{"id":144631,"date":"2022-02-23T13:52:40","date_gmt":"2022-02-23T13:52:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=144631"},"modified":"2022-07-15T09:46:33","modified_gmt":"2022-07-15T09:46:33","slug":"o-meu-ex-ja-me-esqueceu-ou-esta-apenas-zangado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-meu-ex-ja-me-esqueceu-ou-esta-apenas-zangado\/","title":{"rendered":"O meu ex j\u00e1 me esqueceu ou est\u00e1 apenas zangado? Tudo o que precisa de saber"},"content":{"rendered":"

O fim de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o pode ser emocionalmente desgastante. Uma mistura de emo\u00e7\u00f5es negativas complicadas, que podem durar muito tempo, domina-o.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Emo\u00e7\u00f5es como o luto causado pela perda, a m\u00e1goa que nasce de um sentimento de trai\u00e7\u00e3o e a raiva por se sentir injusti\u00e7ado podem emergir em ambos.
\nWhen some time after the breakup has passed, it’s reasonable to expect that both sides have cooled off.<\/p>\n

Se lhe apetece ter uma conversa com o seu ex, mas ele parece distante e desinteressado, deve estar a perguntar-se: Ser\u00e1 que o meu ex j\u00e1 me esqueceu ou est\u00e1 apenas zangado, e porqu\u00ea?<\/strong><\/p>\n

In addition to answering that question, you can also read about what course of action to take if it turns out that they’re over you or if it turns out that they’re angry with you.<\/p>\n

Lastly, when your ex’s anger has faded, and they tell you that they’re ready for a relationship, we’ll take a look at some signs that can tell us they really mean it.<\/p>\n

O meu ex j\u00e1 me esqueceu ou est\u00e1 apenas zangado? Como saber<\/h2>\n

Problems can arise if both people aren’t in the same place emotionally.<\/strong> For example, you might be ready for reconciliation, but the other person may need more time. It’s also possible that your ex is no longer interested in voltar a juntar-se<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n

If you’re not really talking openly, and one or both of you is still wrapped up in their feelings, it might be hard to tell what your ex feels.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Felizmente, existem alguns sinais \u00f3bvios que podem ajud\u00e1-lo a descobrir se seu <\/span>ex-miss<\/span> tu<\/span><\/a> but is just mad or if they\u2019ve moved on.<\/p>\n

You won’t find every single one of the following “symptoms” in your ex, of course. This is merely a rough guide to help you get an idea of why your ex might be acting strange when it’s hard to communicate.<\/strong><\/p>\n

When we figure out how they feel and where you stand, we’ll look at what the best course of action to take in either case is.<\/p>\n

1. O teu ex ainda est\u00e1 na tua vida<\/h3>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

If they’re constantly around in some way, you can be sure that they haven’t let go and that they still have feelings for you. Whether those feelings are good or bad remains to be seen.<\/p>\n

There’s a well-known quote by Elie Wiesel that goes, “The opposite of love is not hate, it’s indifference,” and it’s applicable here.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you’re wondering,  <\/span>\u00e9 <\/span><\/i>o meu ex<\/span><\/i> sobre mim ou apenas zangado<\/span><\/i><\/a>? the answer is, if your ex were done with you, they wouldn’t want you in their life.<\/p>\n

They wouldn’t contact you, look at your social media, and they’d do everything they could to avoid you.<\/p>\n

Inversamente, se seu <\/b>O ex quer-te de volta<\/b><\/a> (but maybe not right now), they’ll make sure to keep in touch with you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Eis algumas formas de o seu ex tentar manter-se envolvido na sua vida:<\/p>\n

\u2022 Your ex tries to talk to you any chance they get.<\/strong> They might call to pick a fight or send you a message on Whatsapp to ask about something trivial. Still, any real communication is impossible because things still get heated whenever there’s contact between you.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Your ex talks to your mutual friends about you.<\/strong> They show an inordinate amount of interest in what’s going on with you. How you are, where you’ve been, who you’ve been seeing. Your ex is curious about everything and almost treats your mutual friends like spies.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Your ex checks your social media.<\/strong> Podem at\u00e9 estar a seguir todas as tuas publica\u00e7\u00f5es. Desfazem a amizade, depois voltam a fazer amizade. A primeira vez que gostam acidentalmente de uma publica\u00e7\u00e3o tua no Instagram, tornam imediatamente a sua conta privada.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Your ex is trying to make your friends choose between you.<\/strong> They’re feeling angry and want to share that anger. They’re trying to make you feel as miserable as they are. To that end, they might be trying to turn your friends, and even family members, against you.<\/p>\n

2. O seu ex est\u00e1 a agir de forma estranha<\/h3>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

If your ex is having trouble controlling their temper, it’s a good sign (I guess?). O que quero dizer \u00e9 que, se o seu ex o tivesse esquecido, as suas reac\u00e7\u00f5es emocionais seriam frias.<\/strong><\/p>\n

A rea\u00e7\u00e3o deles ao lidar consigo seria, no m\u00e1ximo, de aborrecimento, e agiriam de forma estranha \u00e0 sua volta.<\/p>\n

If your ex is mean, that means that they’re angry, and that won’t last forever.<\/strong> Alguns sinais disso s\u00e3o:<\/p>\n

\u2022 Your ex is bad-mouthing you.<\/strong> They’re incapable of not focusing on you, so even when you’re not around, they talk about you. Your ex always has a sob story about how you hurt them, can list all your flaws, and recall your every mistake whenever they run into any mutual friends.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Your ex is doing things to make your life difficult.<\/strong> Podem explodir \u00e0 mais pequena provoca\u00e7\u00e3o e guardar rancor<\/span><\/a>. Se o seu ex tem um novo parceiro, ele tamb\u00e9m \u00e9 rude consigo, o que \u00e9 um sinal de que o seu ex tem falado MUITO de si.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Your ex is acting really happy.<\/strong> Like, weirdly too happy. They’re trying really hard to show you that their life is perfect without you. They’re in a happy new relationship, your friend tells you.<\/p>\n

Their social media is full of fun new things they’re doing. Things have never been better, and they tell you when you meet up to drop off a forgotten book.<\/p>\n

In reality, if your ex were really as happy as they were trying to make it seem, they wouldn’t be so loud about it. If they had moved on, they wouldn’t be interested in informing you of that.<\/p>\n

3. O seu ex est\u00e1 a dar-lhe sinais contradit\u00f3rios<\/h3>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Se o seu ex est\u00e1 zangado consigo mas ainda te ama<\/b><\/a>, it’s confusing for you but also for them.<\/strong><\/p>\n

For this reason, they’re probably unsure how to process their feelings and how to behave, so they’re nice and kind one day, and the next day, they act like you’re their worst enemy.<\/p>\n

Maybe there’s no malice in what they’re doing, but it can still be damaging because you might start feeling like they’re stringing you along. Your ex might be atuar a quente e a frio<\/span><\/a> se:<\/p>\n

\u2022 They treat you badly one day, kindly the other<\/strong>. Perhaps in moments of weakness, your ex might show you their sweet side that you once fell in love with. They’re still processing their feelings, and you might be seeing it in real-time.<\/p>\n

\u2022 They won’t let you move on.<\/strong> They’re constantly talking about how they’re over you, but the moment you have someone new in your life, they get involved. They insist that you’re in a rebound relationship that has no future and act like the other person is no good.<\/p>\n

\u2022 They are doing things to make you jealous.<\/strong> To get a reaction out of you, your ex starts flaunting that they’re dating where they know you can see. Whether flirting with others in front of you or making out with someone they\u2019ve started dating, they’re making sure you can see or hear about it.<\/p>\n

\u2022 They block your number but still call you.<\/strong> Sentem a tua falta<\/span><\/a>, but they’re angry, so they’re not sure what to do. Also, they’re feeling left out of the situation and checking whether you’re feeling bad too. A drunk dial is a sure bet.<\/p>\n

Todos estes comportamentos podem ser mais ou menos intensos ou presentes. \u00c0 medida que a sua dor e raiva diminuem, o seu comportamento err\u00e1tico tamb\u00e9m diminui.<\/strong> Se acha que, apesar de tudo, esta \u00e9 a pessoa certa, tenha paci\u00eancia e d\u00ea-lhe tempo antes de tentar reatar a rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Porque \u00e9 que o meu ex me odeia quando me deixou? 13 raz\u00f5es secretas<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

O que devo fazer se achar que o meu ex j\u00e1 me esqueceu?<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Se o seu ex j\u00e1 o esqueceu, considere a possibilidade de ser muito gentil consigo pr\u00f3pria e de praticar o autocuidado de todas as formas poss\u00edveis.<\/strong> Se quiser que o seu <\/span>ex voltar<\/span><\/a>, and they’re over you, I hope the following advice can give you some strength. It’s going to be hard, but you can overcome it.<\/p>\n

1. Avan\u00e7ar<\/h3>\n

A coisa mais f\u00e1cil de dizer, mas t\u00e3o dif\u00edcil de fazer, eu sei. Repeat this until you believe it: your ex isn’t more important than you.<\/strong> By focusing on them, you’re losing sight of yourself.<\/p>\n

Para j\u00e1, afaste-se de tudo o que possa causar nostalgia em rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Em momentos como este, s\u00f3 nos lembramos dos bons momentos e esquecemos porque \u00e9 que acabou.<\/p>\n

2. Manter-se sempre ocupado<\/h3>\n

Occupying yourself with other things might be a crutch at first, but in time, you’ll stop thinking about them even when you’re not doing anything.<\/p>\n

In the meantime, staying busy will help you remember that there’s more to your life than your relationship with your ex.<\/p>\n

3. Cortar todos os la\u00e7os<\/h3>\n

Seja implac\u00e1vel nesta mat\u00e9ria. Ter absolutamente nenhum contacto<\/b><\/a> com o seu ex, se o conseguir fazer.<\/strong> Se partilham um filho ou um animal de estima\u00e7\u00e3o de que ambos cuidam, o contacto deve ser reduzido ao m\u00ednimo e a comunica\u00e7\u00e3o deve ser direta.<\/p>\n

4. Don’t stay friends<\/h3>\n

O seu ex pode estar a tentar manter as boas rela\u00e7\u00f5es e evitar ferir os seus sentimentos. Your ex can’t be a <\/span>amigo \u00edntimo<\/span><\/a>especialmente logo ap\u00f3s a separa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Com o tempo, talvez seja poss\u00edvel, mas, neste momento, eles t\u00eam de compreender que precisa de ser deixado em paz para os ultrapassar.<\/strong> Caso contr\u00e1rio, poder-se-ia agarrar \u00e0 esperan\u00e7a de voltar a juntar-se<\/span><\/a> quando n\u00e3o t\u00eam qualquer inten\u00e7\u00e3o de o fazer.<\/p>\n

5. Pedir ajuda<\/h3>\n

When you’re feeling down and tempted to get in touch with your ex, call your best friend or a family member. Let your loved ones help you get through this.<\/p>\n

Don’t shy away from even looking for professional help if you think it’s necessary.<\/strong> Crie uma rede que o possa ajudar a ultrapassar estes tempos dif\u00edceis.<\/p>\n

6. Don’t lose your spirit<\/h3>\n

Quem sabe, talvez esta separa\u00e7\u00e3o tenha sido para o melhor? Neste momento, pode estar a sentir-se devastado, mas confie em mim, as nuvens v\u00e3o desaparecer e o sol vai voltar a brilhar. Dedique este tempo a si pr\u00f3prio<\/b><\/a> e olhar para o futuro.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9 que o meu ex est\u00e1 zangado?<\/h2>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

Sometimes people manage to split up with their partners and stay friendly and on good terms with no hard feelings. Life would be easier if all breakups were like that, but I’m afraid they’re not.<\/p>\n

Muitos separa\u00e7\u00f5es<\/span><\/a> come\u00e7ar com uma briga quando algo pequeno geralmente desencadeia um ataque de ressentimento que vem se acumulando h\u00e1 muito tempo.<\/p>\n

No calor do momento, todas as pequenas coisas que n\u00e3o gostamos no nosso parceiro e at\u00e9 os erros mais triviais que ele cometeu podem parecer t\u00e3o grandes como os erros realmente importantes.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Both of you might be feeling hurt and angry. It’s a normal emotional response to a stressful situation. Quer tenha sido voc\u00ea ou o seu ex que iniciou a rutura<\/b><\/a>, or if it was a mutual decision, you’re both entitled to your feelings.<\/strong><\/p>\n

When you’re ready to start working on getting back together with your ex, their attitude can make you question yourself and your intentions.<\/p>\n

Por muito que queira abord\u00e1-lo de uma forma calma e amig\u00e1vel, pode ser dif\u00edcil.<\/p>\n

You might know why they’re angry, or you might be wondering what you did to deserve it.<\/strong> A raiva por causa de uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 muito comum e pode ter v\u00e1rias causas.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Hurt<\/h3>\n

Most of the time, the source of anger after a breakup is hurt. Even if they were the one who broke up with you, they’re, without a doubt, still feeling upset. Por muitas outras causas que existam, estes sentimentos nascem sempre da m\u00e1goa.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pode haver uma ou v\u00e1rias raz\u00f5es justific\u00e1veis para os seus sentimentos, mas, por vezes, o simples facto de ter acontecido uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 suficiente para os provocar. O seu ex-namorado ou namorada pode estar a sentir-se desrespeitado ou desiludido, mesmo de cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido<\/b><\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u2022 Blame<\/h3>\n

Your ex might blame you for the hurt they’re feeling. A sua raiva \u00e9 causada porque sentem que foram injusti\u00e7ados.<\/strong> It can be that they feel that you’ve broken their trust or neglected them.<\/p>\n

Additionally, there’s a possibility that they’re blaming you for something you didn’t do.<\/strong> There’s even a chance that your ex thinks you were infiel<\/span><\/a> when you weren’t.<\/p>\n

Regardless, their emotions are still real and valid, and until you get a chance to clear it up, there’s nothing you can do.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Mind games<\/h3>\n

H\u00e1 casos em que um ex zangado se agarra por vezes \u00e0 sua raiva porque sente que a sua indigna\u00e7\u00e3o lhe d\u00e1 vantagem e um certo poder sobre si.<\/strong> This makes them feel like they’re the righteous one, and you’re the villain.<\/p>\n

Poder\u00e1 sentir-se tentado a continuar a pedir desculpa e a implorar at\u00e9 que ele o perdoe, mas isso s\u00f3 o deixar\u00e1 mais zangado e mais determinado.<\/p>\n

If they see that what they’re doing is working, there’s no reason for them to stop, is there?<\/p>\n

\u2022 Mental health<\/h3>\n

It’s also possible that their anger isn’t related to you.<\/strong> They might be using the situation to lash out and make themselves feel better because they weren’t happy with themselves and were having a hard time in their own lives.<\/p>\n

The hurt of the breakup only made their negative feelings stronger, and they feel entitled to their anger. This has nothing to do with you, and you can’t make them change their thinking.<\/p>\n

A forma de os ajudar \u00e9 encoraj\u00e1-los a resolver os seus problemas, embora isso possa ser dif\u00edcil nesta altura.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u2022 Backlash<\/h3>\n

If you\u2019ve tried to justify your behavior and change their mind about the breakup by pushing too soon and ser pegajoso<\/span><\/a>Se o seu comportamento n\u00e3o for o mais adequado, eles podem reagir com mais raiva e afastar-se<\/span><\/a> ainda mais.<\/p>\n

They might feel like you’ve disrespected their feelings and are trying to hold them back.<\/strong> O seu ex pode estar zangado porque nunca lhe deu a oportunidade de tentar curar-se e, possivelmente, de ser feliz sem si.<\/p>\n

O que devo fazer se o meu ex estiver zangado?<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Even though you found the answer to the question, “Is my ex over me or just angry?” you’re still thinking about your ex and your breakup.<\/p>\n

If that’s the case, you probably feel like it’s unresolved.<\/p>\n

Ou queres voltar a namorar, ou precisas de uma conclus\u00e3o.<\/strong> Nada disto vai acontecer at\u00e9 que ambos estejam prontos para ter uma conversa honesta.<\/p>\n

We\u2019ve already mentioned that hurt is always at the core of anger after a breakup. Both of you are feeling it, but your ex-girlfriend or boyfriend is also angry.<\/p>\n

You can’t change their feelings or how much longer they’ll keep holding on to their anger<\/strong> and when and if they’ll be ready to reconcile.<\/p>\n

Eis algumas coisas que pode fazer.<\/p>\n

1. Nada<\/h3>\n

Sim, a primeira coisa a fazer \u00e9 n\u00e3o fazer nada. Mesmo que sintam falta um do outro, em vez de tentarem contactar o vosso ex, devem ir com calma e dar algum tempo a ambos.<\/p>\n

I’m sure you’ve apologized\u2014or tried to\u2014more than once. I’m sure you’ve done all you can to let your ex know that you’re ready for a conversation, so it’s up to them now. Stick to a <\/span>regra de n\u00e3o contacto<\/span><\/a>, and they’ll reach out when they’re ready.<\/p>\n

2. Concentrar-se em si pr\u00f3prio<\/h3>\n

There’s nothing else you can do but shift focus from your relationship to the rest of your life. As you’re recovering from heartbreak, your loved ones, your job, and caring for your mental health can all provide healing.<\/p>\n

Improve what you can, and learn to accept what can’t be changed. Our relationships can only thrive when we’re happy with ourselves.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pode aproveitar este tempo para se certificar de que sabe qual \u00e9 a melhor solu\u00e7\u00e3o para a sua separa\u00e7\u00e3o. Independentemente de voltar para o seu ex ou de decidir seguir em frente, seu <\/span>bem-estar<\/span><\/a> n\u00e3o \u00e9 negoci\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n

3. Prestar aten\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h3>\n

Quando chegarem a um ponto em que possam falar abertamente sobre o que sentem e querem, ou\u00e7am. Ou\u00e7a com aten\u00e7\u00e3o o que ele diz e observe como ele age. Don’t let what you wish for distract you from the actual situation.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don’t try to hope for a certain resolution to avoid being disappointed. Before you start looking for any clues that they might still love you, pay attention to your ex’s behavior, listen to what they’re saying, and go with that.<\/p>\n

4. Ter paci\u00eancia<\/h3>\n

It’s going to take a great deal of both time and patience to work out a solution to your problems that both of you will be happy with.
\nA raiva desvanece-se, mas os sentimentos ainda s\u00e3o fr\u00e1geis nesta altura.<\/p>\n

It’s easy to say the wrong thing during this period. O maior desafio \u00e9 evitar cometer erros.<\/strong> Be courteous, and don’t let your ego take charge. Apologize when it’s right. As long as the efforts are mutual, a solution can be found.<\/p>\n

5. Mostrar que se preocupa<\/h3>\n

Quando ambos decidem voltar a estar juntos, devem come\u00e7ar por identificar o que levou \u00e0 vossa separa\u00e7\u00e3o e como evitar repetir os mesmos erros.<\/p>\n

Empenhe-se em mostrar ao seu ex que se preocupa. \u00c9 necess\u00e1rio reconstruir a sua confian\u00e7a<\/b><\/a> para seguir em frente.<\/strong> A forma de come\u00e7ar a fazer isso \u00e9 mostrar compreens\u00e3o. Ou\u00e7a o que o seu ex quer dizer e aceite os seus sentimentos e desejos.<\/p>\n

Como saber se o meu ex quer um relacionamento<\/h2>\n

\"Jovem<\/p>\n

Now that we\u2019ve stopped wondering things like, \u201cis my ex over me or just angry?\u201d we know where we stand. So, your ex isn’t angry anymore.<\/p>\n

They’re ready to talk, and they’re saying they want to get back together.<\/p>\n

Both of you went through hardships during the breakup, and now it’s time to decide whether you’re ready for a relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n

We\u2019ve learned how to recognize what’s going on, so now we come to the final question: How can I tell that my ex is over their anger and ready to voltar a juntar-se<\/span><\/a>?<\/p>\n

\u2022 They pay attention and listen<\/h3>\n

Ser sincero, presente e ter uma mente aberta na comunica\u00e7\u00e3o com outras pessoas s\u00e3o as chaves para ser um bom ouvinte. Prestar aten\u00e7\u00e3o ao que eles fazem e dizem demonstra interesse e cuidado.<\/strong><\/p>\n

In a romantic relationship, where we’re especially invested in the other person, a lack of judgment and willingness to hear the other person are of utmost importance.<\/p>\n

\u2022 They respect your boundaries<\/h3>\n

A healthy relationship is impossible if both partners don’t respect each other’s boundaries. Knowing when to pull back and when to show up come from communication and respect for what has been shared.<\/p>\n

Limites<\/b><\/a> s\u00e3o importantes em todas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es, n\u00e3o apenas nas rom\u00e2nticas.<\/strong> People let us know what matters to them and tell us how to treat them, and it’s important not to think that we know their lives better than them.<\/p>\n

\u2022 They’re supportive and affectionate<\/h3>\n

Someone who loves you doesn’t hide their love but shows it through signs of affection, among other ways.<\/strong> Carinho, abra\u00e7o<\/span><\/a>Todos estes actos aprofundam a intimidade e facilitam a liga\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

O amor tamb\u00e9m \u00e9 \u00f3bvio no sentido da confian\u00e7a de que a outra pessoa o apoiar\u00e1 sempre que precisar dela. Se puder, um parceiro amoroso estar\u00e1 l\u00e1 se o chamar, e pode contar com ele.<\/p>\n

\u2022 They’re honest and vulnerable<\/h3>\n

Someone who wants a healthy relationship knows that there’s no intimacy unless you open up. To do so, there’s no escaping o sentimento de vulnerabilidade<\/b><\/a> que adv\u00e9m de nos partilharmos com outra pessoa.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If they’re able to share their true feelings, fears, and hopes with you, you can be sure that they want to be with you.<\/p>\n

\u2022 They make it clear they want to be in your life<\/h3>\n

Como conclu\u00edmos anteriormente, o sinal mais importante de que algu\u00e9m sente algo por si \u00e9 quando lhe diz, sem qualquer d\u00favida, que o quer na sua vida.<\/strong><\/p>\n

We mentioned that anger and feelings of conflict show a person’s inner struggle. However, if they want to be in a loving relationship, they’ll make their warm feelings and their wish to share their life with you clear.<\/p>\n

Em conclus\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

After a breakup, there’s a lot of heartache. Both people are confused, hurt, and emotional. For the partner who’s ready to get back together, the question, \u201cIs my ex over me or just angry?\u201d is a constant worry.<\/p>\n

As suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es durante este per\u00edodo sens\u00edvel podem mudar o rumo da sua futura rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong> Reconhecer como a sua ex se sente pode ajudar a decidir como agir. Existem diferentes caminhos a seguir, dependendo se o seu ex j\u00e1 o esqueceu, se ainda est\u00e1 zangado ou se est\u00e1 pronto para voltar a juntar-se<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

The end of a relationship can be emotionally exhausting. A mix of complicated negative emotions that can last for a long time overwhelms you. Emotions like grief caused by loss, hurt that grows from a sense of betrayal, and anger because you feel wronged can emerge in both of you. When some time after the…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":144645,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-144631","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Is-My-Ex-Over-Me-Or-Just-Angry-Everything-You-Need-To-Know-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","parent":29627,"count":263,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29628,"category_count":263,"category_description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","cat_name":"dealing with breakup","category_nicename":"dealing-with-breakup","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/144631","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=144631"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/144631\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/144645"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=144631"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=144631"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=144631"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}

\u2022 Your ex might act rude or passivo-agressivo<\/b><\/a>.<\/strong> It’s an immature way to lash out and get your attention. They’re <\/span>fingir que j\u00e1 te esqueci<\/span><\/a>, but they’re really a mess. Their social media is full of vague statements about you. If you’re in a new relationship, they’re rude to them too.<\/p>\n