{"id":149010,"date":"2022-04-14T22:47:29","date_gmt":"2022-04-14T22:47:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=149010"},"modified":"2022-04-14T22:47:29","modified_gmt":"2022-04-14T22:47:29","slug":"como-fazer-com-que-um-narcisista-sinta-a-sua-falta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-fazer-com-que-um-narcisista-sinta-a-sua-falta\/","title":{"rendered":"Como fazer um narcisista sentir a sua falta: 9 maneiras secretas"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Desde que entrou na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o narc\u00edsica, foi sempre a pessoa com o cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido. O seu agressor encontrou sempre uma forma de a descartar e de a deixar com saudades e a desej\u00e1-la de volta.<\/p>\n<p>But, can the tables be turned for a change? They definitely can \u2013 you can reverse the roles and pay them back for everything they\u2019ve ever done.<\/p>\n<p>Mas como \u00e9 que se faz isso? <strong>Como fazer com que um narcisista sinta a sua falta e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-unica-forma-de-fazer-com-que-um-narcisista-se-arrependa-de-a-ter-deixado\/\">arrepender-me de te ter deixado<\/a>? Como \u00e9 que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-passos-para-colocar-um-narcisista-no-seu-lugar\/\">p\u00f4-los no seu lugar<\/a>? Bem, aqui est\u00e3o 9 maneiras \u00e0 prova de bala para o fazer acontecer!<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>Como fazer um narcisista sentir sua falta de 9 maneiras:<\/h2>\n<p><strong>Se seguir cada um destes 9 passos, o seu narcisista voltar\u00e1 a rastejar para si num instante:<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>1. Entrar na mente deles<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-149012 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-standing-outside-looking-into-distance.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de p\u00e9 no exterior a olhar para a dist\u00e2ncia\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-standing-outside-looking-into-distance.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-standing-outside-looking-into-distance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-standing-outside-looking-into-distance-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-standing-outside-looking-into-distance-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-standing-outside-looking-into-distance-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-standing-outside-looking-into-distance-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-standing-outside-looking-into-distance-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-standing-outside-looking-into-distance-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-standing-outside-looking-into-distance-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-standing-outside-looking-into-distance-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-standing-outside-looking-into-distance-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-standing-outside-looking-into-distance-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-standing-outside-looking-into-distance-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-standing-outside-looking-into-distance-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s get one thing straight: you\u2019re not dealing with a typical, normal person. You\u2019re trying to play someone with a narcissistic personality disorder.<\/p>\n<p>Am I telling you this because I think you\u2019re not clever and capable enough to manipulate them into doing what you want? Absolutely not!<\/p>\n<p>I just want you to be aware of one thing: their mindset is much different than yours. Narcs don\u2019t have the same thought patterns as the rest of us.<\/p>\n<p><strong>That\u2019s why, before you do anything, you have to enter their mind. Don\u2019t worry, you won\u2019t become just like them \u2013 this is only temporary.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Basically, you have to think the way they do. That\u2019s the only way to trick them and win this war of the <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/girls-falling-bad-boys-3-jogos-mentais-que-os-narcisistas-nos-pregam\/\">jogos mentais<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h4>Fornecimento narcisista<\/h4>\n<p>I hate to break it to you, but someone with NPD doesn\u2019t see their victims as human beings. To them, you are nothing more than an object.<\/p>\n<p><strong>They don\u2019t care about your emotions, nor do they give a damn about breaking your heart. They won\u2019t give it a second thought when they\u2019re about to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/as-coisas-mais-dolorosas-que-os-narcisistas-fazem\/\">magoar-vos.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Para ser exato, um verdadeiro narcisista s\u00f3 o v\u00ea como uma fonte de abastecimento narc\u00edsico.<\/p>\n<p>O que \u00e9 que isto tem a ver com a quest\u00e3o de saber como fazer com que um narcisista sinta a sua falta? Bem, tem de deixar de os ver tamb\u00e9m como seres humanos.<\/p>\n<p>Trust me \u2013 you won\u2019t get far if you take their feelings into consideration during this process. This way, you will <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-que-magoa-mais-um-narcisista-6-formas-de-o-ferir-emocionalmente\/\">feri-los<\/a>, and you won\u2019t care about it while doing it!<\/p>\n<h3>2. Conhecer as suas vulnerabilidades<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-149013 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-standing-outside-looking-away.jpg\" alt=\"mulher jovem de p\u00e9 no exterior a olhar para o lado\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-standing-outside-looking-away.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-standing-outside-looking-away-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-standing-outside-looking-away-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-standing-outside-looking-away-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-standing-outside-looking-away-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-standing-outside-looking-away-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-standing-outside-looking-away-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-standing-outside-looking-away-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-standing-outside-looking-away-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-standing-outside-looking-away-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-standing-outside-looking-away-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-standing-outside-looking-away-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-standing-outside-looking-away-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-standing-outside-looking-away-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3 porque os narcisistas s\u00e3o <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-coisas-que-as-pessoas-toxicas-destroem\/\">pessoas t\u00f3xicas<\/a> doesn\u2019t mean they\u2019re not humans. They\u2019re pretty similar to normal people in one aspect: they have their share of weaknesses, just like the rest of us.<\/p>\n<p>Mas o truque \u00e9 que toda a gente com <a href=\"https:\/\/www.healthdirect.gov.au\/narcissistic-personality-disorder-npd#:~:text=Narcissistic%20personality%20disorder%20(NPD)%20is,lives%2C%20relationships%20and%20everyday%20life.\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">NPD<\/a> \u00e9 incrivelmente bom a esconder as suas vulnerabilidades. A \u00faltima coisa que eles querem \u00e9 dar \u00e0s suas v\u00edtimas o poder de os destruir.<\/p>\n<p>However, this is where you have to outsmart them. You probably didn\u2019t know this, but this process begins before the discard happens.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You have to learn all about your narc\u2019s vulnerabilities while they\u2019re still with you. Get them to open up to you and talk about their biggest fears, hopes, and dreams.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 que o narcisismo tem uma raiz que pode ser encontrada na inf\u00e2ncia. Este \u00e9 o per\u00edodo da vida a que deve prestar mais aten\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Store all the information you get from them. I promise that you\u2019ll need it.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s right, you\u2019ll use each one of <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/segredos-reveladores-que-um-narcisista-nao-quer-que-saibas\/\">os seus segredos<\/a> contra eles quando chegar a altura certa.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Espelhar-se num narcisista<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-149014 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-couple-sitting-on-sofa-and-working.jpg\" alt=\"jovem casal sentado no sof\u00e1 a trabalhar\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-couple-sitting-on-sofa-and-working.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-couple-sitting-on-sofa-and-working-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-couple-sitting-on-sofa-and-working-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-couple-sitting-on-sofa-and-working-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-couple-sitting-on-sofa-and-working-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-couple-sitting-on-sofa-and-working-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-couple-sitting-on-sofa-and-working-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-couple-sitting-on-sofa-and-working-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-couple-sitting-on-sofa-and-working-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-couple-sitting-on-sofa-and-working-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-couple-sitting-on-sofa-and-working-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-couple-sitting-on-sofa-and-working-1080x716.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t figure out how to make the narcissist miss you after discard without <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/espelhar-um-narcisista\/\">espelhar o seu comportamento<\/a>. Don\u2019t worry, acting like them won\u2019t destroy your mental health any more than the <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/abuso-narcisico\/\">abuso narc\u00edsico<\/a> you\u2019ve already been through has.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Just make sure you\u2019re completely aware that this is an act at all times. You don\u2019t possess <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-tracos-narcisicos-que-pode-nao-reconhecer-imediatamente\/\">tra\u00e7os narc\u00edsicos<\/a> \u2013 you\u2019re <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/rapariga-da-carta-sobreviveu-a-abuso-narcisico\/\">a v\u00edtima<\/a> aqui.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Basically, if you want to make your narcissist miserable, you have to treat them the same way they\u2019ve treated you.<\/p>\n<h4>Bombardeamento de amor<\/h4>\n<p>Let\u2019s go back to the beginning of your narcissistic relationship. Even though we are talking about a new relationship, your partner started <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/estes-sao-6-significados-escondidos-por-detras-de-um-i-love-you-narcisista\/\">a dar-vos um banho de amor<\/a> imediatamente.<\/p>\n<p>Comportaram-se como se voc\u00eas estivessem juntos h\u00e1 muito tempo e fizeram com que pensassem que eram almas g\u00e9meas. No in\u00edcio, este tratamento deixou-o de rastos. Foi arrastado por esta idealiza\u00e7\u00e3o da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, mal sabias que eram <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/bombardeamento-de-amor\/\">bombardeamento de amor<\/a> sempre vos quis. Basicamente, foi o in\u00edcio da sua <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/9-dicas-para-detetar-abuso-narcisico\/\">abuso narc\u00edsico<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Estavam a fazer o seu melhor para o fazer <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-que-e-a-dependencia-emocional-10-formas-de-a-ultrapassar-com-sucesso\/\">emocionalmente dependente<\/a> num certo n\u00edvel de amor, afeto e aten\u00e7\u00e3o. E conseguiram-no.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Well, now you\u2019ll do the same to them. Regardless of your narc\u2019s behavior, treat them exactly how they want to be treated.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Imagine that this is the beginning of your relationship. Give them validation and trick them into feeling like you\u2019re their new supply.<\/p>\n<h4>Desvaloriza\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h4>\n<p>O que vem depois <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-coisas-a-saber-sobre-o-bombardeamento-amoroso-narcisico\/\">bombardeamento de amor<\/a>? That\u2019s right, devaluation \u2013 this is what <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sindrome-da-vitima-narcisica\/\">todas as v\u00edtimas<\/a> atravessando <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/recuperar-de-abuso-narcisico\/\">recupera\u00e7\u00e3o de abuso narc\u00edsico<\/a> infelizmente sabe.<\/p>\n<p>All of a sudden, the narcissist withdraws. You\u2019re no longer getting the affection or attention you got so addicted to.<\/p>\n<p>And you\u2019re ready to do whatever it takes just to get back to the old levels of emotional connection. Well, guess what, they are too.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Agora \u00e9 a altura de negar ao seu agressor a valida\u00e7\u00e3o de que ele tanto depende. Quando um narcisista sente falta dela, enlouquece e, mais importante, torna-se ainda mais dependente de si.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>4. Ser o \u00fanico a acabar com as coisas<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-149015 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/girl-covers-her-face-while-fighting-with-boyfriend.jpg\" alt=\"rapariga tapa a cara enquanto discute com o namorado\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/girl-covers-her-face-while-fighting-with-boyfriend.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/girl-covers-her-face-while-fighting-with-boyfriend-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/girl-covers-her-face-while-fighting-with-boyfriend-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/girl-covers-her-face-while-fighting-with-boyfriend-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/girl-covers-her-face-while-fighting-with-boyfriend-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/girl-covers-her-face-while-fighting-with-boyfriend-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/girl-covers-her-face-while-fighting-with-boyfriend-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/girl-covers-her-face-while-fighting-with-boyfriend-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/girl-covers-her-face-while-fighting-with-boyfriend-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/girl-covers-her-face-while-fighting-with-boyfriend-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/girl-covers-her-face-while-fighting-with-boyfriend-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/girl-covers-her-face-while-fighting-with-boyfriend-1080x716.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t figure out how to make a narcissist miss you if you don\u2019t make them feel your absence, can you?<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/acontece-que-o-narcisista-sai\/\">eles descartam-no<\/a>. Em vez disso, seja o \u00fanico a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-dura-realidade-de-acabar-com-um-narcisista-e-como-lidar-com-ela\/\">quebrar coisas<\/a> depois de alguns ciclos de bombardeamento amoroso e desvaloriza\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>However, don\u2019t walk away from them in the middle of a fight. Don\u2019t do it after they break your heart the thousandth time in a row.<\/p>\n<p>If you do, you\u2019re giving them back the power. Even though you are the one who left, you did it because of something they provoked.<\/p>\n<p>Esta \u00e9 a fase em que tens de ser o mais forte. <strong>The key is to leave your narcissist miserable and to do it while they\u2019re treating you the best.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You know exactly what I\u2019m talking about. Everything seems to be going great, and there is no sign of their mental illness. Well, that\u2019s when you leave them.<\/p>\n<p>Acredita em mim, isto vai deix\u00e1-los mais confusos do que qualquer outra coisa!<\/p>\n<h3>5. N\u00e3o estabelecer contacto<\/h3>\n<p>Now it\u2019s time to give your abuser the <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-obstrucao-e-um-metodo-de-tratamento-silencioso-perfeito-para-os-narcisistas\/\">tratamento silencioso<\/a>. Yes, that\u2019s right, I\u2019m telling you to go <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/regra-de-nao-contacto-o-poder-do-silencio\/\">nenhum contacto<\/a> e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/guia-definitivo-para-ignorar-a-detecao-de-narcisistas\/\">ignor\u00e1-los<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Block their number, block them all over social media, don\u2019t call them, and don\u2019t text them. If it\u2019s necessary, stop talking to your mutual friends.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Change your habits and do your best to avoid running into them. Don\u2019t worry, this no contact phase won\u2019t last forever because they will reach out to you soon enough.<\/p>\n<p>What is crucial here is to be as strong as possible. You\u2019ll ruin everything if you give up in the middle of the process and be the one to initiate contact.<\/p>\n<p>If this happens, your narcissist won\u2019t ever take you seriously again. If they see you were unable to move on and that you were more than eager to go back to your toxic relationship, they will gain even more power over you.<\/p>\n<h3>6. Ignorar as suas tentativas de regresso<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-149016 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-looking-at-her-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sentada no sof\u00e1 a olhar para o telem\u00f3vel\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-looking-at-her-phone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-looking-at-her-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-looking-at-her-phone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-looking-at-her-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-looking-at-her-phone-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-looking-at-her-phone-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-looking-at-her-phone-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-looking-at-her-phone-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-looking-at-her-phone-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-looking-at-her-phone-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-looking-at-her-phone-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-looking-at-her-phone-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-looking-at-her-phone-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-looking-at-her-phone-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>O problema de descobrir como fazer com que um narcisista sinta a sua falta \u00e9 que voc\u00ea come\u00e7a a sentir a falta dele tamb\u00e9m. Por isso, quando ele <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-que-fazer-quando-o-narcisista-volta-e-como-o-fazer-ir-embora\/\">voltar a rastejar<\/a>Se o seu primeiro desejo \u00e9 correr para os bra\u00e7os dele e dar uma segunda oportunidade \u00e0 sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o, ent\u00e3o, o seu primeiro desejo \u00e9 correr para os bra\u00e7os dele e dar uma segunda oportunidade \u00e0 sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Pode contar com dezenas de chamadas n\u00e3o atendidas e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/exemplos-de-mensagens-de-texto-de-narcisistas\/\">mensagens de texto<\/a>, DMs em todos os seus perfis nas redes sociais, ou at\u00e9 mesmo grandes gestos rom\u00e2nticos, todos vindos dessa \u00fanica pessoa e todos com um objetivo: para <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-coisas-que-os-narcisistas-dizem-para-ganhar-bac\/\">recuperar-te<\/a>. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/guia-passo-a-passo-para-ignorar-um-narcisista\/\">Ignorar tudo<\/a> deles!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Eventually, you\u2019ll take them back. Just please, don\u2019t do it right away. The more they beg for your love and attention, the more they\u2019ll miss you.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t worry, they won\u2019t give up or get tired of this. You have all the time in the world to play with them!<\/p>\n<h4>Porque \u00e9 que eles o querem de volta?<\/h4>\n<p>I hate to burst your bubble, but your abuser isn\u2019t trying to come back into your life because they\u2019ve realized their mistakes. This is all part of their <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/coisas-estranhas-que-os-narcisistas-fazem-para-manipular\/\">ciclo de manipula\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>e esta fase \u00e9 designada por <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-tacticas-de-limpeza-que-os-narcisistas-usam-para-sugar\/\">aspirador<\/a>uma s\u00e9rie de t\u00e1cticas que utilizam para o recuperar.<\/p>\n<p>They likely haven\u2019t <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-assim-que-um-narcisista-nos-atinge\/\">orientada para uma nova oferta<\/a> e uma nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o que possa satisfazer as suas necessidades. \u00d3timo, era exatamente com isto que estava a contar.<\/p>\n<h3>7. Destruir o seu ego<\/h3>\n<p>Entretanto, dedique todo o seu esfor\u00e7o a destruir a autoestima e a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/formas-eficazes-de-esvaziar-intencionalmente-o-ego-de-um-homem\/\">esmagar o seu ego<\/a>. I don\u2019t care how you do it, but it has to be done.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Lembra-se de todas as fraquezas que procurava? Lembras-te de como descobriste as suas vulnerabilidades?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Bem, agora \u00e9 a altura de fazer com que o seu narcisista se arrependa de lhe ter dito qualquer uma destas coisas.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Vai falar mal dele \u00e0 frente de toda a gente? Vai humilh\u00e1-la deliberadamente e gozar com as suas tentativas de a reconquistar? Vai insult\u00e1-la onde mais lhe d\u00f3i?<\/p>\n<p>A escolha \u00e9 toda vossa. O que importa \u00e9 que eles devem ser privados da preciosa valida\u00e7\u00e3o de que tanto precisam.<\/p>\n<p>You might think that this kind of treatment will chase them away. Well, it probably would if you hadn\u2019t done all the necessary preparation beforehand.<\/p>\n<p>Neste caso, isso s\u00f3 vai aproximar ainda mais o seu narcisista de si.<\/p>\n<h3>8. A nostalgia \u00e9 tua amiga<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-149018 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-and-drinking-tea.jpg\" alt=\"mulher jovem sentada a beber ch\u00e1\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-and-drinking-tea.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-and-drinking-tea-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-and-drinking-tea-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-and-drinking-tea-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-and-drinking-tea-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-and-drinking-tea-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-and-drinking-tea-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-and-drinking-tea-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-and-drinking-tea-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-and-drinking-tea-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-and-drinking-tea-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-and-drinking-tea-1080x716.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Uma coisa \u00e9 certa: \u00e9 capaz de ver o lado bom das suas <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-coisas-para-saber-como-escapar-de-um-relacionamento-narcisista\/\">rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica<\/a> due to your trauma bond. Everything beautiful you and your partner shared was fake, and it\u2019s crucial that you\u2019re aware of this.<\/p>\n<p>However, your narc doesn\u2019t know this. After all, they weren\u2019t the ones to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/narcisistas-manipuladores-psicopatas-pessoas-toxicas-prejudicar\/\">manipula\u00e7\u00e3o de experi\u00eancias<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/gaslighting-8-exemplos-de-abuso-mental-brutal\/\">ilumina\u00e7\u00e3o artificial e abuso<\/a>Por isso, do ponto de vista deles, a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 digna de ser idealizada.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 exatamente por isso que deve usar a nostalgia como seu maior aliado. <strong>Keep in mind that your narc has hit rock bottom. They\u2019ve lost their sense of self, and their self-esteem is non-existent.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>A \u00fanica coisa que os pode ajudar a levantarem-se \u00e9 uma fonte de abastecimento narc\u00edsico.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So, remind them of the \u201cgood\u201d times. Play the sentimental card and make them remember the history you two have together.<\/p>\n<p>You can talk to them about these moments or just randomly post a photo from that period on social media \u2013 the choice is yours.<\/p>\n<h3>9. Auto-aperfei\u00e7oamento<\/h3>\n<p>Mas o que \u00e9 que deve fazer entretanto? <strong>Dever\u00e1 passar todo o seu tempo a tentar descobrir como fazer com que um narcisista sinta a sua falta?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>De certeza que n\u00e3o!<\/strong> Em vez de esperar pacientemente que eles regressem, utilize este tempo para se aperfei\u00e7oar.<\/p>\n<h4>Fa\u00e7a-o por si!<\/h4>\n<p>First and foremost, you should do it for yourself. You can\u2019t even start the <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/recuperacao-de-abuso-narcisico\/\">recupera\u00e7\u00e3o de abuso narc\u00edsico<\/a> processo sem encontrar o seu antigo eu, porque confie em mim, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-o-namoro-com-um-narcisista-nos-muda\/\">a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o mudou-vos<\/a> em mais do que um sentido.<\/p>\n<p>Basicamente, <strong>\u00e9 preciso trabalhar em si pr\u00f3prio.<\/strong> If it\u2019s easier, begin working on your physical looks. Hit the gym, get yourself some new clothes, and change your make-up style.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto,<strong> it\u2019s more beneficial to gather the strength to work on your spiritual self.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Most importantly, rebuild the relationship you have with the most important person in your life \u2013 yourself. Work on learning <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/comecar-de-novo-e-amarmo-nos-a-nos-proprios\/\">como amar a si pr\u00f3prio<\/a> all over again, and as soon as you accomplish that, you\u2019ll love your abuser less.<\/p>\n<p>Mas no final do dia, fa\u00e7a-o para <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-magoar-emocionalmente-um-homem-narcisista-6-formas-eficazes-de-o-fazer\/\">ferir emocionalmente o seu narcisista<\/a> as well. Trust me \u2013 they <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-por-isso-que-um-narcisista-odeia-ver-nos-felizes\/\">n\u00e3o gosto de o ver feliz<\/a>!<\/p>\n<h2>Um narcisista pode realmente sentir a sua falta?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-149017 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-sofa.jpg\" alt=\"mulher jovem e triste sentada num sof\u00e1\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-sofa.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-sofa-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-sofa-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-sofa-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-sofa-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-sofa-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-sofa-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-sofa-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-sofa-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-sofa-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-sofa-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-sofa-1080x716.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Infelizmente, <strong>a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-coisas-que-os-narcisistas-nunca-fazem\/\">O narc nunca<\/a> sentir a vossa falta.<\/strong> Mas podem sentir falta da valida\u00e7\u00e3o e da aten\u00e7\u00e3o que lhes deu. Em poucas palavras, <strong>sentem falta da sua fonte narc\u00edsica<\/strong> \u2013 not you as a person.<\/p>\n<h2>Um narcisista sente a sua falta depois de n\u00e3o o contactar?<\/h2>\n<p>Quando o <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/uma-visao-da-psicologia-masculina-durante-a-regra-de-nao-contacto\/\">per\u00edodo sem contacto<\/a> is over, a narcissist will miss how you made them feel if they don\u2019t manage to find a new supply. <strong>They will probably behave as if they missed you, but they\u2019re incapable of feeling that sensation the way normal people do.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>Como fazer um narcisista querer-te de volta?<\/h2>\n<p><strong>Para fazer com que um narcisista nos queira de volta, temos de brincar com a sua mente da mesma forma que ele costumava fazer <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-assim-que-um-narcisista-nos-engana-e-como-lidar-com-isso\/\">brincar com o seu<\/a>. A chave est\u00e1 em arrast\u00e1-los para um ciclo: bombardeamento amoroso, desvaloriza\u00e7\u00e3o, descarte e limpeza.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Para simplificar, \u00e9 preciso dar-lhes valida\u00e7\u00e3o e aten\u00e7\u00e3o. Depois, \u00e9 preciso esmagar-lhes o ego e destruir-lhes a autoestima.<\/p>\n<p>After that, when you\u2019re sure you\u2019ve succeeded in making them emotionally dependent, it\u2019s time to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/acontece-finalmente-descartar-o-narcisista-manipulador\/\">descart\u00e1-los<\/a>. However, you won\u2019t leave them alone even then.<\/p>\n<h2>Para terminar:<\/h2>\n<p>You wanted to learn how to make a narcissist miss you, and I\u2019ve taught you all the necessary steps to make this happen. <strong>No entanto, devo avis\u00e1-lo: todo este processo s\u00f3 o vai arrastar para mais fundo nesta <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-ele-tiver-estas-10-caracteristicas-pode-ser-vitima-do-seu-abuso-narcisico\/\">ciclo de abuso<\/a> e manipula\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Yes, you\u2019re playing with them, but you\u2019re also playing with your own heart and mind at the same time. So please be careful while you\u2019re going through this 9-step program.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ever since you got into your narcissistic relationship, you were always the heartbroken one. Your abuser always found a way to discard you and leave you missing them and wanting them back. But, can the tables be turned for a change? They definitely can \u2013 you can reverse the roles and pay them back for&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":149011,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-149010","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/How-To-Make-A-Narcissist-Miss-You-9-Secret-Ways-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. 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