{"id":14235,"date":"2018-02-09T13:44:32","date_gmt":"2018-02-09T13:44:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14235"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:42:52","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:42:52","slug":"a-micro-batota-pode-ser-perigosa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-micro-batota-pode-ser-perigosa\/","title":{"rendered":"O que \u00e9 a micro-trapa\u00e7a (e porque \u00e9 que pode ser perigosa)"},"content":{"rendered":"

The thing with micro-cheating is that it\u2019s very hard to detect. It is a form of trai\u00e7\u00e3o emocional<\/a> and it\u2019s getting more and more common among people who like to leave their options open, even if they are already in a relationship.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s first get to the real meaning of this trendy expression. According to psychologist Melanie Schilling, \u201cMicro-cheating is a series of seemingly small actions that indicate a person is emotionally or physically focused on someone outside their relationship.”<\/p>\n

Some people look at it as a form of betrayal and some as innocent flirting that is blown out of proportion. Why, flirting can be a part of nature for some people, it\u2019s something fun they do without giving it any higher meaning.<\/p>\n

Por outro lado, quem \u00e9 que quereria ter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o com uma pessoa que:<\/p>\n

1. Passa muito tempo a analisar e a investigar as contas das redes sociais de uma determinada pessoa
\n2. Enviar mensagens de texto a outra pessoa com emojis de amor
\n3. Nega que tem namorada\/namorado
\n4. Essa pessoa tem um nome de c\u00f3digo no seu telem\u00f3vel
\n5. Mant\u00e9m contacto com o(a) ex ou v\u00ea o(a) ex nas suas costas
\n6. Confides in someone outside of your relationship about the things that should stay private or reserved for your partner\u2019s ears only<\/p>\n

While some people will discard the things listed above and try to justify their behavior, like justify that they haven\u2019t kissed them, they haven\u2019t had sex with them or anything like that, it still doesn\u2019t feel right. Guardar segredos<\/a> like that from your partner can\u2019t be a good thing and it will most probably backfire. Nothing positive can happen when a person who is in a relationship has an obsession with somebody else. It can be really hurtful.
\nInnocent flirting, if it can be considered innocent, would consist of smiling here and there, making interesting conversation or liking each other\u2019s posts. That is considered normal.<\/p>\n

But anything beyond that can be a serious threat to your relationship. A person who engages in micro-cheating can form a strong emotional bond with somebody and that can be as hurtful to their partner as actual physical cheating. Being faithful to your partner means being entirely devoted, both body and mind. It doesn\u2019t mean catching feelings for somebody else.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why if you are overdoing anything, if you are hiding things from your partner, or feeling guilty about not sharing some things with him, you should completely stop what you are doing, for the sake of your relationship.<\/p>\n

Pense no que o levou a fazer isso e se h\u00e1 algo que o est\u00e1 a fazer infeliz na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>. Are they any issues you need to discuss with your partner? Because the solution to your problems is never somebody outside of your relationship. It\u2019s always about just two people. You can\u2019t escape your problems, especially in this way, and you wouldn\u2019t want to hurt your partner\u2019s feelings.<\/p>\n

Se suspeita que o seu parceiro pode estar envolvido em algo deste g\u00e9nero, deve ter acontecido algo que plantou essa semente de d\u00favida na sua mente. O comportamento dele pode ter mudado, pode ter visto algumas mensagens ou um nome desconhecido no telem\u00f3vel dele que a fez pensar se haveria algo mais.<\/p>\n

O importante aqui \u00e9 n\u00e3o exagerar. Encare as coisas com calma. Porque, para come\u00e7ar, o seu parceiro pode estar a fazer isto apenas a um n\u00edvel subconsciente. Ele pode n\u00e3o estar a fazer absolutamente nada, mas, por vezes, os ci\u00fames levam a melhor.
\nFale com ele quando estiver calma, tranquila e controlada e pergunte-lhe porque \u00e9 que ele est\u00e1 a fazer isso. Pergunte-lhe o que pensaria se as coisas fossem ao contr\u00e1rio e se descobrisse que se est\u00e1 a aproximar ou a viciar noutra pessoa que n\u00e3o ele. Diga-lhe que o comportamento dele a est\u00e1 a magoar e que gostaria muito que ele deixasse de fazer o que est\u00e1 a fazer. N\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada t\u00e3o poderoso como uma conversa aberta e honesta. Pode at\u00e9 resolver toda a situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Micro-cheating can be really devastating to your relationship if things go any further. Keeping secrets from your partner is never a good thing. Relationships are built on trust and respect and if they are non-existent, your relationship won\u2019t be able to survive. So honesty really is the best policy.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

The thing with micro-cheating is that it\u2019s very hard to detect. It is a form of emotional cheating and it\u2019s getting more and more common among people who like to leave their options open, even if they are already in a relationship. Let\u2019s first get to the real meaning of this trendy expression. According to…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":14239,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29626],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14235","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-affair"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29626,"label":"affair"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/darkness-490553-2.jpg",800,549,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29626,"name":"affair","slug":"affair","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29626,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","parent":29620,"count":132,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29626,"category_count":132,"category_description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","cat_name":"affair","category_nicename":"affair","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14235","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=14235"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14235\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/14239"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=14235"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=14235"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=14235"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}