{"id":14274,"date":"2020-04-12T09:16:10","date_gmt":"2020-04-12T09:16:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14274"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:03:55","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:03:55","slug":"11-coisas-que-as-mulheres-magoaram-muitas-vezes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/11-coisas-que-as-mulheres-magoaram-muitas-vezes\/","title":{"rendered":"11 coisas que as mulheres fazem porque j\u00e1 foram magoadas demasiadas vezes"},"content":{"rendered":"

Somos criaturas fr\u00e1geis que podem transformar-se em monstros quando as pessoas n\u00e3o sabem apreciar-nos.<\/p>\n

Ser quebrada e magoada muda drasticamente a vida de uma mulher e ela pode come\u00e7ar a agir de forma diferente em rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0s pessoas que lhe s\u00e3o preciosas.<\/p>\n

It’s not a bad thing to change, but the change that occurs after being hurt by someone we love can have consequences for the rest of our life.<\/p>\n

A mulher quebrada<\/a> pode ser identificada pelo seu comportamento, nas pequenas actividades quotidianas que tornam cada vez mais vis\u00edveis os seus peda\u00e7os.<\/p>\n

1. Ela ri-se do romance<\/h2>\n

\"homem
\nIf a guy approaches her with some cheesy, clich\u00e9d line, she will most probably laugh dramatically at him and make a huge scene about it.<\/p>\n

Roses are disgusting, chocolate is probably poisoned and hugs and kisses aren’t welcome.<\/p>\n

2. She doesn’t take love seriously<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

\u00c9 prov\u00e1vel que conte uma ou duas piadas se lhe perguntar sobre a sua vida amorosa.<\/p>\n

She’ll tell you that she wants to die alone with 72 cats. Even if it sounds weird and you laugh at it, it’s still kind of cringey.<\/p>\n

3. She won’t trust anyone<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Her feelings have been mistreated and she can’t let anyone close enough to see her true self again.<\/p>\n

She simply can’t and won’t trust anyone ever again. It’s what experience taught her.<\/p>\n

4. Ela atura pessoas t\u00f3xicas<\/h2>\n

\"grupo<\/p>\n

O qu\u00ea? She’s been hurt before<\/a>. Atualmente, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada que a possa surpreender.<\/p>\n

So what if she texts her ex when she’s drunk in a club? There is nothing he can do that surprises her, and she probably just wants to have some fun.<\/p>\n

5. Ela namorisca. Muito<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Houve uma altura (h\u00e1 muito tempo) em que ela se apaixonava por um homem e era dele at\u00e9 ao fim.<\/p>\n

But now that she’s broken? No, darling. She’s seen how ‘keeping your options open’ is much better and isn’t emotionally tiring, which is why she goes around harmlessly flirting.<\/p>\n

6. She ends up hurting people, even when that’s not her intention<\/h2>\n

\"Duas<\/p>\n

You see, broken girls know how hard it is to be hurt and go through all that pain over and over again, so she doesn’t want to hurt anyone.<\/p>\n

She doesn’t want someone to go through the same things she went through.<\/p>\n

Mas devido ao facto de ser inacess\u00edvel, acaba por magoar as pessoas sem inten\u00e7\u00e3o. Se algu\u00e9m tentar aproximar-se dela, ela foge, deixando a pessoa confusa e destro\u00e7ada.<\/p>\n

7. Ela aprendeu que a tristeza faz parte da vida<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Em vez de se concentrar no aqui e no agora, ela fica a remoer o passado e aceita a depress\u00e3o e a tristeza em vez de continuar com a sua vida.<\/p>\n

This isn’t necessarily a bad thing, because todos n\u00f3s precisamos de encontrar uma solu\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> vivendo as nossas emo\u00e7\u00f5es at\u00e9 ao fim, independentemente do tempo necess\u00e1rio para nos sentirmos melhor de novo.<\/p>\n

But, if it goes on endlessly, then it’s not fine, she\u2019s not doing great.<\/p>\n

8. Ela pensa que toda a gente quer us\u00e1-la<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

When she meets a new guy and he’s really nice to her, she probably believes that he only wants her for sex.<\/p>\n

Nothing more. Just sex. Or that he’s going to break her heart right away. That’s why she doesn’t even start a relationship.<\/p>\n

9. Apaixona-se por homens inating\u00edveis<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

They simply feel familiar. She got used to people hurting her and nice guys scare her, so that\u2019s why she keeps falling for emotionally unapproachable men.<\/p>\n

It’s just what feels familiar and she knows how to deal with them.<\/p>\n

10. Ela repete a hist\u00f3ria na sua mente<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 sempre a repetir tudo na sua mente e a tentar perceber o que correu mal.<\/p>\n

She can’t find a way to be herself anymore, because her mind won’t allow her that.<\/p>\n

It’s too occupied with thinking about those awful things he did to her and how he made her feel.<\/p>\n

11. Ela acredita na mudan\u00e7a<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Independentemente da dor e da mis\u00e9ria por que passou por causa do amor, ela continua a acreditar que o amor est\u00e1 l\u00e1 fora, \u00e0 espera.<\/p>\n

Acredita que um dia encontrar\u00e1 algu\u00e9m que a ame pelo que ela \u00e9 e que a valorize.<\/p>\n

Existe uma forma de mudar o seu caminho<\/a> de pensar e melhorar; ela acredita firmemente nisso.<\/p>\n

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