{"id":149158,"date":"2022-04-18T09:47:43","date_gmt":"2022-04-18T09:47:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=149158"},"modified":"2022-06-08T17:25:02","modified_gmt":"2022-06-08T17:25:02","slug":"como-fantasiar-alguem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-fantasiar-alguem\/","title":{"rendered":"Quando e como fazer o Ghost de algu\u00e9m corretamente: 6 melhores maneiras"},"content":{"rendered":"

O ato de fantasma<\/a> tornou-se uma das formas modernas mais populares de cortar o contacto com algu\u00e9m<\/a> subtly. If you’ve ever been ghosted, then you know how painful it is, but sometimes, it’s just necessary.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 claro que existem algumas situa\u00e7\u00f5es em que<\/b> fantasma<\/b><\/a> \u00e9 inadequado, e h\u00e1 tamb\u00e9m situa\u00e7\u00f5es em que o ghosting \u00e9 a \u00fanica coisa razo\u00e1vel a fazer.<\/b><\/p>\n

How will you know when it is okay to ghost someone? From today, you’ll definitely learn that, and, more importantly, you’ll also learn how to ghost someone the right way!<\/p>\n

Como fazer o Ghost de algu\u00e9m da maneira correcta<\/h2>\n

If you have doubts about ghosting, you’re probably wondering whether there is a nice way to ghost someone. Well, I don’t think there is. Whichever way you choose, it will leave them with question marks. Although there might not be a nice way, there is always the right way.<\/p>\n

1. Tens a certeza de que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o queres essa pessoa na tua vida?<\/h3>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

Tratava-se de um <\/i>rela\u00e7\u00e3o importante<\/i> para si ou apenas um<\/i> namoro de curta dura\u00e7\u00e3o<\/i><\/a>? Esta pessoa p\u00f5e em perigo o seu bem-estar de uma forma ou de outra?<\/i><\/p>\n

These are the questions you need to ask yourself to realize whether you’re truly ready to let them go.<\/b> If you’re making an impulsive decision, you might regret it later on.<\/p>\n

So, it’s best to be honest with yourself. Then, what will it be? Are you 100% ready to enter ghosting mode?<\/p>\n

2. Em caso afirmativo, fa\u00e7a-o gradualmente<\/h3>\n

Ramani Durvasula, psic\u00f3logo cl\u00ednico licenciado e professor de psicologia na California State University, Los Angeles, descreve o ghosting da seguinte forma:<\/p>\n

\u201cGhosting is exactly what it sounds like; it\u2019s quietly<\/i> disappearing from someone\u2019s life<\/i><\/a>, like a ghost.\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n

Imagine estar em <\/b>contacto permanente<\/b> e, de repente, um dia, decidem mat\u00e1-los como fantasmas.<\/b> Esse n\u00e3o \u00e9 definitivamente o caminho a seguir. Se quiser evitar a intensidade emocional que vem com o ghosting repentino, fa\u00e7a-o gradualmente.<\/p>\n

Quitely = gradualmente.<\/b><\/p>\n

First, stop responding to some of their texts and calls. After a while, stop responding for a longer period of time. Then, at a certain point, you’ll be ready to cut off communication for good.<\/p>\n

3. Deixar de investir na comunica\u00e7\u00e3o com eles<\/h3>\n

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A great way to gradually “get rid of them\u201d is to stop investing your time in communicating with them. If you haven’t invested much time in them, it will be easier to end things.<\/p>\n

If they keep tagging you in comments, don’t reply. Also, don’t start ghosting them on all <\/b>redes sociais<\/b> plataformas em simult\u00e2neo.<\/b><\/p>\n

If they’re texting you on both Facebook and Instagram, choose to ghost them on Facebook first. After that, ignore their messages on Instagram as well.<\/p>\n

O objetivo aqui \u00e9 deixar de investir na comunica\u00e7\u00e3o com eles de forma indireta. <\/b>This will also make it easier for them to accept it. It’s harder to cope with something that ends abruptly, right?<\/p>\n

5. Ap\u00f3s algum tempo, apagar\/bloquear a pessoa nas redes sociais<\/h3>\n

You’ve succeeded in ghosting them for so many days! Congrats! What’s your next step, you wonder?<\/p>\n

Gra\u00e7as aos modernos <\/b>tecnologias da comunica\u00e7\u00e3o<\/b>Se n\u00e3o formos capazes de fazer nada, podemos dar-nos ao luxo de apagar virtualmente as pessoas das nossas vidas. <\/b>A melhor altura para os eliminar ou bloquear nas redes sociais \u00e9 ap\u00f3s alguns dias\/semanas sem comunica\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

That way, chances are, they won’t even notice that they’re no longer on your friends list. If you haven’t been communicating, it\u2019ll make no difference to them whether they’re still your friend or not.<\/b><\/p>\n

Still, there are exceptions. Some people won’t be able to accept that you deleted or blocked them. They’ll take it too personally (which is not something you can influence).<\/p>\n

Relacionadas: O que acontece quando ele percebe que voc\u00ea o bloqueou<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

6. Estar preparado para tudo<\/h3>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

Quando se trata de ser ignorado por algu\u00e9m<\/a>, I’m convinced that there’s no gray area here. You either upset the person, or they don’t care about it at all.<\/p>\n

Tudo depende do grau de liga\u00e7\u00e3o que tinham consigo no in\u00edcio. <\/b>primeiro lugar<\/b>. If you didn’t spend <\/b>muito tempo<\/b> together or didn\u2019t text a lot, it would be easier for them to<\/b> seguir em frente<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

Mas se passaram muito tempo juntos e a pessoa ainda gosta de si, ent\u00e3o prepare-se para tudo. As a matter of fact, some people can’t accept rejection regardless of whether you saw them or texted once in your life or more than that.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso fazer todo o tipo de coisas, por isso esteja preparado para todos os resultados poss\u00edveis. Estabelecer limites saud\u00e1veis \u00e9 uma obriga\u00e7\u00e3o quando se trata de aprender a fantasiar algu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

Quando \u00e9 que \u00e9 correto esconder algu\u00e9m?<\/h2>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

People ghost others for various reasons; some of them are legit, while others are not-so-legit. We all have boundaries when it comes to social connections and different things, so when someone doesn’t respect them, the m\u00e9todo de fantasma<\/a> \u00e9 \u00fatil.<\/p>\n

Seguem-se algumas situa\u00e7\u00f5es em que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 problema em fantasiar algu\u00e9m:<\/b><\/p>\n

4. Ser persistente, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer<\/h3>\n

Sim, a pessoa que te fantasma ser\u00e1 a destinat\u00e1ria (partindo do princ\u00edpio que ela gosta de ti e quer estar na tua vida). Mas decidiu p\u00f4r um ponto final na situa\u00e7\u00e3o porque tem as suas pr\u00f3prias raz\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

So, don’t let <\/b>culpa de fantasma<\/b> impedem-no de ser coerente na sua decis\u00e3o. Aprender a<\/b> definir <\/b>limites saud\u00e1veis<\/b><\/a> sem se sentir culpado por isso.<\/b> Em caso de d\u00favida, lembre-se porque \u00e9 que decidiu dar uma tampa a essa pessoa.<\/p>\n

Don’t fall for their attempts to blackmail you, beg you, or make you feel bad. Se a sua vida parece dez <\/b>tempos<\/b> easier since you’ve not been in contact with them, then you know you’ve made the right decision.<\/b><\/p>\n

(No entanto, se achar que cometeu um erro, pode sempre admiti-lo, pedir-lhes perd\u00e3o e mudar as coisas).<\/p>\n