{"id":150612,"date":"2022-05-06T21:01:39","date_gmt":"2022-05-06T21:01:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=150612"},"modified":"2022-12-05T16:48:58","modified_gmt":"2022-12-05T16:48:58","slug":"como-e-que-ser-enganado-nos-muda","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-e-que-ser-enganado-nos-muda\/","title":{"rendered":"Como \u00e9 que ser tra\u00eddo nos muda: 16 maneiras"},"content":{"rendered":"

What\u2019s the worst thing about being cheated on? The pain doesn\u2019t end the moment your rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica<\/a> faz. De facto, as consequ\u00eancias perduram mesmo depois de <\/b>reparar o seu <\/b>cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido<\/b><\/a> and think you\u2019ve healed completely.<\/b><\/p>\n

Isto \u00e9 exatamente <\/b>como \u00e9 que ser enganado nos muda<\/b> para sempre!<\/b><\/p>\n

How Being Cheated On Changes You In Some Bad Ways…<\/h2>\n

How does being cheated on affect a man? How does being cheated on affect a woman? Well, when it comes to this, it\u2019s absolutely irrelevant whether you are male or female.<\/p>\n

Aqui est\u00e3o as piores formas em que ser v\u00edtima de infidelidade afecta a sua vida e <\/b>bem-estar<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

1. Confiar em algu\u00e9m torna-se imposs\u00edvel<\/h3>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

When your partner cheats, you can\u2019t avoid developing fortes problemas de confian\u00e7a<\/a>. Por mais que tentemos confiar nos outros, torna-se imposs\u00edvel faz\u00ea-lo.<\/p>\n

Afinal de contas, a pessoa que mais amava apunhalou-a pelas costas da forma mais dolorosa. Your ex didn\u2019t only break your heart \u2013 they betrayed you as well. And that\u2019s what shattered you the most.<\/b><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not only talking about your future relationships here. I\u2019m not talking just about romance.<\/p>\n

The truth is that you lose your faith in humanity. After all, your ex wasn\u2019t only your romantic partner. They were a friend and family member too.<\/p>\n

Por isso, se o fizerem passar por isto <\/b>desgosto<\/b> without hesitation, what\u2019s stopping someone else from doing the same? Why are they different from all of your other <\/b>entes queridos<\/b>?<\/b><\/p>\n

Let\u2019s not forget that this person promised you the world. They swore they would never do anything to hurt you, but that\u2019s exactly what they ended up doing.<\/p>\n

Basically, it would be strange if you didn\u2019t develop trust issues as a result.<\/p>\n

2. Perder a capacidade de perdoar<\/h3>\n

Como \u00e9 que ser tra\u00eddo nos muda: Bem, para come\u00e7ar, esquece-se o que \u00e9 o perd\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re so bitter after everything that went on that, for the first time ever, you\u2019ve learned how to hate. At first, you think it\u2019s great that you didn\u2019t perdoar o seu traidor<\/a> por tudo o que te fizeram.<\/p>\n

And you\u2019re absolutely right. Forgiveness is the last thing they deserve.<\/p>\n

No entanto, esqueceste-te de uma coisa: mereces <\/b>perdoar-lhes<\/b><\/a>. That\u2019s right \u2013 you should do it for the sake of your own <\/b>bem-estar<\/b>e n\u00e3o por causa deles.<\/b><\/p>\n

But the opposite happened. After you\u2019ve been betrayed by someone you cared for deeply, you swore that you\u2019d never let anyone break your heart again.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve raised the bar, and you\u2019re not ready to allow anyone to do you wrong. And that\u2019s amazing.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, that doesn\u2019t mean you should lose your ability to forgive altogether. Trust me \u2013 when you remember how to do it, you\u2019ll bring yourself the peace you so desperately need.<\/p>\n

3. Envolver-se no jogo da auto-culpa<\/h3>\n

Was it me? Was it something I did? How come I wasn\u2019t enough for my <\/i>outra pessoa significativa<\/i>? How come I didn\u2019t see what was going on right in front of my nose?<\/i><\/p>\n

Could I have done something to prevent this? What did they miss in our relationship? What did the other person have to offer my partner that I couldn\u2019t?<\/i><\/p>\n

Whenever I talk to my friends who\u2019ve been cheated on, they all asked the same questions. Some of them refused to admit it at first, but eventually, everyone gets trapped in the same thought pattern.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s get one thing straight: <\/b>autoconsci\u00eancia<\/b> \u00e9 espantoso. Desenvolvemos a capacidade de recapitular os nossos pr\u00f3prios erros e chegamos a um ponto em que somos capazes de nos aperceber dos nossos erros.<\/b><\/p>\n

No entanto, a participa\u00e7\u00e3o no <\/b>jogo da auto-culpa<\/b><\/a> \u00e9 algo diferente.<\/b><\/p>\n

The problem is that these thoughts transfer into every single area of your life. You don\u2019t stop with wondering if you were to blame for your partner having an affair.<\/p>\n

Every time someone does something to hurt you, you ask yourself why you weren\u2019t enough. And that\u2019s exactly how being cheated on changes you.<\/p>\n

Relacionadas: Como parar de pensar demais depois de ser tra\u00eddo (20 dicas)<\/a><\/p>\n

4. N\u00e3o h\u00e1 mais f\u00e9 no amor<\/h3>\n

\"uma<\/h3>\n

Here\u2019s the devastating truth: you j\u00e1 n\u00e3o acredita no amor<\/a>. Yes, it\u2019s possible for you to care, and it\u2019s possible for another person to care for you.<\/p>\n

Mas at\u00e9 isso acontecer contigo, acreditavas no amor eterno e todo-poderoso. <\/b>You know what I\u2019m talking about.<\/p>\n

Acreditou no conceito de almas g\u00e9meas<\/a>. You believed that it was possible to find the one you\u2019d grow old with.<\/p>\n

Acreditou em felizes para sempre<\/a>. Acreditava em encontrar a pessoa certa sem precisar de mais ningu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

E agora, depois da vossa <\/b>partner\u2019s infidelity<\/b>, all of that is erased. What\u2019s the point of entering a <\/b>nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/b> quando \u00e9 que vai acabar como acabou o anterior?<\/b><\/p>\n

Even when you\u2019re around happy couples, you see them in a different light. Of course, you don\u2019t say anything, but the truth is that you just expect one of them to cheat or do something similar.<\/p>\n

5. Problemas graves de autoestima<\/h3>\n

Como \u00e9 que ser tra\u00eddo nos muda: Bem, destr\u00f3i a tua sentimento de autoestima<\/a>.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t admit it at first, but you\u2019re having a hard time loving yourself the way you did. You weren\u2019t enough for your favorite human being in the world, so that must mean that you\u2019re not worthy of love.<\/p>\n

If the person who knew you best didn\u2019t think of you as <\/b>digno de amor<\/b><\/a> e respeito, quem \u00e9 voc\u00ea para discutir com eles?<\/b><\/p>\n

Comparar-se a si pr\u00f3prio<\/h4>\n

And let\u2019s face it, these self-confidence issues are mostly caused by the fact that you keep on comparing yourself with this outra mulher<\/a> ou homem.<\/p>\n

What do they have that you don’t? Why were they better? What did they give your ex you didn\u2019t? Why did they replace you with this person?<\/i><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not only talking about their physical appearance here. Even if your SO had an caso emocional<\/a>, you\u2019ll wonder about this new person\u2019s intellect, sense of humor, and personality.<\/p>\n

Once again, this doesn\u2019t end even after your toxic relationship does. Without even realizing it, you continue comparing yourself to the whole world.<\/p>\n

Continuas a inventar que toda a gente \u00e9 melhor do que tu, o que obviamente n\u00e3o est\u00e1 nem perto da verdade.<\/b><\/p>\n

6. Tornar-se um pensador excessivo<\/h3>\n

You\u2019re analyzing your entire relationship, aren\u2019t you? What went wrong? When was the moment things started going downhill?<\/p>\n

Repete toda a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o para tr\u00e1s e para a frente, procurando pistas em que n\u00e3o reparou quando devia ter reparado.<\/p>\n

Before you know it, overthinking gets into your blood. You start to analyze everyone\u2019s every word and move.<\/p>\n

…and an overworrier<\/b><\/h4>\n

And you don\u2019t just tornar-se um pensador excessivo<\/a>. What\u2019s even worse is that you become an overworrier as well.<\/p>\n

Espera-se sempre o pior resultado poss\u00edvel. \u00c9 claro que se trata de uma auto<\/b>mecanismo de defesa<\/b> que desenvolveu.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u00c9 a \u00fanica forma de se proteger de outro desgosto.<\/p>\n

If you expect the worst, it can\u2019t surprise you when it happens, can it? But if you hope for the best, your whole world will shatter into pieces when you\u2019re betrayed yet again.<\/p>\n

Even though this doesn\u2019t make sense, it\u2019s exactly how being cheated on changes you. You\u2019re constantly on the lookout, and you deprive yourself of the possibility of being happy.<\/p>\n

7. Tornar-se numa pessoa vingativa<\/h3>\n

Admita, est\u00e1 obcecado com a melhor forma de vingar-se do seu ex<\/a>. Mesmo que n\u00e3o actue de facto, passa muito tempo a planear a sua vingan\u00e7a<\/a>.<\/p>\n

After all, they did you so much harm. Why should they get away with it as if nothing happened? You won\u2019t let it slide just like that, will you?<\/p>\n

What should you do? Allow them to live their life as if they hadn\u2019t destroyed yours? Let them build their happiness on your tears?<\/p>\n

Absolutely not! You must make them pay, even if it\u2019s the last thing you do.<\/p>\n

At least, that\u2019s what you\u2019ve been thinking lately, haven\u2019t you? And I understand completely. Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 I\u2019m not here to judge you.<\/p>\n

However, I am here to burst your bubble and tell you that even revenge won\u2019t make you feel better.<\/b><\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que ser tra\u00eddo nos muda: Bem, faz-nos perder-se<\/a>, doesn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n

You weren\u2019t like this before. You didn\u2019t know what hatred was, but now it consumes you completely.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s exactly how it changed you \u2013 it changed the essence of who you were.<\/p>\n

8. Ansiedade de relacionamento<\/h3>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

Muitas pessoas desenvolvem ansiedade na rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> after surviving infidelity. And I\u2019m not talking about only questioning your new partner\u2019s feelings.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m talking about <\/b>entrar no <\/b>pr\u00f3xima rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/b><\/a> in the first place. Ever since you were cheated on, you\u2019re literally terrified of relationships.<\/b><\/p>\n

You can\u2019t even think about voltar \u00e0 piscina dos encontros<\/a>. Mesmo que comece a gostar de algu\u00e9m novo, a sua ansiedade entra em a\u00e7\u00e3o e come\u00e7a imediatamente a correr pela sua vida.<\/p>\n

Mas o que acontece se conseguir ultrapassar este obst\u00e1culo e entrar numa nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>? Well, that\u2019s when your real problems begin.<\/p>\n

When someone cheats on you, you\u2019re positive that everyone else will do the same. You keep on expecting all hell to break loose.<\/p>\n

Voc\u00ea sabotar a sua nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>questionar a sua autoestima e pensar demasiado em todos os pormenores do seu romance.<\/p>\n

Well, my dear, that\u2019s exactly what relationship anxiety looks like.<\/p>\n

9. Desenvolvimento de problemas de ci\u00fame<\/h3>\n

Optou por n\u00e3o dar uma segunda oportunidade para o seu traidor<\/a>. And I\u2019m super proud of you for that. But every relationship coach will tell you the same thing: that doesn\u2019t mean that nobody else deserves to get a first chance.<\/p>\n

Ou, pelo menos, o benef\u00edcio da d\u00favida!<\/p>\n

I know that this is hard to believe, but you don\u2019t have to go through your new partner\u2019s text messages, conversas no messenger<\/a>, Pontua\u00e7\u00e3o do Snapchat<\/a>, and other social media accounts. You don\u2019t have to be jealous of every single person of the opposite sex they talk to.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to search for signs that are clearly not there.<\/p>\n

I know what you must be thinking: you want to find out in time so you don\u2019t give them the opportunity to make a fool out of you. Well, guess what? Even that won\u2019t <\/b>salv\u00e1-lo de um <\/b>cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido<\/b><\/a>!<\/b><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o vale a pena ter ci\u00fames possessivos<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Most importantly, there is no point in comparing yourself to other people in your partner\u2019s life. They chose you for a reason. And that means that you\u2019re more than enough for them!<\/p>\n

10. Duvidar das suas escolhas<\/h3>\n

Teve um m\u00e1 rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>. Does this mean that every new one will be the same? Well, according to you \u2013 that\u2019s exactly what it means.<\/p>\n

Continua a culpar-se por escolher mal<\/a> e deixar entrar a pessoa errada. Agora, o pior seria repetir o erro.<\/p>\n

Por isso, tornamo-nos demasiado cuidadosos. Come\u00e7a a duvidar da sua capacidade de julgamento e pensa demasiado em cada escolha que faz.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 this is not me saying that you should be reckless. It\u2019s great that you learn from your mistakes.<\/b><\/p>\n

However, don\u2019t allow that one awful experience to prevent you from doing what you want.<\/b><\/p>\n

And I\u2019m not only talking about romantic relationships. I\u2019m talking about the fact that you\u2019ve become scared of chasing your dreams.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve stopped letting new people in because you assume that you\u2019ll make the wrong choice all over again. Trust me, you won\u2019t \u2013 you\u2019ve learned your lesson!<\/p>\n

11. Problemas de sa\u00fade mental<\/h3>\n

Como \u00e9 que ser tra\u00eddo nos muda: Bem, infelizmente, para muitas pessoas, isso traz in\u00fameros problemas de sa\u00fade mental.<\/p>\n

Passar por uma situa\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00e3o <\/b>desgosto<\/b> afecta a sua <\/b>qu\u00edmica do c\u00e9rebro,<\/b> and it\u2019s not unusual for a victim of cheating to <\/b>ficar deprimido<\/b><\/a> ou ansioso.<\/b><\/p>\n

If this is something you can relate to, maybe it\u2019s time to visit a mental health professional who\u2019ll help you through the processo de cura<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Whatever you do, please don\u2019t be ashamed of how you feel. Remember: none of this is your fault!<\/p>\n

… And In Some Good Ways<\/h2>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll think I\u2019m messing with you, but guess what? Looking at it from a different perspective, being cheated on wasn\u2019t so bad after all. I know it breaks your heart and even threatens to make you incapable of loving again.<\/p>\n

No entanto, existem algumas formas positivas de o mudar a si tamb\u00e9m. Aqui est\u00e3o elas:<\/p>\n

1. Tornas-te mais forte do que nunca<\/h3>\n

A coisa boa que ser enganado traz \u00e9 uma for\u00e7a mental incr\u00edvel. Eu sei que acabei de falar sobre problemas de sa\u00fade mental, mas acredite, quando os ultrapassa com sucesso, torna-se mais poderoso do que nunca.<\/p>\n

Porqu\u00ea? Bem, se foste capaz de sobreviver \u00e0 trai\u00e7\u00e3o da pessoa que mais amavas, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 literalmente nada que te possa matar.<\/p>\n

Pensaste que isto te ia destruir. Mas aqui est\u00e1, de cabe\u00e7a erguida, apesar de todas as probabilidades.<\/p>\n

Once you raise from the ashes, you realize that the only person you can\u2019t live without is yourself. You\u2019re no longer scared of anyone abandoning you.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re no longer terrified of <\/b>ter o cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido<\/b><\/a> because you know you\u2019ll succeed in gluing it back together.<\/b><\/p>\n

For the first time ever, you\u2019re completely free. And most importantly, you\u2019re finally aware of your strength and potential. How amazing is that?<\/p>\n

2. You realize that some things aren\u2019t meant to be…<\/h3>\n

Quando se \u00e9 tra\u00eddo pela primeira vez, tenta-se chegar ao fundo de tudo o que aconteceu. Procura-se o raz\u00f5es subjacentes a esta cat\u00e1strofe<\/a> e fazer o seu melhor para encontrar o significado maior.<\/p>\n

Mas depois, passado algum tempo, apercebemo-nos: some things don\u2019t need an obvious reason. And your partner having an affair was one of them.<\/b><\/p>\n

If this hadn\u2019t happened, you would never have realized that some things and some people are just n\u00e3o \u00e9 para ser<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Your relationship had to end the way it did. Otherwise, you wouldn\u2019t have become the person you are today.<\/p>\n

Foi apenas uma quest\u00e3o de f\u00e9. E a vida vai mostrar-lhe porque \u00e9 que foi a melhor coisa que lhe podia ter acontecido.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s right \u2013 you saw it as a curse, but it was actually a blessing in disguise all along.<\/p>\n

3. …and that sometimes God saves you<\/h3>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

Remember how we talked about the fact that you\u2019ve lost faith in love and humanity? Well, that\u2019s why you\u2019ve regained your faith in God and the Universe.<\/p>\n

Esta experi\u00eancia dolorosa ensinou-lhe que h\u00e1 uma grande diferen\u00e7a entre querer algo e precisar realmente de algo.<\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 que estou a tentar dizer? Bem, v\u00ea as coisas desta forma: pensavas que precisavas do teu ex.<\/p>\n

Pensaste que era a tua alma g\u00e9mea. Pensaste que estavas destinado a envelhecer com eles.<\/p>\n

E estavam dispostos a fazer tudo o que fosse preciso para apagar a infidelidade deles das vossas vidas.<\/p>\n

Mas Deus abriu-te os olhos para salvar-te<\/a>. Ele f\u00ea-lo para vos dar clareza.<\/p>\n

After a while, you\u2019ll see this for yourself. You\u2019ll realize that you were actually blinded by the love you felt for them, and you\u2019ll come to the conclusion that your ex wasn\u2019t the one for you, regardless of the affair.<\/b><\/p>\n

But guess what? If the affair hadn\u2019t happened, you would never have reached these realizations. Do you see what I\u2019m talking about now?<\/p>\n

4. Aprende a arrasar na sua vida de solteiro<\/h3>\n

Perder a f\u00e9 no amor e passar por uma situa\u00e7\u00e3o de ansiedade numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o \u00e9 nada f\u00e1cil. No entanto, surpreendentemente, tamb\u00e9m pode trazer-lhe algo de bom.<\/p>\n

Everything you went through made you stay away from relationships. But that doesn\u2019t have to be the worst thing that happened, does it?<\/p>\n

Fez-te apreciar a tua <\/b>vida de solteiro<\/b><\/a>. It feels great not having anyone to cheat on you, doesn\u2019t it?<\/b><\/p>\n

On a more serious note, you really do learn that it\u2019s better to be alone than with someone who doesn\u2019t treat you right.<\/p>\n

After escaping a terrible relationship, you learn to cherish the most important one \u2013 the rela\u00e7\u00e3o que tem consigo pr\u00f3prio<\/a>.<\/p>\n

So if you don\u2019t feel ready to start something new right away, take your time. Work on your self-esteem, remember how it feels to love yourself, and let go of the past.<\/p>\n

5. E para escolher melhor no futuro<\/h3>\n

Como \u00e9 que ser enganado nos muda: Bem, certamente que nos ensina algumas li\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

First of all, you\u2019ve become an expert in figuring out the <\/b>sinais de que o seu parceiro o est\u00e1 a trair<\/b><\/a>. I bet you\u2019re able to smell infidelity from a mile away and <\/b>apanhar um batoteiro<\/b><\/a> num piscar de olhos.<\/b><\/p>\n

But not only that \u2013 you know how to survive it as well.<\/b><\/p>\n

However, there is an even more important lesson you\u2019ve learned from this awful experience: to never settle for less than you deserve. The last thing you\u2019ll do is put up with infidelity ever in the future!<\/p>\n

Ser tra\u00eddo muda-nos para sempre?<\/h2>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

Being cheated on definitely does turn you into someone you never knew you could be. Sometimes, it will help you change for the better, and sometimes, you\u2019ll change for the worse, but one thing is clear: you won\u2019t stay the same!<\/p>\n

Either way, the impact it leaves on you is permanent and unerasable. Of course, it\u2019s up to you if you\u2019ll lose yourself and reinvent yourself completely after surviving an affair or if you\u2019ll just change some parts of your personality.<\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que ser enganado o afecta?<\/h2>\n

Ser enganado afecta a sua auto-confian\u00e7a<\/a>A sa\u00fade mental, as rela\u00e7\u00f5es (incluindo as rom\u00e2nticas e as que tem consigo pr\u00f3prio) e a personalidade como um todo. Basicamente, afecta todos os aspectos da sua vida.<\/b><\/p>\n

One of the worst things this experience takes away from you is faith. You no longer believe in love. You\u2019ve lost faith in happy endings, and you don\u2019t trust anyone around you.<\/p>\n

Even if that\u2019s the only way being cheated on affects you, it\u2019s more than enough!<\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que a trai\u00e7\u00e3o afecta o traidor?<\/h2>\n

Mesmo que n\u00e3o haja desculpa para cometer adult\u00e9rio, batoteiros<\/b> pode <\/b>lutar contra a culpa<\/b><\/a>O que \u00e9 que se passa com a pessoa? O \u00f3dio a si pr\u00f3prio, a ansiedade, a depress\u00e3o e as inseguran\u00e7as tamb\u00e9m.<\/b> Their mental health can be destroyed after they realize what they\u2019ve done.<\/p>\n

However, this doesn\u2019t apply to all cheaters out there because not all os batoteiros pensam<\/a> the same. Some don\u2019t have trouble perdoando-se a si pr\u00f3prios<\/a> e a seguir em frente com as suas vidas como se nada tivesse acontecido.<\/p>\n

Para terminar:<\/h2>\n

You\u2019ve figured out how being cheated on changes you. But I must remind you that everything is still in your hands.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s up to you: will you benefit from this situation, or will you allow it to kill you emotionally? Will you look for the silver lining in this cloud, or will you let the storm wash you away?<\/b><\/p>\n

The choice is all yours! And I know that you\u2019ll make the right one.<\/p>\n

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