{"id":14715,"date":"2020-02-16T12:30:31","date_gmt":"2020-02-16T12:30:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14715"},"modified":"2022-01-14T02:08:21","modified_gmt":"2022-01-14T02:08:21","slug":"10-medos-irracionais-dos-relacionamentos-masculinos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-medos-irracionais-dos-relacionamentos-masculinos\/","title":{"rendered":"10 medos irracionais que todos os homens t\u00eam nos relacionamentos"},"content":{"rendered":"

Fear can keep us from doing so many great things. Usually, it’s the female side of the relationship who has the biggest fears regarding the relationship.<\/p>\n

She’s always questioning everything in order to know if there’s anything wrong. But what if I told you that men are the ones with the most irrational fears in their relationships?<\/p>\n

In their eyes, a relationship can be wonderful or terrifying; there\u2019s no in-between. They are afraid of the same things as we women are, plus more.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 claro que isto pode n\u00e3o se aplicar a todos os homens. Cada pessoa \u00e9 completamente diferente e as mulheres podem experimentar estes medos<\/a> tamb\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

1. N\u00e3o ter tempo suficiente<\/span><\/h2>\n

Os homens t\u00eam medo<\/a> that throughout the week they won’t have the time needed to dedicate to the relationship.<\/p>\n

They don’t find it rational to invest a whole day in a road trip with their girlfriend when they could finish a project they started or watch the game that night.<\/p>\n

2. N\u00e3o se esfor\u00e7ar o suficiente<\/span><\/h2>\n

Because of the fact that they are scared that they won’t make time for their girlfriend, this automatically leads to the fear of not giving enough effort.<\/p>\n

Os homens n\u00e3o t\u00eam no\u00e7\u00e3o de quanta aten\u00e7\u00e3o uma mulher realmente precisa e o que fazer para que ela se sinta especial.<\/p>\n

So this puts a lot of pressure on them and they fear that they won’t do a good job.<\/p>\n

3. Andar demasiado depressa<\/span><\/h2>\n

This fear can be so illogical that it can slow down the relationship process. You see, men are creatures of habit and when they start a relationship after a long period of being single, something seems off and they don’t really seem to like that things are a mover-se t\u00e3o depressa<\/a>.<\/p>\n

You might be together for years and he still can’t \u2018’put a ring on it\u2019’ because of his fear. This can lead a pensar demais<\/a> e ele pode realmente come\u00e7ar a questionar toda a rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

4. Alterar<\/span><\/h2>\n

Este medo \u00e9 um pouco racional. As nossas vidas s\u00e3o para sermos n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios e fazermos todas as coisas que gostamos de fazer, certo? Assim, naturalmente, os homens receiam que a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o os possa mudar ao ponto de deixarem de gostar das coisas que gostavam quando eram solteiros.<\/p>\n

Relationships can be time-consuming and he might be thinking that there’s no way you can put effort into making your partner feel happy and into the other dreams and goals you have besides the relationship.<\/p>\n

5. N\u00e3o h\u00e1 sexo suficiente<\/span><\/h2>\n

We all know that men love sexual interaction and they fear that having sex with one partner for the rest of their life might get boring at one point or that their partner won’t be up for having sex as often as they do.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, os homens gostam de ter rela\u00e7\u00f5es sexuais com muitas mulheres, s\u00f3 para apimentar as coisas. Por isso, uma vida sexual monog\u00e2mica n\u00e3o \u00e9 assim t\u00e3o apelativa para eles.<\/p>\n

6. A partner who’s too needy<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

Bem, \u00e9 claro que as rela\u00e7\u00f5es criam depend\u00eancias entre si, mas os homens receiam que a sua namorada possa ser demasiado dependente deles e carente<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Because he loves you, he will do whatever it takes to make you happy, but that also creates scenarios that aren’t really pleasing to him.<\/p>\n

Men want more breathing space as they’re getting to know their partner and that’s what’ll give them some security.<\/p>\n

7. Batota<\/span><\/h2>\n

Trair \u00e9 a pior e mais desonesta coisa que uma pessoa que amamos nos pode fazer.<\/p>\n

After you’ve been cheated on, you start feeling like you’re not good enough and men, just like women, don’t want that.<\/p>\n

They fear you cheating on them and whatever they say, it’ll break their heart to the core if you do.<\/p>\n

8. Vulnerabilidade<\/span><\/h2>\n

We all know that men are born protectors. Society doesn’t let them show a weakness of any kind and they got used to that mindset. But the moment they get more emotionally invested in the relationship, there might be a fear of vulnerability.<\/p>\n

They weren’t raised with the idea that being vulnerable is acceptable, but rather to rarely show their emotions. They fear their emotions like the plague and they simply crawl back to their room and hide together with their vulnerability.<\/p>\n

9. Perder amigos<\/span><\/h2>\n

Os homens adoram os seus amigos e familiares e a ideia de que estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o pode n\u00e3o lhes dar espa\u00e7o e tempo suficientes para se dedicarem a eles \u00e9 aterradora.<\/p>\n

It’s just that if you start investing yourself too much in a serious, committed, romantic relationship, you invest less (or nothing at all) in other relationships.<\/p>\n

10. Cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido<\/span><\/h2>\n

They fear getting hurt. If a man had a hard time with past relationships, it’s normal if he fears commitment now.<\/p>\n

Os homens t\u00eam medo que a sua parceira os deixe, rompa com eles ou os traia. Temem a perda de algu\u00e9m t\u00e3o especial para eles e ficar com o cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido<\/a>.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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