{"id":146587,"date":"2022-03-03T16:04:38","date_gmt":"2022-03-03T16:04:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=146587"},"modified":"2022-07-31T23:35:48","modified_gmt":"2022-07-31T23:35:48","slug":"amamo-nos-mas-nao-podemos-estar-juntos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amamo-nos-mas-nao-podemos-estar-juntos\/","title":{"rendered":"Amamo-nos mas n\u00e3o podemos estar juntos: O que fazer"},"content":{"rendered":"

‘We love each other but can’t be together’… Yes, there are two sides of love, and this is the not-so-pretty one. O tipo de amor proibido, quase imposs\u00edvel<\/a> pode magoar mais uma pessoa.<\/em><\/p>\n

It’s when your heart is filled with love for some person, but at the same time, you’re a passar pelo desgosto mais doloroso<\/a>.<\/strong> You love them, but you know you shouldn’t, and it’s killing you inside.<\/p>\n

Indeed, our heart has that awful habit of ignoring our mind a little too often. It’s just that no matter how hard you try and no matter how much you want it, you just can’t control it.<\/p>\n

You can’t control your romantic emotions nor do you have the power to delete someone from your heart.<\/em> No entanto, deve saber que independentemente da situa\u00e7\u00e3o, amor verdadeiro<\/a> is always worth the fight. And, I’m here to help you come out from that battle as a winner.<\/p>\n

We Love Each Other But Can’t Be Together: 8 Possible Reasons, With Relationship Advice<\/h2>\n

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There are various reasons why two people in love can’t be together. I’ve selected the most common ones and provided them with some efficient relationship advice.<\/p>\n

Conhece o ditado, a procrastina\u00e7\u00e3o traz preju\u00edzos<\/em>… So, let’s find a way to build a bridge between you and your loved one, and make things between you work.<\/p>\n

1. We love each other but can’t be together because of distance.<\/h3>\n

I know… being in uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia<\/a> \u00e9 uma seca. Quando est\u00e1vamos a namorar, o meu marido teve de se mudar para longe por causa do trabalho dele e juro que foi o ano mais dif\u00edcil da minha vida.<\/p>\n

No entanto, nunca consider\u00e1mos a separa\u00e7\u00e3o como uma op\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong> We made a promise to each other that we’ll stay together no matter what, and that no distance will be able to separate us.<\/p>\n

To make a long story short, we endured it all, and now, four years later, we’re happily married. Your love story can have the same ending, but only if you make efforts to fazer com que a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia resulte.<\/a><\/p>\n

- A compreens\u00e3o e a comunica\u00e7\u00e3o regular s\u00e3o a arma mais poderosa contra a dist\u00e2ncia<\/strong><\/p>\n

You should simply behave like you’re in a ‘normal’ relationship. Mantenham-se em contacto regularmente, falem e fa\u00e7am facetime um com o outro todos os dias, falem sobre os vossos dias, planeiem as vossas f\u00e9rias juntos, encontrem uma forma de manter a intimidade<\/a> alive whether it’s through sexting or whatever<\/em>…<\/p>\n

Ser paciente<\/a> e compreens\u00e3o acima de tudo. N\u00e3o se esque\u00e7a de que a dist\u00e2ncia n\u00e3o significa nada quando duas pessoas se amam sinceramente e querem ficar juntas, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer.<\/p>\n

2. We love each other but can’t be together because of different faiths.<\/h3>\n

I always try to comfort myself that our society has overcome these faith-related issues, but unfortunately, that’s not true. These things still exist and many couples decide to break up because of as suas diferentes religi\u00f5es<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Please don’t become one of those couples. God loves us all, and in His eyes, we’re all the same<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

- Tudo come\u00e7a e termina com respeito e aceita\u00e7\u00e3o<\/strong><\/p>\n

You can always agree to disagree about some things; however, you shouldn’t desrespeito<\/a> or completely refuse your partner’s values and beliefs. If they’re important to them, such things must be important to you, too.<\/p>\n

In the end, different holidays come with different faiths. That means you’ll have more reason for celebrations and more reasons to be happy and surrounded by people you love.<\/em><\/p>\n

3. We love each other but can’t be together because we’re committed to other people.<\/h3>\n

You’re deeply in love with each other, but are one or both of you married? The fact is, these things happen every day, and that’s exactly the reason why divorce exists.<\/p>\n

However, don’t engage in any kind of relationship while you don’t end your marriage. Estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o com um homem casado<\/a>\/woman is terribly difficult and almost never ends in a good way… trust me, I know it best.<\/p>\n

- Ambos t\u00eam de escolher um lado<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nesse processo de decis\u00e3o, deve perguntar a si pr\u00f3prio uma coisa e ser brutalmente honesto com a resposta. Are you truly in love with each other or do you think it’s just passion or infatuation?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Isto pode ajudar-te a encontrar a resposta; 10 diferen\u00e7as cruciais entre amor e paix\u00e3o.<\/a><\/p>\n

If you have any doubts regarding the strength of your love, you might make a huge mistake by leaving your partner… a mistake that will haunt you for the rest of your life.<\/em><\/p>\n

However, if you’re sure of what you feel for each other, then it’s unfair to lie to your life partner. You need to find the strength to deixar o seu casamento<\/a> e ficar ao lado uns dos outros, mesmo que o mundo inteiro esteja contra v\u00f3s.<\/p>\n

4. We love each other but can’t be together because we keep hurting each other.<\/h3>\n

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Gaslighting,<\/a> abuso emocional<\/a>A falta de compreens\u00e3o e de respeito, a manipula\u00e7\u00e3o, jealousy…<\/a> S\u00e3o estes os padr\u00f5es da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/p>\n

Just because you’re in love doesn’t mean you also have to be blind<\/em>. It’s good that both of you are aware of your unhealthy relationship, but it’s not good that you’re thinking about desistir do vosso amor.<\/a><\/p>\n

If one person keeps hurting the other, then it’s amor n\u00e3o correspondido<\/a>E n\u00e3o vale a pena lutar por esse tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o. No entanto, se ambos forem igualmente culpados desses erros, podem fazer com que a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o volte a funcionar<\/a> se a vontade de se esfor\u00e7ar for m\u00fatua.<\/p>\n

- Trabalhe na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o em vez de desistir dela<\/strong><\/p>\n

S\u00f3 os cobardes abandonam e desistem quando as coisas se tornam dif\u00edceis<\/em>. O objetivo \u00e9 ficar e continuar a lutar.<\/p>\n

J\u00e1 deu um grande passo em frente consertar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>; you admitted that it’s toxic<\/strong>. Agora, s\u00f3 precisa de encontrar uma forma de espremer essa toxicidade e torn\u00e1-la novamente saud\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n

Just because you walked onto a few obstacles on your way doesn’t mean you can’t be together anymore. You can and you must for the sake of your love.<\/p>\n

5. We love each other but can’t be together because our families don’t approve of it.<\/h3>\n

No matter how much you try to prove that your love is sincere and that you’re really made for each other, your families just won’t support<\/a> a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Percebo porque \u00e9 que acham que seria melhor seguirem caminhos separados e continuarem com as vossas vidas. They’re the people you love the most in the entire world, and it’s completely normal that their opinions matter to you that much.<\/em><\/p>\n

However, shouldn’t your happiness be the most important thing for them? If you two make each other happy, aren’t they being unfair for standing in the way of your love?<\/p>\n

- Ter o apoio dos seus entes queridos \u00e9 importante, mas tem de decidir quais s\u00e3o as suas prioridades<\/strong><\/p>\n

T\u00eam duas op\u00e7\u00f5es: ou se abandonam um ao outro s\u00f3 para agradar \u00e0s vossas fam\u00edlias, ou v\u00e3o contra elas e lutam pelo vosso amor.<\/em><\/p>\n

I agree… both of them are hard ones. However, together, you can find a way to deal with your families while, on the other hand, if you choose the first option, you might regret it for the rest of your life.<\/p>\n

After all, they’ll have to find a way to accept you two as a couple sooner or later.<\/strong> I think they won’t risk losing their family members just because they don’t particularly like your life partners.<\/p>\n

6. We love each other but can’t be together because our life goals don’t align.<\/h3>\n

Hoje em dia, tornou-se um equ\u00edvoco comum pensar que duas pessoas numa parceria amorosa t\u00eam de ter as mesmas ambi\u00e7\u00f5es, objectivos e metas para o futuro ou, pelo menos, semelhantes.<\/p>\n

Pelo contr\u00e1rio, o objetivo do uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/a> \u00e9 manter a sua independ\u00eancia<\/strong>. Pode ter diferentes objectivos de vida<\/a>mas devem apoiar-se e ajudar-se mutuamente a atingi-los.<\/p>\n

- Compromise! It’s always better to bend a little than to break into pieces<\/strong><\/p>\n

Para que uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o funcione, devem partilhar apenas um objetivo: envelhecer juntos<\/strong><\/a>. Se esse for o \u00fanico objetivo que os dois t\u00eam em comum, nada mais importa.<\/p>\n

Don’t let your selfish desires ruin what you two have. I’m not saying you should give up on your goals and dreams, but by cultivating acceptance and respect, you will be able to find common ground<\/em>\u2026 the ground to build your future together.<\/p>\n

7. We love each other but can’t be together because of the big age gap.<\/h3>\n

Voc\u00eas os dois est\u00e3o apaixonados, mas a enorme diferen\u00e7a de idades<\/a> between you is causing you real problems, and you think it’ll never allow you to be happy together.<\/p>\n

Of course, it’s not only age, but all the differences and different life experiences that come with it<\/em>… para al\u00e9m disso, presumo que as vossas fam\u00edlias s\u00e3o fortemente contra a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>n\u00e3o \u00e9?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you one thing: none of those things matter because you’re looking at it from a very wrong perspective…<\/p>\n

- Deve encar\u00e1-lo como uma oportunidade e n\u00e3o como um obst\u00e1culo<\/strong><\/p>\n

Most couples are terrified of their differences because they think it’ll ruin their relationship sooner or later.<\/em> Unfortunately, they’ve no idea how wrong they truly are.<\/p>\n

Essas diferen\u00e7as podem, de facto, aproximar duas pessoas.<\/strong> As diferen\u00e7as permitem-nos descobrir e aprender muitas coisas uns com os outros, o que s\u00f3 pode resultar no refor\u00e7o da liga\u00e7\u00e3o entre parceiros.<\/p>\n

After all, love doesn’t care for age, faith, race, and such things… actually, when two people truly love each other, nothing else matters except that love.<\/p>\n

8. We love each other but can’t be together because of his\/her infidelity.<\/h3>\n

Estava numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o amorosa, mas, de repente, o seu conto de fadas foi destru\u00eddo porque o seu parceiro traiu-o?<\/a><\/p>\n

Now, you know you still love them and they claim they love you, too, and how it was all just a mistake they don’t plan to repeat ever again. However, do you think that you aren’t able to leave their mistakes behind, but at the same time, you think you can’t leave them behind either?<\/p>\n

Para ser sincero, escolher entre perdoar um traidor<\/a> and letting go of them is a tough call, but you’ll have to decide what to do soon. I hope this will help you make the right decision…<\/p>\n

- O perd\u00e3o \u00e9 a forma mais elevada de amor<\/strong><\/p>\n

There is nothing wrong with forgiving your partner for cheating on you. However, it’s only if you’re doing it for the right reason… if you’re doing it because you really love them and see that they honestly regret their mistake.<\/em><\/p>\n

Os erros tornaram-se uma grande parte das nossas vidas, e a verdade \u00e9 que ningu\u00e9m est\u00e1 imune a cometer erros, especialmente no que diz respeito \u00e0 nossa vida amorosa.<\/strong><\/p>\n

On the other hand, if you really can’t find the strength to forgive your partner for betraying you in such a way, you really shouldn’t continue that relationship. It’ll be a deeply unhealthy relationship, and sooner or later, you will break up and it’ll be for good.<\/p>\n

What Do You Do When You Love Someone But Can’t Be Together?<\/h2>\n

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Being in this situation can seriously impact your mental health, especially if you don’t know how to cope with it. Here are a few tips that will help you keep your own sanity during these hard times in your life.<\/p>\n

1. Seja realista e veja as coisas como elas s\u00e3o.<\/h3>\n

Don’t get me wrong… you should have the faith that one day, you’ll overcome obstacles and finally be together<\/em>. However, what you shouldn’t do is keep living in hope.<\/p>\n

You can spend some time there, but sooner or later, you’ll have to step into reality and stay there.<\/strong> Por muito dura ou injusta que a vida se torne, n\u00e3o temos outra escolha sen\u00e3o viv\u00ea-la.<\/p>\n

You have to keep that realistic point of view for the sake of your own sanity. Living in a bubble may work for some time, but once you step out of it, you’ll be enfrentar o desgosto mais doloroso<\/a> da sua vida.<\/p>\n

2. Accept that some people simply aren’t meant to be together.<\/h3>\n

Algumas coisas est\u00e3o fora do nosso controlo e temos de o aceitar.<\/strong> No matter how much you want something to work out, God has other plans for you, and that’s something you can’t change.<\/p>\n

Algumas pessoas, apesar dos fortes sentimentos que nutrem uma pela outra, simplesmente n\u00e3o s\u00e3o destinado a ser<\/a> ou ficar juntos para sempre.<\/em><\/p>\n

Pode aceit\u00e1-lo e concentrar-se na sua cura ou pode continuar a viver numa mentira e continuar a esperar que o imposs\u00edvel aconte\u00e7a. Para ser honesto, ambas as escolhas s\u00e3o dif\u00edceis, mas a primeira \u00e9 de facto muito menos dolorosa.<\/p>\n

3. Lidar com as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es de uma forma saud\u00e1vel.<\/h3>\n

Don’t even think about suppressing your emotions. You’re separated from the person you love… this is not the time to pretend you’re strong.<\/em><\/p>\n

You may think that bottling up your emotions helps you ease the pain. But, the truth is, it’ll only prolong your heartbreak because sooner or later, those emotions will find a way out.<\/p>\n

Encontrar uma forma de controlar isso montanha-russa de emo\u00e7\u00f5es avassaladoras<\/a> you’re currently dealing with.<\/strong> Cry if you have the need to, break something if it’ll help you with the anger that is eating you inside. Don’t let your emotions consume you… find a healthy way to deal with them.<\/p>\n

4. Confie no seu melhor amigo.<\/h3>\n

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Partilhar as suas m\u00e1goas com os seus melhores amigos e familiares \u00e9 a \u00fanica terapia de que necessita<\/em>. Even if they can’t offer you advice about what you should do, they will be there for you and they will try everything just to see you smile again.<\/p>\n

It’s perfectly normal that you can’t deal with all of this alone. Permita que os seus entes queridos o ajudem e o confortem.<\/strong><\/p>\n

This is really not the time for you to act like you’re so brave and all of that nonsense. Trust me… when it comes to love, we’re all weak and we all need help.<\/p>\n

5. Por muito que os ames, deves sempre amar-te mais a ti pr\u00f3prio.<\/h3>\n

A \u00fanica pessoa que estar\u00e1 consigo para o resto da sua vida \u00e9 voc\u00ea mesmo<\/em>. That’s the only fact, and it’s time to remind yourself of that.<\/p>\n

Nunca se deve amar outra pessoa mais do que se ama a si pr\u00f3prio. Lembra-te sempre de uma coisa; you’re the only person you can’t live without.<\/strong><\/p>\n

6. Se n\u00e3o vale a pena lutar por isso, encontre a for\u00e7a para o deixar ir.<\/h3>\n

If it’s really pointless to keep fighting for it, you need to gather the strength and courage to seguir em frente.<\/a> Let go of what can’t be and save yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It’s pointless to hold onto something you know can never work. It can only keep breaking your heart, every single day, piece by piece…<\/p>\n

7. Acreditar no poder do tempo.<\/h3>\n

Talvez they aren’t your soulmate after all<\/a>. Talvez sejam, mas conheceram-se na altura errada.<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n

O tempo o dir\u00e1<\/strong>. N\u00e3o tem outra op\u00e7\u00e3o sen\u00e3o dar tempo ao tempo e ver o que acontece. If you’re meant to be together<\/a>, you’ll cross paths in the future, and you’ll never separate again. On the other hand, if they aren’t your destiny, time will bring you peace and healing.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 poss\u00edvel estar apaixonado sem estar junto?<\/h2>\n

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Unfortunately, you can. In fact, the pain and the longing can intensify the love you feel for them even if they’re taken away from you forever.<\/p>\n

Even if many bad things happen between you, even if they’re far away from you, even if you decided to part ways years ago, you can still be in love with them like the very first time you meet them.<\/p>\n

Whether we like it or not, love isn’t something that can be controlled<\/em>. Only our heart has the privilege to decide who it’ll let in and how long that person will stay there<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

O bot\u00e3o para desligar as emo\u00e7\u00f5es n\u00e3o existe nem nunca existir\u00e1.<\/em> O cora\u00e7\u00e3o quer o que quer, e n\u00e3o h\u00e1 absolutamente nada que se possa fazer.<\/p>\n

We Love Each Other But Can’t Be Together Quotes<\/h2>\n

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You can also seek solace in these powerful \u2018we love each other but can’t be together\u2019 quotes<\/em>.<\/p>\n

1. “A flame may love a snowflake, but they can never be together without each harming the other.” \u2013 Chris Colfer<\/p>\n

2. “I don’t cry because we’ve been separated by distance, and for a matter of years. Why? Because for as long as we share the same sky and breathe the same air, we’re still together.” \u2013 Donna Lynn Hope<\/strong><\/p>\n

3. “My heart and mind are telling me two different things. My heart is telling me that this is a great love. My mind is telling me that there is a difference between real love and forbidden love. My mind is also telling me that I shouldn\u2019t want to be with you.” \u2013 Cassandra Clare<\/p>\n

4. “I love you more than I could ever describe, but our time has come and gone. I don\u2019t want to end things like this, and I don\u2019t give up hope. Maybe someday, we will meet again and it will be back like it used to.” \u2013 Unknown<\/strong><\/p>\n

5. “Even though we were never supposed to be together, I can\u2019t be with anyone else, no matter the consequences.” \u2013 Nicole Gulla<\/p>\n

6. “And then, when there is nothing else between us but love, we can begin to find a way to truly be together.” \u2013 S.J. Watson<\/strong><\/p>\n

7. “Our forbidden love was never meant to survive. I had no idea life could be this hard without you with me. I see clearly now that we weren\u2019t meant to be together. The love we have is a forbidden love.” \u2013 John West<\/p>\n

Reflex\u00f5es finais<\/h2>\n

‘We love each other but can’t be together’ is the sentence I hate the most because nothing is impossible with amor verdadeiro<\/a>. I believe with all my heart that love is the most powerful force in the universe, and the only one that’s capable of making real wonders.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sometimes, you need exactly that… a wonder. On the other hand, sometimes, a bit of faith combined with mutual effort is more than enough in order to fazer funcionar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n

If it’s truly impossible for you to be together, then you must know that it isn’t amor verdadeiro<\/a> afinal de contas. E isso tornar\u00e1 o processo de seguir em frente muito mais f\u00e1cil para si.<\/p>\n

One day, you’ll conhe\u00e7a a sua alma g\u00e9mea<\/a>; the person who’ll show you what true love really is. At that moment, it’ll be perfectly clear to you why this relationship couldn’t survive.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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