{"id":149512,"date":"2022-04-20T12:51:29","date_gmt":"2022-04-20T12:51:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=149512"},"modified":"2022-04-20T12:51:29","modified_gmt":"2022-04-20T12:51:29","slug":"sinais-de-que-um-recluso-gosta-mesmo-de-si","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sinais-de-que-um-recluso-gosta-mesmo-de-si\/","title":{"rendered":"8 sinais de que um recluso gosta mesmo de ti (e como fazer com que dure)"},"content":{"rendered":"

If your partner or someone you\u2019re dating is currently an inmate, I bet you can\u2019t help but wonder, Como \u00e9 que<\/i> um homem\/mulher condenado(a)<\/i><\/a> me ama?<\/i><\/p>\n

S\u00f3 tenho uma coisa a dizer: A aus\u00eancia faz com que o cora\u00e7\u00e3o fique mais feliz.<\/b> Assim, se o amavam verdadeiramente antes de irem para a pris\u00e3o, continuar\u00e3o a am\u00e1-lo apesar das circunst\u00e2ncias.<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s how I see it.<\/p>\n

A <\/b>rela\u00e7\u00e3o com a pris\u00e3o<\/b> \u00e9 uma forma de<\/b> rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia<\/b><\/a>. When you look at it that way, it\u2019s easier for you to endure the distance.<\/b><\/p>\n

Ser amigo por correspond\u00eancia na pris\u00e3o \u00e9 tamb\u00e9m uma forma leg\u00edtima de rela\u00e7\u00e3o epistolar<\/a> (algo que todos os casais normais devem praticar de vez em quando).<\/p>\n

So, yes, being in a \u201c<\/b>rela\u00e7\u00e3o com a pris\u00e3o<\/b>\u201d will test your love and patience, but you have nothing to worry about if your feelings are mutual.<\/b><\/p>\n

But, how will you know? Below you\u2019ll find the surefire signs an inmate really loves you and how you can make your relationship last!<\/p>\n

8 Sinais de que um recluso gosta mesmo de si<\/h2>\n

Sometimes, it\u2019s really hard to decipher whether your partner in prison has strong feelings for you because you don\u2019t see each other often.<\/p>\n

No entanto, existem algumas coisas subtis e n\u00e3o t\u00e3o subtis que podem dizer se eles realmente <\/b>amo-te<\/b> (ou n\u00e3o).<\/b><\/p>\n

Se a maior parte dos sinais que se seguem se assemelham a si, ent\u00e3o n\u00e3o tem nada com que se preocupar:<\/p>\n

1. Escrevem-te cartas sentimentais<\/h3>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Todos sabemos que os reclusos t\u00eam muito tempo para pensar, repensar e pensar demasiado. Por isso, sim, pode ter a certeza de que eles tamb\u00e9m v\u00e3o pensar nos sentimentos que t\u00eam por si e na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Se eles realmente <\/b>amo-te<\/b>, chances are they\u2019ll express their feelings via <\/b>reda\u00e7\u00e3o de cartas<\/b>. If they write you sentimental letters, know that they\u2019ve been<\/b> a pensar em si<\/b><\/a> MUITO<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

They have a strong urge to convey their deepest feelings in love letters, and they can\u2019t wait for you to read them and write them back. Be sure they\u2019ll reread it multiple times once they get your letter.<\/p>\n

Se me perguntarem, um <\/b>rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica<\/b> n\u00e3o \u00e9 nada sem<\/b> cartas de amor emocionais<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

To the non-inmate couples reading this: I\u2019m not saying that you should exchange love letters throughout the entire year but occasionally would be a good thing.<\/p>\n

2. Os seus pacotes de cuidados significam o mundo para eles<\/h3>\n

Sabem o que \u00e9 que deixa qualquer recluso tremendamente feliz? Pacotes de cuidados! Receber pacotes de cuidados \u00e9 uma forma de se ligar ao mundo exterior e \u00e0 sua vida antes da pris\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Por isso, preste aten\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 forma como ele reage quando lhe leva as suas coisas preferidas, comida, etc. <\/b>Now you\u2019re probably wondering: Mas o que \u00e9 que isso tem a ver com o facto de eles me amarem? <\/i>Acredita em mim, \u00e9 verdade.<\/p>\n

Se eles lhe disserem que as suas encomendas alegram o seu dia e que nunca se esquecem de lhes agradecer, ent\u00e3o saber\u00e1 o quanto significa para eles. They don\u2019t only care about receiving it, but they appreciate the effort and love that you put into it.<\/b><\/p>\n

Isto tamb\u00e9m pode ser visto como receber presentes<\/i>, que \u00e9 um dos as cinco linguagens do amor<\/a>. If this is your partner\u2019s love language, then it can\u2019t get better than that!<\/p>\n

3. O brilho nos seus olhos \u00e9 constante de cada vez que os visita<\/h3>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

I\u2019m sure you\u2019ve seen it in movies multiple times.<\/p>\n

Um recluso espera impacientemente pelo seu <\/i>ente querido<\/i> to come to visit them… and as soon as they see them, their eyes become brighter and sometimes fill with happy tears.<\/i><\/p>\n

Esta fa\u00edsca \u00e9 exatamente o que deve procurar sempre que visitar o seu companheiro <\/b>recluso<\/b>. Porque os olhos nunca mentem.<\/b><\/p>\n

If they\u2019re genuinely happy to see you every time you visit them, know they really mean it. The spark in their eyes tells you their love for you is stronger than ever, and you have nothing to worry about.<\/p>\n

4. Falas de coisas importantes da vida<\/b><\/h3>\n

Os temas das vossas conversas tamb\u00e9m s\u00e3o importantes. Falam apenas sobre a vida quotidiana ou as vossas conversas s\u00e3o mais aprofundadas?<\/p>\n

Falar sobre coisas importantes da vida = ter conversas com significado.<\/b><\/p>\n

If your inmate partner is only interested in small talk, then this means they\u2019re not really interested in connecting with you on a deeper level.<\/p>\n

Conversas profundas e inspiradoras<\/b><\/a> s\u00e3o o combust\u00edvel de qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o (especialmente de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia como a vossa).<\/b> Estas conversas deixam-nos satisfeitos durante horas e dias antes de voltarmos a falar.<\/p>\n

If this is something you already practice, then it\u2019s one of the clear signs an inmate really loves you.<\/p>\n

5. They don\u2019t call you only when they need something<\/h3>\n

Esta \u00e9 uma forma brilhante e uma das mais f\u00e1ceis de saber se um recluso ama-te de verdade<\/a> ou n\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m sure you all agree that if someone calls you only when they need something from you, they aren\u2019t being genuine.<\/b> (It\u2019s happened to me multiple times in friendships and romantic relationships.)<\/p>\n

So, if your love interest doesn\u2019t only call you when they need you to bring them something or do something for them, you can be sure they truly care about you.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t see you only as their middleman between prison and the <\/b>mundo exterior<\/b>.<\/b> They see you as the love of their life, and they want to know how you are feeling, what you\u2019re doing, and so on.<\/p>\n

They\u2019re interested in your well-being and not only about you telling them what\u2019s going on in the world. That\u2019s how you know their feelings for you shouldn\u2019t be questioned.<\/p>\n

6. They tell you that they\u2019re ready to change<\/h3>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Este \u00e9 provavelmente um dos sinais mais dif\u00edceis e mais genu\u00ednos de que um recluso gosta realmente de si. A verdade \u00e9 que todos n\u00f3s cometemos erros durante a viagem chamada vida e ningu\u00e9m deve ser julgado por isso. O mesmo se aplica ao seu ente querido na pris\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Agora que t\u00eam muito tempo para pensar nas suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es passadas<\/b> (especificamente sobre o que os levou l\u00e1 em primeiro lugar), t\u00eam a oportunidade de fazer uma autorreflex\u00e3o de qualidade.<\/b><\/p>\n

Se vos disserem que they\u2019re ready to change<\/a> e que n\u00e3o voltar\u00e1 a cometer o mesmo erro para acabar na pris\u00e3o, acreditem neles. If a man\/woman is ready to change, they won\u2019t only do it for themselves but also their <\/b>entes queridos<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

If they\u2019re ready to change for the better, it\u2019s because they truly love you, and they don\u2019t want your relationship or you to suffer.<\/p>\n

7. Falam sobre o futuro<\/h3>\n

Ah, the sweet taste of new beginnings! I can only imagine how hard it is to stay optimistic when you\u2019re in prison, but I guess it\u2019s possible to even find a silver lining there.<\/p>\n

Love is a miracle. When you\u2019re in love, you have no problem being positive regardless of where you are.<\/b> Also, you have no problem talking about the bright future that awaits you once you\u2019re out of prison.<\/p>\n

If they talk about the future and already make plans even before they\u2019re out of there, know that they\u2019re truly ready to change. From now on, they have solemnly sworn to themselves that they\u2019ll do their best to make it up to you.<\/b><\/p>\n

Querem que sejas feliz. Eles querem criar um futuro feliz<\/a> for both of you by making plans in advance and reassuring you that they\u2019ll manage to bring them to life.<\/p>\n

8. They aren\u2019t pen pals with other men\/women<\/h3>\n

I\u2019m not sure if you\u2019re familiar with this, but there are sites where you can become pen pals with prisoners. One such site is called Write A Prisoner. You can email them or send them a letter (a physical letter).<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o esquecer que alguns reclusos est\u00e3o nestes s\u00edtios para outros fins, tais como oportunidades educativas, encontrar mentores, etc.<\/b><\/p>\n

What I\u2019m trying to say is that if your inmate partner has an online profile on such sites only to be pen pals with other women\/men, then this is a red flag. It\u2019s like having a dating profile in the real world, which can also lead to potential visits.<\/b><\/p>\n

If they aren\u2019t into this sort of thing, you know the only person they think about is YOU. They\u2019re not interested in meeting other people because they\u2019re solely focused on you. Why? Because they love you.<\/p>\n

How To Make Your \u201cPrison Relationship\u201d Last<\/h2>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

Making your prison relationship last requires patience, effort, and creativity. As a matter of fact, it\u2019s like maintaining any other relationship, but the only difference is the circumstances. Here are the things you should pay special attention to in order to make it last:<\/p>\n

\u2022 Exchange as many letters as you can<\/h3>\n

Know that every letter you write them will be their keepsake. When they\u2019re feeling down, they\u2019ll reread your letters, which will make them feel instantly better.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, isto ajud\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 a manter a sua liga\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/b>Escrever uma carta \u00e9 uma \u00f3ptima maneira de exprimir os seus sentimentos mais profundos<\/a> e desejos, por isso troquem o maior n\u00famero de cartas poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n

It will make your relationship stronger and your partner\u2019s days brighter.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Visit often<\/h3>\n

I\u2019m sure you\u2019re already using this option to the fullest potential (visiting them whenever you can) according to prison visits policy.<\/p>\n

But it doesn\u2019t hurt to remind you to visit them often because letters are not enough to<\/b> manter a fa\u00edsca viva numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/b><\/a>. When you\u2019re not able to visit them, you can always make a <\/b>chamada telef\u00f3nica<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

There\u2019s also another type of visit known as a conjugal visit, which is a great thing for couples. During a conjugal visit, an inmate is allowed to spend a few hours or days in private with a visitor. I bet you know what this means. ?<\/p>\n

\u2022 Make every conversation meaningful<\/h3>\n

If you\u2019re dating someone in jail, it\u2019s important to make every convo meaningful because this is the basis of your bond.<\/p>\n

Podem n\u00e3o partilhar todos os <\/b>coisa m\u00e1<\/b> que lhes aconteceu na pris\u00e3o, mas pode encoraj\u00e1-los a tentarem libertar-se.<\/b> Let them know that you\u2019re there to listen to them whenever they\u2019re ready to share things with you.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, fale sobre os seus planos para o futuro como se tudo estivesse normal.<\/b> Don\u2019t let the distance of prison interfere with your dreams or positivity. You\u2019re stronger than that.<\/p>\n

Fa\u00e7a com que cada conversa valha o tempo deles e o seu, porque o tempo \u00e9 a moeda mais valiosa.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Be creative when expressing your love and affection<\/b><\/h3>\n

Yup, it\u2019s important to be creative when it comes to gestos rom\u00e2nticos<\/a>mesmo quando o seu parceiro est\u00e1 na pris\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t just repeat \u201c<\/b>I <\/i><\/b>amo-te<\/i><\/b><\/a>\u201d several times a day, but show your affection to your <\/b>ente querido<\/b> de v\u00e1rias formas criativas.<\/b> Pode escrever-lhes uma hist\u00f3ria de amor, cantar-lhes a sua can\u00e7\u00e3o favorita can\u00e7\u00e3o de amor<\/a>ou pode fazer uma bolacha em forma de cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 muitas formas de exprimir o nosso amor um pelo outro, e isto \u00e9 v\u00e1lido para ambos os lados. O seu parceiro na pris\u00e3o tamb\u00e9m pode encontrar uma forma de expressar o seu afeto atrav\u00e9s da escrita de cartas ou algo semelhante.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Tickle their imagination<\/h3>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

Just because your partner is in prison doesn\u2019t mean you should stop seducing one another. Your atra\u00e7\u00e3o sexual<\/a> can still be at its peak, and all you need to do is tickle each other\u2019s imagination.<\/p>\n

Eis algumas ideias:<\/b><\/p>\n

Dress up when you\u2019re about to visit them (especially during <\/i>visitas conjugais<\/i>).<\/i><\/p>\n

Fale com eles com uma voz sedutora atrav\u00e9s de <\/i><\/b>chamadas telef\u00f3nicas<\/i><\/b>.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Apimentar as coisas ao escrever cartas.<\/i><\/p>\n

Sussurrar-lhes ao ouvido algumas<\/i><\/b> conversa fiada<\/i><\/b><\/a> phrases (if you\u2019re able to).<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Tell them that you\u2019re thinking about them A LOT.<\/i><\/p>\n

The more you\u2019re thirsty for one another, the more you\u2019ll feel connected. That\u2019s how attraction works regardless of whether you\u2019re in prison or not. As long as you\u2019re attracted to one another, you won\u2019t have a problem finding a way to express it.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Don\u2019t let anyone interfere with your relationship<\/h3>\n

I\u2019ve learned this the hard way: Uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/a> is a relationship where a couple decides for themselves and doesn\u2019t let others interfere.<\/p>\n

Com isto, quero dizer <\/b>membros da fam\u00edlia<\/b> and neighbors who won\u2019t stop gossiping and giving you unsolicited<\/b> conselhos sobre rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

If they judge your partner for being in prison and disapprove of your relationship, don\u2019t listen to them (unless you think they\u2019re right).<\/p>\n

No <\/b>fim do dia<\/b>O que importa s\u00e3o os seus sentimentos e n\u00e3o o que os outros dizem. Estabele\u00e7a limites desde o in\u00edcio <\/b>primeira vez<\/b> come\u00e7am a interferir na sua vida amorosa.<\/b> Isto ajud\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 a proteger-se.<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s my rule of thumb: My vida amorosa<\/a> is nobody\u2019s business. If they want to give me advice, I\u2019ll listen to them, but in the end, I\u2019ll do what I think is right and not what others tell me to do. Ter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o privada<\/a> \u00e9 definitivamente o caminho a seguir. Ponto final.<\/p>\n

Cultivar a paci\u00eancia<\/h2>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

After going through these signs that an inmate really loves you, I\u2019m sure now you\u2019re convinced that everything is going as smoothly as it should. As always, confie no seu instinto<\/a> porque a minha nunca me falhou.<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s my humble confession that might bring you comfort as you\u2019re waiting:<\/b><\/p>\n

I\u2019ve been pen pals for 2 and a half years with a guy I really like, so yes, you can do it, too! I\u2019m about to see him in the next few days, and I\u2019m SO excited about it. I\u2019m sure you\u2019ll also be excited about welcoming your bae back into the outside world soon.<\/p>\n

When that happens, you\u2019ll realize how powerful love truly is. \u201cNo matter how long it takes, true love is always worth the wait.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/i><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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