After all, you can’t do anything about it until you’re sure what’s really going on!<\/p>\n
18 sinais de que o seu chefe quer dormir consigo<\/h2>\n
Se o seu chefe apresenta a maioria ou todos estes sinais, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 d\u00favida sobre uma coisa: ele gosta de si<\/b><\/a> e est\u00e1 a tentar levar-te para a cama.<\/strong><\/p>\n One of the first signs your boss wants to sleep with you is his unusual interest in your personal life. I’m not talking about regular, small-talk topics \u2013 I’m talking about quest\u00f5es profundas<\/a> e o facto de ele querer mesmo saber certos pormenores sobre si.<\/p>\n At first, this doesn’t come across as strange. After all, maybe he s\u00f3 quer ser amigo<\/a>. Mas se pensarmos bem, com o que \u00e9 que ele se preocupa mais?<\/strong><\/p>\n That’s right \u2013 your love life.<\/strong><\/p>\n He wants to know whether you’re dating anyone, did you break up with your BF, if you’re married, are in a serious relationship, or if you’re single<\/a> e prontos para se misturarem.<\/p>\n Reuni\u00f5es a altas horas da noite sem nenhum dos seus colegas de trabalho? Isto soa-lhe familiar? Bem, tenho de vos dizer isto, mas n\u00e3o \u00e9 assim que a vida profissional deve ser.<\/strong><\/p>\n You’re probably extremely important to the company. But no matter your position, o seu tempo pessoal \u00e9 o seu tempo pessoal e ningu\u00e9m deve telefonar-lhe depois do hor\u00e1rio de trabalho.<\/strong><\/p>\n Of course, it’s one thing if this has happened once or twice due to an emergency. But even then, you shouldn’t have late-night meetings, especially not at a restaurant or anywhere inappropriate.<\/p>\n Este tipo est\u00e1 claramente \u00e0 procura de formas de se aproximar de si. De facto, estas reuni\u00f5es privadas s\u00e3o o equivalente a Netflix e chill.<\/strong><\/p>\n Everyone sees that your boss treats you differently than the rest of your coworkers. Let’s be honest \u2013 at first, it didn’t bother you. You could run a little bit late or miss a deadline without suffering the consequences.<\/p>\n No entanto, passado algum tempo, apercebemo-nos de que h\u00e1 algo de suspeito nisso. Para al\u00e9m disso, a maioria dos seus colegas tamb\u00e9m o v\u00ea como um dos sinais \u00f3bvios de que o seu chefe quer dormir consigo.<\/strong><\/p>\n Ele deixa-o escapar com qualquer coisa. Quando chega ao escrit\u00f3rio, cumprimenta-o primeiro. Respeita-o mais do que os outros e \u00e9 mais simp\u00e1tico em geral.<\/p>\n Porque \u00e9 que acha que isto acontece? E como achas que esta situa\u00e7\u00e3o faz com que os outros se sintam?<\/p>\n \u200bThere is no subtle way to say this: your boss namorisca consigo<\/a>. O seu linguagem corporal<\/a> diz isso, o seu sorriso diz isso, e o seu comportamento diz isso.<\/strong><\/p>\n It even happens when you’re not alone. He teases you and, at first, you could interpret it as a harmless joke, but now, it’s more than obvious that your boss talks to you differently than your coworkers.<\/p>\n His tone of voice changes when you’re around. He has a big smile on his face whenever he sees you, and you’ve caught him checking you out a couple of times.<\/p>\n Are all of those accidental touches really all that accidental? I don’t think so. In fact, they are probably a product of this man\u2019s atra\u00e7\u00e3o f\u00edsica<\/a> para si.<\/p>\n Come on, it’s really not necessary for him to whisper in your ear when he’s talking. He doesn’t have to hug you when he sees you. After all, you two are coworkers \u2013 a handshake would be more than enough.<\/p>\n This is not just one of the clear signs your boss wants to sleep with you \u2013 it’s also oma das primeiras bandeiras vermelhas de ass\u00e9dio sexual<\/b><\/a>. He is invading your personal space, and that’s unacceptable.<\/strong><\/p>\n That is, if you don’t like it. But even if you enjoy his touches, take your physical contact outside the office and act professional!<\/p>\n This man wants to hang out with you outside work time, and he doesn’t even try to hide it. He keeps on asking you what you\u2019re doing on the weekend, sends you text messages, and initiates conversation unrelated to your work life.<\/p>\n Of course, he hasn’t convidou-o para um primeiro encontro<\/b><\/a> or anything like that, but it’s clear that he wants to be in your life outside the office.<\/strong><\/p>\n This sign alone doesn’t have to mean much, under the condition that you’re willing to hang out with him as well. Maybe he just wants to be friends \u2013 let’s give him the benefit of the doubt.<\/p>\n However, if he’s pressuring you to spend time with him after work hours, that’s harassment.<\/p>\n \u200bThe eyes are the windows to the soul. This is especially true in your situation \u2013 where your boss is in no position to express his feelings out loud.<\/p>\n Instead, he just looks at you. I’m not necessarily talking about creepy looks, even though that could also be the case.<\/p>\n He’s just staring at you and tries to maintain contacto visual<\/a>. Antes de mais, he can’t take his eyes off you.<\/strong><\/p>\n But he’s also doing this to check your reaction. He’s throwing the bait, waiting to see if you’ll bite. Will you look away, or will you tease and seduzi-lo de volta<\/a>?<\/p>\n A maior parte das vezes, este homem age como se voc\u00eas os dois fossem amigos do trabalho<\/a>. Tem dificuldade em manter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o profissional.<\/p>\n Por vezes, perguntamo-nos se ele quer ser o nosso melhor amigo do sexo masculino<\/b><\/a> ou se he’s attracted to you<\/b><\/a>. Well, it’s one thing if this is the only sign he displays.<\/strong><\/p>\n However, we’ve already talked about his preferential treatment. If he’s so friendly, he’d behave like that towards everyone else \u2013 not just you.<\/p>\n But the problem is that sometimes, he’s TOO friendly. The truth is that he’s actually hitting on you under this guise.<\/p>\n I’ll be honest with you: it’s smarter if your coworkers don’t follow you on social media. This goes for your boss especially.<\/p>\n Those are your private profiles, and your entire company doesn’t have to know every step you take in your personal life.<\/strong> Isto \u00e9 ainda mais importante se a sua atividade nas redes sociais for bastante elevada.<\/p>\n But this man hasn\u2019t only sent you a friend request on all of your social media profiles. He likes all of your status updates, comments on your photos, and replies to most of your stories.<\/p>\n E, pior ainda, presta especial aten\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0s suas fotografias de fato de banho ou selfies.<\/p>\n Did You just get a new haircut? He’s the first one to notice it and to compliment it. The same goes with your clothes and makeup.<\/p>\n Estes elogios<\/a> aren’t necessarily vulgar, so you think he hasn\u2019t crossed the line. Well, he thinks that way as well since he doesn’t stop complimenting you.<\/p>\n E it’s almost always something related to your looks<\/strong>. Raramente presta aten\u00e7\u00e3o ao seu desempenho profissional, que \u00e9 a \u00fanica coisa que o seu chefe deve elogiar.<\/p>\n Look, every woman likes compliments. However, this doesn’t apply to situations involving some creep you have to spend all of your working hours with.<\/p>\n Remember how I told you that this man is madly interested in your personal life? Well, it doesn\u2019t stop there. In fact, it goes both ways: he shares his private confidences with you as well.<\/p>\n V\u00e1 l\u00e1, \u00e9s mesmo a \u00fanica pessoa que lhe pode dar conselhos sobre literalmente tudo? Ou esta \u00e9 apenas uma das suas formas sorrateiras de a envolver na vida dele?<\/strong><\/p>\n Penso que sabe a resposta a esta pergunta.<\/p>\n Este homem \u00e9 obviamente a tentar criar uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o entre voc\u00eas os dois<\/strong>. Ele est\u00e1 constantemente a mostrar-te o quanto te aprecia e o quanto confia em ti, para que tu tamb\u00e9m o aprecies e confies nele.<\/p>\n Aqui est\u00e1 um dos sinais claros de que o seu chefe quer dormir consigo. Este homem n\u00e3o p\u00e1ra de lhe dar presentes.<\/p>\n I’m not talking about diamond necklaces, but he’ll pay for your lunch, get you a new pen, or buy you that planner he heard you mention.<\/strong><\/p>\n However, some bosses don’t stop there. Maybe he’ll even take advantage of his position in the company and give you a raise.<\/p>\n I mean, let’s be honest, it’s not like you don’t need the extra money. But this is not the way to get it. Besides, deep down, you know why you got this raise, and it wasn’t because of your extraordinary work performance.<\/p>\n Este homem n\u00e3o \u00e9 o seu namorado ou marido. No entanto, ele tem claramente um problema em perceber isso.<\/p>\n He doesn’t admit it, but he shows sinais de ci\u00fame<\/a> when you’re concerned. This goes beyond his interest in your love life \u2013 ele fica mesmo louco quando te v\u00ea a falar com outro homem no escrit\u00f3rio.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00c9 claro que o seu comportamento cria um ambiente de trabalho desagrad\u00e1vel e toda a gente o v\u00ea. Sem dar por isso, os seus colegas homens deixam de falar consigo porque querem evitar problemas.<\/p>\n And the worst part is that you can’t confront him about it. If you do, he’ll just tell you that he’s preventing an office romance between you and that colleague!<\/p>\n Who doesn’t enjoy working with people who have a great sense of humor? But let’s not forget that this is a workplace, and, therefore, everyone’s jokes should be appropriate and inoffensive, let alone vulgar.<\/strong><\/p>\n No entanto, parece que o seu chefe tem dificuldade em ter isto em mente. Em vez disso, o seu humor faz com que todos se sintam desconfort\u00e1veis. E adivinha? Todas as piadas dele s\u00e3o dirigidas a si.<\/p>\n I’m not saying that he makes fun of you. Instead, he usually makes indirect remarks and waits for your reaction.<\/p>\n Once again, he’s trying to disguise his real intentions. He wants to see whether it will make you laugh or if you’ll roll your eyes at his immature attempts at humor.<\/p>\n Um dos sinais de que o seu chefe quer dormir consigo pode residir no facto de este homem d\u00e1 o seu melhor para estar no seu melhor<\/strong>. But things haven’t been like this from the start.<\/p>\n When you first got the job, he couldn’t care less how he looked. However, ever since he showed signs of interest in you, everything changed.<\/p>\n Usa sempre uma tonelada de \u00e1gua de col\u00f3nia, tem roupas diferentes todos os dias e at\u00e9 cortou o cabelo de novo.<\/p>\n What is he trying to do? Well, isn’t it obvious?<\/p>\n He hopes that the tables will turn in his favor. You’ll fall in love with him and accept his game. When that happens, he’ll make the first move on you without fear of being accused of harassment.<\/p>\n Here’s one of the most common signs your boss wants to sleep with you. Sadly, this is also one of the traps many women easily fall into.<\/p>\n This guy’s power is his position in the company. He can’t court you the usual way. He can’t exactly take you out to dinner or get you flowers.<\/strong><\/p>\n Por isso, ele joga as suas cartas da melhor maneira poss\u00edvel:<\/strong> ele d\u00e1-vos falsas promessas<\/a>. He hasn\u2019t said it straightforwardly but indirectly. He promises you a promotion or a raise if you sleep with him.<\/p>\n Well, in that case, you can accuse him of blackmail and sexual harassment because that’s exactly what this is!<\/p>\n If you guys work in shifts, isn’t it strange that os seus e os vossos hor\u00e1rios de trabalho acabam sempre por ser os mesmos?<\/strong> And let’s not forget that he’s the one who makes it.<\/p>\n Mesmo que tenha um hor\u00e1rio de trabalho fixo, voc\u00eas os dois est\u00e3o sempre juntos no mesmo projeto<\/strong>. Once again, he’s responsible for this arrangement.<\/p>\n As far as he’s concerned, this is the best way to build some kind of connection between you two, especially if you\u2019ve turned down all of his other proposals to hang out after work.<\/p>\n \u200bEven though your boss has never actually made a move on you, you just know that he’s been acting unprofessionally. O seu instinto<\/a> tells you so, and that’s more than enough, especially if his behavior makes you feel uncomfortable.<\/p>\n You know exactly what I’m talking about. It’s enough for him to look at you, and you immediately feel your stomach turn upside down. Even when you two shake hands, you know he’s doing it in a creepy way.<\/p>\n Ou talvez gostes deste homem e sintas que he\u2019s interested in you<\/a> tamb\u00e9m? Talvez a qu\u00edmica entre v\u00f3s seja t\u00e3o forte e intensa que seria imposs\u00edvel ignor\u00e1-la.<\/p>\n Seja como for, uma coisa \u00e9 certa: you’re not imagining things. Trust your intuition because it helps you see things clearly.<\/strong><\/p>\n Ver tamb\u00e9m: 12 sinais de que o seu chefe o est\u00e1 a testar (e o que fazer em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a isso)<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n Os romances no escrit\u00f3rio entre patr\u00f5es e empregados s\u00e3o, de facto, mais comuns do que se possa pensar. De facto, de acordo com alguns estudos, 1 em cada 3 pessoas j\u00e1 teve algum tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o pessoal com os seus supervisores ou directores.<\/strong><\/p>\n It doesn’t matter if we’re talking about a female boss and a male subordinate or the other way around \u2013 these things happen frequently.<\/p>\n Algumas destas rela\u00e7\u00f5es transformam-se em verdadeiros romances, enquanto muitas delas continuam a ser namoros.<\/p>\n Ver tamb\u00e9m: 14 sinais seguros de que o seu chefe se preocupa consigo<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n Dormir com algu\u00e9m com quem se trabalha chama-se confraterniza\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong> It doesn’t matter if we’re talking about your boss or a coworker \u2013 if you work for the same company, that’s an office romance, and in most companies, it’s strictly forbidden.<\/p>\n If your boss is into you, he’ll give you special treatment over other employees, he’ll call you after work without a particular reason, he’ll find excuses to talk to you, he’ll pay you compliments, or he’ll admit his feelings at the end of the day.<\/p>\n No entanto, h\u00e1 uma grande diferen\u00e7a entre um homem que s\u00f3 quer dormir contigo<\/a> e um homem cujos sentimentos sejam genu\u00ednos. O segundo nunca a colocar\u00e1 numa posi\u00e7\u00e3o comprometedora ou correr\u00e1 o risco de perder o seu emprego!<\/p>\n Now that you’ve seen all the signs your boss wants to sleep with you, you have to ask yourself the most important question: Este tens\u00e3o sexual<\/b><\/a> faz-te sentir desconfort\u00e1vel, ou gostas?<\/strong><\/p>\n Remember: you don’t have to do things you feel pressured to do, even if it’s “just harmless” namoro<\/a>! I don’t care if he’s your boss. If he wants to sleep with you even though you made it very clear you’re not interested, that’s sexual harassment.<\/p>\n Don’t fall for his manipulations and save yourself from this situation one way or another.<\/p>\n1. Interesse pela sua vida pessoal<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n2. Reuni\u00f5es privadas<\/h3>\n
3. Tratamento preferencial<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n4. Flertar contigo<\/h3>\n
5. Contacto f\u00edsico acidental<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n6. Contacto fora do escrit\u00f3rio<\/h3>\n
7. Contacto visual profundo<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n8. Comportamento excessivamente amig\u00e1vel<\/h3>\n
9. Intera\u00e7\u00e3o com as redes sociais<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n10. Fazer-te elogios<\/h3>\n
11. Falar sobre a sua vida pessoal<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n12. Ofertas ou aumentos<\/h3>\n
13. Ci\u00fames desnecess\u00e1rios<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n14. Piadas inapropriadas<\/h3>\n
15. Altera\u00e7\u00e3o da apar\u00eancia<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n16. Falsas promessas<\/h3>\n
17. Hor\u00e1rios de trabalho sincronizados<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n18. O seu instinto<\/h3>\n
Qu\u00e3o comum \u00e9 dormir com o seu chefe?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nComo \u00e9 que se chama quando um patr\u00e3o dorme com um empregado?<\/h2>\n
Como saber se o seu chefe est\u00e1 interessado em si?<\/h2>\n
Para terminar:<\/h2>\n