{"id":143827,"date":"2022-02-02T21:28:27","date_gmt":"2022-02-02T21:28:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=143827"},"modified":"2022-09-21T12:38:50","modified_gmt":"2022-09-21T12:38:50","slug":"sinais-de-que-ele-finge-amar-te","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sinais-de-que-ele-finge-amar-te\/","title":{"rendered":"Ele ama-te (ou n\u00e3o)? 21 Sinais claros de que ele PRETENDE te amar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I know you feel confused. One part of you wants to know the truth, and the other would be happy living a lie as long as you&#8217;re still with him.<\/p>\n<p><b>Mas, por muito que doa, mereces saber o que ele realmente sente por ti.<\/b> Being with a guy who doesn&#8217;t care about you is nothing but a waste of your precious time.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve been where you are.<b> Levei anos para finalmente <\/b><b>romper<\/b><b> com ele.<\/b> I learned my lesson the hard way&#8230; but I still learned it.<\/p>\n<p><b>Embora a quest\u00e3o aqui seja:<\/b> \u00c9 mesmo necess\u00e1rio <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-acabar-com-alguem-que-se-ama\/\">deix\u00e1-lo<\/a>? E se o seu instinto estiver errado? Quais s\u00e3o os sinais de que ele finge que a ama?<\/p>\n<p>Stay with me, and let&#8217;s find out together!<\/p>\n<h2>21 Sinais claros de que ele finge amar-te<\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sera-que-ele-me-ama-22-maneiras-de-saber-que-ele-so-tem-olhos-para-si\/\">O seu amor \u00e9 verdadeiro<\/a>? Estes 21 sinais dar-lhe-\u00e3o a resposta:<\/p>\n<h3>1. You just don&#8217;t feel the love at all<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-143829 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher imagin\u00e1ria com cabelo frisado sentada numa mesa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re probably confused right now. You&#8217;re wondering if your insecurities are lying to you or if <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/34-sinais-de-que-ja-nao-ama\/\">he really doesn&#8217;t have feelings for you<\/a>. Which is it? Well, I&#8217;m here to help!<\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s do it this way.<\/p>\n<p><b>Quero que pensem por um momento em todas as pessoas que vos amam.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><i>Em quantas pessoas pensaste? Como \u00e9 que elas o fazem sentir? Como \u00e9 que o tratam? O que te faz ter tanta certeza do seu amor?<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>If you&#8217;re capable of sensing their love but not that of your boyfriend, then the problem is definitely him.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>SEMPRE <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/confiar-no-seu-instinto-em-relacao-a-alguem\/\">confie no seu instinto<\/a>!<\/p>\n<h3>2. Parece que nunca se consegue sair da rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h3>\n<p>A man who loves you is eager to show you off to the world. He wants to scream your name and tell everyone that you&#8217;re his woman.<\/p>\n<p><b>If he&#8217;s not yet ready to do that, it might be one of the signs he pretends to <\/b><b>amo-te<\/b><b>. He enjoys the benefits of your relationship but doesn&#8217;t care enough to make it official.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-ele-joga-estes-7-jogos-imaturos-da-relacao-esta-a-desperdicar-o-seu-tempo\/\">He&#8217;s just wasting your time<\/a> because he doesn&#8217;t have anyone else to turn to. Please, don&#8217;t let him treat you like that anymore.<\/p>\n<p>You should be with someone who&#8217;s proud to call you his own. Don&#8217;t ever settle for less.<\/p>\n<h3>3. He doesn&#8217;t share much with you<\/h3>\n<p><i>Does everyone know what&#8217;s going on in his life but you? Do you find out important stuff from a random person on the street?<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>If so, that&#8217;s a MAJOR <\/b><b>bandeira vermelha<\/b><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-coisas-que-o-homem-ama-loucamente\/\"><b>Se um homem est\u00e1 apaixonado por ti<\/b><\/a><b>, you&#8217;ll be his go-to person for EVERYTHING. <\/b>He&#8217;ll do it not because he has to but because he genuinely wants to. His love for you urges him to share every little thing that happens during the day.<\/p>\n<p><b>If your man lacks these traits, that&#8217;s one of the <\/b><b>sinais seguros<\/b><b> ele finge <\/b><b>amo-te<\/b><b>.<\/b> Don&#8217;t put up with it any longer!<\/p>\n<h3>4. You&#8217;re the only one making an effort<\/h3>\n<p>He never initiates conversation. You&#8217;re probably <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/para-de-arranjar-desculpas-o-homem-trata-como-merda\/\">desculpando-se com ele<\/a>, but deep down, you know he just doesn&#8217;t care enough.<\/p>\n<p><b>Encontra sempre uma forma de o surpreender e de o fazer feliz, mas ele n\u00e3o aprecia nem retribui.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>When you go out, you feel like a circus clown that&#8217;s meant to make him laugh. <b>He puts so much pressure on you and blames you when you don&#8217;t live up to his expectations, even though he doesn&#8217;t lift a finger.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Why not try to put in as much effort as he does? I bet he won&#8217;t like being treated the way he treats you!<\/p>\n<h3>5. O seu comportamento muda em frente de outras pessoas<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-143830 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk.jpg\" alt=\"os amigos sentam-se no cais e conversam\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ah, the &#8221;nice guys.&#8221; They will charm you and make you feel special only to get your attention, but they don&#8217;t mean any of it. What they feel for you isn&#8217;t <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor-verdadeiro-beijos-palavras-doces\/\">amor verdadeiro<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not even <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/diferencas-entre-amor-e-paixao\/\">paix\u00e3o<\/a>. They probably just like their ability to have you wrapped around their little finger by whispering sweet words into your ear&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><b>Of course, this is not your fault. It&#8217;s not easy to see through someone&#8217;s lies. But, you can start by noticing how he treats you in <\/b><b>\u00e0 frente dos outros<\/b><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>One day, he&#8217;s all cute and loving, and the next day, he&#8217;s cold as ice. He suddenly turns into a misogynist full of sexist jokes about women, and he dismisses your every word because he&#8217;s got to be &#8216;the man.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p><b>Por favor, n\u00e3o se esque\u00e7am desta importante pe\u00e7a de <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/conselhos-de-relacionamento-para-mulheres-12-coisas-empoderadoras-que-deve-saber\/\"><b>conselhos de relacionamento para mulheres<\/b><\/a><b>:<\/b><\/p>\n<p>If he &#8221;loves&#8221; you only behind closed doors but not in front of others, that&#8217;s one of the obvious signs he pretends to love you.<\/p>\n<h3>6. Ningu\u00e9m sabe da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h3>\n<p>A little privacy can definitely be exciting, but this guy isn&#8217;t just keeping your relationship private \u2013 He is HIDING the fact that he&#8217;s in a relationship with you from EVERYONE!<\/p>\n<p><b>Mas porqu\u00ea?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Who knows! Maybe his family members don&#8217;t approve of you, or his friends don&#8217;t like you. Or maybe he wants other women to think he&#8217;s single so he can still flirt with them.<\/p>\n<p><b>It&#8217;s especially awful if he doesn&#8217;t even tell you why he&#8217;s doing it. He doesn&#8217;t think you deserve to hear the truth. But, oh, you so do!<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Pergunte-lhe abertamente qual \u00e9 a sua proposta. Se ele se recusar a dizer-lhe, afaste-se. Se ele lhe disser a verdade, mas vir que continua a n\u00e3o ter planos para o futuro, afaste-se na mesma.<\/p>\n<p>Um homem que te ama de verdade nunca te faria passar por uma coisa dessas!<\/p>\n<h3>7. N\u00e3o h\u00e1 piadas internas disparatadas<\/h3>\n<p>It&#8217;s so evident when two people enjoy each other&#8217;s company. You can just <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sinais-fortes-de-quimica\/\">sentir a qu\u00edmica no ar<\/a>. Por vezes, basta uma palavra para os fazer desatar a rir.<\/p>\n<p><b>T\u00eam a sua pr\u00f3pria linguagem que mais ningu\u00e9m \u00e0 sua volta entende.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>So, if you&#8217;re looking for signs he pretends to love you, think about how you both feel in each other&#8217;s presence.<\/p>\n<p><i>\u00c9 agrad\u00e1vel, ou temos sempre de dar espet\u00e1culo para depois chegarmos a casa exaustos?<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>If you feel happier and more peaceful in his absence, that&#8217;s a <\/b><b>sinal revelador<\/b><b> que algo est\u00e1 MUITO errado.<\/b><\/p>\n<h3>8. Ele nunca te chama<\/h3>\n<p>Se este tipo nunca se d\u00e1 ao trabalho de pegar no telefone e ligar-lhe, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sinais-de-que-ele-nao-quer-uma-relacao-consigo\/\">he just doesn&#8217;t care about you<\/a> de todo.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ele pode arranjar as desculpas que quiser, mas a verdade mant\u00e9m-se: Se algu\u00e9m quiser ter tempo para si, ter\u00e1.<\/b> Ningu\u00e9m est\u00e1 assim t\u00e3o ocupado.<\/p>\n<p>Isto \u00e9 especialmente verdade se essa pessoa estiver numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o de compromisso consigo.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 claro que ele tem a sua pr\u00f3pria vida para cuidar, mas um bom namorado colocaria sempre a sua mulher no topo da sua lista de prioridades.<\/p>\n<p><b>But, if he NEVER makes time for you, that&#8217;s not a sign of a loving and <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/principais-regras-de-relacionamento\/\"><b>rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t believe his lies anymore. Look at his actions instead. If he is busy literally all the time, that&#8217;s just one of the signs he pretends to love you&#8230;<\/p>\n<h3>9. You don&#8217;t feel all that happy<\/h3>\n<p><i>Sente-se infeliz de cada vez que ele fala consigo? Perdeu a liga\u00e7\u00e3o que tinha inicialmente com ele?<\/i><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-ser-honesto-consigo-proprio\/\"><b>Seja honesto consigo pr\u00f3prio<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b> You actually already have the answer to your question; you&#8217;re just afraid to face the facts.<\/p>\n<p>But, sadly, it\u2019s necessary&#8230; unless you want to be stuck in a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sinais-de-um-casamento-sem-amor\/\">rela\u00e7\u00e3o sem amor <\/a>para sempre.<\/p>\n<p><b>You need to trust your feelings. When you&#8217;re unhappy, you just know it. You don&#8217;t need to listen to anyone&#8217;s advice or his lies.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Agora, quero que respirem fundo e pensem nestas quest\u00f5es:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">Achas que mereces ser assim t\u00e3o infeliz?<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">Aren&#8217;t you sad that you&#8217;re missing out on happiness with someone else?<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">Are you really going to waste your life being with a guy who doesn&#8217;t appreciate you?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>10. He doesn&#8217;t take your feelings into consideration<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-143831 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel.jpg\" alt=\"um homem e uma mulher sentam-se no sof\u00e1 e discutem\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If your man has a 24\/7 job of insulting you and making you feel unworthy, his love for you isn&#8217;t as real as you might&#8217;ve thought.<\/p>\n<p><b>He probably justifies himself by saying that he&#8217;s just &#8216;brutally honest,&#8217; but that&#8217;s nothing more than an excuse to be cruel to you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>He doesn&#8217;t even apologize if he takes it too far because your feelings aren&#8217;t his concern.<\/p>\n<p><b>Por outro lado, se ferir os sentimentos DELE, a hist\u00f3ria \u00e9 bem diferente.<\/b> He&#8217;ll pin you with awful labels and be more than happy to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-sinais-de-que-se-esta-a-fazer-de-vitima\/\">fazer-se de v\u00edtima<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>In reality, you&#8217;re just copying his own behavior, but he clearly doesn&#8217;t see you as equals.<\/p>\n<p>Queres mesmo um tipo como este na tua vida?<\/p>\n<h3>11. You&#8217;re there to fulfill HIS wishes<\/h3>\n<p>What YOU want doesn&#8217;t matter. There is no YOU at all. To him, you&#8217;re simply someone who exists to please him.<\/p>\n<p><b>He doesn&#8217;t see relationships as a bond between two people who are equal to each other. <\/b>No. Even if he claims that he&#8217;ll be there for you, his actions prove otherwise.<\/p>\n<p>When he&#8217;s bored, he&#8217;ll ask you out. If you reject him, you&#8217;ll be the bad guy. But when he rejects you, that&#8217;s totally fine, and you&#8217;re the crazy one for overreacting.<\/p>\n<p><b>Tudo o que lhe interessa \u00e9 que lhe aumentes o ego e que ele se sinta digno.<\/b> P\u00e1ra de lhe dar essa satisfa\u00e7\u00e3o. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/queridas-mulheres-merecem-ser-escolhidas\/\">Mereces ser amado<\/a> por quem realmente \u00e9s.<\/p>\n<h3>12. Apanha-o a namoriscar com outras mulheres<\/h3>\n<p>A aud\u00e1cia! Este tipo de homem seduzir\u00e1 descarada e abertamente outras mulheres e depois acusa-a de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/os-homens-fazem-para-deixar-as-mulheres-com-ciumes\/\">ter ci\u00fames<\/a>! Quero dizer, o qu\u00ea mesmo?<\/p>\n<p>He thinks it&#8217;s okay to disrespect you like that. <b>He feels like his need to talk to someone else needs to be satisfied because, after all, you don&#8217;t have the right to restrict his freedom.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>But, that&#8217;s the thing. Your jealousy isn&#8217;t a way of taking away his freedom but rather of demanding <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-respeitar-uma-mulher-numa-relacao\/\">o respeito que todas as mulheres merecem numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Remember \u2013 if he doesn&#8217;t see how wrong this is, it is one of the signs he pretends to love you.<\/p>\n<h3>13. S\u00f3 falas de coisas superficiais<\/h3>\n<p><i>Ser\u00e1 que ele s\u00f3 est\u00e1 interessado em <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/tipos-de-intimidade\/\"><i>intimidade f\u00edsica<\/i><\/a><i>? Ele alguma vez <\/i><i>abrir<\/i><i> para si?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>When a man isn&#8217;t serious about you, he will stick to lighter topics. He will laugh with you but won&#8217;t ever dig deeper because he doesn&#8217;t care about connecting with you.<\/p>\n<p><b>Se partilhar algo importante sobre si, ele mudar\u00e1 de assunto de bom grado. Se lhe pedir para lhe contar a sua hist\u00f3ria, ele transformar\u00e1 tudo numa piada.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>When he touches you, he only does it to satisfy his lust. There is no emotional element to ANYTHING he does. It&#8217;s very easy to sense this if you pay attention.<\/p>\n<p>P.S. It&#8217;s also possible that he has <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-razoes-pelas-quais-tantos-homens-sofrem-de-problemas-de-compromisso\/\">quest\u00f5es de empenhamento<\/a>. In that case, give him some time&#8230; but not too much time. After all, you want a boyfriend, not a project!<\/p>\n<h3>14. He doesn&#8217;t give you his full attention<\/h3>\n<p>Todas as pistas est\u00e3o escondidas em <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-sua-linguagem-corporal-diz-algo-sobre-ele\/\">a sua linguagem corporal<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><i>Ele anda a olhar para outras mulheres enquanto <\/i><i>passar o tempo<\/i><i> with you? Does he stare at his phone a lot while you&#8217;re talking to him?<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>Estes s\u00e3o todos <\/b><b>sinais subtis<\/b><b> ele finge <\/b><b>amo-te<\/b><b>. He can&#8217;t fully focus on you because he just doesn&#8217;t care about what you have to say.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Um homem apaixonado por si n\u00e3o tira os olhos de cima de si!<\/p>\n<p>Toda a sua aten\u00e7\u00e3o ser\u00e1 dirigida para si porque ele se preocupa e quer que o saiba.<\/p>\n<h3>15. He&#8217;s a master manipulator<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-143832 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher at\u00f3nita fala observando um homem enquanto conversam \u00e0 mesa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I know it&#8217;s not always easy to notice signs of <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/gaslighting-8-exemplos-de-abuso-mental-brutal\/\">ilumina\u00e7\u00e3o artificial<\/a>, but you just know that something isn&#8217;t quite right&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><b>He always plays the victim while you&#8217;re the one to blame. And then you start feeling guilty even though you&#8217;re aware you did nothing wrong.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>If that feeling sounds familiar, then he is most likely gaslighting you. It&#8217;s not your fault.<\/p>\n<p><b>Homens com baixo <\/b><b>autoestima<\/b><b> seek power by hurting someone else because that&#8217;s the only way they can feel good about themselves.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t believe a word he says. Talk to someone you trust who will help you see what&#8217;s what.<\/p>\n<p>Quando um homem gosta genuinamente de si, ele vai <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/assumir-a-responsabilidade-pelos-seus-actos\/\">assumir a responsabilidade pelos seus actos<\/a>. Ele nunca te vai atirar as culpas para cima. Por isso, lembra-te que mereces muito mais.<\/p>\n<h3>16. He&#8217;s never there in your time of need<\/h3>\n<p>If you find yourself going through hard times alone while he&#8217;s out there having fun, that&#8217;s also one of the signs he pretends to love you.<\/p>\n<p><b>If he truly cared about you, he wouldn&#8217;t leave your side until he was sure you were okay. He would do his best to make your pain more bearable.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t settle for a guy who puts everything else before you. Do you really want someone you can&#8217;t rely on, someone who can watch you cry without even flinching?<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s time to accept that he&#8217;s just not worth it because only then can you <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-tirar-alguem-da-sua-cabeca\/\">seguir em frente<\/a> para algo melhor.<\/p>\n<h3>17. Os bons tempos passaram \u00e0 hist\u00f3ria<\/h3>\n<p>Do you know that feeling when you just leave your guy after a date, and you&#8217;re all smiley?<\/p>\n<p>Yeah. If that doesn&#8217;t happen to you anymore, that&#8217;s your intuition telling you that he only pretends to love you.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/fase-de-lua-de-mel\/\"><b>A fase de lua de mel<\/b><\/a><b> ended a long time ago. You barely see each other, and when you do, he just doesn&#8217;t try to make you feel special like he once did.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Encontrar-se \u00e9 mais uma obriga\u00e7\u00e3o do que algo que se faz por amor.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s even worse when you&#8217;re in a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relacionamento-a-distancia-teste-final-amor\/\">rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia<\/a>e, no entanto, j\u00e1 n\u00e3o tens nada para falar. Foi o meu caso, pelo menos.<\/p>\n<p><b>The words that come out of our mouths were there only to fill in the awkward silence. And then it suddenly hit me \u2013 This isn&#8217;t going to work!<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Trust me, when he loves you, you can&#8217;t ever get tired of each other.<\/p>\n<h3>18. As mentiras nunca acabam<\/h3>\n<p>I once read that &#8221;to love is to stop lying.&#8221; How very true that is!<\/p>\n<p>Quando gostamos de algu\u00e9m, queremos <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/8-maneiras-de-estabelecer-uma-ligacao-emocional-mais-profunda-com-o-seu-homem\/\">estabelecer uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o profunda com eles<\/a>, and you know you can&#8217;t do that if you&#8217;re not telling the truth.<\/p>\n<p><b>Assim, um dos <\/b><b>sinais claros<\/b><b> ele finge <\/b><b>amo-te<\/b><b> is when he keeps lying to you. Even his \u201c<\/b><b>Eu amo-te<\/b><b>&#8216;s\u201d feel fake.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>He has become so used to lying that you don&#8217;t even know who he really is.<\/p>\n<p>Do you really want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn&#8217;t value you enough to be honest with you?<\/p>\n<h3>19. He doesn&#8217;t care about your life at all<\/h3>\n<p><i>Interrompe-o quando come\u00e7a a falar para contar a sua pr\u00f3pria hist\u00f3ria? Ou pior ainda, ele est\u00e1 demasiado distra\u00eddo com a sua <\/i><i>redes sociais<\/i> <i>aplica\u00e7\u00f5es<\/i><i> para vos prestar aten\u00e7\u00e3o no <\/i><i>primeiro lugar<\/i><i>?<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>Um homem que apenas finge <\/b><b>amo-te<\/b><b> nunca se importar\u00e3o com o que tens para dizer. <\/b>He won&#8217;t bother asking how your day went or what childhood events affected you the most.<\/p>\n<p><b>He won&#8217;t ask because, to him, you&#8217;re just&#8230; there.<\/b> He may label you as his girlfriend, but he doesn&#8217;t treat you as a loved one.<\/p>\n<p>So, yes, if you notice that he&#8217;s the one doing all the talking, that&#8217;s a big red flag.<\/p>\n<h3>20. He doesn&#8217;t respect you yet demands your respect<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-143833 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk.jpg\" alt=\"um homem e uma mulher sentam-se \u00e0 mesa e conversam\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Um dos sinais de que ele finge amar-te \u00e9 quando <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-coisas-a-fazer-se-estiver-a-ser-desrespeitado-na-sua-relacao\/\">he doesn&#8217;t respect you<\/a> mas exige o SEU respeito.<\/p>\n<p><b>Whenever you&#8217;re open about something that bothers you, he&#8217;s quick to judge you. You&#8217;re always the dramatic one who makes a fuss about nothing at all.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>He probably manages to convince you that you ARE wrong, but deep down, you know he just doesn&#8217;t respect you enough to listen to your wants and needs.<\/p>\n<p>In a nutshell, he disrespects you, but when you call him out on it, he acts like you&#8217;re the one who disrespected him.<\/p>\n<h3>21. Tudo o que sentes \u00e9 desilus\u00e3o<\/h3>\n<p>When you feel someone&#8217;s love, it fills you with energy and strength. Every time you think about them, it makes you so happy you might burst.<\/p>\n<p><b>Mas, quando pensamos na forma como o nosso homem nos ama, o nosso humor cai subitamente.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Parece que a sua vida amorosa se tornou numa desilus\u00e3o atr\u00e1s de outra. Mal se consegue lembrar da \u00faltima vez que foi genuinamente feliz.<\/p>\n<p>I hope you know that true love isn&#8217;t supposed to hurt. If you feel nothing but <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-lembretes-para-uma-rapariga-que-nao-viu-o-seu-desgosto-chegar\/\">desgosto<\/a>, then it&#8217;s not love.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sinais-de-que-ela-esta-a-fingir-que-o-ama\/\">13 sinais de que ela est\u00e1 a fingir que te ama: As pe\u00e7as que faltam<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>Ele ama-me, ele n\u00e3o me ama<\/h2>\n<p>Have you noticed any one of these signs he pretends to love you in your own relationship? I sure hope not, but if you have, don&#8217;t forget that you deserve much better.<\/p>\n<p><b>I know it&#8217;s hard to leave someone you love, but it&#8217;s even harder being with them despite knowing that they don&#8217;t reciprocate your feelings.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t turn your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/68-citacoes-sobre-amar-alguem-que-nao-nos-ama-de-volta\/\">amor n\u00e3o correspondido<\/a> into something poetic because that&#8217;s self-destructive. Keep the love in your heart, but don&#8217;t stay where you aren&#8217;t appreciated.<\/p>\n<p>No momento em que finalmente chegares a um lugar onde \u00e9s amado, ver\u00e1s que fizeste a escolha certa.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I know you feel confused. One part of you wants to know the truth, and the other would be happy living a lie as long as you&#8217;re still with him. But, as much as it hurts, you deserve to know how he truly feels about you. Being with a guy who doesn&#8217;t care about you&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":143836,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-143827","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Does-He-Love-You-Or-Not-21-Clear-Signs-He-PRETENDS-To-Love-You.-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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