Evitar a comunica\u00e7\u00e3o, ignorar e magoar outra pessoa desta forma mostra o tipo de pessoa que realmente \u00e9<\/strong>. Prejudica tamb\u00e9m a rela\u00e7\u00e3o que se tem com essa pessoa, por vezes de forma irrepar\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n A verdade \u00e9 que, utilizando este m\u00e9todo de abuso emocional<\/a> may define your personality, and if you still aren\u2019t sure how that\u2019s possible, you\u2019ll need to stay with me until the end.<\/p>\n Aqui est\u00e3o 6 formas de dar a algu\u00e9m o tratamento do sil\u00eancio que dizem muito sobre o seu car\u00e1cter.<\/p>\n A verdade \u00e9 que a maior parte das pessoas opta por dar o ombro frio a algu\u00e9m quando querem evitar conflitos<\/a> e o confronto com outra pessoa.<\/em><\/p>\n They think it\u2019s the perfect way to steer clear of abuso verbal<\/a>, but, unfortunately, what they aren\u2019t aware of is that the silent treatment is also a form of abuse… abuso emocional.<\/strong><\/p>\n I personally believe that it\u2019s one of the most common reasons for rela\u00e7\u00f5es pouco saud\u00e1veis<\/a> nowadays. Couples choose to avoid fights because they don\u2019t have the courage to solve their issues by speaking about their problems directly, and they think it\u2019ll help them save their relationship.<\/p>\n Pelo contr\u00e1rio, o sil\u00eancio s\u00f3 os afastar\u00e1 e enfraquecer\u00e1 a sua liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n If you don\u2019t feel free to talk about everything directly and openly with your loved one, then your relationship is anything but healthy. Besides, the fact is, the longer you keep stonewalling them, the less chance you\u2019ll have to fix and salvar a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n If you don\u2019t have the courage to confront another person, the only logical conclusion is that you\u2019re struggling with deep self-esteem and self-confidence issues.<\/p>\n Maybe you think you won\u2019t be able to win the argument, or you\u2019re scared you may say something that will drive them away.<\/em> It doesn\u2019t really matter because it\u2019s still the same conclusion: est\u00e1 consumido por d\u00favidas sobre si pr\u00f3prio.<\/a><\/p>\n Isto pode prejudicar profundamente a sua sa\u00fade mental e o seu bem-estar geral.<\/strong> N\u00e3o ter consci\u00eancia do seu valor, duvidar das suas pr\u00f3prias qualidades e fechar-se na sua concha pode ser uma s\u00e9ria amea\u00e7a para todas as suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es futuras.<\/p>\n Until you free yourself from that self-doubt and overcome your self-esteem issues, you\u2019ll never be able to build and maintain a healthy relationship with another human being.<\/em><\/p>\n You\u2019ll keep pushing people away by giving them the silent treatment.<\/strong> Por isso, tome isto como um aviso s\u00e9rio: comece a trabalhar para melhorar a sua autoestima<\/a> e p\u00f4r fim a estes maus padr\u00f5es de comportamento de uma vez por todas.<\/p>\n Maybe you\u2019re aware that the silent treatment is a form of abuso emocional<\/a>e quer castigar o seu ex-marido\/esposa, familiar ou ente querido que o(a) magoou, utilizando-o.<\/p>\n No entanto, sabia que a dor emocional tamb\u00e9m pode causar dor f\u00edsica? E o facto \u00e9 que viol\u00eancia dom\u00e9stica<\/a> come\u00e7a, na maior parte dos casos, com maus tratos emocionais e verbais.<\/em><\/p>\n Nas primeiras vezes em que o seu parceiro o magoa ou em que se desentendem, pode pensar em castig\u00e1-lo, mas o que acontecer\u00e1 depois de isso acontecer v\u00e1rias vezes?<\/p>\n It\u2019s really something you should think about. Independentemente do que outra pessoa lhe fa\u00e7a, ningu\u00e9m merece ser abusado ou maltratado de qualquer forma.<\/strong><\/p>\n So, instead of sulking and going silent for days when you get into a fight with your loved one, try to take a timeout and cool off. Don\u2019t act in the heat of the moment because you’ll be sorry later.<\/p>\n If you can\u2019t solve your issues through healthy communication, then maybe you shouldn\u2019t be together<\/a>. Maybe you aren\u2019t meant to be together…<\/p>\n Trust me, it wasn\u2019t until last week that I was aware that giving someone the silent treatment speaks volumes about your character. Eu estava bloqueio<\/a> my partner from time to time, but it was only because I thought I\u2019d teach him a lesson that way.<\/em><\/p>\n Claro que estava enganado e agora percebo claramente. Na semana passada, tivemos uma conversa s\u00e9ria e honesta, e fal\u00e1mos de tudo o que nos estava a incomodar na nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n He said that what annoyed him the most in our relationship was how I always tried to gaslight him after my \u2018silence period\u2019 was over. And I was like, \u201cWHAAAT? I never do that. ?\u201d Except I really did. I was guilty as charged, but I just didn\u2019t want to admit it to myself for a long time.<\/p>\n E v\u00eaem isto, aqui mesmo, a frase que eu lhe disse, \u00e9 o melhor sinal de gaslighting<\/a>. I immediately started denying the facts to make both him and myself believe that I wasn\u2019t doing that<\/strong>. Na verdade, tentei culp\u00e1-lo pelo meu mau comportamento, o que \u00e9 muito errado.<\/p>\n He explained how he always had to walk on eggshells around me because he never knew when I’d go silent again. I am now aware of my mistake, and I\u2019m still working on it.<\/p>\n I am not an abuser. I don\u2019t want my partner to feel bad, unhappy, or n\u00e3o amado na nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>. Decidi desistir do tratamento de sil\u00eancio e parar com a ilumina\u00e7\u00e3o artificial<\/a>. Gosto muito dele e esfor\u00e7ar-me-ei por resolver a nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n Pessoas que apresentam tra\u00e7os de personalidade narc\u00edsica<\/a> normalmente t\u00eam diferentes formas (manipuladoras) ou m\u00e9todos (abusivos) que os ajudam a manter as suas v\u00edtimas por perto.<\/em><\/p>\n O tratamento silencioso \u00e9 exatamente um desses m\u00e9todos. They use it mostly because they want to punish their victims for acting in a way they don\u2019t approve of.<\/strong><\/p>\n Tamb\u00e9m o utilizam como precau\u00e7\u00e3o, apenas para mostrar \u00e0s suas v\u00edtimas (que provavelmente desenvolveram sentimentos fortes por elas) que as podem perder facilmente.<\/p>\n It\u2019s actually a kind of warning to their victims to say that if they don\u2019t behave how they want, they\u2019ll leave them.<\/p>\n They hope that their victims won\u2019t see it as abuse, and they continue to manipulate them in that way as long as they don\u2019t uncover their game. Unfortunately, most victims realize this too late.<\/p>\n In the end, if you\u2019re giving someone the silent treatment, it may make you seem like um narcisista<\/a>. Para evitar que isso aconte\u00e7a, pense sempre duas vezes antes de decidir dar o ombro frio a algu\u00e9m.<\/em><\/p>\n Despreocupado. Profundamente ap\u00e1tico. Desprezando. Alheio. Indiferente. Ego\u00edsta<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n Mais uma vez, todos estes tra\u00e7os s\u00e3o os tra\u00e7os de uma pessoa narcisista. E, acreditem, ser chamado de narcisista \u00e9 o pior t\u00edtulo que uma pessoa pode receber.<\/p>\n No entanto, se pensarmos bem, que tipo de pessoa continua a magoar algu\u00e9m de prop\u00f3sito e n\u00e3o se importa?<\/p>\n So, the next time you give someone the cold shoulder, think about this. If you don\u2019t want to make yourself look like a narcissist, give up on using this awful narcissistic technique.<\/p>\n Se algu\u00e9m o est\u00e1 a usar, a maltratar ou a magoar, fale sobre isso com essa pessoa. Tente resolver os seus conflitos de uma forma saud\u00e1vel em vez de ficar em sil\u00eancio.<\/em><\/p>\n And always remember, just because someone hurt you doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re allowed to hurt them too. Don\u2019t stoop to their level just because you want to get revenge on them. Para deixar ir<\/a> e ir embora \u00e9 e sempre ser\u00e1 a melhor vingan\u00e7a.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n Uma pessoa narcisista.<\/strong> People with narcissistic personality traits care only for themselves, and if they think the silent treatment can benefit them, the other person\u2019s suffering won\u2019t make them give up on it.<\/p>\n Uma pessoa manipuladora.<\/strong> Oh, this is definitely all manipulative people\u2019s favorite technique to manipulate someone else into doing something they want them to do. If the person on the receiving end has genuine feelings for them, sooner or later, they\u2019ll fall for their manipulation.<\/p>\n Uma pessoa imatura.<\/strong> Evitar conflitos e ignorar algu\u00e9m<\/a> just because you can\u2019t communicate with them in a healthy way is a huge sign of immaturity.<\/p>\n Uma pessoa cruel e ap\u00e1tica.<\/strong> Someone who doesn\u2019t care for other people\u2019s feelings is also able to give someone the silent treatment. They\u2019re simply emotionally numb and unable to feel another person\u2019s pain.<\/p>\n Um abusador.<\/strong> Someone with an abusive personality disorder is also capable of hurting another person through the silent treatment. For them, it\u2019s a form of abuse they gladly use to punish their victims.<\/p>\n Numa perspetiva psicol\u00f3gica, tratamento silencioso<\/a> \u00e9 visto como uma forma de abuso emocional<\/strong>O abuso \u00e9 um m\u00e9todo manipulador que os abusadores utilizam para castigar as suas v\u00edtimas ou obrig\u00e1-las a fazer algo.<\/p>\n When someone decides to cut off communication with another person, they need to have a reason for it. You can\u2019t just stop talking to someone because it doesn\u2019t make sense at all.<\/p>\n Pessoas com baixa autoestima<\/a> and those who struggle with insecurities are prone to this form of emotional abuse because they aren\u2019t able to resolve conflict with another person. They go silent to \u2018save themselves\u2019 and don\u2019t even think about the person on the receiving end.<\/p>\n Esta forma de abuso emocional \u00e9 profundamente insalubre e t\u00f3xica, e pode danificar at\u00e9 as rela\u00e7\u00f5es mais fortes. A falta de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o enfraquece a liga\u00e7\u00e3o entre os parceiros (especialmente em rela\u00e7\u00f5es rom\u00e2nticas) e faz com que se afastem lentamente.<\/p>\n Al\u00e9m disso, o facto \u00e9 que pode ter consequ\u00eancias piores<\/a> on a person\u2019s mental health than verbal abuse<\/strong>. Essas consequ\u00eancias podem at\u00e9 causar-lhes dor f\u00edsica e deixar cicatrizes que os perseguir\u00e3o em todas as suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es futuras.<\/p>\n A maioria dos psic\u00f3logos e especialistas em rela\u00e7\u00f5es considera o tratamento do sil\u00eancio profundamente imaturo. In fact, most of them agree that it\u2019s a method immature, narcissistic, and manipulative people use to emotionally abuse as suas v\u00edtimas.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n As pessoas maduras encontram sempre uma forma de resolver os seus conflitos de uma forma saud\u00e1vel, atrav\u00e9s de uma comunica\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel.<\/em> Avoiding communication is something they never do because they know that it\u2019s never a way to deal with issues and disagreements.<\/p>\n We all know that adolescents and young adults are prone to ostracism, and it\u2019s just another piece of evidence that supports the fact that the silent treatment is immature.<\/p>\n If you\u2019re a stable and mature person, you\u2019ll deal with your problems directly and won\u2019t try to ignore, avoid, or hide from them. If you don\u2019t know how to express your feelings and thoughts, you should really work on your emotional maturity.<\/p>\n To be completely honest, it\u2019s okay only if you don\u2019t care for that person at all and want to make it clear to them. On the other hand, you should always show someone respect even if you don\u2019t particularly care for them.<\/p>\n Pode terminar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> com essa pessoa e explicar-lhe as suas raz\u00f5es. Your silent treatment may be heartbreaking for the person on the receiving end, and hurting someone else\u2019s feelings on purpose makes you a bad person.<\/strong><\/p>\n It\u2019s actually a sign of narcissism. Just try to imagine how you would feel if someone ignored you in the same way? Not a good feeling, right?<\/p>\n Then, don\u2019t make another person feel that way \u2013 you can always find a more painless way to end communication with that person.<\/p>\n As much as I try, I simply can\u2019t think of any positive effects the silent treatment may have on a relationship between two people. Por isso, sim, \u00e9 mau para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o e pode prejudicar ou arruinar completamente a liga\u00e7\u00e3o entre os parceiros.<\/em><\/p>\n A comunica\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 e deve ser a base de qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/a><\/strong>. After all, there are no problems or issues that can\u2019t be solved through healthy communication.<\/p>\nDar a algu\u00e9m o tratamento do sil\u00eancio diz muito sobre o seu car\u00e1cter<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n\u2022 You aren\u2019t brave enough to confront them directly<\/h3>\n
\u2022 You have self-esteem issues<\/h3>\n
\u2022 You try to punish the other person through this emotional abuse<\/h3>\n
\u2022 Stonewalling goes hand in hand with gaslighting<\/h3>\n
\u2022 It\u2019s one of the most favorites methods of narcissists<\/h3>\n
\u2022 You don\u2019t care about the consequences your silent treatment may have, which makes you…<\/h3>\n
Que tipo de pessoa faz o tratamento do sil\u00eancio?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nQual \u00e9 a psicologia por detr\u00e1s do tratamento silencioso?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nO Tratamento Silencioso \u00e9 imaturo?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n\u00c9 correto dar a algu\u00e9m o tratamento do sil\u00eancio?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n\u00c9 mau para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o dar o tratamento do sil\u00eancio?<\/h2>\n
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