{"id":14688,"date":"2020-05-16T10:56:26","date_gmt":"2020-05-16T10:56:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14688"},"modified":"2022-03-10T17:48:44","modified_gmt":"2022-03-10T17:48:44","slug":"8-sinais-obvios-de-que-nunca-vai-mudar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/8-sinais-obvios-de-que-nunca-vai-mudar\/","title":{"rendered":"8 Sinais \u00f3bvios de que ele nunca vai mudar"},"content":{"rendered":"

Se bateu numa parede na rela\u00e7\u00e3o, sem saber se vale a pena ficar e lutar ou afastar-se, ent\u00e3o conhece a dor da luta.<\/p>\n

Por vezes, por muito que tentemos ou por muito que amemos o nosso parceiro, ele \u00e9 demasiado doloroso para n\u00f3s.<\/p>\n

They\u2019re struggling with working on their behavior, either because they just don\u2019t know how to change or they don\u2019t want to.<\/p>\n

Para o ajudar decidir se fica ou se vai embora,<\/a> Fizemos uma lista dos sinais mais comuns de que ele n\u00e3o vai mudar. Nunca.<\/p>\n

1. Ele transforma-se em modo Hulk em vez de modo melhorado<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Para melhorarmos o nosso comportamento, para come\u00e7armos de facto a trabalhar nele, temos primeiro de aceitar que algo est\u00e1 errado. Precisamos de ver os nossos erros e falhas para os podermos corrigir.<\/p>\n

But if he gets angry every time you mention that he hurt you or that he did something he promised he wouldn\u2019t, then he can\u2019t see the problem.<\/p>\n

Ele continua a pensar que \u00e9 perfeito, independentemente de lhe ter pedido desculpa h\u00e1 algum tempo ou de ter prometido mudar.<\/p>\n

2. He doesn\u2019t know the meaning of the word \u2018compromise\u2019<\/a><\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

It\u2019s either his way or no way. He has done nothing wrong, so there is no need for him to change or do anything.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s all in your head, so you are the one who should deal with it.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s never willing to step into your shoes and see things from your perspective.<\/p>\n

He sticks to his own opinion, regardless of how wrong it is. To him, it\u2019s the most perfect one.<\/p>\n

3. Ele pensa que s\u00f3 o queres irritar<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Por mais cuidadosa que seja a sua abordagem, por mais magoada que se sinta, ele s\u00f3 ouve o \"nag nag nag\".<\/p>\n

He is so self-involved that he can\u2019t see the pain in your eyes, he just hears what he wants to hear. And that would be you nagging and trying to piss him off.<\/p>\n

Ele at\u00e9 a acusar\u00e1 de s\u00f3 querer estragar-lhe o dia, para a levar a pedir desculpa e a deixar de lado o assunto por uns tempos.<\/p>\n

4. He laughs it off and he doesn\u2019t care how it affects you<\/h2>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

When you tell him that you\u2019re broken, he rolls his eyes, saying how you\u2019re being overdramatic.<\/p>\n

Quando lhe pedes para fazer um esfor\u00e7o na rela\u00e7\u00e3o, ele faz-te sentir maluca s\u00f3 porque te atreveste a dizer uma coisa dessas.<\/p>\n

After all, he is the only one who\u2019s trying and working on it, you\u2019re just too selfish to see it.<\/p>\n

E quando diz que h\u00e1 um problema, ele faz uma piada sobre isso e muda de assunto. Este \u00e9 um sinal de que ele realmente s\u00f3 se preocupa com ele pr\u00f3prio.<\/a><\/p>\n

5. Desaparece ocasionalmente<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Every time you try to talk to him, he turns into a ghost. He is nowhere to be found, his cell phone is off or he\u2019s straight-up avoiding you with loads of work he has to do (and you know he\u2019s somewhere getting drunk).<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a sinal de que ele n\u00e3o est\u00e1 preparado<\/a> para vos ouvir, para ouvir os seus erros. E, muito provavelmente, nunca o far\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Depois de terminar o ghosting, ele volta e finge que nada aconteceu. Como se tudo estivesse bem.<\/p>\n

6. He\u2019s a liar\u2014and a bad one<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

\u00c9 poss\u00edvel perceber sempre que ele mente e ele tem um longo historial de mentiras, por isso, porque espera que desta vez seja diferente? Ele faz promessas, mas nunca as cumpre.<\/p>\n

All he has is words, but they mean nothing if actions don\u2019t follow them. It\u2019s up to you to decide whether you want to listen to his lies or your heart.<\/p>\n

7. Regardless of the consequences, he just doesn\u2019t care<\/h2>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

Whether there weren\u2019t any the first time he messed things up or if there are huge ones, like you leaving, he just doesn\u2019t care.<\/p>\n

Nothing really bothers him\u2014after all, it\u2019s your problem too. So, you should work on it.<\/p>\n

8. That\u2019s just who he is<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

How can you be so selfish and ask him to change? That\u2019s who he is, that\u2019s part of him. If he loses that, he won\u2019t be himself anymore. Bullshit.<\/p>\n

He just doesn\u2019t feel like putting any effort into your relationship and into making you happy. That kind of man is not digno de um \u00fanico segundo do vosso tempo.<\/a><\/p>\n

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