{"id":14222,"date":"2018-02-09T13:16:08","date_gmt":"2018-02-09T13:16:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14222"},"modified":"2022-03-01T23:03:09","modified_gmt":"2022-03-01T23:03:09","slug":"11-erros-de-encontros-que-assustam-os-homens","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/11-erros-de-encontros-que-assustam-os-homens\/","title":{"rendered":"11 erros de namoro que assustam os homens (e como evit\u00e1-los)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Quando nos apaixonamos, temos tend\u00eancia a cometer erros que normalmente n\u00e3o cometer\u00edamos, porque, sejamos realistas, o amor torna-nos um pouco est\u00fapidos.<\/p>\n<p>From blowing up his phone, to making him feel like he\u2019s a suspect being interrogated, just because it feels good to have someone by our side and we want to see more of him.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, reunimos algumas das perguntas mais comuns <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-mistakes-women-usually-make-relationships\/\">erros que cometemos<\/a> para as evitar e n\u00e3o afugentar os homens.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Rebentar com o telem\u00f3vel<\/h2>\n<p>Admit it ladies, we\u2019ve all done this. Texting with him all the time feels amazing, because you have so much to talk about and it just feels good to have that silly grin on your face when your phone buzzes.<\/p>\n<p>But it\u2019s best to avoid blowing up his phone, because it could get annoying really quick and he will run away.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ser pegajoso demasiado cedo<\/h2>\n<p>Esta vai a par com o bombardeamento de telem\u00f3veis. D\u00ea-lhe uma oportunidade de respirar e de sentir a sua falta.<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/8-traits-define-clingy-girlfriend-get-rid\/\"> If you\u2019re clingy<\/a> e tentar passar todos os momentos que puder com ele, s\u00f3 vai fazer com que pare\u00e7a carente.<\/p>\n<p>Men need to feel the excitement of the chase, and if he\u2019s not chasing you, there\u2019s a good possibility that he will lose interest soon.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Precisando dele<\/h2>\n<p>It\u2019s one thing wanting to be with someone and wanting to spend some time with that person, but needing them is a whole different aspect of a relationship.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-precisa-de-ser-corrigido\/\">Precisar de algu\u00e9m que o conserte<\/a> ou para a fazer sentir bem consigo mesma n\u00e3o \u00e9 justo, nem para si nem para ele.<\/p>\n<p>Make sure that you don\u2019t depend on him, because no one will stick around for long if they feel like they\u2019re being used.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Falar sobre os ex a toda a hora<\/h2>\n<p>If he asks, keep your answer short and not in an accusatory tone. No one loves to listen to someone they\u2019re considering dating<a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/blog\/close-encounters\/201609\/whats-going-when-you-stay-in-touch-your-ex\" rel=\"noopener\"> ainda falam dos seus ex<\/a> ou mesmo a falar mal deles.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s important to respect the fact that at some point you had love for those other men and that no matter how badly things ended, you can take the high road now.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Analisar demasiado a situa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n<p>Temos tend\u00eancia para fazer isto a toda a hora, n\u00e3o apenas com os homens com quem namoramos. Na maior parte das vezes, as coisas n\u00e3o s\u00e3o o que parecem na nossa cabe\u00e7a, por isso, se tiver d\u00favidas, pergunte-lhe.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019ll be so much easier for both of you and you\u2019ll create a habit of discussing issues, not ignoring them.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Falar demasiado de si pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n<p>When we\u2019re nervous, we talk too much and mostly nonsense. Take a deep breath and ask him to talk about himself.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s easy to get too involved with yourself when you have someone who shows<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/como-mante-lo-interessado\/\"> interesse<\/a> in you, but it\u2019s important that he feels like you\u2019re actually there with him, that you want to know about him too, not just keep up a monologue about yourself all the time.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">N\u00e3o respeitar os limites<\/h2>\n<p>Whether they\u2019re your or his boundaries, respect them. If you said no, stick to it. If he said he needs space or time, respect it.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t push too far with your love, because you\u2019ll corner him too soon and he will definitely start looking for the escape route.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Esperar que ele leia a sua mente<\/h2>\n<p>If you\u2019re upset and he doesn\u2019t seem like he knows why that is, tell him.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t expect him to know what you\u2019ve been through or to know what he did wrong if you just met\u2014you need to be open and tell him what the problem is.<\/p>\n<p>Se ele continuar a fazer coisas erradas, d\u00ea-lhe com os p\u00e9s. Mas a maioria dos homens tentar\u00e1 evitar situa\u00e7\u00f5es em que <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/brittney-lindstrom\/2017\/12\/shes-not-crazy-shes-hurt\/\" rel=\"noopener\">acabar magoado<\/a>, because they\u2019re not all total assholes.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Criticar outras mulheres<\/h2>\n<p>There\u2019s a good reason why they say, \u201cThe way you talk about others, says more about you than it does about them.\u201d If you have the need to put someone down or shame them, just to make you look good, stop and think about it for a second.<\/p>\n<p>Keep in mind that you\u2019re already amazing and have his attention, because there\u2019s a reason he\u2019s with you. So, let everyone live their lives in peace, because that\u2019s what you would want them to do for you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Partilha excessiva<\/h2>\n<p>Avoid sharing your deepest and darkest memories at the beginning. It\u2019s okay to let him know about your past, but being fully intimate right at the start is not good to do.<\/p>\n<p>O alarme da namorada pegajosa vai disparar, porque a partilha excessiva no in\u00edcio d\u00e1 muitas vezes a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de estar a apressar as coisas.<\/p>\n<p>If it comes naturally, because you clicked, do it. But still keep in mind that you don\u2019t know this man so well and it will seem weird that you decided to open up right away.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Interrogando-o<\/h2>\n<p>You want to know everything about him, because it\u2019s important for you to see if he\u2019s just another time-waster, but don\u2019t bomb him with questions so he feels like he\u2019s being interrogated.<\/p>\n<p>Siga o fluxo da conversa e d\u00ea-lhe a oportunidade de a conhecer tamb\u00e9m.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When we fall in love, we tend to make mistakes that we never usually would, because let\u2019s face it\u2014love make us a little bit stupid. From blowing up his phone, to making him feel like he\u2019s a suspect being interrogated, just because it feels good to have someone by our side and we want to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":14227,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14222","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/darkness-490553.jpg",800,549,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. 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