If you have an inkling you\u2019re surrounded by bad friends or a amigo falso<\/a> who is only using you, I have something that will clear out all of your doubts: a list of clear signs your friend doesn\u2019t care about you.<\/p>\n Agora, se quiser evitar ficar preso em uma amizade t\u00f3xica<\/a> e salvar-se de um potencial falso amigo, s\u00f3 precisa de continuar a ler.<\/p>\n De uma forma sincera e <\/i>boa amizade<\/i>, tendo <\/i>tempo de amigo<\/i> \u00e9 sagrado para ambas as partes.<\/i> Simplesmente d\u00e1 a oportunidade aos amigos de refor\u00e7arem os seus la\u00e7os e de se conhecerem a um n\u00edvel totalmente novo.<\/b><\/p>\n Com um amigo falso<\/a>, passar tempo de qualidade<\/a> together will always be limited. They\u2019ll avoid you, cancel on you and offer lame excuses every time they refuse your invitation to hang out together.<\/p>\n It\u2019s not that they don\u2019t have time for you. They simply don\u2019t want to hang out with you because they don\u2019t care about you.<\/p>\n Have you ever felt like you\u2019re talking to a wall when talking to your friend?<\/i><\/p>\n Okay, it might happen once or twice when they\u2019re too tired or have personal issues, but if it happens every time you speak to them, it\u2019s clear they don\u2019t care about what you have to say.<\/p>\n Claro que todos n\u00f3s gostamos de falar com os nossos amigos e partilhar as nossas tristezas e as coisas que nos incomodam. <\/i>If you aren\u2019t able to do that with your friend, \u00e9 preciso ficar longe deles.<\/a><\/p>\n Partilhamos sempre os nossos segredos com as pessoas em quem mais confiamos e que s\u00e3o as nossas melhores amigos<\/a>. If, at any moment, you start feeling that your \u2018friend\u2019 doesn\u2019t keep your secrets, you should know that it\u2019s the moment they\u2019ve stopped being your<\/b> melhor amigo<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n If you don\u2019t feel comfortable talking about everything with them, why the hell do you even need them in your life then? If you don\u2019t trust them, you should stop considering them a <\/i>verdadeiro amigo<\/i>.<\/i><\/p>\n If your so-called friend abandons you every time you\u2019re going through a <\/i>momento dif\u00edcil<\/i>Penso que as coisas s\u00e3o bastante \u00f3bvias. <\/i>They don\u2019t care whether you get through it, which also means they don\u2019t care for you.<\/p>\n A <\/b>verdadeiro amigo<\/b> \u00e9 sempre solid\u00e1rio e estar\u00e1 ao seu lado, independentemente da situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/b> And having your back in difficult times is how they\u2019ll want to prove their loyalty to you.<\/p>\n When you\u2019re sick or going through a <\/i>tempo dif\u00edcil<\/i>Os que v\u00eam visitar-vos e oferecer a sua ajuda e apoio s\u00e3o<\/i> seu <\/i>verdadeiros amigos<\/i><\/a>.<\/p>\n If your friend neglects you even when you tell them you need their help, if they don\u2019t care about your emotional and mental well-being, it\u2019s clear they don\u2019t care about you. And it\u2019s even more obvious that they don\u2019t deserve a place in your life at all.<\/p>\n Num ambiente saud\u00e1vel e <\/b>boa amizade<\/b>Os amigos proporcionam seguran\u00e7a emocional uns aos outros. <\/b>Isto significa que ambos se sentem seguros para se abrirem um com o outro e partilharem os seus sentimentos.<\/p>\n And most importantly, they acknowledge, accept, and respect each other\u2019s feelings.<\/i><\/p>\n If it seems like your friend doesn\u2019t validate your feelings, and if they try to persuade you into thinking that your feelings are wrong, you\u2019re definitely dealing with um amigo falso<\/a>.<\/p>\n Isto \u00e9 algo um bom amigo<\/a> would never do. If your friend always tries to put you down and make fun of you in front of others, it\u2019s a telltale sign you\u2019re dealing with a disrespectful friend, someone who doesn\u2019t care about you.<\/p>\n Maybe they\u2019re doing it because of their own insecurities or because they want to seem superior in your friendship. Whatever the reason, it\u2019s deeply toxic and unhealthy.<\/b><\/p>\n They definitely know it hurts you, but they obviously don\u2019t care about your feelings. And they\u2019ll keep doing this if you allow them because they don\u2019t see it as something bad.<\/p>\n Conheces aqueles <\/i>tipos de amigos<\/i> who pretend they\u2019re a <\/i>verdadeiro amigo,<\/i> mas sempre que viras as costas, come\u00e7am a coscuvilhar sobre ti?<\/i> Well, in my opinion, they\u2019re the worst.<\/p>\n Nunca partilham nada sobre as suas <\/b>vida pessoal<\/b> mas querem saber tudo sobre a sua.<\/b> It\u2019s like they want to gather a ton of information so they\u2019ll have more material to talk about you behind your back.<\/i><\/p>\n If this is the case, if you know for sure that your \u2018friend\u2019 has been falar nas tuas costas<\/a>, you should be aware that they aren\u2019t a real friend. Be careful around them, and don\u2019t even think about sharing your secrets with them anymore.<\/p>\n Se o seu amigo fizer a maior parte das coisas acima referidas, ou seja, se ele <\/i>menosprezar<\/i> ou gozam consigo em <\/i>\u00e0 frente dos outros<\/i>, it\u2019s an <\/i>sinal evidente<\/i> they don\u2019t respect you<\/i><\/a> de todo.<\/i><\/p>\n The fact is, you don\u2019t have respect only for those who don\u2019t mean anything to you.<\/b> If you care about someone and if you\u2019re in uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/a>O respeito deve ser sempre uma das bases fundamentais.<\/p>\n If your friend never seeks your advice, it\u2019s a <\/i>sinal claro<\/i> they don\u2019t respect your opinion. They don\u2019t care about what you have to say about things that concern them.<\/i><\/p>\n They\u2019ll isolate you from others, and you\u2019ll feel disrespected and neglected, which is definitely something a best friend would never do.<\/p>\n It\u2019s not that they only avoid seeing you and cancel on you, they also start avoiding you on social media too. They mute you and don\u2019t reply to your texts for ages.<\/i><\/p>\n They know it\u2019ll hurt your feelings, but it\u2019s not like they care about you and don\u2019t want to do something that would hurt you.<\/p>\n They\u2019re only there when it\u2019s convenient for them… They only reach out when they need something from you… They take everything but don\u2019t give anything in return…<\/p>\n You\u2019re probably aware of these things but don\u2019t want to admit to yourself that you\u2019re dealing with a <\/i>amigo t\u00f3xico<\/i> cuja \u00fanica inten\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 us\u00e1-lo da maneira que eles querem.<\/i><\/p>\n I know it\u2019s difficult, but the sooner you come to terms with the facts, the sooner you\u2019ll be able to delete them from your life completely.<\/b><\/p>\n If you keep allowing them to use you, it won\u2019t only harm your self-esteem, but it\u2019ll leave awful consequences on your mental health that you won\u2019t be able to deal with.<\/p>\n Um mau amigo tentar\u00e1 sempre deitar-te abaixo e fazer-te sentir como you aren\u2019t good enough<\/a>. It\u2019s like it\u2019s their mission is to completely destroy your self-esteem and seriously harm your mental health.<\/p>\n Eles v\u00e3o dar-te uma dura<\/i> tempo<\/i> e fazer<\/i> sente-se mal na sua pr\u00f3pria pele<\/i><\/a>. <\/i>Provavelmente, fazem-no para ganhar controlo sobre n\u00f3s e manipulam-nos para fazermos as coisas que eles querem que fa\u00e7amos.<\/p>\n Trata-se de um enorme <\/i>bandeira vermelha<\/i> that indicates you\u2019re surrounded by envious and <\/i>amigos falsos<\/i>.<\/i><\/p>\n Se reparar que<\/b> o seu amigo tem secretamente inveja do seu sucesso<\/b><\/a>, you should let them go because they aren\u2019t your <\/b>verdadeiro amigo<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n Um bom amigo d\u00e1-lhe apoio. Motiv\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 a atingir todos os seus objectivos e ficar\u00e1 feliz com as suas conquistas, porque a sua felicidade \u00e9 a prioridade dele.<\/p>\n A <\/b>verdadeiro amigo<\/b> est\u00e1 sempre l\u00e1 para si, e tem a certeza de que pode contar com ele, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer.<\/b> If your friend doesn\u2019t make you feel that way, then things are pretty obvious... A vossa amizade \u00e9 falsa.<\/i><\/p>\n Do you really need a friend who will abandon you in difficult times? I can\u2019t answer this for you, but I can say that you definitely don\u2019t deserve to have someone like that in your life.<\/p>\n If your friend often cancels on you at the last minute, it\u2019s a good sign they don\u2019t consider you a very close friend. O facto \u00e9 que um <\/b>bom amigo<\/b> nunca te abandonaria, pelo menos n\u00e3o sem uma boa raz\u00e3o.<\/b><\/p>\n If they keep bailing on your plans, it means you\u2019re dealing with a disrespectful friend. They don\u2019t respect your time, and, even worse, they don\u2019t feel bad for hurting your feelings on purpose this often.<\/p>\n Como \u00e9 que sabe<\/i> if your friend doesn\u2019t care for you at all? You should just listen to your inner voice.<\/i><\/p>\n If something is wrong with your friendship, you\u2019ll just feel it. Porque, em<\/b> rela\u00e7\u00f5es saud\u00e1veis<\/b><\/a>N\u00e3o h\u00e1 lugar para d\u00favidas. <\/b>You just trust them with all your heart and know they\u2019ll be there for you no matter what.<\/p>\n If it\u2019s a true friendship, you wouldn\u2019t have doubts about their loyalty in the first place. And the first time your gut starts telling you that something is off, it will be a surefire sign your friend doesn\u2019t care about you, at least not in the way you care about them.<\/p>\n Ver tamb\u00e9m: Como dizer a algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o quer ser amigo: 13 maneiras<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n Now you know how to recognize fake friends, and all there is left to know is how to deal with them. But I\u2019ve got you covered here too. Here are some helpful tips that will help you cope with bad friends.<\/p>\n Nunca deve permitir que algu\u00e9m controle a sua vida ou afecte as suas capacidades emocionais e <\/i>sa\u00fade mental<\/i>. <\/i>You obviously allowed your friend to do this, and now it\u2019s high time to rethink your limitations and boundaries.<\/p>\n Tell them that you doubt their intentions and that you don\u2019t see them as true friends anymore. Of course, you should back it up with good reasons and solid proof that justifies your doubts.<\/p>\n Quando os confrontar, a rea\u00e7\u00e3o deles tamb\u00e9m o ajudar\u00e1 a revelar se a sua amizade \u00e9 falsa ou n\u00e3o.<\/i><\/p>\n If they start making excuses for their behavior and try to put the blame on you, then it\u2019s clear they\u2019re trying to continue with their manipulation.<\/b><\/p>\n Por outro lado, se mantiverem a calma, aceitarem a culpa pelos seus erros e apresentar um pedido de desculpas sincero<\/a>Ent\u00e3o, a vossa amizade merece definitivamente uma segunda oportunidade.<\/p>\n Admit how their actions make you feel. You\u2019re hurt because you feel that your melhor amigo<\/a> has betrayed you, and it\u2019s normal to feel bad and hurt because of it.<\/p>\n If your emotional confession doesn\u2019t make them change, then you should know that your friendship is absolutely doomed.<\/b><\/p>\n They\u2019ll probably try to lower your self-esteem and make you feel insecure about yourself. They will do it because it is the only way they can control you.<\/p>\n17 Obvious Signs Your Friend Doesn\u2019t Care About You<\/h2>\n
1. Spending time with you isn\u2019t on their list of priorities<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n2. Nunca te ouvem<\/h3>\n
3. Os seus segredos nunca est\u00e3o seguros com eles<\/h3>\n
4. N\u00e3o est\u00e3o presentes quando mais se precisa deles<\/h3>\n
5. They don\u2019t seem interested in your well-being<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n6. Invalidam os seus sentimentos<\/h3>\n
7. Tentam menosprezar-te \u00e0 frente dos outros<\/h3>\n
8. Al\u00e9m disso, falam muitas vezes nas tuas costas<\/h3>\n
9. A falta de respeito \u00e9 mais do que evidente<\/h3>\n
10. They don\u2019t value your opinion<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n11. Evitam-no na vida real e tamb\u00e9m nas redes sociais<\/h3>\n
12. You\u2019re aware they\u2019re only using you<\/h3>\n
13. T\u00eam um impacto negativo na sua autoestima<\/h3>\n
14. T\u00eam inveja dos teus feitos<\/h3>\n
15. You know you can\u2019t always count on them<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n16. Cancelam-te muitas vezes<\/h3>\n
17. You just feel they aren\u2019t a true friend<\/h3>\n
6 dicas poderosas para lidar com um amigo falso<\/h2>\n
1. Reponha os seus limites pessoais<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n2. Confront\u00e1-los<\/h3>\n
3. Ser honesto sobre os seus sentimentos<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n4. Don\u2019t ever allow them to make you feel unworthy<\/h3>\n