Suponho que j\u00e1 andam a trocar mensagens de texto h\u00e1 algum tempo, talvez at\u00e9 desde o in\u00edcio fases do namoro<\/a>, but you’re still not exclusivo<\/a>. Raios, as fases de conversa\u00e7\u00e3o duram agora uma eternidade.<\/p>\n N\u00e3o tem a certeza se ele gosta mesmo de si ou n\u00e3o, por isso decidiu p\u00f4-lo \u00e0 prova. Deixou de lhe enviar mensagens para ver a sua rea\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n His reaction will most likely not be the one you anticipate. He might have noticed, but won’t go crazy about it.<\/strong><\/p>\n Fique comigo e descubra o que \u00e9 que os homens realmente pensam quando se cala em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a eles<\/a>.<\/p>\n Os rapazes reparam quando deixas de lhes enviar mensagens de texto: seis reac\u00e7\u00f5es poss\u00edveis<\/p>\n Mas, como \u00e9 que eles v\u00e3o reagir?<\/p>\n Isso depende inteiramente do que eles sentem por si.<\/strong> We’ll go through six possible scenarios of what happens when you stop enviar mensagens a um rapaz<\/a>.<\/p>\n We’re starting from the best-case scenario. He was genuinely interested in you and enjoyed texting you.<\/p>\n Provavelmente, voc\u00eas trocavam mensagens de texto com frequ\u00eancia e ele era r\u00e1pido a enviar-lhe uma mensagem de volta<\/b><\/a><\/strong>. A partir de bom dia<\/a> para mensagens de texto de boa noite <\/a>Costumavam enviar mensagens de texto para tr\u00e1s e para a frente durante todo o dia.<\/p>\n Sentia borboletas no est\u00f4mago sempre que o nome dele aparecia no seu telem\u00f3vel, e ele sentia o mesmo. A atra\u00e7\u00e3o era m\u00fatua<\/b><\/a> e era f\u00e1cil de perceber.<\/strong><\/p>\n If you go silent on this guy, he will notice it right away. Skipping one good-night text will make him wonder what’s happening. As more time goes by, he will start to worry. He was sure you two were on the same page. What is going on now, are you a fantasiar-se dele<\/a>?<\/p>\n \u00c9 muito prov\u00e1vel que ele reaja nos pr\u00f3ximos dias.<\/strong> He might text you very soon to check if everything is okay. But, this is not always the case. He may get frustrated and sad, but won’t do anything about it.<\/p>\n One thing is sure, he will wonder what’s going on.<\/p>\n Ele estava mesmo interessado em ti. Mas, n\u00e3o de uma forma rom\u00e2ntica. Ele tinha outra coisa em mente.<\/p>\n Durante alguns dias, a comunica\u00e7\u00e3o foi bastante frequente.<\/strong> Ele estava literalmente bombardeando-o com texto<\/a> and voice messages, but didn’t make a proposal to go out on a date. What was he waiting for?<\/p>\n Well, chances are that a date was never an option for him in the first place. He waited for a couple of days and planned to propose “Netflix and chill”. Or, he hit you up with a “Wyd you up?” text on Thursday night.<\/p>\n Quando se decide deixar de lhe enviar mensagens<\/b><\/a>ele vai reparar de certeza.<\/strong> O homem estava t\u00e3o pronto para se atirar a si. Pode at\u00e9 tornar-se agressivo e rude quando decide n\u00e3o lhe responder \u00e0s mensagens.<\/p>\n Mas ele vai-se embora t\u00e3o depressa como apareceu do nada.<\/strong> As a matter of fact, he’ll probably forget anything ever happened (or didn’t happen), so don’t be surprised when he slides into your DMs in two months from now.<\/p>\n Por vezes, um homem gosta mesmo de comunicar consigo, e enquanto est\u00e1 a ter sentimentos fortes por ele<\/a>Mas n\u00e3o tem qualquer inten\u00e7\u00e3o de o transformar em algo s\u00e9rio.<\/p>\n If this is the case, it can be really hard to tell what’s going on.<\/strong> You two had a really intense thing for a couple of days or even weeks\u2026 text conversations, phone calls, and even sexting. Seemed like the attraction was mutual.<\/p>\n Mas s\u00f3 estava a alimentar o ego dele.<\/strong> He liked the fact that he had someone to text, someone who’d be quick to reply. You made him feel important and boosted his self-esteem.<\/p>\n Ele vai notar a aus\u00eancia da sua aten\u00e7\u00e3o e isso vai faz\u00ea-lo sentir-se mal (coitado).<\/strong> Pode at\u00e9 deix\u00e1-lo zangado e furioso. Mas, como um rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria<\/a> was never an option for him, he’ll get over it quicker than you.<\/p>\n You were the one who was there in case other relationships he tried to pursue didn\u2019t work out.<\/p>\n Ele deu-te aten\u00e7\u00e3o suficiente para te manter por perto.<\/strong> While you thought that he was being mysterious or busy with work, and thus, didn’t text you often, he was actually busy with other girls.<\/p>\n Ele pode notar que algo estranho est\u00e1 a acontecer, mas s\u00f3 depois de algum tempo.<\/strong> He probably did not text you that often, and even when he did, he didn’t put much effort and hope into it. So, when he finally texts you again and you leave him on read, he will notice it.<\/p>\n But, he won’t bother much about it, and he is not likely to try to reach you again any time soon. His vida amorosa<\/a> j\u00e1 \u00e9 suficientemente ocupado e divertido.<\/p>\n E cheg\u00e1mos ao pior cen\u00e1rio poss\u00edvel. Ele vai notar que desapareceste, mas n\u00e3o por boas raz\u00f5es.<\/p>\n Talvez a vossa comunica\u00e7\u00e3o tenha come\u00e7ado bem, ele estava a divertir-se e a gostar de a ouvir. Mas, ao longo do caminho, ele perdeu o interesse<\/b><\/a>e isso tornou-se demasiado para ele<\/strong>. Quando isso acontece, n\u00e3o s\u00e3o muitos os rapazes que t\u00eam a coragem de ser abertos e honestos sobre o que sentem.<\/p>\n Ele pode ter continuado a responder \u00e0s suas mensagens, mas isso levou-lhe cada vez mais tempo. He hoped that you’d catch the hints he was dropping.<\/strong><\/p>\n When you stop reaching out to him, he will notice. And, he’ll be relieved, so you won’t hear from him ever again unless he changes his mind for whatever reason.<\/p>\n Ele adorava o teu sentido de humor, as tuas respostas espirituosas e o facto de seres t\u00e3o descontra\u00edda. Ele adorava falar contigo, mas nunca era namoradeiro.<\/p>\n Texting you was fun, but he’s also okay with not texting you. When you disappear and stop reaching out to him, or leave him on read, he won’t be upset.<\/strong><\/p>\n Pode at\u00e9 voltar a enviar-lhe uma mensagem dentro de alguns dias porque quer partilhar um meme de gato engra\u00e7ado que encontrou. Por vezes, todos n\u00f3s enviamos mensagens duplas ou triplas aos nossos amigos. Veja, you’re just a friend<\/b><\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n Quando a comunica\u00e7\u00e3o p\u00e1ra, n\u00e3o acontece praticamente nada. He might notice it, but he will just assume you’re busy or not in the mood, and he will go on with real life.<\/strong> If you never text him again, he will not be heartbroken, but if you do, he’ll reply.<\/p>\n Como fazia com todos os seus amigos.<\/p>\n You may cry in the beginning, but soon you’ll realize that it was a good decision because you\u2019ll have your power back and you\u2019ll be on his mind. This is what happens:<\/p>\n There’s nothing worse than to be begging for a guy’s attention<\/a>. I’m not judging you… I’ve been in the same situation countless times.<\/p>\n Quanto mais tentas, mais ele se afasta e sentes-te desesperada.<\/strong> Vive para os momentos em que ele finalmente lhe presta aten\u00e7\u00e3o, mas entre esses momentos, sente-se in\u00fatil.<\/p>\n Stepping back will do you good. You will be sad in the beginning, but you’ll feel proud of yourself soon. You will realize that you’re strong and you will love the feeling of being in control.<\/strong><\/p>\n O mais prov\u00e1vel \u00e9 que pensar em si<\/a>.<\/p>\n Quer ele quisesse uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o consigo ou n\u00e3o, voc\u00ea estava a dar-lhe aten\u00e7\u00e3o e ele gostava disso. Ele gostava de saber que algu\u00e9m tinha um fraquinho por ele. Aumentava-lhe o ego.<\/p>\n Now that you’re gone, he will miss your presence.<\/strong> Ele pode at\u00e9 sentir-se abandonado. Come\u00e7ar\u00e1 a pensar em si, a perguntar-se o que aconteceu.<\/p>\n When you stop wasting time waiting by the phone, hoping to get his message, you’ll finally be able to concentrar-se em si pr\u00f3prio<\/a>. Esta situa\u00e7\u00e3o consumiu muito tempo e energia, e ficou exausto.<\/p>\n Quando deixar intencionalmente de lhe enviar mensagens, criar\u00e1 mais espa\u00e7o para si pr\u00f3pria. You’ll realize he’s not the only guy in the world.<\/strong><\/p>\n If you want to try a new dating app, I support you. There’s plenty of fish in the sea, girl. You will find a guy who will genuinely love you for who you are.<\/p>\n That’s the thing with people… we want what we can’t have. When you were free and available for him, he didn’t appreciate you enough.<\/p>\n Now that you’re living your life and not paying attention to him, he’ll be dying to get close to you.<\/strong><\/p>\n Of course, don’t rush to start talking to him. Give yourself time to think about what you really want, and also dar-lhe a oportunidade de o perseguir<\/a> e lutar por si. Se ficar dispon\u00edvel demasiado depressa, ele pode voltar a perder o interesse.<\/p>\n Ele gostava de si e achava-a atraente, mas n\u00e3o tinha a certeza do que queria consigo. Neste caso, ao ignor\u00e1-lo, f\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 repensar a opini\u00e3o que tem sobre si.<\/p>\n You will show him that you respect yourself and you don’t waste time and energy, and therefore, he will respect you more.<\/p>\n If a guy is not putting in the same effort as you are, you should stop texting him. If you’re the one who initiates contact all the time and he takes forever to text you back, it most likely means he’s not that into you.<\/p>\n Um peda\u00e7o de conselhos para encontros<\/b><\/a>:<\/strong> let your effort be 50\/50. This means that if you initiated contact this time, let him text you first next time. If the interest is mutual, that’s how it usually goes.<\/p>\n Of course, you won’t always follow this rule blindly. But, at the early stages, it’s very important to also let him do the work.<\/p>\n Se reparar que ele nunca te manda uma mensagem antes<\/a>, it can mean he’s just shy. But, let’s be honest \u2013 he’s probably not so interested.<\/strong><\/p>\n You can text him twice first, but then leave it. Let him show if he’s into you or not.<\/p>\n Todos n\u00f3s temos os nossos pr\u00f3prios h\u00e1bitos de envio de mensagens de texto, e estes podem ser diferentes para pessoas diferentes. Algumas pessoas adoram estar online e dispon\u00edveis a toda a hora, enquanto outras conseguem passar horas sem telem\u00f3vel.<\/p>\n But, one thing is sure… when a man wants you, he will not leave you waiting for too long. Se um homem deixa de te enviar uma mensagem de texto primeiro e demora uma eternidade a responder \u00e0 tua mensagem, isso significa apenas que n\u00e3o \u00e9s a sua prioridade<\/b><\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n Don’t be fooled by “I’m busy” nonsense. Writing a message takes 10 seconds. So, save your dignity, and next time, when you feel the urge to text him, text your best friend instead. Or, that cute co-worker you made intense eye contact with yesterday.<\/p>\n Texting guys who hide their social media from you is a risky job. When you’re genuinely interested in someone, you want to know everything about them. And, you want them to know you better. It goes hand in hand.<\/p>\n If a guy texts you for longer than a week, but still hides his Instagram or Facebook from you, that’s a red flag.<\/strong> He could be in a relationship and doesn\u2019t want you to find out.<\/p>\n Or, he wants to keep his options open with other girls, so he doesn’t want you to leave any traces on his social media accounts.<\/p>\n I’m not a relationship expert, but this is pretty much obvious. What’s the point in wasting time on a guy who is open about not wanting a serious relationship? You’re not gonna change him or “fix him”… you’re not Bob, the Builder.<\/p>\n Se tamb\u00e9m estiver \u00e0 procura de algo casual, ent\u00e3o est\u00e1 bem. Mas, se espera encontrar amor verdadeiro<\/b><\/a>, then you won’t find it at this address.<\/strong><\/p>\n Poupe-se a confus\u00f5es e desgosto<\/a> e recuar no tempo.<\/p>\n If you have been texting for some time, but he doesn’t ask you out, it doesn’t mean he wants to take it slow. It probably means he doesn’t want it at all.<\/strong><\/p>\n If he really liked you, he wouldn’t be waiting too long to see you (unless it’s a long distance relationship). I would not advise you to ask him out first either. Let him show you what he wants.<\/p>\n Al\u00e9m disso, se tinham um encontro planeado, mas ele cancelou \u00e0 \u00faltima da hora, d\u00ea-lhe dois dias para falar sobre o assunto e convid\u00e1-la para sair novamente.<\/strong><\/p>\n Qualquer coisa superior a dois dias significa que ele tamb\u00e9m n\u00e3o estava realmente desejoso de a conhecer da primeira vez.<\/p>\n I’m not saying you should jogar quente e frio<\/a> jogos e manipular as pessoas. Mas namorar n\u00e3o \u00e9 um jogo f\u00e1cil e, se quisermos que nos desejem, temos de saber quando recuar.<\/p>\nOs rapazes reparam quando deixas de lhes enviar mensagens? Mais cedo ou mais tarde, eles v\u00e3o reparar.<\/h2>\n
1. Ele estava genuinamente interessado em si.<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n2. Esperava conseguir alguma a\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/h3>\n
3. Fizeste-o sentir-se bem.<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n4. Eras uma op\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/h3>\n
5. Incomodou-o.<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n6. Foi apenas uma conversa amig\u00e1vel para ele.<\/h3>\n
O que acontece quando de repente deixas de enviar mensagens a um homem?<\/h2>\n
1. You’ll have your power back.<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n2. Ele vai pensar em si.<\/h3>\n
3. Concentrar-se-\u00e1 em si pr\u00f3prio.<\/h3>\n
4. He will want what he can’t have.<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n5. Ele respeitar-te-\u00e1 mais.<\/h3>\n
Como \u00e9 que sabes quando deves parar de enviar mensagens a um homem?<\/h2>\n
1. Ele nunca te envia uma mensagem de texto primeiro.<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n2. Ele demora demasiado tempo a responder.<\/h3>\n
3. He doesn’t add you on social media.<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n4. Ele diz que n\u00e3o quer nada s\u00e9rio.<\/h3>\n
5. He doesn’t want to see you.<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nPara concluir<\/h2>\n