{"id":149906,"date":"2022-04-25T11:50:22","date_gmt":"2022-04-25T11:50:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=149906"},"modified":"2022-05-11T19:49:03","modified_gmt":"2022-05-11T19:49:03","slug":"quanto-tempo-dura-uma-relacao-de-recuperacao-com-um-narcisista","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/quanto-tempo-dura-uma-relacao-de-recuperacao-com-um-narcisista\/","title":{"rendered":"Quanto tempo durar\u00e1 uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de recupera\u00e7\u00e3o com um narcisista? (e porqu\u00ea)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ol\u00e1! Sugiro que prepares uma ou duas bebidas e te ponhas \u00e0 vontade. ? Antes de come\u00e7armos com o tema principal, Quanto tempo dura uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de ricochete com um narcisista?<\/em> let\u2019s first define these two terms: narcissist and rebound relationship.<\/p>\n

- Um narcisista<\/a> \u00e9 algu\u00e9m que tem um dist\u00farbio de personalidade narcisista (NPD).<\/strong> This means they have an exaggerated sense of self-worth and importance. They don\u2019t care about other people\u2019s feelings but focus solely on themselves.<\/em><\/p>\n

- Uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de ricochete<\/a> significa iniciar uma nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica sem ter ultrapassado a rela\u00e7\u00e3o anterior.<\/em><\/p>\n

So, how does a narcissist behave in a rebound relationship? How long will a narcissist rebound relationship last, and why? To these and many other questions, you\u2019ll find the answers below!<\/p>\n

Quanto tempo dura uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de recupera\u00e7\u00e3o com um narcisista?<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Typically, narcissist rebound relationships last for 2\u20134 months. In some cases, they may last for a year. Generally, a rela\u00e7\u00e3o de ricochete<\/a> \u00e9 muito mais curta do que uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o normal.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re in a regular rebound relationship (that doesn\u2019t include narcissists), you can expect it to last up to 2\u20133 years.<\/strong> And, as I already mentioned, if you\u2019re in a rebound relationship with a narcissist, it will last only a few months; 2\u20134.<\/p>\n

Now you\u2019re probably wondering: What is the difference between a normal and a narcissist rebound relationship, and why does the latter last for a much shorter period? Below is your answer.<\/p>\n

7 Reasons Why Narcissist Rebound Relationships Don\u2019t Last Long<\/h2>\n

Narcissist rebound relationships don\u2019t last long because narcissists\u2019 egos are fragile after ending a relationship. They require too much admiration and focus solely on satisfying their narcissistic needs. Here\u2019s why such a rebound relationship won\u2019t last for long:<\/p>\n

1. Um narcisista exige demasiados cuidados e admira\u00e7\u00e3o numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o de ricochete<\/h3>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Quando um narcisista entra numa nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o, a sua autoestima fica abalada e concentra-se apenas em aumentar a sua auto-import\u00e2ncia.<\/p>\n

Se o narcisista era o dumper<\/a>, they wouldn\u2019t be much affected by the breakup.<\/strong> Mas, se fossem eles a pessoa que est\u00e1 a ser abandonada, precisariam de muito mais cuidados e aten\u00e7\u00e3o numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o de ricochete do que na anterior.<\/p>\n

Um novo parceiro n\u00e3o ser\u00e1 capaz de proporcionar essa quantidade de cuidados e afeto a um narcisista.<\/strong> Not because they don\u2019t want to but because a narcissist will appear needy and greedy at the same time, which is something no one is willing to tolerate in the long run.<\/p>\n

2. Os narcisistas levam as cr\u00edticas muito a s\u00e9rio<\/h3>\n

They don\u2019t understand what constructive criticism is, and they don\u2019t even try to understand it. Narcissists see any type of criticism as a personal attack. (Now you can see the level of narcissism we\u2019re dealing with here.)<\/p>\n

We all know that relationships don\u2019t function without effort and the will to improve yourself.<\/strong> Given that they aren\u2019t ready to accept criticism (because they think they\u2019re perfect), they are capable of ending a rebound relationship before it even starts.<\/p>\n

I know it sounds absurd, but they take criticism very seriously. They don\u2019t really care about their new partner but about how they make the narcissist feel.<\/p>\n

So, if their new partner doesn\u2019t treat them how they imagined, they immediately pull away and start looking for such treatment elsewhere.<\/strong> Escusado ser\u00e1 dizer que namorar um narcisista<\/a> \u00e9 uma experi\u00eancia dolorosa.<\/p>\n

3. A sua inseguran\u00e7a multiplica-se numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o de ricochete<\/h3>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Narcissists\u2019 worlds revolve around their self-esteem and procura de valida\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> dos outros. Se um narcisista foi abandonado pelo seu ex-parceiro, as suas inseguran\u00e7as multiplicar-se-\u00e3o numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o de ricochete.<\/p>\n

O seu ego e autoestima est\u00e3o muito reduzidos e, por isso, v\u00eaem tudo como uma bandeira vermelha no seu nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Espiam o novo parceiro, perguntam constantemente onde ele est\u00e1, fazem demasiadas perguntas sobre as pessoas com quem ele anda e a lista \u00e9 intermin\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n

Now imagine being in a relationship with such a person. It\u2019s almost impossible not to lose your sanity, right?<\/strong> That\u2019s one of the reasons a narcissist rebound relationship doesn\u2019t last long.<\/p>\n

4. O seu ego est\u00e1 no controlo<\/h3>\n

Regardless of whether they\u2019re in a long-term relationship or a rebound relationship, narcissists\u2019 egos are always in control. It dominates their being and their relationships with others.<\/p>\n

Rela\u00e7\u00f5es saud\u00e1veis<\/a> requerem compromissos e, por vezes, deixar de lado os seus interesses pessoais.<\/strong> This is something a narcissist never does because he doesn\u2019t know how and is not willing to.<\/p>\n

Their ego is in full control of them, so that\u2019s the only thing they listen to. Se tentar falar com um narcisista sobre o assunto, ele acus\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 de estar a exagerar.<\/strong><\/p>\n

All these things make it difficult to maintain a relationship. As long as their ego is in control, they\u2019ll be unable to create meaningful and deep relationships with others.<\/p>\n

5. Um narcisista tem mais dificuldade em ultrapassar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o passada<\/h3>\n

Sabia que um narcisista tem mais dificuldade em ultrapassar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o passada do que as pessoas normais? Sim, e sabe porqu\u00ea?<\/p>\n

Uma vez que o seu ego estava ligado ao fornecimento narc\u00edsico que o seu ex-parceiro lhe proporcionava, agora t\u00eam dificuldade em libertar-se dele.<\/strong><\/p>\n

When your intentions are driven by ego, you form a stronger attachment with someone (though we\u2019re talking about an unhealthy attachment).<\/p>\n

No fundo, estavam apegados ao que o ex-companheiro lhes proporcionava e n\u00e3o \u00e0 rela\u00e7\u00e3o em geral. Now they no longer have their ex-partner’s narcissistic supply, and they will try to make their ex jealous by posting pics of their new partner on social media.<\/strong><\/p>\n

This will only make it even harder for them to finally move on. Sooner than you know, their rebound relationship will collapse, and they\u2019ll move to the next one (or to their ex).<\/p>\n

6. A sua maior prioridade s\u00e3o eles pr\u00f3prios<\/h3>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

A narcissistic relationship is all about a narcissist being their biggest priority. They don\u2019t really care about their family members, their current partner, or anyone else.<\/p>\n

A sua aten\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1 centrada em si pr\u00f3prios e no que podem ganhar com esta rela\u00e7\u00e3o de ricochete.<\/strong> Nunca param um segundo para pensar, Como posso fazer o meu atual parceiro feliz e satisfeito?<\/em><\/p>\n

They\u2019re too busy thinking of new ways to manipulate them to get what they want.<\/strong> T\u00e1cticas de manipula\u00e7\u00e3o narc\u00edsica<\/a> s\u00e3o um dos maiores destruidores de qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o (incluindo a rela\u00e7\u00e3o de recupera\u00e7\u00e3o).<\/p>\n

New partners often don\u2019t even know what\u2019s going on because they\u2019re blinded by their narcissist\u2019s charisma. But when they realize that they\u2019ve been manipulated all this time, a rela\u00e7\u00e3o termina abruptamente<\/a> e para sempre.<\/p>\n

7. When they\u2019re done playing with you, they\u2019ll find a new toy<\/h3>\n

Narcissists have this tendency to see their partners as toys. They enjoy playing with you, manipulating you, and reassuring you that it\u2019s all in your head.<\/p>\n

Acima de tudo, eles gostam do que lhes podemos dar: afeto, amor incondicional e carinho.<\/strong> Bem, por vezes, fartam-se rapidamente dos seus novos parceiros e come\u00e7am a procurar um novo brinquedo (ou, devo dizer, um brinquedo de ricochete).<\/p>\n

When they\u2019re done playing with you because they\u2019re no longer interested in what you can give them, they\u2019ll shift to another toy that is more exciting to them at the moment.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Chances are this new toy will end up like the previous one. In their eyes, every person can give them something another person can\u2019t. Playing with other people\u2019s feelings is their motto, and that is how they jump from one relationship to another.<\/p>\n

3 fases principais de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de recupera\u00e7\u00e3o com um narcisista<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de ricochete com um narcisista consiste em tr\u00eas fases principais. Come\u00e7a com a fase da lua de mel, as coisas come\u00e7am a complicar-se na fase da desvaloriza\u00e7\u00e3o e termina com a fase do descarte. Aqui est\u00e3o as fases do narcisismo fases da rela\u00e7\u00e3o de ricochete<\/a> explicado em pormenor:<\/p>\n

1. A fase da lua de mel<\/h3>\n

Tudo come\u00e7a com o colorido, brilhante e promissor fase de lua de mel<\/a>. It\u2019s when you feel like you\u2019re on cloud nine 24\/7. Everything seems perfect, the butterflies in your stomach are fluttering away, and you can\u2019t see how things could go wrong.<\/p>\n

Nesta fase, o narcisista usa o bom e velho m\u00e9todo chamado bombardeamento amoroso narc\u00edsico<\/a>.<\/strong> They shower you with affection, promise you the land of milk and honey, and that they\u2019ll always be there for you no matter what.<\/p>\n

They seem like your soulmate and \u201cthe one.\u201d You trust their every word, and their actions don\u2019t seem fishy at all.<\/strong> While you\u2019re in this stage, asking yourself the question, Quanto tempo dura uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de ricochete com um narcisista?<\/em> you\u2018re convinced that it will last forever.<\/p>\n

Mas ser\u00e1 que vai?<\/p>\n

A fase da lua de mel \u00e9 apenas uma introdu\u00e7\u00e3o a uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de ricochete que est\u00e1 destinada a falhar ao fim de alguns meses.<\/strong> Narcissists\u2019 partners usually don\u2019t see this because they\u2019re blinded by their fake promises, but things will start to slowly unfold in the next stage.<\/p>\n

2. Fase de desvaloriza\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h3>\n

After the honeymoon stage, happy chemicals (endorphins, dopamine…) lose their initial intensity because reality kicks in. This happens to every single couple on earth.<\/p>\n

Come\u00e7amos a ver as coisas de um ponto de vista mais realista.<\/strong> You no longer idealize your partner, but you\u2019re perfectly aware of their imperfections, quirks, and positive sides. But you still choose them because you genuinely like and love them.<\/p>\n

No entanto, as coisas s\u00e3o bastante diferentes quando se trata de narcisistas nesta fase.<\/strong> Em vez de abra\u00e7arem a beleza da realidade, ficam irritados e come\u00e7am a testar a sua compreens\u00e3o. Mais cedo do que imagina, torna-se v\u00edtima de abuso narc\u00edsico.<\/p>\n

Hoovering (chantagem emocional, que \u00e9 um tipo de abuso emocional<\/a>), ilumina\u00e7\u00e3o artificial<\/a>A sua principal preocupa\u00e7\u00e3o passa a ser brincar com a sua sa\u00fade mental.<\/strong> Todos estes s\u00e3o sinais de alerta e exatamente o que o meu ex narcisista fez, causando-me perturba\u00e7\u00e3o de stress p\u00f3s-narc\u00edsico<\/a>.<\/p>\n

So, at this stage, you will begin to see a narcissist\u2019s true self, their car\u00e1cter ego\u00edsta<\/a>e o seu comportamento descuidado. E questionar\u00e1s as suas inten\u00e7\u00f5es, cada uma das suas palavras e as suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

3. Fase de descarte<\/h3>\n

Once they get bored of their new supply and become tired of manipulating them, they\u2019ll seek another one. Being a narcissist\u2019s flying monkey is one of the worst things you can experience in your life.<\/p>\n

Na fase de descarte (como o nome indica), um narc\u00f3tico deix\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 sem qualquer explica\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong> They won\u2019t care about how you feel one bit because, obviously, all this time, they were and are only focused on themselves.<\/p>\n

E n\u00e3o \u00e9 s\u00f3 isso. Tamb\u00e9m o acusar\u00e3o de ser um pessoa t\u00f3xica<\/a> apesar de o \u00fanico parceiro t\u00f3xico aqui serem eles.<\/strong> If you\u2019re still in love with them, heartbreak will be inevitable, but for the first time, you\u2019ll feel free as well.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll have too many questions but no answers. They\u2019ll make you question why you were in a rebound relationship with them in the first place.<\/p>\n

Ser\u00e1 que tudo isto n\u00e3o passou de um sonho mau? Estar\u00e3o a deixar-te apenas para voltarem com um pedido de desculpas?<\/strong> No, they\u2019re leaving because they don\u2019t care about you (well, they never did).<\/p>\n

A raz\u00e3o pela qual entram numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o de ricochete \u00e9 para aumentar o seu ego depois de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o falhada. Perguntar-se sobre como acabar com um narcisista<\/a>? Aplicar a regra do n\u00e3o contacto<\/a> e seguir em frente.<\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que os narcisistas lidam com uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/h2>\n

\"separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/p>\n

Lidam com isso de forma ligeiramente diferente do resto de n\u00f3s, pessoas normais. Quando terminam com o seu parceiro, entram numa fase de nega\u00e7\u00e3o e raiva.<\/p>\n

Tentam convencer-se de que isso n\u00e3o est\u00e1 a acontecer e ficam zangados porque j\u00e1 n\u00e3o t\u00eam o seu suprimento narc\u00edsico.<\/strong> No, they aren\u2019t angry because they hurt their partner but because they can\u2019t keep satisfying their selfish purposes.<\/p>\n

Losing a valuable supply is every narcissist’s biggest nightmare. So, instead of grieving like normal people, they convince themselves that their ex literally meant nothing to them.<\/p>\n

By doing this, they\u2019re preventing negative emotions from hurting their most valuable thing: their ego.<\/strong> So, while they\u2019re in the process of fooling themselves and are devoid of reality, they start thinking about finding a new supply.<\/p>\n

Esta nova oferta \u00e9 tamb\u00e9m conhecida como uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de ricochete. O seu principal objetivo \u00e9 encontrar uma nova v\u00edtima que o fa\u00e7a sentir-se novamente valioso. Quando encontram essa pessoa, tornam-se extremamente exigentes e requerem cuidados e admira\u00e7\u00e3o constantes.<\/p>\n

They literally suffocate their new partner only to feel alive again. After some time, they become bored of it and decide to find a new supply with whom they\u2019ll be more compatible.<\/strong><\/p>\n

This time, they won\u2019t be looking for a quick shot but for something more \u201cmeaningful\u201d that will make them forget about their recent breakup.<\/p>\n

RELACIONADO: Como enganar um narcisista para que ele diga a verdade: 14 t\u00e1cticas comprovadas<\/a><\/p>\n

As rela\u00e7\u00f5es de recupera\u00e7\u00e3o podem durar anos?<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Normalmente, as rela\u00e7\u00f5es de ricochete duram de alguns meses a um ano. Por vezes, uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de ricochete pode transformar-se numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o a longo prazo que dura anos, mas isso depende muito da pessoa que est\u00e1 a fazer a ricochete.<\/p>\n

Se a pessoa que se recupera nunca conseguir ultrapassar a rela\u00e7\u00e3o anterior, a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o de recupera\u00e7\u00e3o vai sofrer e acabar por terminar.<\/strong> No entanto, se a pessoa que se recuperou encontrar uma solu\u00e7\u00e3o no processo de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de recupera\u00e7\u00e3o, a sua nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o pode durar mais tempo.<\/p>\n

Para ter sucesso, a pessoa que se recupera precisa de se reconectar com o seu verdadeiro eu e deixar o passado para tr\u00e1s. Precisa de reconhecer as suas feridas passadas e perdoar o seu ex e a si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

Yes, it\u2019s possible to forget about your ex while being in a rebound relationship, but it takes time.<\/strong> If the rebounder doesn’t open themselves up to their new partner and give them a chance to connect on a deeper level, then their relationship will most likely fail.<\/p>\n

Note that this doesn\u2019t apply to a narcissist and rela\u00e7\u00f5es de ricochete pouco saud\u00e1veis<\/a>. The only thing they\u2019re focused on is finding a new narcissistic supply, after which they\u2019ll shift to another one.<\/p>\n

Because of that, it\u2019s impossible for a narcissist to be in a rebound relationship that lasts for years.<\/strong> Durar\u00e1 apenas cerca de 2 a 4 meses e, nalguns casos, at\u00e9 um ano. Depois disso, mudam para a sua pr\u00f3xima v\u00edtima.<\/p>\n

Conclus\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

How long will a narcissist rebound relationship last? It can last 2\u20134 months and sometimes even a year. The main reason porque \u00e9 que uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o narc\u00edsica dura t\u00e3o pouco tempo<\/a> \u00e9 que um narcisista est\u00e1 apenas concentrado em aumentar o seu ego ferido e em encontrar um novo fornecedor de narc\u00f3ticos.<\/p>\n

Depois da fase da lua de mel, a realidade entra em a\u00e7\u00e3o e, com isso, o narcisista come\u00e7a a mostrar as suas verdadeiras cores.<\/strong> Come\u00e7am a sentir-se irritados e manipulam a sua v\u00edtima de v\u00e1rias formas.<\/p>\n

At the last discarding stage, the narcissist leaves you with no explanation. On top of that, they accuse you of being a toxic partner. After this, they\u2019re once again in pursuit of another victim who will satisfy their ego and make them feel important again.<\/p>\n

Para um narcisista, as rela\u00e7\u00f5es de ricochete s\u00e3o apenas tiros r\u00e1pidos de que precisa para voltar a funcionar.<\/strong> So, they\u2019re not really picky about who their next victim will be. They just need someone who is willing to tolerate their manipulative nature (until they get tired of it).<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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