{"id":14279,"date":"2020-06-12T10:41:35","date_gmt":"2020-06-12T10:41:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14279"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:52:12","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:52:12","slug":"6-coisas-que-precisa-de-saber-para-escolher-o-homem-certo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-coisas-que-precisa-de-saber-para-escolher-o-homem-certo\/","title":{"rendered":"6 coisas que precisa de saber antes de escolher o homem certo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Atualmente, \u00e9 dif\u00edcil manter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de qualidade. Todos os dias se v\u00eaem casamentos e rela\u00e7\u00f5es a desmoronarem-se.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 dif\u00edcil navegar na Internet sem ver um casal de celebridades a p\u00f4r fim \u00e0 sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

And I bet it has happened to you a number of times. You thought you\u2019d finally met a guy who will make love easy, who is going to be there for you for the rest of your lives, but your bubble burst soon and you broke up.<\/p>\n

Depois perdeu a esperan\u00e7a, decided you\u2019re going to stay single<\/a>Mas depois entrava outro na sua vida e voltava a acontecer a mesma coisa.<\/p>\n

Andava em c\u00edrculos e a \u00fanica coisa que ganhou com isso foi ter sido abandonado.<\/p>\n

So, that makes you wonder. Wouldn\u2019t be great if there was some kind of manual to a long-lasting and a happy relationship, directions that would exactly show you is he worth the bother or not?<\/p>\n

Yeah\u2026but you know that there is no such thing.<\/p>\n

Instead, give it all you\u2019ve got, have faith that every next guy might be the one because in the end, you actually never know.<\/p>\n

But I know this is easier said than done and that\u2019s why I bring you a few things you definitely need to know in order to choose the right guy.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso saber que ele tem um passado<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

You have to understand that he has baggage from the past. You aren\u2019t the first girl he met and you can\u2019t exactly know what emotional state he is in.<\/p>\n

Maybe he has been hurt, maybe he doesn\u2019t trust women that much or maybe he is just emocionalmente inseguro<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Penso que a melhor maneira de ver o seu comportamento futuro \u00e9 olhar para o seu passado. As pessoas podem mudar, mas n\u00e3o muito.<\/p>\n

O seu interior e os seus sentimentos, percep\u00e7\u00f5es e princ\u00edpios mais profundos v\u00e3o manter-se praticamente na mesma.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t like what you see, if you don\u2019t like his past behavior, it\u2019s better to move on. Don\u2019t fool yourself into thinking that you can change him.<\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t want to do that himself, you can\u2019t either.<\/p>\n

Chemistry isn\u2019t the key<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Sei que quando conhecemos algu\u00e9m e a qu\u00edmica \u00e9 de outro mundo, sentimo-nos imediatamente atra\u00eddos por essa pessoa.<\/p>\n

What you have to have in mind is that chemistry isn\u2019t the key to a successful relationship. Chemistry can only help at the beginning.<\/p>\n

Pode aproximar duas pessoas, mas com o passar do tempo, a qu\u00edmica vai-se desvanecendo.<\/p>\n

If you are left with nothing at that stage of the relationship, it will probably fall apart and you\u2019ll have to start from the beginning.<\/p>\n

Nunca arranje desculpas para as coisas m\u00e1s que acontecem na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00f3 porque a qu\u00edmica \u00e9 magn\u00e9tica.<\/p>\n

Tens de ser capaz de ser tu pr\u00f3pria ao p\u00e9 dele<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

I know this sounds cheesy, but it\u2019s also very true. You don\u2019t want to spend the rest of your life pretending you are something that you\u2019re not.<\/p>\n

Acabar\u00e1 por o consumir e destruir lentamente.<\/p>\n

Quando conhecer o homem que acha que pode ser o tal, seja voc\u00ea mesma desde o in\u00edcio e, se ele gostar, \u00f3timo.<\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t, screw him\u2014you don\u2019t need that kind of man in your life.<\/p>\n

Being yourself around the person you love and not being judged for it is the best feeling in the world. You\u2019ll be so happy because you will be both in love and true to yourself.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso ter a certeza de que ele tem as qualidades de que precisa<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Certifique-se de que ele \u00e9 compat\u00edvel com as coisas que s\u00e3o importantes para si, como a religi\u00e3o, a fam\u00edlia, as finan\u00e7as, etc.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t focus just on the first thing you see\u2014like for example the fact he has a sense of humor and he makes you laugh. Don\u2019t let that blind you.<\/p>\n

Sure, you\u2019re fine with him at the beginning because he has that characteristic you love so much, but what if that certain thing is making you miss other things, big things, which he lacks?<\/p>\n

If this happens to you, you are going to have huge problems later in a relationship when he doesn\u2019t have the qualities you want.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso p\u00f4r-se em primeiro lugar<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

This is not selfish. It\u2019s perfectly logical\u2014especially if you have been hurt before.<\/p>\n

Tem de pensar nos seus objectivos e aspira\u00e7\u00f5es e, depois de saber quais s\u00e3o, tem de descobrir se ele tem a coragem de apoiar os seus sonhos.<\/p>\n

Ele tem o que \u00e9 preciso para o ajudar quando precisa da sua ajuda?<\/p>\n

Nunca se submeta a uma s\u00f3 pessoa, pois pode acabar por chegar ao fim da sua vida sem ter conseguido nada porque foi o seu suporte emocional por inteiro.<\/p>\n

Find a balance, but don\u2019t ignore things you want to do. If he really is the right one for you, he will support you in whatever you do and he\u2019s going to make you a better person than you already are\u2014and you are going to do the same for him.<\/p>\n

Tem de haver confian\u00e7a e respeito<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

The most important thing of them all. All of these things don\u2019t make any sense if there is no mutual respect and trust.<\/p>\n

Podes gostar dele o quanto quiseres, mas se lhe escondes coisas ou se ele te esconde coisas, h\u00e1 algo de errado. Tens de respeitar o espa\u00e7o pessoal dele e ele tem de respeitar o teu.<\/p>\n

Men value respect above everything else. For them, respect is the equivalent of how love, trust and appreciation are in women\u2019s lives.<\/p>\n

A man needs to feel needed and respected for what he does. If he is not, he will probably think that you don\u2019t care enough about him and he slowly apaixonar-se<\/a>.<\/p>\n

O mesmo se passa consigo quando se trata de confian\u00e7a e apre\u00e7o. Tem de a ter, caso contr\u00e1rio, sentir-se-\u00e1 indesejado e ignorado.<\/p>\n

Veja bem o que precisa de saber antes de escolher o homem certo e poupe-se ao sofrimento de escolher o errado.<\/p>\n

O cora\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 quem escolhe, mas tente tamb\u00e9m envolver o seu lado racional na tomada de decis\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

Try to find the balance between the two and you\u2019re going to be just fine.<\/p>\n

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