{"id":147563,"date":"2022-03-17T11:11:20","date_gmt":"2022-03-17T11:11:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=147563"},"modified":"2022-03-17T11:11:20","modified_gmt":"2022-03-17T11:11:20","slug":"como-perdoar-se-a-si-proprio-por-ter-traido-e-nao-ter-contado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-perdoar-se-a-si-proprio-por-ter-traido-e-nao-ter-contado\/","title":{"rendered":"Como perdoar a si mesmo por ter tra\u00eddo e n\u00e3o ter contado: 20 maneiras"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Cheating and not telling must be hard to deal with in your relationship and everyday life. This is why I\u2019ve got a few tips for you on how to forgive yourself for cheating and not telling.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>I\u2019m not saying you shouldn\u2019t tell your partner about the <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-que-e-considerado-batota\/\">infidelidade.<\/a> Estou apenas a ensinar-vos <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/antes-do-fim-do-ano-aprenda-a-perdoar-se-a-si-proprio\/\">como perdoar a si pr\u00f3prio<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>A infidelidade \u00e9 um tema que existe h\u00e1 s\u00e9culos. \u00c9 uma das raz\u00f5es mais comuns para o div\u00f3rcio nos Estados Unidos.<\/strong> Nos \u00faltimos anos, a infidelidade tornou-se cada vez mais frequente devido ao aumento da <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sinais-digitais-da-infidelidade-do-seu-parceiro\/\">batota por telefone<\/a>, redes sociais e aplica\u00e7\u00f5es de encontros.<\/p>\n<p>Talvez j\u00e1 tenha ca\u00eddo nesta armadilha, por isso estou aqui para o ajudar e n\u00e3o para o levar a sentir-se ainda pior.<\/p>\n<h2>Como perdoar a si mesmo por ter tra\u00eddo e n\u00e3o ter contado<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-147567\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-with-a-headache.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com dor de cabe\u00e7a\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-with-a-headache.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-with-a-headache-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-with-a-headache-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-with-a-headache-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-with-a-headache-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-with-a-headache-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-with-a-headache-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-with-a-headache-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-with-a-headache-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-with-a-headache-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-with-a-headache-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-with-a-headache-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-with-a-headache-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-with-a-headache-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>We all make mistakes, but how we deal with them defines who we are. If you have been cheating on your significant other and don\u2019t want to tell them, you need to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/perdoar-se-a-si-proprio-por-amar-a-pessoa-errada\/\">perdoar-se a si pr\u00f3prio<\/a> for what you\u2019ve done and decide if you can live with the guilt.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>If not, then it\u2019s time to rethink your relationship and talk about what happened. But if you can live with the guilt, then it\u2019s time to forgive yourself and move on from the mistake. It may not be easy, but you will start to feel better about yourself again.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Optei por escrever este artigo porque queria ajud\u00e1-lo a aprender a perdoar-se a si pr\u00f3prio por <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-apanhar-um-batoteiro\/\">fazer batota e n\u00e3o contar<\/a> se est\u00e1 agora a lutar com a culpa de ter feito batota.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>A trai\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 uma das coisas mais dif\u00edceis de lidar em qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o, mas pode ser um desafio quando sentimos que temos de contar ao nosso parceiro sobre o<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-os-casos-acontecem\/\"> o caso e como aconteceu<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>The problem is that you might not want to hurt them, but you also don\u2019t want them to find out from someone else.<\/strong> It\u2019s important for both of you that they know about your infidelity so that they can decide if their relationship with you is worth continuing.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Lembre-se, se quiser aprender a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-perdoar-um-traidor\/\">perdoar-se a si pr\u00f3prio por ter feito batota<\/a> sem dizer, precisas de ultrapassar a tua aventura de uma noite. Precisas de praticar <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/perdoa-te-a-ti-proprio-pelas-vezes-em-que-te-esqueceste-do-teu-proprio-valor\/\">auto-perd\u00e3o<\/a> e compreender que n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma pessoa m\u00e1.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you can\u2019t get over it, you might need professional help and to listen to other relationship advice. Cheating is bad, but remember that your current relationship is not ending.<\/p>\n<h2>As formas como os casos e a infidelidade arru\u00ednam as rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-147570\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/unhappy-woman-sitting-next-to-her-partner.jpg\" alt=\"mulher infeliz sentada ao lado do seu companheiro\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/unhappy-woman-sitting-next-to-her-partner.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/unhappy-woman-sitting-next-to-her-partner-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/unhappy-woman-sitting-next-to-her-partner-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/unhappy-woman-sitting-next-to-her-partner-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/unhappy-woman-sitting-next-to-her-partner-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/unhappy-woman-sitting-next-to-her-partner-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/unhappy-woman-sitting-next-to-her-partner-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/unhappy-woman-sitting-next-to-her-partner-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/unhappy-woman-sitting-next-to-her-partner-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/unhappy-woman-sitting-next-to-her-partner-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/unhappy-woman-sitting-next-to-her-partner-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/unhappy-woman-sitting-next-to-her-partner-1080x716.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>Can you forgive yourself for cheating in the first place? Yes, you can. Affairs and infidelity can be devastating to a person\u2019s life, especially if they are in a committed relationship.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>H\u00e1 muitas maneiras de um caso ou <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/infidelity\/how-cheating-ruins-future\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">a infidelidade pode arruinar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> and a human being\u2019s life.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Por vezes, as pessoas t\u00eam casos porque sentem que o seu parceiro n\u00e3o est\u00e1 a satisfazer as suas necessidades. Outras vezes, as pessoas t\u00eam casos porque est\u00e3o aborrecidas com a rela\u00e7\u00e3o e sentem necessidade de a deixar ir.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Um caso amoroso pode arruinar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o porque a pessoa que est\u00e1 a ser enganada sente-se tra\u00edda pelo seu parceiro. Isto pode ter efeitos terr\u00edveis na sua sa\u00fade mental.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>They may also feel that their partner no longer cares about them and that they don\u2019t love them enough to stay faithful to them.<\/p>\n<p><em>Eis algumas das formas como a infidelidade arru\u00edna as rela\u00e7\u00f5es:<\/em><\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Feelings of guilt<\/p>\n<p>-<strong> Diminui a autoestima<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Self-loathing and self-hate on both sides<\/p>\n<p>- <strong>Perda de confian\u00e7a num ente querido<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Self-pity<\/p>\n<p>- <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/uma-rapariga-com-problemas-de-confianca-esta-a-implorar-te-para-nao-fazeres-estas-12-coisas\/\">Problemas de confian\u00e7a<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, the person who has an affair may also feel guilty for what they did and worry about how it will affect the other side in the relationship. If they have children with their spouse, they may worry that they\u2019ll hurt their child.<\/p>\n<h2>20 Tips To Get Over Cheater\u2019s Guilt<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-147571\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-depressed-woman.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste e deprimida\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-depressed-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-depressed-woman-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-depressed-woman-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-depressed-woman-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-depressed-woman-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-depressed-woman-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-depressed-woman-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-depressed-woman-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-depressed-woman-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-depressed-woman-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-depressed-woman-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-depressed-woman-1080x716.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>How to forgive yourself for cheating and not telling \u2013 Here are 20 steps to total forgiveness:<\/p>\n<h3>1. Don\u2019t trust what others say<\/h3>\n<p>We\u2019ve all heard that cheaters stay cheaters, that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/batoteiros\/\">os batoteiros reagem<\/a> de forma diferente, e que s\u00e3o monstros. Tu sabes que n\u00e3o \u00e9s um monstro. Sim, \u00e9 um parceiro de trai\u00e7\u00e3o, mas est\u00e1 a tentar ser uma pessoa melhor.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The last thing you need right now is to believe that you can\u2019t change. This is why the first step in learning how to forgive yourself for cheating and not telling is to reject negative thoughts.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-coisas-que-deve-saber-sobre-os-batoteiros-segundo-a-ciencia\/\">A ci\u00eancia diz que os batoteiros querem ser apanhados<\/a>, but this doesn\u2019t have to be true for everyone. In any case, you need to believe in yourself now and not get discouraged.<\/em><\/p>\n<h3>2. Olhar para os outros<\/h3>\n<p>Muitas vezes pensamos que a trai\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 uma quest\u00e3o moral, mas tamb\u00e9m \u00e9 emocional. Pode ser dif\u00edcil compreender porque \u00e9 que algu\u00e9m trai o seu parceiro.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Agora precisa de procurar modelos a seguir e descobrir como \u00e9 que eles ultrapassaram a fase da trai\u00e7\u00e3o e de n\u00e3o contar. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-fazer-com-que-um-homem-se-apaixone-por-si-15-dicas-de-especialistas\/\">Especialistas em rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/a> Digamos que precisa de encontrar um amigo, colega de trabalho ou celebridade que tenha superado a trai\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Pode ent\u00e3o us\u00e1-los como modelo e motivar-se para ultrapassar o seu problema de trai\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/em><\/p>\n<h3>3. Falar e andar<\/h3>\n<p>Se est\u00e1 numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e quer que ela resulte, tem de estar disposto a fazer o trabalho. Tem de se esfor\u00e7ar e empenhar-se.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Isto n\u00e3o se aplica apenas \u00e0 sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica, mas tamb\u00e9m a todas as outras rela\u00e7\u00f5es. Tem de estar pronto para trabalhar se quiser que a rela\u00e7\u00e3o dure. Depois de fazer batota, ter\u00e1 de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/resolver-as-coisas-com-o-seu-parceiro\/\">resolver as coisas com o seu parceiro<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Remember, you don\u2019t have to be perfect. You just need to put in the work and show your partner that you\u2019re <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relacao-de-compromisso\/\">comprometido.<\/a><\/p>\n<h3>4. Planear com anteced\u00eancia a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h3>\n<p><em>Se quiser perdoar-se a si pr\u00f3prio por ter tra\u00eddo a pessoa, tem de ser brutalmente honesto consigo pr\u00f3prio. De facto, tem de perguntar a si pr\u00f3pria se quer mesmo estar nesta rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>If you didn\u2019t see a future, I am sure you wouldn\u2019t still be here. This is why you need to do some soul searching and decide on your<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-sinais-reveladores-de-que-ele-ve-um-futuro-consigo\/\"> planos futuros com essa pessoa.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ser\u00e1 que alguma vez <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-pedir-desculpa-por-ter-feito-batota\/\">diga-lhes que fez batota<\/a>? Como \u00e9 que o seu parceiro se vai sentir em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a isso? Vai jurar nunca mais fazer batota? Todas estas perguntas precisam de ser respondidas.<\/p>\n<h3>5. Definir objectivos para o futuro<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-147580\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-hugging-her-partner-with-a-worried-expression.jpg\" alt=\"mulher abra\u00e7ada ao seu companheiro com uma express\u00e3o preocupada\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-hugging-her-partner-with-a-worried-expression.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-hugging-her-partner-with-a-worried-expression-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-hugging-her-partner-with-a-worried-expression-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-hugging-her-partner-with-a-worried-expression-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-hugging-her-partner-with-a-worried-expression-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-hugging-her-partner-with-a-worried-expression-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-hugging-her-partner-with-a-worried-expression-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-hugging-her-partner-with-a-worried-expression-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-hugging-her-partner-with-a-worried-expression-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-hugging-her-partner-with-a-worried-expression-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-hugging-her-partner-with-a-worried-expression-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-hugging-her-partner-with-a-worried-expression-1080x716.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, \u00e9 importante definir <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/alguns-objectivos\/\">alguns objectivos<\/a> e expectativas. \u00c9 importante saber o que se quer da rela\u00e7\u00e3o e o que se est\u00e1 disposto a fazer pela outra pessoa.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Setting goals in a relationship can help you feel more confident about your decisions and help you be more satisfied with your partner. This goes even if you\u2019ve cheated in your relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>De facto, estes objectivos podem ajud\u00e1-lo a deixar de fazer batota. Quando tiveres <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/os-verdadeiros-objectivos-de-uma-relacao\/\">objectivos de relacionamento<\/a> para colocar \u00e0 sua frente, \u00e9 f\u00e1cil segui-los e n\u00e3o desanimar.<\/em><\/p>\n<h3>6. Evoluir<\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/15-caracteristicas-de-uma-relacao-saudavel\/\">Rela\u00e7\u00f5es saud\u00e1veis<\/a> s\u00e3o dif\u00edceis. Requerem muito trabalho e esfor\u00e7o para se manterem. \u00c9 importante saber como evoluir numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o para evitar uma rutura.<\/p>\n<p><strong>H\u00e1 muitas formas diferentes de evoluir numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, mas a comunica\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 uma das mais importantes. A comunica\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 fundamental para qualquer tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o e, acima de tudo, para compreender o seu parceiro.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Se querem que a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o seja duradoura, t\u00eam de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-comunicar-com-os-homens\/\">comunicar com o seu parceiro<\/a> e ser aberto sobre o que quer da rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/em><\/p>\n<h3>7. Don\u2019t reach out to the other person<\/h3>\n<p><em>We all know it\u2019s hard being the<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/efeitos-psicologicos-de-ser-a-outra-mulher\/\"> outra mulher<\/a> or man. This is a hard one, but it\u2019s important to remember that the person you cheated with is not your friend.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c9 algu\u00e9m que o ajudou a trair algu\u00e9m que confia em si e que o fez sentir-se mal consigo pr\u00f3prio. Se falarem contigo e te contactarem primeiro, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-ele-fizer-estas-8-coisas-nem-sequer-se-de-ao-trabalho-de-lhe-enviar-uma-mensagem-de-volta\/\">don\u2019t text them back<\/a>.<\/strong> Remember, you are doing this because you don\u2019t want to be tempted again.<\/p>\n<h3>8. Sentir a culpa<\/h3>\n<p>We feel guilty for cheating on our partners because we know that it is wrong. We are not born with an innate sense of morality \u2013 we learn it from our parents and society.<\/p>\n<p><strong>De facto, neste caso, \u00e9 bom que se sinta culpado e que esteja a experimentar <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/13-sinais-obvios-de-culpa-do-seu-marido-traidor\/\">sinais de culpa<\/a> porque sentir-se assim faz parte do <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-erros-que-todos-cometemos-quando-estamos-a-recuperar-de-uma-relacao-toxica\/\">processo de cura<\/a>. <\/strong>Fez algo de mau que magoou o seu parceiro e deve sentir-se culpado por isso.<\/p>\n<h3>9. Assume as tuas emo\u00e7\u00f5es<\/h3>\n<p>Esta \u00e9 uma das fases mais importantes para se perdoar por ter tra\u00eddo e n\u00e3o ter contado. Tem de saber o que fez de errado e, tal como disse anteriormente, tem de assumir a sua culpa.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Tamb\u00e9m \u00e9 importante ser capaz de exprimir as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es de forma saud\u00e1vel, mesmo que seja <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/8-coisas-para-recordar-apaixonar-se-rapariga-ma-expressar-sentimentos\/\">n\u00e3o \u00e9 bom a exprimir sentimentos<\/a>. Ambos os parceiros da rela\u00e7\u00e3o devem ser capazes de assumir as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es e de as exprimir de forma saud\u00e1vel.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Se um dos parceiros n\u00e3o se permitir ser <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/emocionalmente-vulneravel\/\">emocionalmente vulner\u00e1vel<\/a>pode levar a problemas na rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/em><\/p>\n<h3>10. N\u00e3o \u00e9s uma pessoa m\u00e1<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-147573\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-woman-holding-a-pillow.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste a segurar uma almofada\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-woman-holding-a-pillow.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-woman-holding-a-pillow-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-woman-holding-a-pillow-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-woman-holding-a-pillow-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-woman-holding-a-pillow-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-woman-holding-a-pillow-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-woman-holding-a-pillow-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-woman-holding-a-pillow-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-woman-holding-a-pillow-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-woman-holding-a-pillow-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-woman-holding-a-pillow-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-woman-holding-a-pillow-1080x716.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Tenho a certeza de que todos n\u00f3s j\u00e1 nos sentimos tentados a fazer batota numa determinada altura da nossa vida. Pode ser tentador, porque \u00e9 muito f\u00e1cil e d\u00e1-nos uma sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de bem-estar emocional.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The truth is that cheating is a bad thing. Cheating means that you are going behind your partner\u2019s back.<\/strong> Deves sentir-te culpado pelo que escolheste fazer, mesmo que os outros te julguem por isso. Mas, nunca deves acreditar que \u00e9s um <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-es-uma-ma-pessoa-mas-nao-eras-a-pessoa-certa-para-mim\/\">pessoa m\u00e1<\/a> para isso.<\/p>\n<h3>11. Todos n\u00f3s cometemos erros<\/h3>\n<p>Cometer erros nas rela\u00e7\u00f5es \u00e9 inevit\u00e1vel. Mas o que \u00e9 importante \u00e9 saber como lidar com eles quando acontecem e n\u00e3o virar a cara para o lado. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-habitos-de-relacionamento-toxicos-que-confundimos-como-normais\/\">numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica.<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>It doesn\u2019t matter whether or not you make <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-erros-de-relacionamento-que-uma-pessoa-com-ansiedade-pode-cometer\/\">erros de relacionamento.<\/a> It\u2019s a matter of how you react to them.<\/strong> We all make mistakes in life, but it\u2019s up to us to fix them and move on when such things happen.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s important that we don\u2019t dwell on the mistake and instead focus on the future with our partner.<\/p>\n<h3>12. Voltar a p\u00f4r a sua vida nos eixos<\/h3>\n<p>O primeiro passo para voltar a p\u00f4r a sua vida nos eixos \u00e9 aceitar que a trai\u00e7\u00e3o aconteceu e que n\u00e3o a pode mudar.<\/p>\n<p><strong>This won&#8217;t be easy, but it is important to try as this will help you move forward and heal. Of course, that is after you have forgiven yourself for cheating.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 importante compreender que n\u00e3o vale a pena sentir-se culpado ou culpar-se pela trai\u00e7\u00e3o. Aceitar a infidelidade e seguir em frente permitir-lhe-\u00e1 recome\u00e7ar a sua vida e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/encontrar-a-verdadeira-felicidade\/\">encontrar a felicidade.<\/a><\/p>\n<h3>13. Assumir um compromisso<\/h3>\n<p><em>The first thing that comes to mind is people&#8217;s commitment when they get married. However, this is not always the case in committed relationships.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>O primeiro exemplo que nos vem \u00e0 cabe\u00e7a \u00e9 uma promessa de fidelidade ou monogamia. Pode ser um acordo feito entre duas pessoas que est\u00e3o a namorar ou um acordo feito entre duas pessoas casadas.<\/strong> Isto tamb\u00e9m pode funcionar para si, em que se compromete a n\u00e3o fazer batota.<\/p>\n<h3>14. Mudar para melhor<\/h3>\n<p>O primeiro passo \u00e9 concentrar-se em si pr\u00f3prio e nas suas necessidades.<strong> \u00c9 preciso ser honesto sobre o que se quer da rela\u00e7\u00e3o e o que se pode oferecer em troca.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Se h\u00e1 coisas que precisam de ser mudadas, ent\u00e3o deve trabalhar primeiro nessas coisas.<\/strong> <em>Por outras palavras, ter\u00e1 de se tornar um <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/tornar-se-um-guerreiro-da-mudanca-criar-um-amanha-melhor\/\">guerreiro da mudan\u00e7a<\/a> e uma pessoa melhor. Desta forma, tornar-se-\u00e1 uma pessoa melhor n\u00e3o s\u00f3 para si, mas tamb\u00e9m para eles.<\/em><\/p>\n<h3>15. Elaborar um plano<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-147576\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/worried-woman-looking-away.jpg\" alt=\"mulher preocupada a desviar o olhar\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/worried-woman-looking-away.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/worried-woman-looking-away-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/worried-woman-looking-away-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/worried-woman-looking-away-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/worried-woman-looking-away-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/worried-woman-looking-away-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/worried-woman-looking-away-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/worried-woman-looking-away-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/worried-woman-looking-away-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/worried-woman-looking-away-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/worried-woman-looking-away-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/worried-woman-looking-away-1080x716.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sim, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/confia-em-mim-deus-tem-sempre-um-plano\/\">Deus tem sempre um plano<\/a> for you. It is also important to have a plan for the relationship. That way, both partners know what they are getting into and can decide if they are willing to make the sacrifices necessary for their partner\u2019s happiness.<\/p>\n<p><strong>O mesmo se aplica a si. Tem de ser honesta consigo pr\u00f3pria e concentrar-se numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o de compromisso.<\/strong> Depois, deve fazer um plano sobre o que fazer com a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o ap\u00f3s a trai\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<h3>16. Dizer a algu\u00e9m como te sentes<\/h3>\n<p>O que \u00e9 que isto tem a ver com a forma de se perdoar a si pr\u00f3prio por ter tra\u00eddo e n\u00e3o ter contado? <strong>Confessar o que fez, mesmo que parcialmente, ajudar\u00e1 a tirar o peso das suas costas.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>This is a time thing that will definitely get better with time, but it\u2019s better to tell your partner how you feel.<\/strong> Desta forma, tem mais hip\u00f3teses de eles ficarem consigo, uma vez que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/dar-motivo-para-ficar\/\">t\u00eam uma raz\u00e3o para ficar.<\/a><\/p>\n<h3>17. Responder a perguntas sem resposta<\/h3>\n<p>You don\u2019t need a life coach for this one. <em>Dever\u00e1 responder a algumas perguntas a si pr\u00f3prio, e estas dever\u00e3o ser as raz\u00f5es <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-batota-e-uma-escolha-nao-um-erro\/\">porque fez batota<\/a> em primeiro lugar.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>H\u00e1 muitas raz\u00f5es para as pessoas tra\u00edrem os seus c\u00f4njuges, o que pode ser o seu caso.<\/strong> Alguns factores levaram \u00e0 sua infidelidade e podem n\u00e3o ter nada a ver com o seu casamento.<\/p>\n<h3>18. Ser realista<\/h3>\n<p>It\u2019s not easy to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/8-sinais-de-que-ele-traiu-apesar-de-nao-o-admitir\/\">admitir que fez batota<\/a> no seu parceiro e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-pedir-desculpa-por-ter-feito-batota\/\">pedir desculpa por isso<\/a>, but it\u2019s even harder to figure out why you did it. <strong>A parte mais importante desta dica sobre como perdoar a si pr\u00f3prio por ter tra\u00eddo e n\u00e3o contar \u00e9 ser<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-razoes-pelas-quais-precisas-de-um-amigo-brutalmente-honesto-na-tua-vida\/\"> brutalmente honesto<\/a> e realista ao lidar com o problema.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Pode ser mais f\u00e1cil culpar a outra pessoa ou as circunst\u00e2ncias, mas, na realidade, as raz\u00f5es para a trai\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e3o muito mais complicadas do que isso. Podem estar dentro de si.<\/em><\/p>\n<h3>19. Sentar-se em sil\u00eancio consigo pr\u00f3prio<\/h3>\n<p><em>A trai\u00e7\u00e3o pode dar origem a muitos problemas. Pode fazer com que o seu parceiro se sinta magoado e tra\u00eddo. Pode causar muito stress e ansiedade na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, o que vos deixar\u00e1 infelizes.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>And it might even lead to the end of the relationship if your partner doesn\u2019t want to work through it with you. But what can you do now apart from confessing?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Pode sentar-se sozinho em sil\u00eancio e ser produtivo, descobrindo onde est\u00e1 o problema. \u00c9 preciso meditar sobre a quest\u00e3o e concentrar-se em <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/tecnicas-de-manifestacao\/\">manifesto<\/a> n\u00e3o h\u00e1 mais batota.<\/p>\n<h3>20. Sim, foi um erro<\/h3>\n<p>Whatever your thoughts on the matter, it\u2019s important to remember that cheating is not just an issue with your partner but with yourself as well. <strong>Tem de assumir os seus erros e assumir a responsabilidade pelos seus actos. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/8-sinais-de-que-ele-traiu-apesar-de-nao-o-admitir\/\">Admite que fizeste batota.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Este \u00e9 o passo final deste processo e, com sorte, ser\u00e1 capaz de se perdoar a si pr\u00f3prio quando o alcan\u00e7ar. Se voltar a encontrar-se nesta situa\u00e7\u00e3o, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/deixar-de-esperar-um-resultado-diferente\/\">don\u2019t make the same mistake twice.<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<h2>\u00c9 correto trair e n\u00e3o contar?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-147575\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/worried-woman-thinking-while-her-boyfriend-sits-next-to-her.jpg\" alt=\"mulher preocupada a pensar enquanto o namorado se senta ao seu lado\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/worried-woman-thinking-while-her-boyfriend-sits-next-to-her.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/worried-woman-thinking-while-her-boyfriend-sits-next-to-her-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/worried-woman-thinking-while-her-boyfriend-sits-next-to-her-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/worried-woman-thinking-while-her-boyfriend-sits-next-to-her-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/worried-woman-thinking-while-her-boyfriend-sits-next-to-her-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/worried-woman-thinking-while-her-boyfriend-sits-next-to-her-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/worried-woman-thinking-while-her-boyfriend-sits-next-to-her-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/worried-woman-thinking-while-her-boyfriend-sits-next-to-her-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/worried-woman-thinking-while-her-boyfriend-sits-next-to-her-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/worried-woman-thinking-while-her-boyfriend-sits-next-to-her-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/worried-woman-thinking-while-her-boyfriend-sits-next-to-her-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/worried-woman-thinking-while-her-boyfriend-sits-next-to-her-1080x716.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>We all know the answer to this question because it is a personal answer. I can only tell you that this isn\u2019t a yes or no answer. It depends on what you and your partner who got cheated on believe.<\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-saber-se-ele-a-esta-a-trair-com-base-no-seu-comportamento-diario\/\">Batota<\/a> \u00e9 uma quest\u00e3o complexa. Pode ser uma ocorr\u00eancia \u00fanica ou pode ser um comportamento habitual. A trai\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 muitas vezes feita para se sentir mais aceite na sociedade, mas nunca o far\u00e1 sentir-se melhor consigo pr\u00f3prio.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>O primeiro passo para lidar com a trai\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 identificar a raz\u00e3o pela qual o faz. \u00c9 porque <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-te-perdoo-por-me-fazeres-sentir-que-nao-sou-suficientemente-boa\/\">don\u2019t feel good enough<\/a>? Ou est\u00e1 \u00e0 procura de aceita\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Once you find the root of the problem, you can start working on fixing it so that cheating doesn\u2019t happen again in the future.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>So, is it okay to cheat and not tell? I don\u2019t think so. I believe your partner is entitled to know since they are part of the relationship. <\/strong>Remember, maybe the only reason you feel guilty and need to forgive yourself is that you cheated and didn\u2019t tell them.<\/p>\n<h2>Perdoa-te a ti pr\u00f3prio!<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-147582\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-bed.jpg\" alt=\"mulher deprimida sentada na cama\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-bed.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-bed-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-bed-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-bed-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-bed-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-bed-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-bed-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-bed-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-bed-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-bed-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-bed-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-bed-1080x716.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>No final, o que importa \u00e9 o que sentimos. Aprender <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/perdoar-se-a-si-proprio-por-amar-a-pessoa-errada\/\">como perdoar a si pr\u00f3prio<\/a> A capacidade de se responsabilizar pelos erros do passado \u00e9 uma qualidade que muitos de n\u00f3s est\u00e3o a tentar aprender.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>How do you forgive yourself for cheating? It\u2019s simple. You learn to live with it but only after telling your partner. Remember, they are in this relationship with you, and they have a right to know if you\u2019re not feeling the love anymore or if the <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-formas-eficazes-de-devolver-a-velha-chama-ao-seu-casamento\/\">fa\u00edsca antiga<\/a> foi-se embora.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Em todo o caso, espero que o meu artigo o tenha ajudado a perdoar-se a si pr\u00f3prio por ter tra\u00eddo e n\u00e3o ter contado. Esperemos que tamb\u00e9m lhe d\u00ea for\u00e7a para contar ao seu parceiro sobre a sua <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/assuntos-emocionais\/\">caso emocional<\/a> ou infidelidade tamb\u00e9m.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Cheating and not telling must be hard to deal with in your relationship and everyday life. This is why I\u2019ve got a few tips for you on how to forgive yourself for cheating and not telling. I\u2019m not saying you shouldn\u2019t tell your partner about the infidelity. I am just teaching you how to forgive&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":147568,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29626],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-147563","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-affair"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29626,"label":"affair"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/How-To-Forgive-Yourself-For-Cheating-And-Not-Telling-20-Ways-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29626,"name":"affair","slug":"affair","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29626,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","parent":29620,"count":132,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29626,"category_count":132,"category_description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","cat_name":"affair","category_nicename":"affair","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/147563","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=147563"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/147563\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/147568"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=147563"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=147563"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=147563"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}