{"id":14317,"date":"2020-09-08T12:56:11","date_gmt":"2020-09-08T12:56:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14317"},"modified":"2022-02-26T21:53:11","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T21:53:11","slug":"6-razoes-para-escolher-sempre-o-homem-errado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-razoes-para-escolher-sempre-o-homem-errado\/","title":{"rendered":"6 raz\u00f5es pelas quais escolhes sempre o homem errado"},"content":{"rendered":"

Estamos sempre obcecadas com a forma como devemos agir no primeiro encontro, o que fazer e o que n\u00e3o fazer ou como fazer com que um rapaz goste de n\u00f3s, s\u00f3 para termos uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o agrad\u00e1vel e saud\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n

Todos n\u00f3s queremos desviar-nos de uma bala, mas s\u00f3 quando estamos numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, que tal tomar algumas precau\u00e7\u00f5es antes de pensar sequer em voltar a namorar?<\/strong><\/p>\n

This is where the real problem is. You make a mistake when it\u2019s too late to fix it and you end up getting hurt. Escolhe erradamente o seu amante<\/a> because you don\u2019t think about it until you\u2019re already in a relationship.<\/p>\n

So to prevent this from happening, try to eliminate guys who you think won\u2019t make you happy before you start dating them. And don\u2019t beat yourself up just because you stumble upon wrong guys all the time.<\/p>\n

Agora, h\u00e1 uma solu\u00e7\u00e3o para o seu problema. Veja estas raz\u00f5es pelas quais escolhe sempre a pessoa que n\u00e3o \u00e9 para si, para nunca mais cometer o mesmo erro.<\/p>\n

Pensas que o podes mudar<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

This is the biggest mistake you can make. If you see certain behavior that is bothering you, don\u2019t think you can change that.<\/p>\n

You can warn him about it and he could try to keep it under control, but that is not a permanent solution. Every time he gets annoyed or angry, his true self will float to the surface; he won\u2019t be able to hide it.<\/p>\n

Assim, tendo isto em considera\u00e7\u00e3o, quer mesmo passar o resto da sua vida com algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o est\u00e1 a ser genu\u00edno porque mud\u00e1-lo est\u00e1 fora de quest\u00e3o?<\/p>\n

He cannot change his core values and you shouldn\u2019t think that you can change them instead of him.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 a sabotar-se a si pr\u00f3prio sem o saber<\/h2>\n

\"morena<\/p>\n

Se calhar \u00e9 voc\u00ea que tem medo do compromisso. J\u00e1 alguma vez lhe passou pela cabe\u00e7a escolher homens indispon\u00edveis, apesar de estarem mesmo \u00e0 sua frente aqueles que lhe serviriam perfeitamente?<\/p>\n

You are probably unaware that you\u2019re doing this on purpose because you are com medo de compromissos<\/a>. But this doesn\u2019t have to be such a great problem because it is pretty much solvable.<\/p>\n

Se se aperceber que tem problemas de compromisso, s\u00f3 tem de se for\u00e7ar a dar uma oportunidade a alguns homens e dar a cada um deles algum tempo para lhe provar o que vale.<\/p>\n

Tem medo de estar sozinho<\/h2>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

Much research has shown that women are willing to endure being in an unhappy relationship rather than being all alone and that\u2019s why they fall for the wrong kind of men.<\/p>\n

They think it\u2019s better to date a wrong man than be alone. Well, that is far from the truth.<\/p>\n

Na verdade, essa \u00e9 a pior coisa que pode fazer, porque est\u00e1 a tornar-se indispon\u00edvel para outros homens se optar por ficar com o homem errado.<\/p>\n

You have to learn that being on your own is not too bad at all. If it isn\u2019t your time to be with someone, then embrace yourself and learn to love yourself because that is the only way someone else will be able to love you.<\/p>\n

Apaixona-se por uma coisa<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Provavelmente, ele tem um fator positivo que o arrebatou, mas, para al\u00e9m disso, n\u00e3o v\u00ea absolutamente nada.<\/p>\n

In other words, you are blinded by his one positive characteristic and you don\u2019t see other things, including negative things.<\/p>\n

Assim, ao fim de algum tempo, quando come\u00e7amos a ver estas outras coisas, todo o quadro muda subitamente.<\/p>\n

Percebemos que est\u00e1vamos loucamente apaixonados e cegos, e percebemos que era uma paix\u00e3o e n\u00e3o amor.<\/p>\n

Sente-se extremamente atra\u00edda por ele<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

\u00c9 claro que \u00e9 preciso sentir algum tipo de atra\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> em dire\u00e7\u00e3o ao homem com quem queres sair. H\u00e1 algo que vos aproxima um do outro, uma tens\u00e3o sexual.<\/p>\n

O resultado de uma atra\u00e7\u00e3o sexual explosiva \u00e9 a tomada de decis\u00f5es imprudentes e a investiga\u00e7\u00e3o demonstrou que as pessoas que tomam decis\u00f5es no calor do momento t\u00eam mais probabilidades de se arrependerem mais tarde.<\/p>\n

So, every time you feel like this toward someone, don\u2019t react right away. Stop for a second and let it all sink in and then make a decision.<\/p>\n

Tem uma baixa autoestima<\/h2>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

You think that you don\u2019t deserve better than what is offered, so you take it. Guys you date are a reflection of how you feel and think about yourself.<\/p>\n

You probably think that you aren\u2019t good enough and guys like that are the only ones who can be interested in you. You have to trabalhar a sua autoestima<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Tens de perceber que \u00e9s perfeito tal como \u00e9s. Podes n\u00e3o ser perfeito para toda a gente, mas ser\u00e1s perfeito para aquela pessoa especial.<\/p>\n

Aguenta mais um pouco e ele vai encontrar-te.<\/p>\n

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