It’s perfectly normal if you two disagree about something. However, there is no need for ser mau<\/a>. Don’t try to put her down \u2013 it won’t lift you up!<\/p>\n I don’t care how angry you get: you simply mustn’t say any of these things unless you want to destruir o seu casamento<\/a>!<\/p>\n Translation: I hate you and I’m saying this to hurt your feelings. Quem quer estar numa <\/b>casamento sem amor<\/b><\/a>?<\/b><\/p>\n Ai! Esta est\u00e1 a doer,<\/b> and it’s probably the worst thing a husband can say to his wife.<\/p>\n Don’t compare your partner to anyone<\/b>e muito menos com a pessoa com quem j\u00e1 foi casado!<\/p>\n You know this is her weak spot, so don’t use it even if you’re fighting. You should protect her from your loved ones who clearly don’t like her.<\/p>\n Again, with the exes. Don’t mention them EVER!<\/p>\n Women need to hear these three magical words, even though you’re probably showing your love with action. You need to tell her you’re <\/b>ainda apaixonado<\/b> com ela! <\/b>Este \u00e9 especialmente o caso se ela linguagem do amor<\/a> s\u00e3o palavras de afeto.<\/p>\n N\u00e3o importa o qu\u00e3o zangado estejas, don’t bring your mother to the table<\/b>. Confia em mim, mais cedo ou mais tarde o tiro vai sair pela culatra!<\/p>\n Once again, you’re telling her desejas nunca ter casado<\/b> ela, e provavelmente odeia-a<\/a>.<\/p>\n It’s your job to aumentar a sua autoestima<\/a>para n\u00e3o o estragar ainda mais. Dar-lhe <\/b>valida\u00e7\u00e3o<\/b> se ela o pedir!<\/p>\n Os casamentos caem na rotina. No entanto, deve trabalhar para apimentar as coisas<\/b> em vez de culpar a sua mulher por isso.<\/p>\n She is doing her best. Besides, she didn’t become your personal chef when she said “I do”. If you don’t like her cooking, make your own meals.<\/b><\/p>\n Pe\u00e7a-lhe para ir consigo ao gin\u00e1sio ou algo subtil como isso, em vez de a insultar desta forma.<\/p>\n Well, maybe she’d be better at it if she had some help from you.<\/p>\n This is a common line people say to each other when they’re fighting, but trust me, it’s the worst thing a husband can say to his wife.<\/p>\n Aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer, don’t kick her so low and insult her physical appearance<\/b>. And, don’t olhar para outras mulheres<\/a> na sua presen\u00e7a!<\/p>\n Lembras-te de eu te ter dito para n\u00e3o comparares a tua mulher com as tuas ex-companheiras? Pois bem, don’t you dare compare her with other “better” wives either!<\/b><\/p>\n Deve sempre arranja tempo para ela.<\/b> Even though her problems might seem foolish to you, they’re obviously bothering her \u2013 otherwise, she wouldn’t bring them up.<\/p>\n Esta \u00e9 provavelmente a pior coisa que um marido pode dizer \u00e0 sua mulher. Confia em mim: ela est\u00e1 a fazer muito mais do que se pode ver<\/b>. Don’t underestimate the effort she is giving to your family.<\/p>\n Not\u00edcia de \u00faltima hora: things going downhill is never one partner’s fault<\/b>. You’re both to blame for the state of your marriage so don’t virar tudo contra ela<\/a>! It’s impossible that you’re aquele que n\u00e3o faz nada de errado<\/a>.<\/p>\n This translates to: “Quem me dera ser solteira para poder dormir por a\u00ed tanto quanto quisesse.<\/b>”<\/p>\n You chose your wife, and it’s disrespectful to say that some other woman is prettier than her \u2013 even if we’re talking about a supermodel.<\/p>\n Well, you haven’t.<\/b><\/p>\n Again with the belittling! Trust me \u2013 ela estava a ir muito bem sem ti<\/b>.<\/p>\n You’ll just ruin her self-esteem with this one.<\/p>\n Claro que deves ter os teus amigos homens. Mas ela quer ver-se como a tua melhor amiga.<\/p>\n Se magoou-a<\/a>\u00c9 uma coisa importante e deve ser tratada como tal.<\/p>\n No, she’s not \u2013 she’s just expressing her feelings.<\/p>\n Todas as mulheres querem acreditar em contos de fadas. Em vez disto, diga-lhe que ela o deixou de rastos<\/b>.<\/p>\n If you’re looking for the worst thing a husband can say to his wife, you’ve probably found it.<\/p>\n No, you’re not; seu <\/b>o casamento est\u00e1 desfeito<\/b><\/a>.<\/b> Otherwise, she wouldn’t propose marriage counseling in the first place.<\/p>\n Guess what: you’re both responsible for intimidade f\u00edsica no seu casamento<\/a>. If you’re not satisfied with it, dar um pouco de brilho<\/b> para o seu quarto<\/b>.<\/p>\n S\u00f3 porque casaste com ela doesn’t mean that you should stop <\/b>seduzindo-a<\/b> e <\/b>ser rom\u00e2ntico<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n What makes you think you’re better than her? Trust me: you’re not. In fact, maybe she settled for less when she married you… she just never told you.<\/b><\/p>\n Esta d\u00f3i como o diabo. Significa que toda a vida dela contigo \u00e9 uma mentira.<\/p>\n Oh, e era t\u00e3o ing\u00e9nuo. What makes you think it wasn’t the other way around?<\/b><\/p>\n Don’t tackle her painful past. And, if you do, don’t forget one thing: She replaced him… she might as well replace you!<\/b><\/p>\n Ser infeliz com o seu casamento<\/a> is one thing. Telling your significant other you’re not planning on doing anything to salv\u00e1-lo<\/a> just means you’re a jerk.<\/p>\n You don’t have to share every little thing with your wife, especially if it doesn’t concern your marriage. However, this is not the way to say it!<\/p>\n Tradu\u00e7\u00e3o: Quero o meu <\/b>redes sociais<\/b> que pensem em mim como solteiro para que eu possa ser infiel sem grandes problemas.<\/b><\/p>\n Well, if you hadn’t brought it up then, what’s the point of mentioning it now?<\/p>\n Adivinhem l\u00e1: she’s your choice.<\/b><\/p>\n Tradu\u00e7\u00e3o: I hate the fact that we’re a <\/b>casal<\/b>. Quero voltar a ser solteira.<\/b><\/p>\n You two are a team, and it’s about time you start acting that way.<\/p>\n I don’t care how long you two have been together: a tua mulher espera sempre alguma coisa para um encontro importante.<\/b> It doesn’t have to be an expensive gift; it’s the thought that counts.<\/p>\n I’m not talking about o seu anivers\u00e1rio<\/a> here only. It’s the same about her birthday, Christmas, or Valentine’s day.<\/p>\n That’s exactly why she needs extra time for self-care; so she doesn’t go insane.<\/p>\n What’s the point of having a significant other? In that case, you should have just stayed single.<\/p>\n Tradu\u00e7\u00e3o: I’m a <\/b>marido ego\u00edsta<\/b><\/a>e eu s\u00f3 me preocupo com o meu pr\u00f3prio bem-estar.<\/b><\/p>\n If it still bothers her, it means you haven’t resolved it in a healthy way.<\/p>\n You’re just bringing her insecurities to the surface. As angry as you are right now, please don’t ever tell her this.<\/p>\n You don’t have to do anything about it \u2013 assuntos emocionais<\/b><\/a> ferem da mesma forma que as f\u00edsicas.<\/b> If you tell her you’re apaixonado por outra pessoa<\/a>, you’ll break her heart.<\/p>\n As if being unfaithful weren’t enough, you have the audacity to act like it’s not a <\/b>grande coisa<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n Desvalorizar o seu valor won’t make you feel better about yourself,<\/b> and it won’t turn you into a marido dominante<\/a>.<\/p>\n Don’t ever play this card. The kids probably “love” you more because finge ser o pol\u00edcia bom<\/b> \u00e0 volta da casa.<\/p>\n You’re implying that you did her a favor when you married her. What woman wouldn’t be crushed after hearing this?<\/b><\/p>\n It doesn’t matter what you did; since it was directed to you, she’ll take it personally.<\/p>\n Tradu\u00e7\u00e3o: I’m giving you a compliment so I could avoid my responsibilities as a father.<\/b><\/p>\n Deixem-me dizer-vos porqu\u00ea: Porque, provavelmente, ela passa os dias a cozinhar, a limpar e a tomar conta dos mi\u00fados.<\/b><\/p>\n Besides, you see her when she wakes up, when she is sick, or when she is dead tired. You can’t expect her to look the same as the woman you were seeing a few times a week on date nights can you?<\/p>\n It’s not like she enjoys it. But, I guess she has no other choice because you’re clearly not making any changes in your behavior.<\/b><\/p>\n Tradu\u00e7\u00e3o: Est\u00e1s com um aspeto horr\u00edvel.<\/b><\/p>\n Tradu\u00e7\u00e3o: I wasn’t paying attention, and I deliberately wasn’t listening because I was scrolling through <\/b>redes sociais<\/b> ou a ver televis\u00e3o. <\/b>Basicamente, tudo \u00e9 mais interessante do que tu.<\/p>\n Vamos l\u00e1, it’s probably the only thing you do around the house<\/b>. Don’t expect her to take over that chore as well.<\/p>\n Todos n\u00f3s sabemos you won’t<\/b>. You’re just saying it to get her off your neck or in hopes she’ll do it instead. Well, guess what: she knows you’re lying, and that’s why this sentence upsets her so much.<\/p>\n Isto sem concorr\u00eancia a <\/b>pior coisa<\/b> um marido pode dizer \u00e0 sua mulher no quarto.<\/b> First of all, you’re pressuring her to finish. Secondly, if you p\u00f4-la na disposi\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>, she’d probably get there sooner.<\/p>\n Tradu\u00e7\u00e3o: Esqueci-me disso. OU, I didn’t think keeping my promise to you was important enough.<\/b><\/p>\n Esta \u00e9 universal, mas tamb\u00e9m se aplica \u00e0 sua mulher. Lembre-se: a pior coisa que um marido pode dizer \u00e0 sua mulher que est\u00e1 a meio de um esgotamento nervoso \u00e9 para se acalmar. F\u00e1-lo-ia se pudesse.<\/b><\/p>\n Se ela quer falar sobre isso, significa que \u00e9 importante para ela. Ou\u00e7a-a, quanto mais n\u00e3o seja.<\/p>\n Homens emocionalmente maduros<\/b><\/a> dizer <\/b>they’re sorry<\/b> quando fazem asneiras.<\/b> It’s about time you join the club.<\/p>\n Errado! Voc\u00ea deve lamentar-se<\/a> por ter feito algo errado<\/b> em primeiro lugar!<\/p>\n Deixa-me dar-te uma resposta em vez dela: \u00c9 bom n\u00e3o ter de pagar a um chefe pessoal, a uma empregada de limpeza, a uma secret\u00e1ria e a uma ama?<\/b><\/p>\n Bem, you wouldn’t be hearing them if you paid attention for the <\/b>primeira vez<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n I bet she adores her mother, but don’t compare the two. Unless you want to start a huge fight, that is.<\/p>\n Sim, ela vai.<\/b> E n\u00e3o h\u00e1 absolutamente nenhum objetivo em apontar isso, a n\u00e3o ser ofend\u00ea-la.<\/p>\n Oh, now it’s her son or daughter just because they did something you don’t approve of. But, when they make you proud, they’re daddy’s children, aren’t they?<\/p>\n If you don’t like what you see, start cleaning and tidying it up; <\/b>it’s as simple as that.<\/p>\n Portanto, basicamente pretende que a licen\u00e7a <\/b>ser infiel<\/b>?<\/b> Look, it’s one thing if you two had an rela\u00e7\u00e3o aberta<\/a> desde o in\u00edcio.<\/p>\n In that case, it’s clear that you’re both up to it. But, coming with this kind of suggestion out of the blue is a big, fat no.<\/p>\n You’re just being rude and no a mulher quer um marido desrespeitoso<\/a>. Agree to disagree, but don’t ever say something like this.<\/p>\n First of all, you shouldn’t compare these types of love. Secondly, this implies that she is not your family. Thirdly, nunca se pode <\/b>escolher a tua fam\u00edlia em vez dela<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n J\u00e1 ouviste falar de co-parentalidade? Era da vossa responsabilidade cuidar do vosso filho por nascer, mas ningu\u00e9m vos obrigava a casar com a m\u00e3e dele.<\/b> It was your choice, and it’s unnecessary to bring it up now.<\/p>\n Esta \u00e9 provavelmente a pior coisa que um marido pode dizer \u00e0 sua mulher. Acredita em mim: h\u00e1 muitas outras formas mais educadas de declarar a tua insatisfa\u00e7\u00e3o no quarto.<\/p>\n Repete comigo: Sem \u00fatero <\/b>\u2013<\/b> sem opini\u00e3o!<\/b><\/p>\n Tradu\u00e7\u00e3o: you’re too stupid to understand it. I’m smarter than you just because I am a man.<\/b><\/p>\n You can’t expect her to be the same careless young girl she was when you met her. Now, she has tons of problems bothering her, which torn\u00e1-la muito negativa<\/a>. Just make sure you’re not one of them!<\/p>\n Nobody wants to hear this. But, if you’re wondering se se deve divorciar<\/a>, \u00e9 preciso diz\u00ea-lo em voz alta.<\/p>\n No entanto, please don’t say it just to hurt her feelings<\/b>. These words have a lot of meaning, and don’t pronounce this sentence if you’re not completely sure o vosso casamento acabou<\/a>.<\/p>\n Ser abusivo, ego\u00edsta, desrespeitoso e infiel<\/b> s\u00e3o provavelmente as piores coisas que podes fazer \u00e0 tua mulher. No entanto, n\u00e3o a amar o suficiente<\/b> vai partir-lhe o cora\u00e7\u00e3o mais do que qualquer outra coisa!<\/p>\n Now that you’ve learned what the worst thing a husband can say to his wife is, please avoid each one of these sentences.<\/p>\n Here’s some conselhos matrimoniais<\/a>: Lembrem-se sempre de ter cuidado com as vossas palavras. <\/b>Once they are said, they can’t be erased or forgotten.<\/p>\n Tamb\u00e9m pode interessar-lhe: <\/p>\n 10 maneiras de lidar com um marido traidor<\/a><\/p>\n 10 perguntas a fazer ao seu c\u00f4njuge antes de ir a um aconselhamento matrimonial<\/a><\/p>\n 5 maneiras eficazes de devolver a velha fa\u00edsca ao seu casamento<\/a><\/p>\n O que deve fazer quando o seu c\u00f4njuge lhe diz coisas que o magoam?<\/a><\/p>\n Se o seu marido faz estas 10 coisas, ele \u00e9 o melhor marido do mundo<\/a><\/p>\n 50 sinais dolorosos de que o seu marido j\u00e1 n\u00e3o est\u00e1 apaixonado por si<\/a><\/p>\n O guia definitivo sobre como seduzir a sua mulher<\/a><\/p>\nA pior coisa que um marido pode dizer \u00e0 sua mulher: a lista definitiva<\/h2>\n
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<\/h2>\n1. I’ve never loved you<\/h3>\n
2. Arrependo-me do dia em que casei contigo<\/h3>\n
3. Eu amava mais a minha ex-mulher do que a ti<\/h3>\n
4. Todos os meus bons amigos e familiares tinham raz\u00e3o quando me disseram para n\u00e3o casar contigo<\/h3>\n
5. Gostava de ter casado com a minha namorada do liceu<\/h3>\n
6. Porque \u00e9 que tenho de estar sempre a dizer que te amo, se j\u00e1 o disse uma vez?<\/h3>\n
7. It’s no surprise your mother-in-law doesn’t love you<\/h3>\n
8. Gostava de poder apagar todos os nossos anos de casamento<\/h3>\n
9. You’re completely worthless<\/h3>\n
10. Acho mais interessante passar o tempo nas redes sociais do que passar tempo consigo<\/h3>\n
11. You’re a terrible cook<\/h3>\n
12. \u00c9 melhor perderes algum peso<\/h3>\n
13. You’re a bad mother and I wish I never had children with you<\/h3>\n
14. I don’t know what got into my head when I married you<\/h3>\n
15. It’s no wonder you have self-esteem issues. I mean, just look at yourself<\/h3>\n
16. Look at my good friend. Don’t you see how his wife treats him? Why can’t you be the same?<\/h3>\n
17. I’m loaded with the stress of work. I can’t deal with your problems right now<\/h3>\n
18. You don’t work. All you do is take care of the house and the kids. That’s not a real job<\/h3>\n
19. Tudo o que \u00e9 mau no nosso casamento \u00e9 culpa tua<\/h3>\n
20. Tenho saudades da minha vida de solteiro<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n21. That woman is more beautiful than you. Why can’t you look like her?<\/h3>\n
22. Gostava de ter casado com a minha ex-namorada<\/h3>\n
23. Eras um z\u00e9-ningu\u00e9m at\u00e9 me conheceres<\/h3>\n
24. I can’t sleep with you anymore<\/h3>\n
25. You’re not my best friend<\/h3>\n
26. It’s not such a big deal. Don’t you see that you’re overreacting?<\/h3>\n
27. Aren’t you being too emotional?<\/h3>\n
28. When I saw you for the first time, I didn’t like you<\/h3>\n
29. Acabei por casar contigo s\u00f3 porque eras conveniente<\/h3>\n
30. I don’t want to visit the marriage counselor. I think we’re doing just fine<\/h3>\n
31. Our sex life is awful and it’s your fault<\/h3>\n
32. I don’t want to take you out on a date night. We’re married; what’s the point of date nights anyhow?<\/h3>\n
33. Contentei-me com menos quando casei contigo<\/h3>\n
34. Eu estava nunca estive realmente apaixonado por ti<\/a>. S\u00f3 te pedi para casares comigo porque o meu rel\u00f3gio biol\u00f3gico estava a contar<\/h3>\n
35. Enganaste-me para que casasse contigo<\/h3>\n
36. It’s no wonder your ex-husband left you<\/h3>\n
37. I don’t think we have a happy marriage and I’m not willing to do anything about improving it<\/h3>\n
38. It’s not something you need to know. Let me have my own secrets!<\/h3>\n
39. Quero esconder o nosso casamento nas redes sociais. Por que raz\u00e3o devo publicar fotografias contigo?<\/h3>\n
40. I wanted a divorce last year, but I stayed because I didn’t know where else to go<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n41. You’re the worst part of my life. If it weren’t for you, I’d be much happier<\/h3>\n
42. I don’t want to hang out with other married couples. I want to go clubbing on my own all the time<\/h3>\n
43. That’s your problem. Learn to deal with it instead of asking me for help all the time<\/h3>\n
44. I didn’t get you anything for our anniversary. Don’t be mad… who keeps track of those dates anymore?<\/h3>\n
45. You don’t need time for self-care. You’re always with the kids. It’s not like you have a real job.<\/h3>\n
46. I don’t see the need to consult with you. I’ll do what I want anyhow<\/h3>\n
47. I don’t care about your feelings<\/h3>\n
48. Ultrapassa isso; aconteceu no ano passado!<\/h3>\n
49. I can’t stand looking at you.<\/h3>\n
50. I’m in love with someone else<\/h3>\n
51. I slept with another woman, but it didn’t mean anything so you shouldn’t make a fuss about it<\/h3>\n
52. I’m better than you in everything<\/h3>\n
53. It’s no wonder the kids love me more than they love you<\/h3>\n
54. If I hadn’t married you, you’d die alone. I mean, who else would have wanted you?<\/h3>\n
55. Don’t take it so personally<\/h3>\n
56. You’re better with the kids than I am<\/h3>\n
57. I remember how you were when we first met. Why can’t you look like that again?<\/h3>\n
58. Quando \u00e9 que vais parar de me chatear?<\/h3>\n
59. Vais mesmo sair com essa roupa?<\/h3>\n
60. O que \u00e9 que disse?<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n61. I can’t take out the trash right now<\/h3>\n
62. I’ll do it in a minute<\/h3>\n
63. J\u00e1 acabaste?<\/h3>\n
64. I know I promised, but I just didn’t find the time<\/h3>\n
65. Can’t you just calm down?<\/h3>\n
66. I don’t think we have to talk about it<\/h3>\n
67. I won’t apologize<\/h3>\n
68. I’m sorry you felt that way<\/h3>\n
69. \u00c9 bom n\u00e3o ter de se preocupar com as finan\u00e7as?<\/h3>\n
70. I’m sick and tired of hearing the same things over and over again<\/h3>\n
71. You’re slowly becoming just like your mother<\/h3>\n
72. Vais mesmo comer isso tudo?<\/h3>\n
73. O seu filho\/filha fez alguma coisa<\/h3>\n
74. Porque \u00e9 que a casa tem este aspeto? O que estiveste a fazer durante todo o dia?<\/h3>\n
75. Quero um casamento aberto<\/h3>\n
76. When I need your opinion, I’ll ask for it<\/h3>\n
77. Gosto mais de todos os membros da minha fam\u00edlia do que de ti<\/h3>\n
78. S\u00f3 casei contigo porque estavas gr\u00e1vida<\/h3>\n
79. Can’t you be better in bed?<\/h3>\n
80. You’re not the first woman to go through childbirth. Toughen up a little<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n81. You wouldn’t get it<\/h3>\n
82. Estar perto de ti costumava ser divertido<\/h3>\n
83. Quero divorciar-me<\/h3>\n
What’s the worst thing you can do to your wife?<\/h2>\n
Para terminar:<\/h2>\n