{"id":150283,"date":"2022-04-29T23:06:47","date_gmt":"2022-04-29T23:06:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=150283"},"modified":"2022-11-20T22:15:40","modified_gmt":"2022-11-20T22:15:40","slug":"como-responder-a-um-ex-que-lhe-pergunta-como-esta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-responder-a-um-ex-que-lhe-pergunta-como-esta\/","title":{"rendered":"Guia completo: Como responder a um ex que pergunta como voc\u00ea est\u00e1"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Relationships come to an end, and it can be difficult to move on. So what do you do when, after you\u2019ve finally managed to move on, they hit you up with what seems to be an innocuous text? <strong>Or even worse, if your ex contacts you while you\u2019re still not over them?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Como responder a um ex que lhe pergunta como est\u00e1, e ser\u00e1 que se deve dar ao trabalho? Para encontrar a resposta a esta pergunta, tem de analisar bem algumas coisas sobre si e sobre a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o com o seu ex e <strong>pensar cuidadosamente sobre o que \u00e9 que realmente quer.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s how to do it step-by-step.<\/p>\n<h2>Como responder a um ex que pergunta como voc\u00ea est\u00e1<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-150295 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-in-train-looking-at-her-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mulher jovem sentada no comboio a olhar para o telem\u00f3vel\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-in-train-looking-at-her-phone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-in-train-looking-at-her-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-in-train-looking-at-her-phone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-in-train-looking-at-her-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-in-train-looking-at-her-phone-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-in-train-looking-at-her-phone-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-in-train-looking-at-her-phone-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-in-train-looking-at-her-phone-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-in-train-looking-at-her-phone-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-in-train-looking-at-her-phone-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-in-train-looking-at-her-phone-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-in-train-looking-at-her-phone-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-in-train-looking-at-her-phone-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-in-train-looking-at-her-phone-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando se trata de rela\u00e7\u00f5es, as coisas complicam-se sem darmos por isso. Escolher como responder a um ex que lhe pergunta como est\u00e1 \u00e9 uma dessas coisas complicadas.<strong> There isn\u2019t really one correct answer to this dilemma because it depends on many factors, such as:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>1. Antes de decidir se deve ou n\u00e3o responder, deve come\u00e7ar por recordar <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-saber-quando-terminar-uma-relacao\/\">porque \u00e9 que se separaram em primeiro lugar<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>2. Em seguida, considere o seu estado emocional. Como se sente em rela\u00e7\u00e3o ao seu ex-namorado ou ex-namorada neste momento? J\u00e1 o esqueceu? <strong>Ainda sentes alguma coisa por eles?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>3. Depois, pense no que quer que seja a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o com o seu ex. Fazer <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/voltar-a-namorar-depois-de-uma-separacao\/\"><strong>queres voltar a namorar<\/strong><\/a>? O motivo que vos levou a separarem-se ainda existe? O que \u00e9 que a tua ex quer?<\/p>\n<p>If the answers to all of these questions boil down to the fact that you\u2019re over your ex and want to get on with your life, there\u2019s a great way to respond: don\u2019t ignore the text, but treat it like it\u2019s not a big deal. <strong>Text back and mention something casual you\u2019ve done recently and ask them how they are.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>Respostas casuais<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-150294 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-in-cafe-on-her-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mulher jovem sentada num caf\u00e9 ao telem\u00f3vel\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-in-cafe-on-her-phone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-in-cafe-on-her-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-in-cafe-on-her-phone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-in-cafe-on-her-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-in-cafe-on-her-phone-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-in-cafe-on-her-phone-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-in-cafe-on-her-phone-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-in-cafe-on-her-phone-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-in-cafe-on-her-phone-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-in-cafe-on-her-phone-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-in-cafe-on-her-phone-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-in-cafe-on-her-phone-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-in-cafe-on-her-phone-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-in-cafe-on-her-phone-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When your ex asks, \u201cHow are you?\u201d you can reply with something like one of these:<\/p>\n<p>\u2022\u201cWork has been crazy, but I\u2019m good. You?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u2022\u201cGood! Just came home from a run. What about you?\u201c<\/p>\n<p>\u2022\u201cAbout to go check out that new pizza place near my work. How are you?\u201c<\/p>\n<p><strong>All of these responses show that you\u2019re fine and that you\u2019ve moved on, but that you\u2019re not trying hard to let them know.<\/strong> Some people think that when you\u2019re trying to seem too over your ex, it might come off as an act.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t want to give your ex the satisfaction of thinking you\u2019re still hung up on them. Instead, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-coisas-que-o-ex-nunca-manda\/\">approach the text like you\u2019re replying to a friend<\/a> you\u2019re not particularly close to. <strong>Basically, your ex isn\u2019t very important in your life, but you\u2019re polite enough to reply to a text.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Agora a bola est\u00e1 no campo deles. <strong>Se a vossa separa\u00e7\u00e3o foi amig\u00e1vel e acha que podem ser amigos neste momento, a resposta dele pode indicar-lhe a melhor forma de o fazer.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s it for the short reply when you\u2019re over your ex. On the other hand, keep reading if you\u2019re considering getting back together or are simply in the mood to over-analyze their text.<\/p>\n<h2>Porque \u00e9 que se separaram?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-150293 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-by-window-holding-her-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mulher jovem sentada \u00e0 janela com o telem\u00f3vel na m\u00e3o\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-by-window-holding-her-phone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-by-window-holding-her-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-by-window-holding-her-phone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-by-window-holding-her-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-by-window-holding-her-phone-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-by-window-holding-her-phone-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-by-window-holding-her-phone-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-by-window-holding-her-phone-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-by-window-holding-her-phone-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-by-window-holding-her-phone-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-by-window-holding-her-phone-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-by-window-holding-her-phone-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-by-window-holding-her-phone-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-sitting-by-window-holding-her-phone-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Algumas raz\u00f5es para acabar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o doem mais do que outras. <strong>Por vezes, a pior dor surge quando se acaba uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o devido \u00e0s circunst\u00e2ncias, apesar de ambos continuarem a amar-se.<\/strong> At\u00e9 mesmo sair de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o abusiva pode ser doloroso devido aos danos emocionais deixados pelo abuso.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You never break up just because, so if you\u2019re thinking about getting back together, there will be no good outcome if the reason for your breakup still exists.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>Breakups that can\u2019t be overcome.<\/h3>\n<h4>\u2022 Your values are different.<\/h4>\n<p>If you couldn\u2019t agree on certain big things, such as marriage, having kids, or money, there was never much chance of a long-term relationship.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Chegar a um compromisso \u00e9 quase imposs\u00edvel e \u00e9 garantido que um ou ambos se sentir\u00e3o amargurados.<\/strong> As convic\u00e7\u00f5es profundas raramente mudam, pelo que a separa\u00e7\u00e3o foi provavelmente a melhor op\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 They did something you can\u2019t forgive.<\/h4>\n<p>Some people are capable of forgiving things others aren\u2019t.<strong> It\u2019s okay if you can\u2019t get over something your ex has done, such as <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-que-e-considerado-batota\/\">a trair-te.<\/a><\/strong> Os seus sentimentos s\u00e3o v\u00e1lidos e deve aceit\u00e1-los sem se sentir culpado.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Trying to forgive and stay in a relationship when it\u2019s impossible will result in nothing but resentment and unhappiness.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 The relationship was unhealthy<\/h4>\n<p>You shouldn\u2019t even think about returning to a toxic or <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/8-sinais-alarmantes-de-que-esta-a-ser-vitima-de-abuso-emocional\/\">rela\u00e7\u00e3o abusiva<\/a>. <strong>Uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica pode ter os seus momentos excitantes, mas acaba por se desmoronar mais cedo ou mais tarde.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Procurar desculpas para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o abusiva s\u00f3 resultar\u00e1 em mais abusos. <strong>It\u2019s highly unlikely that someone abusive the first time around will change.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Even if they\u2019ve been working on their behavior extensively, you should still avoid placing your mental and physical well-being in danger and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-formas-de-proteger-o-abuso-emocional\/\">proteja-se dos abusos<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 You had given up on the relationship<\/h4>\n<p>Quando estavam juntos, deixaram simplesmente de fazer um esfor\u00e7o. <strong>You weren\u2019t happy, and you weren\u2019t trying to fix it.<\/strong> Your arguments weren\u2019t didn\u2019t solve any of your issues but only made you angry at each other.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Pensar em voltar a este tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o seria apenas por h\u00e1bito, n\u00e3o por achar que seria bom.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>Breakups where there\u2019s still a chance.<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-150292 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-on-her-phone-while-working.jpg\" alt=\"jovem mulher ao telem\u00f3vel enquanto trabalha\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-on-her-phone-while-working.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-on-her-phone-while-working-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-on-her-phone-while-working-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-on-her-phone-while-working-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-on-her-phone-while-working-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-on-her-phone-while-working-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-on-her-phone-while-working-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-on-her-phone-while-working-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-on-her-phone-while-working-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-on-her-phone-while-working-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-on-her-phone-while-working-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-on-her-phone-while-working-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-on-her-phone-while-working-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/young-woman-on-her-phone-while-working-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 You weren&#8217;t ready to break up.<\/h4>\n<p>Por exemplo, se estava insatisfeito com alguma coisa na rela\u00e7\u00e3o e queria mud\u00e1-la, pode ter interpretado mal o facto de o seu parceiro n\u00e3o ser a pessoa certa para si. <strong>You might have misunderstood each other\u2019s intentions.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, you\u2019re just not in the right place mentally, and your breakup had nothing to do with the relationship.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 The reason for your breakup no longer exists.<\/h4>\n<p>Se o motivo da separa\u00e7\u00e3o estiver fora do seu controlo, ainda pode haver uma hip\u00f3tese de resolver as coisas. <strong>You weren&#8217;t ready to end your relationship, and now the circumstances that led to it have changed or may be resolved.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>For example, if you broke up because you were long-distance, and you live close now. Or you broke up because of something you don\u2019t even remember anymore.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If you\u2019re regretting breaking up, and the reason it happened was external, it might be possible to get your ex back.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 There\u2019s no bad blood.<\/h4>\n<p>If you broke up without hurting each other, especially if there was no \u2018dumper\u2019 or \u2018dumpee,\u2019 a reconciliation might be possible.<strong> When the cause of your hurt was the end of your relationship and not the other person, there\u2019s probably no resentment.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Going back to this kind of relationship is easy if there\u2019s a willingness on both sides.<\/p>\n<h2>Queres voltar a namorar?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-150291 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-lying-in-bed-looking-at-her-phone-on-pillow.jpg\" alt=\"mulher deitada na cama a olhar para o telem\u00f3vel na almofada\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-lying-in-bed-looking-at-her-phone-on-pillow.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-lying-in-bed-looking-at-her-phone-on-pillow-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-lying-in-bed-looking-at-her-phone-on-pillow-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-lying-in-bed-looking-at-her-phone-on-pillow-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-lying-in-bed-looking-at-her-phone-on-pillow-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-lying-in-bed-looking-at-her-phone-on-pillow-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-lying-in-bed-looking-at-her-phone-on-pillow-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-lying-in-bed-looking-at-her-phone-on-pillow-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-lying-in-bed-looking-at-her-phone-on-pillow-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-lying-in-bed-looking-at-her-phone-on-pillow-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-lying-in-bed-looking-at-her-phone-on-pillow-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-lying-in-bed-looking-at-her-phone-on-pillow-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-lying-in-bed-looking-at-her-phone-on-pillow-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-lying-in-bed-looking-at-her-phone-on-pillow-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Pergunte a si pr\u00f3prio e d\u00ea respostas honestas:<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2022 How do you feel about your ex?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>- <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/porque-e-que-ainda-amo-o-meu-ex\/\">Ainda os ama?<\/a>?<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2022 Is there still a connection between the two of you?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Are you still attracted to them?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Do you trust them?<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2022 Are you prepared to work on your relationship?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Se a resposta a estas perguntas for afirmativa, pense no que quer fazer.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Outra coisa importante a considerar antes de qualquer outra coisa \u00e9 certificar-se de que o seu ex ainda \u00e9 solteiro e que lhe mostra <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sinais-ocultos-de-que-o-seu-ex-ainda-gosta-de-si\/\">sinais de que ainda o querem<\/a>.<\/strong> If there\u2019s already a new girl or a new guy in your ex\u2019s life, you\u2019re setting yourself up for heartache.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019ve already moved on and aren\u2019t single, think about whether you really want to mess up the new relationship you have with your new partner.<\/p>\n<h3>Se queres voltar a namorar<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-150290 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/upset-woman-looking-at-her-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mulher perturbada a olhar para o telem\u00f3vel\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/upset-woman-looking-at-her-phone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/upset-woman-looking-at-her-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/upset-woman-looking-at-her-phone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/upset-woman-looking-at-her-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/upset-woman-looking-at-her-phone-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/upset-woman-looking-at-her-phone-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/upset-woman-looking-at-her-phone-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/upset-woman-looking-at-her-phone-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/upset-woman-looking-at-her-phone-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/upset-woman-looking-at-her-phone-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/upset-woman-looking-at-her-phone-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/upset-woman-looking-at-her-phone-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/upset-woman-looking-at-her-phone-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/upset-woman-looking-at-her-phone-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Take your time to think about your breakup and feelings before responding to your ex\u2019s text. Don\u2019t think, \u201cMy ex texted me. Let\u2019s get back together.\u201d Force of habit might make <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-sinais-de-que-voce-acredita-que-ainda-esta-apaixonado-pelo-seu-ex-mas-na-verdade-nao-esta\/\">acredita que ainda quer o seu ex<\/a> when you really don\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Pense bem antes de dar este grande passo.<\/strong> When you\u2019re calm and sure about what you want, send a casual text but show a willingness to talk. <strong>Uma resposta simples \u00e9 a melhor, sem sentimentos intensos e explica\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So when your ex sends a text saying, \u201cHow are you?\u201d you can reply with something that\u2019s a variation of <strong>\u201cI\u2019m good, how about you?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And then it\u2019s their turn. <strong>O que quer agora \u00e9 que o seu ex mostre o mesmo tipo de desejo de voltarem a estar juntos, mas tamb\u00e9m uma vontade de trabalhar em qualquer que seja a raz\u00e3o da vossa separa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/fases-do-reatamento-com-um-ex\/\">Se o seu ex diz que quer reconciliar-se<\/a>e, pergunte-lhes o que mudou em rela\u00e7\u00e3o ao que era antes.<\/p>\n<p>When your ex is in the same place as you, they\u2019re not going to pretend not to know or play games. <strong>O seu objetivo neste momento \u00e9 encontrar uma forma de voltar \u00e0 rela\u00e7\u00e3o e resolver os problemas que a fizeram fracassar.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If they continue the conversation and you\u2019re happy with it, arrange to meet up for coffee. <strong>Quando se encontrarem, comuniquem abertamente e discutam os vossos sentimentos e problemas.<\/strong> Certifique-se de que o seu ex o quer pelas raz\u00f5es certas e n\u00e3o por h\u00e1bito.<\/p>\n<p>Mantenha os seus sentimentos sob controlo e lembre-se: a comunica\u00e7\u00e3o honesta est\u00e1 em primeiro lugar!<\/p>\n<h3>If You Don\u2019t Want To Get Back Together<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-150289 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/tired-woman-reading-her-messages-in-living-room.jpg\" alt=\"mulher cansada a ler as suas mensagens na sala de estar\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/tired-woman-reading-her-messages-in-living-room.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/tired-woman-reading-her-messages-in-living-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/tired-woman-reading-her-messages-in-living-room-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/tired-woman-reading-her-messages-in-living-room-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/tired-woman-reading-her-messages-in-living-room-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/tired-woman-reading-her-messages-in-living-room-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/tired-woman-reading-her-messages-in-living-room-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/tired-woman-reading-her-messages-in-living-room-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/tired-woman-reading-her-messages-in-living-room-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/tired-woman-reading-her-messages-in-living-room-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/tired-woman-reading-her-messages-in-living-room-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/tired-woman-reading-her-messages-in-living-room-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/tired-woman-reading-her-messages-in-living-room-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/tired-woman-reading-her-messages-in-living-room-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019ve been working on moving on by following the <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-sinais-de-que-a-regra-de-nao-contacto-esta-a-funcionar\/\">regra de n\u00e3o contacto<\/a>O facto de o seu ex entrar em contacto pode arruinar todo o seu trabalho \u00e1rduo. <strong>For that reason, it\u2019s best to block them everywhere from the moment you decide that you\u2019re done with them.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Bloqueie e apague o n\u00famero de telefone da pessoa e bloqueie e deixe de a seguir nas redes sociais. <strong>The less chance you have of getting in touch with them, the less chance you\u2019ll do it in a moment of weakness.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So if you\u2019re committed to getting over them, reply with something like, <strong>\u201cI\u2019m good, but I think it\u2019s best if we both move on. Please don\u2019t contact me anymore.\u201d<\/strong> It\u2019s going to feel great when you realize you really don\u2019t care about them.<\/p>\n<p>At this point, it\u2019s best if you immediately block them without waiting to see if they\u2019ll reply. <strong>By going no contact, you\u2019re <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-seguir-em-frente-10-formas-eficazes-de-deixar-ir-e-curar\/\">dar a si pr\u00f3prio a melhor hip\u00f3tese de sarar<\/a> sem as tenta\u00e7\u00f5es de mensagens de texto ou chamadas telef\u00f3nicas.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Those might lead to ideas of staying friends or becoming friends with benefits, but neither would work if you\u2019re still hurting. <strong>Stay away until you have moved on in your new life, and even then, don\u2019t think about trying to be best friends with your ex.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>Why Would Your Ex Ask You How You\u2019re Doing?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-150288 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/tired-girl-reading-her-messages-in-bed.jpg\" alt=\"rapariga cansada a ler as suas mensagens na cama\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/tired-girl-reading-her-messages-in-bed.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/tired-girl-reading-her-messages-in-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/tired-girl-reading-her-messages-in-bed-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/tired-girl-reading-her-messages-in-bed-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/tired-girl-reading-her-messages-in-bed-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/tired-girl-reading-her-messages-in-bed-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/tired-girl-reading-her-messages-in-bed-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/tired-girl-reading-her-messages-in-bed-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/tired-girl-reading-her-messages-in-bed-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/tired-girl-reading-her-messages-in-bed-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/tired-girl-reading-her-messages-in-bed-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/tired-girl-reading-her-messages-in-bed-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/tired-girl-reading-her-messages-in-bed-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/tired-girl-reading-her-messages-in-bed-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando o seu ex lhe envia uma mensagem de texto, pode ficar muito contente com isso se quiser voltar a estar com ele, mas tem de ter cuidado.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dependendo da forma como a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o terminou, o seu ex pode n\u00e3o ter boas inten\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/strong> Mesmo que o fa\u00e7am, tem de se colocar a si pr\u00f3prio e aos seus sentimentos em primeiro lugar.<\/p>\n<h3>\u2022 Your ex wants to get back together.<\/h3>\n<p>S\u00f3 porque sim <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-sinais-de-que-ainda-ama-mesmo-falido\/\">o teu ex sente a tua falta<\/a> doesn\u2019t mean you have to talk to them.<strong> If you\u2019re in a good place, healing from the breakup, and finally getting your love life back on track, a text message from an ex can cause chaos.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re not interested in getting back together, especially if this person has hurt you, take the advice above and reply curtly, then block them. <strong>You don\u2019t owe them anything or to listen to what they have to say if you\u2019ve made your decision.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>\u2022 Your ex wants to try being friends.<\/h3>\n<p>Dependendo da vossa situa\u00e7\u00e3o emocional, isso pode ser poss\u00edvel se ambos o desejarem.<strong> Maybe you broke up because even though you liked each other, a relationship between you just didn\u2019t work.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re not hurting and don\u2019t have hopes of getting back together, if your feelings for them are no longer romantic, and both you and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/quando-um-rapaz-so-quer-ser-amigo-depois-de-um-namoro\/\">o teu ex pensa que podem ser amigos<\/a>, pode experimentar.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Certifique-se apenas de que ambos s\u00e3o claros quanto aos seus sentimentos, limites e expectativas.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>\u2022 Your ex wants to keep you on the hook.<\/h3>\n<p>O seu ex pode contact\u00e1-lo para se certificar de que ainda tem poder sobre si. <strong>Querem ver se uma mensagem de texto ou uma chamada pode aban\u00e1-lo e torn\u00e1-lo fraco \u00e0 sua influ\u00eancia<\/strong>. Your ex is only seeking validation and doesn\u2019t actually care about your feelings.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Your ex is contacting you to see if you\u2019re single or willing to have a casual relationship.<\/strong> They want to make sure you won\u2019t stop thinking about them if they even want something from you.<\/p>\n<p>They might be trying to keep the possibility of a hook-up open and are simply making sure they\u2019re still desirable.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Don\u2019t try to catch up with your ex if they show signs they\u2019re trying to play games.<\/strong> Don\u2019t succumb to \u201cI miss you,\u201d and don\u2019t let them see that they\u2019re affecting you. <strong>Bloqueie-os e siga em frente.<\/strong> It\u2019s going to be hard, but <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/recuperacao-de-uma-separacao-7-formas-prometedoras-de-se-reerguer\/\">it\u2019s the only way to get on with your life<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2>Should You Respond At All If You\u2019re Done With Your Ex?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-150287 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/sad-woman-holding-a-pillow-texting.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste a segurar uma almofada a enviar mensagens de texto\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/sad-woman-holding-a-pillow-texting.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/sad-woman-holding-a-pillow-texting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/sad-woman-holding-a-pillow-texting-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/sad-woman-holding-a-pillow-texting-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/sad-woman-holding-a-pillow-texting-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/sad-woman-holding-a-pillow-texting-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/sad-woman-holding-a-pillow-texting-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/sad-woman-holding-a-pillow-texting-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/sad-woman-holding-a-pillow-texting-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/sad-woman-holding-a-pillow-texting-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/sad-woman-holding-a-pillow-texting-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/sad-woman-holding-a-pillow-texting-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/sad-woman-holding-a-pillow-texting-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/sad-woman-holding-a-pillow-texting-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Some people might think that even in this type of situation, it\u2019s best to be polite and reply, but I think that when your feelings are at stake, you should always do what\u2019s best for you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If this person has hurt you, if your breakup was painful and difficult, if you\u2019re still trying to move on, go ahead and ignore the message. You don\u2019t owe them anything.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You know your ex best, and you\u2019re the best judge of what they might be up to. <strong>Their reason for sending this text could be to hurt you more by showing you they\u2019ve moved on or to look for confirmation that they could still have you if they wanted.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, your ex might not be a bad person, and they could be genuinely interested in whether or not you\u2019re okay.<\/p>\n<p>This might be even worse if you\u2019re in the <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-maneiras-de-quebrar-o-palito\/\">processo de tentar levantar-se<\/a>. <strong>Someone who\u2019s bad to you is easier to get over than a good person.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>De qualquer forma, nesta altura, o <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/8-beneficios-quebra-da-regra-de-nao-contacto\/\">regra de n\u00e3o contacto<\/a> is the way to go. It\u2019s the only effective way to keep your ex off your mind and let you get over them. <strong>Mais tarde, pode pensar se pode ou n\u00e3o ir para <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/isto-e-tudo-o-que-precisa-de-saber-sobre-como-manter-a-amizade-com-o-seu-ex\/\">ser amigo do seu ex<\/a> and if they\u2019re someone you want in your life.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>Como responder se quiser ser mesquinho<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-150285 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/cute-woman-standing-outside-looking-at-something-on-her-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mulher gira que est\u00e1 na rua a olhar para algo no seu telem\u00f3vel\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/cute-woman-standing-outside-looking-at-something-on-her-phone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/cute-woman-standing-outside-looking-at-something-on-her-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/cute-woman-standing-outside-looking-at-something-on-her-phone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/cute-woman-standing-outside-looking-at-something-on-her-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/cute-woman-standing-outside-looking-at-something-on-her-phone-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/cute-woman-standing-outside-looking-at-something-on-her-phone-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/cute-woman-standing-outside-looking-at-something-on-her-phone-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/cute-woman-standing-outside-looking-at-something-on-her-phone-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/cute-woman-standing-outside-looking-at-something-on-her-phone-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/cute-woman-standing-outside-looking-at-something-on-her-phone-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/cute-woman-standing-outside-looking-at-something-on-her-phone-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/cute-woman-standing-outside-looking-at-something-on-her-phone-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/cute-woman-standing-outside-looking-at-something-on-her-phone-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/cute-woman-standing-outside-looking-at-something-on-her-phone-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If things ended badly, you might be tempted to reply to their message with an emotionally charged response and show that you\u2019re still mad.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I would recommend against it, but I know that in times of heartbreak, it\u2019s hard to keep a cool head, and sometimes you just want to push back.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Keep in mind that the effect this has on your ex might be the opposite of what you\u2019re hoping for \u2013 <strong>instead of putting them down, your display of angry feelings might give them the satisfaction of knowing you\u2019re still not over them.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s better if you<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/porque-e-que-ignorar-o-seu-ex-e-poderoso\/\"> bloquear e ignorar<\/a>mas se quiser mesmo responder desta forma, proceda com cautela.<\/p>\n<h3>\u2022 Leave them on seen.<\/h3>\n<p>This is a response in itself and has a particular power. It shows you saw their message but didn\u2019t care enough to reply. <strong>Don\u2019t go back on it after you\u2019ve opened their text, though, and reply later.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Your ex might think that you needed time to think about what to say, which isn\u2019t the result you want to achieve. <strong>If you want time to reply but don\u2019t want them to know you\u2019re thinking about it, read their message from the notification bar without opening it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>\u2022 Send a meme.<\/h3>\n<p>Mas que seja uma escolha. <strong>Look for something funny that shows you\u2019re unbothered and living your best life without your ex.<\/strong> Find a meme that says they\u2019re ridiculous for even trying to talk to you. You don\u2019t have to rush to reply,<\/p>\n<h3>\u2022 Reply with a single emoji or make a hit combo<\/h3>\n<p>You can choose from the select petty emojis below, or if you\u2019re an expert emoji user, pick the combination from your frequently used ones that best shows your feelings.<\/p>\n<p>??\u200d????\u270c\ufe0f?????????<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 lol \/ ?? \/ ok?<\/h4>\n<p>This response might be especially appropriate if their text was something like, \u201c\u2018sup\u201d or \u201cwyd?\u201d<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 Why?\/None of your business\/Is there a problem?<\/h4>\n<p>These sound a bit confrontational, so you might get a reaction if you send one. If that\u2019s what you\u2019re looking for, then this is what you want. <strong>Lembre-se que a jogada mais poderosa \u00e9 ignorar a pr\u00f3xima mensagem do seu ex.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 Already done with your rebound relationship?<\/h4>\n<p>You\u2019re clearly showing that you still pay attention to them, that you know <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/3-coisas-a-ter-em-conta-quando-o-seu-ex-segue-em-frente-antes-de-si\/\">they\u2019ve moved on<\/a>, and that you\u2019re mad about it with a response like this. <strong>If you\u2019re trying to provoke them, it\u2019s a great move, but to keep an upper hand, don\u2019t engage at all when they reply.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 This is a nice surprise!\/I\u2019m great, thanks for asking! \u2764\ufe0f\ufe0f<\/h4>\n<p>A response like this is clearly sarcastic and making fun of your ex. If they don\u2019t get what you mean, they might get confused and try to go on with the conversation.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If you want to continue replying, keep your tone nice and sweet, and sit back and watch them try to figure out what\u2019s going on.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>Conclus\u00e3o<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-150284 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/angry-woman-on-her-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mulher zangada ao telem\u00f3vel\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/angry-woman-on-her-phone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/angry-woman-on-her-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/angry-woman-on-her-phone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/angry-woman-on-her-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/angry-woman-on-her-phone-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/angry-woman-on-her-phone-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/angry-woman-on-her-phone-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/angry-woman-on-her-phone-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/angry-woman-on-her-phone-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/angry-woman-on-her-phone-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/angry-woman-on-her-phone-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/angry-woman-on-her-phone-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/angry-woman-on-her-phone-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/angry-woman-on-her-phone-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Trying to figure out how to respond to an ex asking how you are is a challenge because it\u2019s hard to think rationally when your feelings are in turmoil. It\u2019s best to avoid responding to it right away. <strong>D\u00ea a si pr\u00f3prio tempo para pensar sobre como se sente e o que quer.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Lembre-se das raz\u00f5es que vos levaram a terminar a rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Pense porque \u00e9 que a pessoa o pode estar a contactar. Examine os seus sentimentos e tente perceber o que quer.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Think about whether it\u2019s worth the hassle even replying to your ex.<\/strong> Se optar por faz\u00ea-lo, ponha-se a si pr\u00f3prio e aos seus sentimentos em primeiro lugar. <strong>There\u2019s no place to worry about hurting your ex\u2019s feelings when they\u2019ve hurt you already.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Acima de tudo, proteja os seus sentimentos.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Relationships come to an end, and it can be difficult to move on. So what do you do when, after you\u2019ve finally managed to move on, they hit you up with what seems to be an innocuous text? 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