{"id":14297,"date":"2020-02-12T11:52:30","date_gmt":"2020-02-12T11:52:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14297"},"modified":"2022-02-21T00:44:20","modified_gmt":"2022-02-21T00:44:20","slug":"nao-estavam-prontos-escolheram-afastar-se","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-estavam-prontos-escolheram-afastar-se\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o estavas pronto para me escolher at\u00e9 eu me afastar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Se eu tivesse de descrever a minha vida contigo numa s\u00f3 palavra, essa palavra seria \"espera\". Porque quando penso nisso, tudo girava \u00e0 volta disso.<\/p>\n<p>Continuei \u00e0 espera que a tua vida se recompusesse. Continuei \u00e0 espera que me amasses mais.<\/p>\n<p>Estava sempre \u00e0 espera que me escolhesses mais do que qualquer outra pessoa. Mas nunca o fizeste. Pelo menos n\u00e3o at\u00e9 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/foi-assim-que-ela-se-afastou-mesmo-quando-nao-queria\/\">Fui-me embora<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s funny how some people <a href=\"https:\/\/www.elitedaily.com\/life\/you-dont-know-what-you-have-til-its-gone\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">don\u2019t value what they have until they lose it.<\/a> They don\u2019t appreciate you while you are there.<\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t see everything you have done for them. Everything you have sacrificed.<\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t see how important it was to have somebody to lean on until they lose their supporter.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Infelizmente, tu eras um exemplo dessas pessoas. Nunca soubeste o que tinhas em mim at\u00e9 eu ter partido.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t understand how you couldn\u2019t see it then. How you couldn\u2019t see all my love. It\u2019s like it didn\u2019t mean anything to you.<\/p>\n<p>You treated me like I should be happy just to be with you\u2014like I should be honored with your presence when you would finally find time for me, when you had nothing better to do. I always felt like I came last.<\/p>\n<p>You had your own issues to deal with. Life didn\u2019t treat you fairly. I understood that. Mine wasn\u2019t all sunshine and rainbows, either. I stayed.<\/p>\n<p>Eu escutei. Animei-te. Dei-te todo o amor e carinho que tinha em mim. Dei-te partes de mim que nunca mais vou recuperar.<\/p>\n<p>Sempre tive for\u00e7a e positivismo suficientes para nos trazer de volta \u00e0 superf\u00edcie quando nos est\u00e1vamos a afogar.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Wouldn\u2019t it have been easier if we had done it together?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Festejei as vossas vit\u00f3rias como se fossem minhas. Nada me faria mais feliz do que ver-vos felizes.<\/p>\n<p>Eu celebrava esses dias. Gostava de te ver bem. Quando eu estava bem, tu tamb\u00e9m gostavas. Reconhe\u00e7o-te isso. Gostavas de me ver feliz e alegre. Dizias que era o meu melhor aspeto.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Mas ent\u00e3o porque \u00e9 que me fizeste chorar tantas vezes? Por que me deixaste sozinha tantas noites, a pensar onde estarias e o que estarias a fazer? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Porque \u00e9 que foi t\u00e3o dif\u00edcil para ti pelo menos enviar uma mensagem? Eu s\u00f3 queria saber que estavas s\u00e3o e salvo, que estavas a pensar em mim e que eu n\u00e3o tinha nada com que me preocupar. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Foi um segundo do vosso tempo e teria sido muito importante para mim.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You were so preoccupied with you that you didn\u2019t see me standing right there beside you.<\/p>\n<p>Viste uma pessoa que estava l\u00e1 para ti, mas nada mais. Nunca mostraste interesse em nada do que eu gostava, como foi o meu dia, se me sentia bem ou n\u00e3o. Era tudo sobre ti, tu e s\u00f3 tu.<\/p>\n<p>Deus, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/loving-way-lonelier-alone\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Senti-me t\u00e3o s\u00f3<\/a>. Sentia-me t\u00e3o s\u00f3, mesmo quando estavas a dormir ao meu lado. A liga\u00e7\u00e3o que senti contigo no in\u00edcio j\u00e1 n\u00e3o existia.<\/p>\n<p>Continuei a procur\u00e1-lo. Continuei a pedir-te que te esfor\u00e7asses mais, se realmente te preocupasses. Que trabalhasse em n\u00f3s.<\/p>\n<p>Serias melhor que perfeito por alguns dias. Serias t\u00e3o gentil e amoroso que compensarias todos os erros. Depois voltarias aos teus velhos h\u00e1bitos.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Continu\u00e1mos a repetir o mesmo cen\u00e1rio vezes sem conta at\u00e9 eu estar farto de tudo. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>I couldn\u2019t take it anymore. I couldn\u2019t be with you and be so alone at the same time. I was tired of waiting for things to be normal. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Estava farto de implorar a tua aten\u00e7\u00e3o e o teu tempo. Estava cansada das tuas emo\u00e7\u00f5es em part-time. Estava cansada de esperar que me amasses de verdade. Por isso, fui-me embora.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>I walked away and it was the hardest thing I ever had to do. And the saddest of all is that I don\u2019t know if leaving you <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/licoes-aprendidas-coracao-partido\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">partiu-me o cora\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> ou se o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o ficou partido por ter ficado demasiado tempo.<\/p>\n<p>And now you are here&#8230;wanting me back because you know you lost me. You say you want to put more effort, you want to be there for me, you didn\u2019t know how miserable you\u2019ll be without me.<\/p>\n<p>Tu amas-me. Preocupas-te comigo. Farias tudo para me ter de volta.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Porque \u00e9 que tiveste de realizar o teu amor \u00e0 custa do meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido? Tens no\u00e7\u00e3o do quanto me custou afastar-me? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>How can I know it will be different if I give you a second chance? I walked away and I don\u2019t know if I can go back anymore. Maybe you chose me too late.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-39882 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-07-04T125013.923-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"N\u00e3o estavas pronto para me escolher at\u00e9 eu me afastar\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-07-04T125013.923-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-07-04T125013.923-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-07-04T125013.923.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If I had to describe my life with you in just one word, that word would be \u2018waiting\u2019. Because when I think about it, it all revolved around that. I kept waiting for you to get your life together. I kept waiting for you to love me more. I kept waiting for you to choose&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":14303,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14297","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/walk-2946026_1920-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14297","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=14297"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14297\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/14303"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=14297"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=14297"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=14297"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}