{"id":15001,"date":"2018-02-21T11:19:41","date_gmt":"2018-02-21T11:19:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15001"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:28:58","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:28:58","slug":"7-habitos-que-as-mulheres-tem-nas-relacoes-toxicas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-habitos-que-as-mulheres-tem-nas-relacoes-toxicas\/","title":{"rendered":"7 h\u00e1bitos de mulheres presas em relacionamentos t\u00f3xicos"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Most women don\u2019t really know that they are stuck in toxic relationships. They think that their <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/blog\/everybody-marries-the-wrong-person\/201201\/your-spouse-is-behaving-badly\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">o parceiro est\u00e1 a comportar-se mal<\/a> toward them because of some crisis he has and that he will get back on track again. But unfortunately that never happens. When you meet a toxic man, he will act charming and be the world\u2019s best boyfriend. He will make you believe that he is everything that you need and that you can\u2019t find a better match than him. The catch is that every toxic man is a big-time player and he knows how to deceive a girl into falling for him.<\/p>\n<p>Mas quando a porta se fecha e come\u00e7am a viver juntos como um casal, come\u00e7a a verdadeira agonia. Desde o gaslighting, a deprecia\u00e7\u00e3o, a desvaloriza\u00e7\u00e3o e a mentira at\u00e9 coisas mais graves como a viol\u00eancia dom\u00e9stica e emocional. E sabe o que \u00e9 pior? Todas as mulheres presas numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o destas pensam que a culpa de tudo foi dela. N\u00e3o \u00e9 assim t\u00e3o dif\u00edcil pensar dessa forma quando se est\u00e1 convencida de que n\u00e3o se \u00e9 digna e de que n\u00e3o se \u00e9 capaz de fazer grandes coisas.<\/p>\n<p>Existem alguns h\u00e1bitos comuns a todas as mulheres presas em rela\u00e7\u00f5es t\u00f3xicas, por isso sugiro que continue a ler e descubra mais sobre eles.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>1. Est\u00e3o a chorar mais do que o habitual<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>Women stuck in toxic relationships need to have some way to blow off steam. That\u2019s why most of them cry when nobody sees them. It can be while they are doing the dishes, driving home from work or taking a shower. That is their way of letting all the toxicity get out of them and feel better\u2014even for a moment. They don\u2019t want anyone to know about that, so they always do their crying while nobody is watching. In fact, they are so ashamed of their relationship that the last thing they want to explain are all those tears that are coming down their face.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>2. Est\u00e3o a mentir a toda a gente que t\u00eam rela\u00e7\u00f5es saud\u00e1veis<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>I know that you don\u2019t want to explain to others why you are having problems in your marriage but if you try to make them believe in something you don\u2019t believe, they will soon realize that you are lying. Also, if people ask you if everything is okay between you and your partner, it is a sign that they felt that something is not right. They are probably asking you for more details because they are trying to help you, but there are also people who will act as your friends while in fact, they are nothing more than bad people who just like to stab their noses into other people\u2019s lives.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>3. They don\u2019t contact their family and friends<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>When you are stuck in a toxic relationship, it is very hard to maintain the same contact with your family and friends. That\u2019s why most women who experience this kind of relationship lose contact with their friends and family, always finding excuses for not being in family gatherings or some parties. The truth is that they would really love to mingle but their toxic partners don\u2019t allow that. These toxic partners want to isolate their women so they could easily control them. They tell their victims so many lies about love and respect and those women feel remorse for not spending time with their partners, so they try to be with them as much as they can.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>4. Pensam em deixar os seus parceiros<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>When you are stuck in a toxic relationship, you want to escape it as soon as possible. That\u2019s why all those women think about leaving their partners and finding the peace they deserve. But the bad thing is that most of them don\u2019t have enough courage to do that since they were convinced that they can\u2019t succeed on their own. They think that once they leave their toxic man, they won\u2019t be able to have a decent life because of their high level of addiction to them. The thing that can make them change their minds is severe domestic or emotional violence where they have to run to save their bare lives.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>5. Sentem-se culpados de tudo o que lhes acontece de mau<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>O principal problema das rela\u00e7\u00f5es t\u00f3xicas \u00e9 que o parceiro abusivo convence a v\u00edtima de que ela \u00e9 culpada de tudo o que de mau lhe aconteceu. N\u00e3o importa se ele lhe bate ou a magoa de alguma forma, ele dir\u00e1 que foi ela que o obrigou a fazer isso. Ele far\u00e1 tudo para que ela se sinta mal consigo pr\u00f3pria, pensando que mereceu todas as coisas m\u00e1s que lhe aconteceram. Esta forma de gaslighting \u00e9 o que a maioria das mulheres passa em rela\u00e7\u00f5es t\u00f3xicas e \u00e9 preciso muito tempo e coragem para se libertarem de homens assim.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>6. They don\u2019t remember when was the last time they smiled<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>Uma vez que as mulheres presas neste tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e3o tristes, \u00e9 muito dif\u00edcil para elas encontrarem alguma felicidade e sorrirem com coisas que os outros sorriem diariamente. Elas s\u00e3o <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/homem-espancado-ate-a-morte-emocional\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">espancado at\u00e9 \u00e0 morte emocional<\/a>N\u00e3o t\u00eam o m\u00ednimo de energia para recuperar as suas vidas antigas. O que pensam constantemente \u00e9 em formas de escapar a uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o destas e de se salvarem de uma vida miser\u00e1vel. Se houver algu\u00e9m que lhes possa dar algum apoio, \u00e9 mais f\u00e1cil atingirem os seus objectivos. Mas se ficarem sozinhas, \u00e9 muito dif\u00edcil encontrar o caminho certo para uma vida feliz.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>7. Arranjam desculpas para os seus parceiros abusivos<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>Even if some of their friends see that they have been abused by their partners, they won\u2019t admit that. The main reason for that is shame\u2014they simply can\u2019t accept the fact that they are living a life like that even if they dreamed of something different. That\u2019s why they will always say to their friends that things just look worse than they really are and that there is no need to worry about them. Maybe they look good from the outside, but they are falling apart from the inside. They simply don\u2019t understand that people are not blind and that it is just a matter of time when the real truth will be revealed.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Most women don\u2019t really know that they are stuck in toxic relationships. They think that their partner is behaving badly toward them because of some crisis he has and that he will get back on track again. But unfortunately that never happens. 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