{"id":14900,"date":"2020-08-20T11:04:34","date_gmt":"2020-08-20T11:04:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14900"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:17:29","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:17:29","slug":"amar-uma-rapariga-que-ja-foi-magoada-muitas-vezes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amar-uma-rapariga-que-ja-foi-magoada-muitas-vezes\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 assim que se ama uma rapariga que j\u00e1 foi magoada demasiadas vezes"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>There she is, she&#8217;s standing right in front of you\u2014the most wonderful woman you have ever seen.<\/p>\n<p>She&#8217;s yours, yet she seems so distant. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/nos-ferimos-um-muitas-vezes\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">She&#8217;s been hurt far too many times<\/a> and she&#8217;s built up walls that are high and no matter how much you try, you can&#8217;t seem to break them.<\/p>\n<p>She seems distant, but it&#8217;s not because of you. She&#8217;s just scared she&#8217;ll break again and she won&#8217;t find a way to patch those broken pieces.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>You have no idea how hard it is to say &#8220;I am ready to get back out there. I am ready to put my heart on the line again.&#8221; when you can barely stand.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Keep that in mind. Know that her walls can&#8217;t be forced down they need to fall naturally and the only way you can manage to that is if you love her patiently, truly, deeply.<\/p>\n<p>Ela gosta de si, gosta muito, s\u00f3 precisa de tempo. Ela precisa de saber que pode confiar em ti. Ela precisa de saber que n\u00e3o a vai magoar.<\/p>\n<p>Ela vai dar-te o seu melhor, vai amar-te como nunca ningu\u00e9m o fez, s\u00f3 precisa que fa\u00e7as o mesmo por ela.<\/p>\n<p>She needs you to be honest She&#8217;s heard too many lies and endured too many hurtful words. So don&#8217;t do the same.<\/p>\n<p>I know you know this already but it worth saying it again &#8211; without honesty, you can&#8217;t really make a relationship work.<\/p>\n<p>So say what&#8217;s on your mind and stick to it. Make your actions follow what you say and everything will be great.<\/p>\n<p>Ser\u00e3o capazes de confiar uns nos outros. A vossa liga\u00e7\u00e3o ser\u00e1 mais profunda. Ela sentir-se-\u00e1 segura para se apaixonar inteiramente por si.<\/p>\n<p>Ela precisa que a aceites tal como ela \u00e9<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t try to change her. Accept her fully. Accept who she is and accept her past. She will love you more if you let her fix herself.<\/p>\n<p>I know that you might be tempted to rush and help her get better, but that won&#8217;t help.<\/p>\n<p>You need to remember that her past was very hard on her and that she does need a lot of time to heal, it&#8217;s not something that happens overnight. It&#8217;s hard for her, too.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-105341\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/the-man-hugs-the-woman-and-kisses-her-on-the-cheek.jpg\" alt=\"o homem abra\u00e7a a mulher e beija-a na face\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/the-man-hugs-the-woman-and-kisses-her-on-the-cheek.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/the-man-hugs-the-woman-and-kisses-her-on-the-cheek-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/the-man-hugs-the-woman-and-kisses-her-on-the-cheek-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/the-man-hugs-the-woman-and-kisses-her-on-the-cheek-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/the-man-hugs-the-woman-and-kisses-her-on-the-cheek-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ela precisa que lhe d\u00eas espa\u00e7o<\/p>\n<p>There will come times where she&#8217;ll need some alone time, so respect that. Don&#8217;t be mad.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t blow up her phone with calls and messages, don&#8217;t show up at her door. Just slow down and take it easy.<\/p>\n<p>She needs some time to recharge and find her balance. She knows you are there. Give her space, she&#8217;ll come to you when she feels good again.<\/p>\n<p>Ela precisa que seja paciente quando se trata de intimidade<\/p>\n<p>Ela precisa de se ligar a si emocionalmente para poder ligar-se a si fisicamente. Abra-se com ela, deixe-a entrar e d\u00ea-lhe algum tempo para fazer o mesmo.<\/p>\n<p>She wants to make love to you. Yes, it sounds corny. But it&#8217;s a big deal to her.<\/p>\n<p>She doesn&#8217;t want something casual or fleeting. So don&#8217;t force her into doing something she is not ready to do you will just push her away.<\/p>\n<p>Ela precisa que lhe digas o qu\u00e3o bonita ela \u00e9<\/p>\n<p>Elogie-a. As experi\u00eancias passadas dela podem t\u00ea-la tornado insegura, por isso, lembre-a de como ela \u00e9 verdadeiramente bonita.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o apenas a sua apar\u00eancia f\u00edsica, mas tamb\u00e9m a sua alma.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-105342\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-man-carries-a-woman-to-the-beach.jpg\" alt=\"um homem carrega uma mulher para a praia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-man-carries-a-woman-to-the-beach.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-man-carries-a-woman-to-the-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-man-carries-a-woman-to-the-beach-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-man-carries-a-woman-to-the-beach-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-man-carries-a-woman-to-the-beach-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Tell her how kind she is, and how generous, loving and caring she is. Don&#8217;t just tell her that she&#8217;s sexy.<\/p>\n<p>Em vez disso, mostre-lhe que a aprecia por inteiro, de corpo, mente e alma.<\/p>\n<p>Ela precisa de um abra\u00e7o, precisa de muitos<\/p>\n<p>Hug her. A lot. Physical touch creates energy that words can&#8217;t express and it&#8217;s important to let her know that you&#8217;re there for her and what says, &#8221;I&#8217;m not letting you go,&#8221; more than a tight hug? Nothing.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why it&#8217;s important to hug her as much as you can. Hug her when she is sad, scared, happy, mad. Hug her for no reason at all.<\/p>\n<p>Ela precisa que seja coerente<\/p>\n<p>Keep doing everything that you&#8217;re doing and don&#8217;t back down. You will be able to break those walls one stone at a time and you will be grateful that you have been consistent when you see all the love that she can feel.<\/p>\n<p>You will get the entire world the moment when she sees that you&#8217;re not messing around.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62496\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/THIS-IS-HOW-YOU-LOVE-A-GIRL-WHO\u2019S-BEEN-HURT-TOO-MANY-TIMES.jpg\" alt=\"\u00c9 ASSIM QUE SE AMA UMA RAPARIGA QUE J\u00c1 FOI MAGOADA DEMASIADAS VEZES\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/THIS-IS-HOW-YOU-LOVE-A-GIRL-WHO\u2019S-BEEN-HURT-TOO-MANY-TIMES.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/THIS-IS-HOW-YOU-LOVE-A-GIRL-WHO\u2019S-BEEN-HURT-TOO-MANY-TIMES-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/THIS-IS-HOW-YOU-LOVE-A-GIRL-WHO\u2019S-BEEN-HURT-TOO-MANY-TIMES-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/THIS-IS-HOW-YOU-LOVE-A-GIRL-WHO\u2019S-BEEN-HURT-TOO-MANY-TIMES-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There she is, she&#8217;s standing right in front of you\u2014the most wonderful woman you have ever seen. She&#8217;s yours, yet she seems so distant. She&#8217;s been hurt far too many times and she&#8217;s built up walls that are high and no matter how much you try, you can&#8217;t seem to break them. 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