<\/p>\n
It won’t be easy, but every ”minor” victory matters! Take time to celebrate all your accomplishments, no matter how meaningless they may seem to others.<\/p>\n
Only you know what you’re fighting against.<\/b><\/p>\nPode-se amar demasiado algu\u00e9m?<\/h2>\n
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A resposta \u00e9 sim.<\/i><\/p>\n
You’re probably surprised because we all want a great love, don’t we? And how can you not love someone too much and still call it a great love?<\/i><\/p>\n
Well, the truth is \u2013 you can. You were just taught that love is sacrifice and that the person you love always comes first.<\/p>\n
Negligencia as suas pr\u00f3prias necessidades em prol de amor incondicional<\/a>. S\u00f3 nos sentimos o amante perfeito quando damos o nosso melhor, mesmo quando isso nos magoa.<\/p>\n But I’ll tell you what no one else has told you before:<\/p>\n Colocar outra pessoa \u00e0 frente de si \u00e9 auto-destrui\u00e7\u00e3o. Viver apenas para cuidar deles \u00e9 auto-neglig\u00eancia. Quando amamos demasiado uma pessoa, acabamos por ficar ressentidos com ela.<\/b><\/p>\n Se pensa que \u00e9 destined to give more love than you\u2019ll ever receive<\/a>, you are wrong. You just don\u2019t choose the right people.<\/p>\n Eu sei. <\/i>Amor eterno<\/i><\/a> Parece po\u00e9tico, mas \u00e9 preciso cuidar da sua <\/i>sa\u00fade mental<\/i> um pouco mais.<\/i><\/p>\n O amor \u00e9 complicado<\/a> because you aren\u2019t searching for other things to live for that don’t include your lover. Do them to enrich your life and ame-se mais<\/a>.<\/p>\n Comece por ter algum tempo para si pr\u00f3prio todos os dias. Afaste-se das redes sociais e encontre novos passatempos.<\/p>\n Porqu\u00ea?<\/p>\n Porque s\u00f3 quando sentirmos que somos dignos do nosso pr\u00f3prio tempo \u00e9 que seremos felizes connosco pr\u00f3prios.<\/b><\/p>\n S\u00f3 quando se der a si pr\u00f3prio a felicidade que merece \u00e9 que estar\u00e1 pronto para um <\/b>rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n Your happiness shouldn’t depend on your significant other. Find it by yourself… and then share it with them.<\/p>\n Love them… but love yourself more.<\/i><\/p>\n Sim, mas isso depende de muitas coisas.<\/i><\/p>\n Em primeiro lugar, deve perguntar-se a si pr\u00f3prio que tipo de dor est\u00e1 a sentir.<\/p>\n Is it emotional or physical? Does your loved one hurt you because they enjoy it or because you’re just not a priority?<\/p>\n If someone causes you physical pain, know that that’s not true love \u2013 it’s abuse.<\/p>\n E v\u00e3o pensar num milh\u00e3o de maneiras de fazer com que sintas pena deles.<\/p>\n Don’t fall for their apologies and sad stories. Don’t empathize with them and fall into the same trap every time. This is not <\/b>como \u00e9 o amor<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n I know it’s hard, especially if they are a family member you are dependant on or if you love them a bit too much, but trust me \u2013 they don’t care about you and never will.<\/p>\n Amor verdadeiro<\/i> \u00e9 gentil e am\u00e1vel. Se n\u00e3o conseguires encontrar isso, foge para as colinas.<\/i><\/p>\n If someone is causing you constant emotional pain, that’s not true love either. Someone who understands the o verdadeiro valor do amor<\/a> will care about you and make sure that you’re alright.<\/p>\n They will care about your well-being and never make you feel bad about yourself. They’ll treat you like a best friend would.<\/p>\n So, if you notice that your person keeps criticizing you and blaming you for every little thing, that’s your cue.<\/p>\n As lutas s\u00e3o normais, mas quando h\u00e1 mais lutas do que paz e felicidade, ent\u00e3o algo est\u00e1 definitivamente errado.<\/b><\/p>\n People aren’t always aware of what they’re doing. Sometimes, you just need to point it out.<\/p>\n For example, your partner may not be aware of your emotional triggers, especially at the beginning of the relationship. They may make a joke about something you’re insecure about.<\/p>\n You get angry at them and blame them for hurting you, but in reality, they don’t even know what they’ve done. That\u2019s why it\u2019s so important to <\/b>understand your partner\u2019s traumas<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n Or, perhaps they tend to come back into your life just when you thought it was over. Something pulls them towards you again, and there they are… unaware that they’re causing you pain.<\/p>\n O que eles sentem por si \u00e9 amor condicional<\/a>Por isso, o seu ego\u00edsmo torna-os cegos. S\u00f3 se preocupam em satisfazer as suas pr\u00f3prias necessidades, prestando pouca aten\u00e7\u00e3o ao efeito que isso tem em si.<\/p>\n Pode ou n\u00e3o ser <\/b>amor verdadeiro<\/b>, but it’s certainly not the kind of love you deserve.<\/b><\/p>\n Quando o amor \u00e9 genu\u00edno, sentimos paz porque a pessoa que nos ama nunca nos deixa ter um <\/i>cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido<\/i>.<\/i><\/p>\n Mas encontrar o amor depois de um desgosto<\/a> isn\u2019t easy. It\u2019s okay to take your time.<\/p>\n Ou se fala com eles ou se os deixa.<\/i><\/p>\n What you do depends on the situation you’re in. Some problems are easily fixed, and others aren’t. Observe the situation closely and make your decision.<\/p>\n As we’ve said, people don’t always hurt you intentionally. While you\u2019re out there contemplating \u2018\u2019<\/i>O amor \u00e9 real?<\/i><\/a>?\u2019\u2019 they’re genuinely ignorant of how their actions have made you feel.<\/i><\/p>\n That’s why you can’t really be mad at them. Instead, you should express your emotions and make them realize what they’ve done.<\/p>\n But, make sure not to blame them for it. That will get you nowhere. Remember that the goal is to solve the problem. Do it by letting them know that they’ve made a mistake.<\/p>\n Todos n\u00f3s temos defeitos <\/b>seres humanos,<\/b> and making mistakes is inevitable. But, if he continually makes them even after you’ve pointed them out, <\/b>they don’t love you<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n Quando uma pessoa tem medo de o perder<\/b><\/a>, far\u00e3o tudo o que estiver ao seu alcance para provar o seu amor.<\/b><\/p>\n Fighting or silent treatment won’t help if you want a good relationship. Communication is the only way to make things right.<\/p>\n E se algu\u00e9m n\u00e3o lhe der nada a n\u00e3o ser <\/i>desgosto<\/i>? Vai ficar s\u00f3 porque o ama? Vais ser infeliz por causa da rela\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/i><\/p>\n Espero bem que n\u00e3o.<\/p>\n Se o seu parceiro \u00e9 abusivo ou t\u00f3xico de alguma forma, nunca deve tolerar isso, mesmo que ama-os verdadeiramente<\/a>.<\/p>\n Even if you see a glimpse of hope, that’s because you refuse to see the truth <\/b>\u2013<\/b> they aren’t going to change.<\/b><\/p>\n I know, people ARE capable of change, but it isn’t that easy. Just think about the things you want to improve about yourself. It isn’t enough to wish for it, is it?<\/p>\n Yes, maybe they’ll change, but will you accept the constant pain for a ‘maybe’? Will you sacrifice your life waiting for somebody?<\/i><\/p>\n Love isn’t supposed to hurt. You should try to <\/b>seguir em frente<\/b><\/a> e <\/b>consertar o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n J\u00e1 se apercebeu?<\/p>\n ”I love you so much it hurts meaning I don’t love myself enough.”<\/p>\nPraticar limites saud\u00e1veis<\/h3>\n
Pode-se amar algu\u00e9m que se magoou?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nAbuso n\u00e3o \u00e9 amor<\/h3>\n
A m\u00e1goa pode n\u00e3o ser intencional<\/h3>\n
O que fazer quando a pessoa que amamos nos magoa?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nA comunica\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 fundamental<\/h3>\n
Saber quando sair<\/h3>\n
Considera\u00e7\u00f5es finais<\/h2>\n
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