{"id":144265,"date":"2022-02-10T15:16:54","date_gmt":"2022-02-10T15:16:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=144265"},"modified":"2022-11-20T22:10:34","modified_gmt":"2022-11-20T22:10:34","slug":"os-amigos-com-beneficios-falam-todos-os-dias","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/os-amigos-com-beneficios-falam-todos-os-dias\/","title":{"rendered":"Os amigos com benef\u00edcios conversam todos os dias? Regras para FWBs"},"content":{"rendered":"

You’re too busy or simply n\u00e3o est\u00e1 interessado em compromissos<\/a> at the moment, but you’d still like to satisfy your sexual desires from time to time. A guy or a girl you get along with is cute and single.<\/p>\n

A <\/b>sem restri\u00e7\u00f5es<\/b>-situa\u00e7\u00e3o anexa<\/b><\/a> \u00e9 tudo o que t\u00eam tempo ou energia para fazer, por isso decidem divertir-se juntos.<\/b><\/p>\n

It’s been going well for a while, but recently, they\u2019ve been blowing up your phone. Now you’re asking yourself, \u201cDo amigos com benef\u00edcios<\/a> talk every day?\u201d<\/p>\n

Os amigos com benef\u00edcios falam todos os dias?<\/h2>\n

Short answer, no. Friends with benefits don’t talk every day. Or at least they shouldn’t.<\/p>\n

Este <\/b>tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/b> \u00e9 tudo sobre manter a casualidade<\/b>. Juntam-se, co\u00e7am uma comich\u00e3o e seguem o seu caminho. Emocional e intimidade rom\u00e2ntica<\/a> isn’t a part of it.<\/p>\n

Dist\u00e2ncia<\/b> \u00e9 fundamental para o sucesso de uma <\/b>Rela\u00e7\u00e3o FWB<\/b>.<\/b> Falar com eles todos os dias torna-os uma parte mais importante da sua vida do que deveriam ser.<\/p>\n

Para a resposta longa, continue a ler.<\/p>\n

Com que frequ\u00eancia \u00e9 que os casais de namorados devem falar?<\/h2>\n

\"uma<\/h2>\n

Pode parecer duro, mas s\u00f3 devem falar um com o outro quando quiserem encontrar-se. Mensagens de texto casuais<\/a> \u00e9 proibido. Comunicar apenas para fazer liga\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> planos.<\/p>\n

A <\/b>rela\u00e7\u00e3o de amigos com benef\u00edcios<\/b><\/a> baseia-se no vosso desejo m\u00fatuo de intimidade sexual sem compromisso.<\/b> Este tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00f3 \u00e9 bem sucedido se se mantiver assim. Se um de v\u00f3s desenvolver sentimentos, algu\u00e9m vai ficar magoado de certeza.<\/p>\n

A forma de lidar com o acordo depende do facto de ter sido amigo ou conhecido ocasionalmente essa pessoa antes de adicionar o sexo \u00e0 mistura.<\/p>\n

If you weren’t that close to begin with, you should probably have no contact whatsoever unless you’re arranging to meet for sex.<\/b> Don’t try to get to know each other.<\/p>\n

Quando o seu atual FWB era um amigo \u00edntimo, as coisas tornam-se um pouco mais complicadas. O mais importante aqui \u00e9 ser claro e honesto comunica\u00e7\u00e3o<\/b> antes de concordarem em come\u00e7ar a ter rela\u00e7\u00f5es sexuais.<\/p>\n

If you’re part of the same friend group, you’ll likely keep seeing each other in that context. Still, you should keep all contact to a minimum.<\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9 que o teu namorado te manda mensagens todos os dias?<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

If you’ve been unlucky and developed feelings for your FWB<\/a>, you’re probably hoping that the answer to this question is something like “because feels.”<\/p>\n

Or you’re happy with the <\/b>acordo de amigos com benef\u00edcios<\/b> as it is, and you’re hoping that the texts you’ve been getting are anything but a sign of<\/b> interesse rom\u00e2ntico<\/b>.<\/p>\n

Existem v\u00e1rias raz\u00f5es poss\u00edveis para que o seu FWB<\/a> is texting you every day. I\u2019ll help you find your answer.<\/p>\n

1. They\u2019re uncertain about your relationship<\/h3>\n

Um acordo FWB \u00e9 uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o sexual. Ambos devem compreender claramente este facto. Discutiram as coisas com franqueza antes de decidirem tornar-se amigos com benef\u00edcios?<\/p>\n

Unless you’ve explicitly defined your relationship, some confusion may arise. <\/b>If you never said that it’s not a rela\u00e7\u00e3o de compromisso<\/a>, they may think that you’re moving in that direction.<\/p>\n

Podem ser <\/b>n\u00e3o se sabe o qu\u00ea <\/b>tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/b> eles querem<\/b><\/a>. <\/b>There’s also a chance that they had feelings for you before and agreed to an FWB, hoping you would become a couple. You can probably tell by the content of the texts they send.<\/p>\n

A melhor atitude a tomar \u00e9 recorrer a um <\/b>conversa honesta<\/b> com eles.<\/b> Diga-lhes como se sente e qual \u00e9 a sua posi\u00e7\u00e3o. A longo prazo, isto evitar\u00e1 que ambos fiquem magoados.<\/p>\n

2. They\u2019re taking the “friend” part seriously<\/h3>\n

If you were acquaintances before involving sex in your relationship, there’s no need to deepen your friendship at this point. The only text messages they should be sending you are ones about meeting up.<\/p>\n

Maybe they don’t know how these arrangements work and think they have to play the friend role as well. Talk to them and let them know what you expect and why you can’t talk every day.<\/b><\/p>\n

Se eram amigos antes, eles t\u00eam de compreender que a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o mudou. Algumas coisas que eram normais antes s\u00e3o inapropriadas numa situa\u00e7\u00e3o de FWB.<\/p>\n

Eles precisam de saber que a intimidade f\u00edsica associada ao afeto conduzir\u00e1 a sentimentos. Sabes o que se diz: <\/b>\u201cCatch flights, not feelings.\u201d<\/b><\/a> Unless that’s something you both want, someone will get hurt.<\/b><\/p>\n

If your friendship is very important to you, you can always go back to the way it was in the past. Conversely, it’s possible that both of you are hoping for a rela\u00e7\u00e3o efectiva<\/a>e pode descobrir se falar abertamente sobre isso.<\/p>\n

3. They want more of the “benefits” part<\/h3>\n

\"uma<\/h3>\n

If you’re getting “wyd” texts from your FWB partner every day, it’s very likely they just want to hook up every day. As long as you’re both on the same page, there’s nothing wrong with that. If that’s too often for you, let them know.<\/p>\n

Uma vez que um <\/b>Rela\u00e7\u00e3o FWB<\/b> centers around sex, it’s fair to expect that the sex is good. It’s a chance to <\/b>explorar a sua sexualidade<\/b><\/a> de uma forma que talvez n\u00e3o tenha sido capaz de fazer nas suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es anteriores.<\/b><\/p>\n

O sexo casual pode ser especialmente excitante. Deixe as suas inibi\u00e7\u00f5es (e qualquer no\u00e7\u00e3o de levar as coisas para outro n\u00edvel) em casa quando se encontrarem e divirtam-se. N\u00e3o tem nada a perder.<\/p>\n

4. They\u2019re keeping you on the hook<\/h3>\n

You’ve made things clear about the nature of your relationship. You’re having fun together, and neither of you is expecting romance. And yet they send you “good night” texts<\/a> e liga\u00e7\u00f5es para v\u00eddeos engra\u00e7ados do YouTube todos os dias.<\/p>\n

The reason could be that they’re aware that your relationship has an expiration date<\/b>. They like the arrangement, and they’re trying to keep you interested. Maybe you’re their only sexual partner, and they’re not looking to date. Your FWB wants to keep you hooked.<\/p>\n

Here’s the thing: rela\u00e7\u00f5es casuais<\/b><\/a> aren’t long-term.<\/b> Soon, someone will lose interest, and they’re afraid that it will be you. If they’re annoying you with their texts, just tell them to stop.<\/p>\n

5. They\u2019re catching feelings<\/h3>\n

A intimidade sexual \u00e9 algo que muitas vezes leva a liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional<\/b><\/a>, especially if you’re hoping that the other person feels the same.<\/p>\n

A n\u00e3o ser que tenham falado abertamente sobre o que querem e o que esperam antes de iniciarem uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o f\u00edsica, a pessoa pode n\u00e3o saber que quer manter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o casual.<\/b><\/p>\n

If that\u2019s what you want, don’t be afraid of hurting their feelings by telling them. The sooner you let them know that you’re not looking for an liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional<\/b>, mais f\u00e1cil ser\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Se quiser ter um <\/b>rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria<\/b><\/a> com eles, ent\u00e3o boas not\u00edcias! <\/b>Mesmo assim, fale com eles. Nunca menospreze a import\u00e2ncia de uma comunica\u00e7\u00e3o honesta. (Depois, envie-lhes uma mensagem de texto de volta e n\u00e3o se esque\u00e7a de adicionar emojis de cora\u00e7\u00e3o).<\/p>\n

Regras (n\u00e3o ditas) de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o FWB<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/h2>\n

Antes de iniciar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o FWB, deve ter como prioridade ter uma conversa honesta e chegar a acordo sobre as regras para evitar complica\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/b><\/p>\n

There’s one universal way to make all human relationships easier, and that’s to openly talk about what you feel and want. Easy to say, I know.<\/p>\n

Aqui est\u00e3o alguns FWB dicas de relacionamento<\/a> que pode fazer um amigos com benef\u00edcios<\/a> A situa\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 uma experi\u00eancia positiva para ambos.<\/p>\n

1. Certifique-se de que consegue lidar com um <\/b>Rela\u00e7\u00e3o FWB<\/b><\/h3>\n