{"id":14738,"date":"2020-07-16T13:37:46","date_gmt":"2020-07-16T13:37:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14738"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:55:22","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:55:22","slug":"foi-nisto-que-ela-se-transformou-depois-de-a-teres-quebrado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/foi-nisto-que-ela-se-transformou-depois-de-a-teres-quebrado\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 nisto que ela se transformou depois de a teres partido"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ela amava-o e voc\u00ea quebrou-a. Em vez de tornar a vida bela para ambos, dando-lhe simplesmente o seu amor, optou por fazer o contr\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n<p>E isso \u00e9 uma treta. Sabes porqu\u00ea? Porque ela puxou a ponta mais curta do pau.<\/p>\n<p>She did nothing to deserve the things you did to her. But unfortunately, she wasn\u2019t one of those who dodged the bullet.<\/p>\n<p>Atingiu-a mesmo no centro do cora\u00e7\u00e3o. Nem um mil\u00edmetro acima ou abaixo. E ela partiu-se num milh\u00e3o de peda\u00e7os.<\/p>\n<p>The list of things you did to her is so long that one can\u2019t help but wonder if you feed off of other people\u2019s misery.<\/p>\n<p>Fica feliz ao ver algu\u00e9m em baixo? Sente-se bem consigo mesmo quando derruba uma pessoa at\u00e9 ao ponto mais baixo em que ela alguma vez esteve na sua vida?<\/p>\n<p>Nunca te preocupaste com o que restaria dela quando acabasses com ela. Nunca paraste por um segundo e pensaste em como as tuas ac\u00e7\u00f5es de merda a iriam afetar, essa rapariga que n\u00e3o queria nada a n\u00e3o ser estar ao teu lado e amar-te.<\/p>\n<p>Haver\u00e1 algo pior do que ver uma boa rapariga <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/girls-falling-bad-boys-3-jogos-mentais-que-os-narcisistas-nos-pregam\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">apaixonar-se pelo homem errado<\/a> e depois transforma-se noutra pessoa quando \u00e9 quebrada por esse mesmo homem que era suposto am\u00e1-la?<\/p>\n<p>Depois de um desgosto, todos n\u00f3s mudamos. Mas depois de um desgosto, mudamos completamente.<\/p>\n<p>Porque as li\u00e7\u00f5es que aprendemos depois de sermos partidos ficam gravadas na nossa mente para sempre. E nunca se pode esquecer isso.<\/p>\n<h2>Transformaste-a numa pessoa que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o confia em ningu\u00e9m<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93812\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Sad-thoughtful-girl-sit-alone-on-sill-looking-through-window.jpg\" alt=\"Rapariga triste e pensativa sentada sozinha no parapeito a olhar pela janela\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Sad-thoughtful-girl-sit-alone-on-sill-looking-through-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Sad-thoughtful-girl-sit-alone-on-sill-looking-through-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Sad-thoughtful-girl-sit-alone-on-sill-looking-through-window-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Because she trusted you and look where that got her. If she had just been a little smarter, if she hadn\u2019t gone all in from the beginning, if she hadn\u2019t assumed you were one of the good guys, she wouldn\u2019t be this broken now.<\/p>\n<p>But she is. And that\u2019s why she doesn\u2019t trust anyone anymore. She\u2019s always one foot out the door.<\/p>\n<h2>Desde que a partiu, ela j\u00e1 n\u00e3o usa o cora\u00e7\u00e3o na manga<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93813\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-looking-through-window-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste a olhar pela janela\" width=\"800\" height=\"545\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-looking-through-window-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-looking-through-window-1-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-looking-through-window-1-768x523.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.crosswalk.com\/family\/singles\/he-said-she-said\/what-does-it-mean-to-guard-your-heart.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Ela guarda o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> now, with all the resources she has. She\u2019s built walls so high that nothing can tear them down.<\/p>\n<p>It will be a long time before she thinks about welcoming anyone in. That\u2019s if she ever decides to do that.<\/p>\n<h2>Ela sabe agora que s\u00f3 pode contar consigo pr\u00f3pria<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93815\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-sitting-on-parquet-floor-by-window.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste sentada no ch\u00e3o de parquet junto \u00e0 janela\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-sitting-on-parquet-floor-by-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-sitting-on-parquet-floor-by-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-sitting-on-parquet-floor-by-window-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She counted on you and you pulled the rug from under her feet. You showed her that she shouldn\u2019t trust anyone.<\/p>\n<p>But worst of all, she saw that even though she was there for someone with all her being, it didn\u2019t mean that someone would be there for her too. You showed her that the only person who won\u2019t let her down is herself.<\/p>\n<h2>Ela riscou o amor da sua lista de desejos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93817\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-in-white-sleeveless-dress.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com vestido branco sem mangas\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-in-white-sleeveless-dress.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-in-white-sleeveless-dress-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-in-white-sleeveless-dress-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Este era o seu maior desejo, sabes. Mas ela j\u00e1 n\u00e3o quer amor. Porque lhe mostraste que o amor magoa.<\/p>\n<p>You showed her the dark side of falling for someone. And now she sees love through the prism of you. And it\u2019s not nice.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why she said goodbye to love. She no longer wants to love or to be loved.<\/p>\n<p>Esse cap\u00edtulo da vida dela est\u00e1 encerrado, e pode at\u00e9 estar encerrado para sempre.<\/p>\n<h2>Aprendeu a rir mesmo quando lhe apetecia gritar. Aprendeu a sorrir mesmo quando tudo dentro dela se estava a partir<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93819\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-woman-relaxing-at-home-with-cup-of-coffee-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher jovem a relaxar em casa com uma ch\u00e1vena de caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-woman-relaxing-at-home-with-cup-of-coffee-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-woman-relaxing-at-home-with-cup-of-coffee-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-woman-relaxing-at-home-with-cup-of-coffee-1-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She was never good at faking her feelings. But you know, life teaches you even the things you don\u2019t really want to know.<\/p>\n<p>Agora <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/10-coisas-que-as-pessoas-que-engarrafam-emocoes-vao-entender\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">ela engarrafa os seus sentimentos<\/a>. She doesn\u2019t show anyone how she feels. When she feels like screaming, she just laughs.<\/p>\n<p>When she feels like breaking, she just smiles. Because if she lets herself go, she\u2019s afraid that she\u2019ll break into a million pieces and that she\u2019ll never be able to pull herself back together.<\/p>\n<h2>She hates the sentence \u201cI\u2019m fine\u201d, but after you, that\u2019s all she ever says about her feelings<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93822\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/close-up-portrait-of-woman-looking-back.jpg\" alt=\"retrato em grande plano de uma mulher a olhar para tr\u00e1s\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/close-up-portrait-of-woman-looking-back.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/close-up-portrait-of-woman-looking-back-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/close-up-portrait-of-woman-looking-back-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She doesn\u2019t let anyone know how she feels. She says she\u2019s fine.<\/p>\n<p>But in that fine, there are millions of emotions, thousands of tears and one huge heartbreak. She\u2019s everything but fine even though she\u2019ll never admit that.<\/p>\n<p>Ela era a pessoa mais ador\u00e1vel de se ter por perto. Ela era a pessoa mais feliz deste mundo.<\/p>\n<p>Ela acreditava que havia bondade nas pessoas e que o amor podia salvar o mundo. Mas tu mostraste-lhe o contr\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n<p>You showed her that her love isn\u2019t strong enough to defeat someone as bad as you are. And you turned her into one of those people she begged God for her to never become.<\/p>\n<p>Transformaste-a num cad\u00e1ver vivo. Ela anda, fala, respira e come, mas n\u00e3o tem alma. J\u00e1 n\u00e3o tem amor dentro dela.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s cold. There are no warm emotions in her bloodstream. There is no happiness or honest smiles. She lost all that to you.<\/p>\n<p>You pulled her into your darkness and you let her go, only when you saw that there wasn\u2019t a single trace of light left in her.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93807\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/This-Is-What-She-Turned-Into-After-You-Broke-Her-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"\u00c9 nisto que ela se transformou depois de a teres partido\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/This-Is-What-She-Turned-Into-After-You-Broke-Her-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/This-Is-What-She-Turned-Into-After-You-Broke-Her-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>She loved you and you broke her. Instead of making life beautiful for both of you by simply giving her your love, you chose to go the other way around. And that sucks. Do you know why? Because she pulled the shorter end of the stick. She did nothing to deserve the things you did&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":39,"featured_media":93808,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29642],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14738","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-guy-talk"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29642,"label":"guy talk"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/This-Is-What-She-Turned-Into-After-You-Broke-Her.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Owen Scott","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/hase\/"},"comment_info":24,"category_info":[{"term_id":29642,"name":"guy talk","slug":"guy-talk","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29642,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Welcome to the land of juicy topics and lots of helpful tips on love and relationships. 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