{"id":144484,"date":"2022-02-14T20:07:04","date_gmt":"2022-02-14T20:07:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=144484"},"modified":"2022-02-24T10:48:31","modified_gmt":"2022-02-24T10:48:31","slug":"devo-enviar-uma-mensagem-de-parabens-ao-meu-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/devo-enviar-uma-mensagem-de-parabens-ao-meu-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"Devo enviar uma mensagem de feliz anivers\u00e1rio ao meu ex? 9 perguntas a fazer a si pr\u00f3prio"},"content":{"rendered":"

Your ex’s birthday is soon, and one thought keeps occupying your mind: \u201cDeve <\/i>Envio mensagens ao meu ex<\/i> feliz anivers\u00e1rio<\/i><\/a>\u2026??.\u201d <\/i>E, acreditem, eu sei como esses pensamentos podem ser avassaladores.<\/b><\/p>\n

I had the same dilemma once, and last week, my best friend was in the same situation. To be honest, I’m not a relationship expert, but I gave her some advice from my own experience, and it did help her make the best decision.<\/p>\n

Of course, our stories aren’t the same, and my intention isn’t to make you or prevent you from sending that text message. I’m only here to help you navigate through your decision-making process.<\/p>\n

Devo enviar uma mensagem de feliz anivers\u00e1rio ao meu ex? 9 perguntas a fazer a si pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n

I know that many of you are wondering, \u201cShould I wish my ex a happy birthday or not?\u201d right now, and, unfortunately, I can\u2019t give you a direct answer here. After all, it’s your call. <\/b>No entanto, prepar\u00e1-lo-ei para tomar a decis\u00e3o CERTA.<\/p>\n

Before you type the bday text message and send it to your ex, ask yourself the following questions, and I’m sure you won’t do anything you may regret later.<\/p>\n

1. Porque \u00e9 que queres desejar um feliz anivers\u00e1rio ao teu ex?<\/h3>\n

\"uma<\/h3>\n

Qual \u00e9 a verdadeira raz\u00e3o pela qual quer enviar-lhe uma mensagem de feliz anivers\u00e1rio? \u00c9 porque quer sinceramente desejar-lhe um ano feliz, ou tem outros motivos ocultos?<\/p>\n

Se pensa que o seu texto pode <\/i>fazer com que sintam a sua falta<\/i><\/a> or that it’ll bring you two back together, that is one of the worst <\/i>sinais de que<\/i>‘re still deeply in love with them and that you desperately want to <\/i>obter o seu <\/i>ex voltar<\/i><\/a>.<\/i><\/p>\n

\u00c9 claro que tem todo o direito de lutar pela pessoa que ama, mas esta n\u00e3o \u00e9, definitivamente, a forma de o fazer.<\/b><\/p>\n

2. Quando \u00e9 que se separaram?<\/h3>\n

Se a sua separa\u00e7\u00e3o <\/i>foi<\/i>‘t long ago, and you haven’t heard from each other since then, sending them a <\/i>texto de feliz anivers\u00e1rio<\/i> pode apenas tornar as coisas mais complicadas.<\/i><\/p>\n

O objetivo do <\/b>a regra de n\u00e3o contacto<\/b><\/a> \u00e9 que <\/b>deveria<\/b>‘t text, call, or see each other for some time, no matter what. <\/b>\u200b<\/p>\n

On the other hand, if there’s a good chance you’ll reconcile, you should wish them a happy birthday. Recordar os seus <\/i>dia especial<\/i> ir\u00e1 mostrar-lhes que ainda se preocupa genuinamente com eles e poder\u00e1 acelerar o processo de reconcilia\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/i><\/p>\n

3. Como \u00e9 que a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o terminou?<\/h3>\n

Est\u00e1 a amigos da sua ex-namorada\/namorado<\/a>? Teve uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o m\u00e1<\/a> or decide to split in a ‘civil’ way?<\/p>\n

Well, if your relationship wasn’t healthy, if you weren’t happy together and ended things in a very bad way, then why would you want to send them that text in the first place? It’s really unnecessary and won’t do either of you any good.<\/b><\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, se fosse <\/i>a <\/i>dumper<\/i><\/a>, I <\/i>seria<\/i>‘t advise wishing your ex a <\/i>feliz anivers\u00e1rio<\/i> porque podem ainda estar a guardar rancor de si.<\/i><\/p>\n

4. O per\u00edodo de n\u00e3o contacto ainda est\u00e1 em vigor?<\/h3>\n

\"uma<\/h3>\n

Se you’ve blocked your ex on social media<\/a> or vice versa after the breakup and haven\u2019t unblocked them, it means that the no contact period is still on.<\/p>\n

I know it’s their <\/b>dia especial<\/b> e que vos magoaria n\u00e3o lhes desejar um <\/b>feliz anivers\u00e1rio<\/b>, mas deve respeitar <\/b>as regras de n\u00e3o contacto<\/b><\/a> at\u00e9 ao fim.<\/b><\/p>\n

Then again, if you think that it’s time to break the silence, that both of you are ready to have a friendly talk, you can unblock them and send them a <\/i>feliz anivers\u00e1rio<\/i> texto. <\/i>No entanto, o texto deve ser curto e simples. Que seja apenas uma mensagem de anivers\u00e1rio normal para um amigo.<\/p>\n

5. Ainda sentes alguma coisa por eles?<\/h3>\n

E os seus sentimentos em rela\u00e7\u00e3o ao seu ex-namorado\/namorada? Ainda tem sentimentos rom\u00e2nticos por eles, ou simplesmente respeita-os e aprecia-os por causa do que j\u00e1 tiveram?<\/b><\/p>\n

Se ainda os ama, ent\u00e3o envie-lhes um <\/i>texto de feliz anivers\u00e1rio<\/i> pode apenas ferir os seus sentimentos.<\/i> Na verdade, a resposta deles pode prejudic\u00e1-lo.<\/p>\n

Por outro lado, se quiser desejar-lhes as maiores felicidades na sua <\/i>dia especial<\/i> because you still care for them as a friend, it’s completely okay to send them that <\/i>feliz anivers\u00e1rio<\/i> mensagem.<\/i><\/p>\n

6. Queres que o teu ex volte?<\/h3>\n

If your answer is yes, don’t think I’m going to judge you. However, do you really believe that a simple happy birthday text is enough to get your ex back?<\/p>\n

Se acha mesmo que \u00e9 a forma correcta de fazer com que sintam a sua falta e de os ter de volta, quem <\/i>sou eu<\/i> to stop you? However, if you want my sincere opinion, it’s a terribly <\/i>m\u00e1 ideia<\/i>.<\/i><\/p>\n

Tenha sempre em mente que existe uma boa raz\u00e3o para a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o <\/b>poderia<\/b>‘t succeed the <\/b>primeira vez<\/b>. <\/b>Vale mesmo a pena dar uma segunda oportunidade e acha que as coisas poderiam ser diferentes desta vez?<\/p>\n

7. \u00c9 esta a tua forma de encontrar uma conclus\u00e3o?<\/h3>\n

Se for, ent\u00e3o sa\u00fado inteiramente as vossas inten\u00e7\u00f5es. Se lhes enviar um <\/i>texto de feliz anivers\u00e1rio<\/i> ajud\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 <\/i>encontrar o fecho<\/i><\/a> you need, then do it and don’t even think about whether you’ll get a response or not.<\/i><\/p>\n

However, don’t forget what your intentions were, and don’t get your hopes up if you receive a response you weren’t hoping for.<\/p>\n

8. Gostarias que te desejassem um feliz anivers\u00e1rio?<\/h3>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

If things were the other way around, would you want them to send you a happy bday text, or even a merry Christmas, happy new year, or happy Valentine’s day text message? A mensagem deles f\u00e1-lo-ia sentir-se feliz ou s\u00f3 tornaria as coisas mais complicadas?<\/b><\/p>\n

You probably wouldn’t like to receive a text from your ex after you’ve finally managed to move on. It\u2019s the same thing for your ex… your <\/i>mensagem de texto<\/i> may make them happy, but it may also push them a step backward after they’ve finally started moving forward.<\/i><\/p>\n

9. Porque \u00e9 que est\u00e1s a reconsiderar?<\/h3>\n

You didn’t just type in your message and send it to your ex. You’re reconsidering it, weighing the pros and cons, and thinking about all the possible consequences.<\/i><\/p>\n

And I know why that is… Este \u00e9 um <\/b>grande coisa<\/b> for you, and you simply want to do what’s best for both of you.<\/b><\/p>\n

Even though you probably don’t want to admit it, you still have some romantic feelings for your ex-boyfriend\/girlfriend. You don’t know what this message may bring you, and the truth is, you’re so afraid of it, of the unknown.<\/p>\n

Deve enviar uma mensagem de feliz anivers\u00e1rio ao seu ex? Pr\u00f3s e contras<\/h2>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

Here’s a list of pros and cons when it comes to sending your ex a happy bday text. Espero que isto o fa\u00e7a reconsiderar o bot\u00e3o de envio e o ajude a tomar a melhor decis\u00e3o poss\u00edvel.<\/i><\/p>\n

Pr\u00f3s de enviar uma mensagem de anivers\u00e1rio ao seu ex<\/b><\/h3>\n

Talvez <\/b>they’ve already moved on <\/b><\/a>e iniciou um <\/b>nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/b> com outra pessoa.<\/b> Nesse caso, esse texto s\u00f3 vos traria recorda\u00e7\u00f5es do passado e recordaria velhas feridas que devem ficar no passado.<\/p>\n