{"id":14642,"date":"2020-04-29T08:30:16","date_gmt":"2020-04-29T08:30:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14642"},"modified":"2022-02-28T12:52:41","modified_gmt":"2022-02-28T12:52:41","slug":"o-traidor-amoroso-quebra","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-traidor-amoroso-quebra\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 assim que amar um traidor nos destr\u00f3i"},"content":{"rendered":"

Amar um batoteiro<\/a> \u00e9 esse tipo de amor que nos esgota. Esse tipo de amor que nos deixa quebrados, vazios e exaustos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You never enter a relationship expecting for someone to be a cheater, you never give your trust to someone if you know it\u2019ll be played.<\/p>\n

Nunca deixamos algu\u00e9m entrar se sabemos que nos vai tomar por garantidos.<\/p>\n

And even with all of the signs screaming in your face that he is not who you thought he was, you still hold on to hope that maybe it\u2019s all in your head.<\/p>\n

Que talvez se te esfor\u00e7ares mais e o amares mais, ele mude.<\/p>\n

And that\u2019s what wrecks us. Our love, our crazy fire that burns us back, our silly heart that still believes, even when it gets broken over and over again.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

That\u2019s what loving a cheater does to us. He makes you feel like you\u2019re not enough<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Sente que todas as outras mulheres s\u00e3o mais bonitas do que voc\u00ea.<\/p>\n

Every other woman has his attention, while you fight just for a second of it. You start doubting yourself, wondering if maybe it\u2019s you.<\/p>\n

If maybe it\u2019s something you did or the way you are.<\/p>\n

Come\u00e7a a pensar em como mudar para que ele a ame, enquanto ele n\u00e3o faz nada para a impedir. Enquanto ele n\u00e3o faz nada para te mostrar o seu amor.<\/p>\n

Ele faz-nos lutar pelo seu amor.<\/strong> Sente que se deixar de tentar ele vai-se embora, por isso continua a lutar e a lutar at\u00e9 ficar sem for\u00e7as.<\/p>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

Continuamos a dar partes de n\u00f3s s\u00f3 para o fazer feliz, at\u00e9 nos perdermos completamente. Mas o que se passa \u00e9 que ele ama-se a si pr\u00f3prio mais do que a qualquer outra pessoa.<\/p>\n

Ele coloca-se sempre em primeiro lugar, p\u00f5e sempre os seus desejos \u00e0 frente das suas necessidades.<\/p>\n

Os seus jogos far\u00e3o com que tenhas medo de voltar a confiar em algu\u00e9m.<\/strong> A trai\u00e7\u00e3o dele ao vosso amor, \u00e0 hist\u00f3ria que partilham, \u00e9 apenas porque ele precisa de mais.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 porque ele \u00e9 incapaz de amar e de se conformar, ele vai quebrar-te. E as suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es deixar\u00e3o cicatrizes no teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o gentil, o cora\u00e7\u00e3o que esconder\u00e1s do mundo.<\/p>\n

Eles ser\u00e3o a causa de todas as muros que constr\u00f3i<\/a>porque tem medo de se magoar de novo.<\/p>\n

Fechar-se-\u00e1, porque est\u00e1 t\u00e3o cansado de ser negligenciado, t\u00e3o cansado de dar e s\u00f3 receber dor em troca.<\/p>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

He will make you feel like you\u2019re the unlovable one.<\/strong> You will believe that it was you, that you could\u2019ve done things differently.<\/p>\n

Maybe you could\u2019ve worn your hair like that girl at the bar and bought a dress like that girl at the restaurant.<\/p>\n

Perdendo-se em compara\u00e7\u00f5es com outras mulheres, tentando encaixar-se no molde de perfei\u00e7\u00e3o que ele tem. Mas querida, tu j\u00e1 \u00e9s perfeita.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not you who is the unlovable one, it\u2019s him who is incapable of loving.<\/p>\n

Ele vai continuar a magoar-te uma e outra vez, enquanto o amares.<\/strong> Every single time you look away, it\u2019ll break you.<\/p>\n

Every time you wake up alone in bed, it\u2019ll shatter your hopes into thousands of tiny pieces.<\/p>\n

E cada um desses peda\u00e7os vai trespassar-vos, magoar-vos e fazer-vos sangrar.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Enquanto estiveres com ele, ele vai-te quebrar. E mesmo que ele se desculpe, ele nunca mudar\u00e1<\/a>. Mesmo que ele se ofere\u00e7a para a compensar, nunca o far\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Porque h\u00e1 alguma forma de compensar o facto de se ter partido algu\u00e9m? Haver\u00e1 uma forma de compensar a destrui\u00e7\u00e3o de algu\u00e9m?<\/p>\n

Por lhes ter plantado uma semente de medo, por os ter obrigado a construir muros s\u00f3 para os manter seguros?<\/p>\n

Ele nunca te amar\u00e1 como tu mereces ser amada.<\/p>\n

He will never care for you the way you cared for him. And he will never treat you the way you\u2019re meant to be treated.<\/p>\n

He is capable of only giving you pain, over and over again, until you decide it\u2019s enough. Until you put yourself first and walk away for good.<\/p>\n

\"\u00c9<\/p>\n

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