{"id":150776,"date":"2022-05-10T18:17:22","date_gmt":"2022-05-10T18:17:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=150776"},"modified":"2022-05-10T18:17:22","modified_gmt":"2022-05-10T18:17:22","slug":"sinais-de-que-o-seu-parceiro-esta-a-perder-o-interesse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sinais-de-que-o-seu-parceiro-esta-a-perder-o-interesse\/","title":{"rendered":"15 sinais de alerta de que o seu parceiro est\u00e1 a perder o interesse"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Let\u2019s be honest: being the other woman or the other man is bad enough. But having to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-ele-te-amasse-nao-te-daria-razoes-para-duvidares-dele\/\">doubt your partner\u2019s feelings<\/a> no meio deste caos \u00e9 um pesadelo por si s\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p>However, before you jump to any conclusions, you have to be sure what\u2019s really happening. Are you really seeing signs your affair partner is losing interest, or is there something else hidden behind their change in behavior?<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3 h\u00e1 uma maneira de o descobrir: continuar a ler!<\/p>\n<h2>15 sinais de que o seu parceiro est\u00e1 a perder o interesse<\/h2>\n<p>Se se identificar com todos ou com a maioria destes sinais, o seu parceiro \u00e9 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/4-coisas-a-fazer-se-ele-esta-a-deixar-de-gostar-de-ti\/\">Apaixonar-me por ti<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h3>1. Sem planos para o futuro<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-150778 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"um homem a falar com uma mulher\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Todos os especialistas em rela\u00e7\u00f5es lhe dir\u00e3o a mesma coisa: o primeiro sinal de alerta a que deve prestar aten\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 o facto de voc\u00ea e o seu parceiro j\u00e1 n\u00e3o terem planos para o futuro.<\/p>\n<p>Or, to be exact, they\u2019re the one who avoids the topic.<\/p>\n<p>Lembram-se de como as coisas eram no in\u00edcio? Ambos sonhavam como seriam as coisas quando entrassem numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o verdadeira e comprometida.<\/p>\n<p>Provavelmente falaram de um s\u00edtio para ficar, planearam viajar juntos e tinham toda a vossa vida em conjunto planeada.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, tudo isso parece ter desaparecido de um dia para o outro. O seu parceiro ficou em sil\u00eancio como se nenhuma destas conversas tivesse acontecido.<\/p>\n<p>Mesmo quando tentamos abordar esta quest\u00e3o, eles ignoram-nos completamente.<\/p>\n<p><b>And I\u2019m not only talking about long-term <\/b><b>planos futuros<\/b><b>. I\u2019m talking about short-term plans as well.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t get them to sign up for a weekend getaway or a coffee date tomorrow night, let alone anything else.<\/p>\n<p>Isn\u2019t this fact alone suspicious? If you\u2019re being honest, you\u2019ll admit that it is definitely one of the signs your affair partner is losing interest.<\/p>\n<h3>2. &#8230; at least not with you<\/h3>\n<p>However, when you come to think of it, you\u2019re the only person they don\u2019t make any plans with. It\u2019s not that they\u2019re too busy. They have time \u2013 just not for you.<\/p>\n<p>They keep on making plans with their significant other and the rest of their family. Of course, they wouldn\u2019t even inform you of those plans, but they have to warn you not to send them text messages or call them when they\u2019re with them.<\/p>\n<p>When you ask them about their vacation plans, they\u2019ll tell you that they\u2019ve already booked everything with their primary partner.<\/p>\n<p>The hell with it, they\u2019re even planning on doing things with their best friends and coworkers. It looks like there is a place in their future for everyone. That is, everyone but you!<\/p>\n<p>Of course, when you confront him about this, he\u2019ll tell you you\u2019re imagining things.<\/p>\n<p>O seu c\u00f4njuge reservou os voos sem eles saberem, ou t\u00eam um evento familiar a que t\u00eam de ir.<\/p>\n<p><b>But you\u2019re not foolish enough to believe in these lies. After all, how come similar things didn\u2019t happen before?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s right, the harsh truth is that your cheater doesn\u2019t see your relationship as <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-sou-uma-rapariga-para-coisas-temporarias\/\">algo duradouro<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Evitam a conversa sobre o div\u00f3rcio<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-150779 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-confused-woman-argues-with-a-man.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher confusa discute com um homem\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-confused-woman-argues-with-a-man.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-confused-woman-argues-with-a-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-confused-woman-argues-with-a-man-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-confused-woman-argues-with-a-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-confused-woman-argues-with-a-man-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-confused-woman-argues-with-a-man-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-confused-woman-argues-with-a-man-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-confused-woman-argues-with-a-man-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-confused-woman-argues-with-a-man-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-confused-woman-argues-with-a-man-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-confused-woman-argues-with-a-man-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-confused-woman-argues-with-a-man-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-confused-woman-argues-with-a-man-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-confused-woman-argues-with-a-man-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you engaged in this affair, there were some promises made. You know the usual lines: their marriage or long-term relationship is falling apart, and they\u2019re about to break up or <a href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/life-style\/health-and-families\/divorce-help-marriage-sign-papers-b1932678.html\" rel=\"noopener\">divorciar-se<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Eles fizeram com que acreditasses que voc\u00eas dois estariam juntos de verdade antes que te apercebesses.<\/p>\n<p>Mas agora, quando <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/34-sinais-de-que-ja-nao-ama\/\">j\u00e1 n\u00e3o sentem nada por si<\/a>, everything changed. They\u2019ve stopped bringing their divorce up completely.<\/p>\n<p>Mesmo quando lhes perguntamos sobre o assunto, a discuss\u00e3o torna-se enorme.<\/p>\n<p><b>Let\u2019s get one thing straight: <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-sinais-subtis-de-linguagem-corporal-de-que-esta-a-mentir\/\"><b>provavelmente estavam a mentir<\/b><\/a><b> para ti desde o primeiro dia. Eles s\u00f3 queriam fazer com que te apaixonasses por eles, e foram bem sucedidos na sua miss\u00e3o.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>However, as funny as this might sound, they no longer even put effort into deceiving you. It\u2019s like they don\u2019t give a damn whether you stay or leave.<\/p>\n<p>Or, to be exact, they know that you\u2019ll stay, so there is no point in persuading you that they\u2019ll end things with their SO. I know you\u2019ll have a hard time accepting this, but it\u2019s one of the most surefire signs your affair partner is losing interest.<\/p>\n<h3>4. You\u2019re nothing but a booty call<\/h3>\n<p>A intimidade f\u00edsica \u00e9 crucial em qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica; ningu\u00e9m discute isso. O seu caso tem mais hip\u00f3teses de ser bem sucedido se os dois se derem bem no quarto.<\/p>\n<p>However, it can\u2019t be the only basis of a relationship. If it is, then you\u2019ve got yourself a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/13-regras-a-seguir-numa-relacao-nsa\/\">um tipo de acordo sem compromissos<\/a> e n\u00e3o vale a pena procurar os sinais reveladores de que o seu parceiro est\u00e1 a perder o interesse, quanto mais os sentimentos.<\/p>\n<p>Mas a situa\u00e7\u00e3o consigo \u00e9 que tinha <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/11-objectivos-sexuais-a-atingir\/\">divers\u00e3o fant\u00e1stica entre os len\u00e7\u00f3is<\/a>. Nevertheless, it wasn\u2019t the only thing your relationship revolved around. However, that has changed.<\/p>\n<p><b>Lately, you\u2019ve been feeling like this person\u2019s <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-sinais-de-que-estas-apenas-a-fazer-sexo\/\"><b>engate<\/b><\/a><b>. Why? Well, because that\u2019s exactly <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/homem-10-coisas-youre-nothing-booty-call\/\"><b>o que \u00e9<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>They call you in the middle of the night, asking when they can stop by. They don\u2019t arrange any activities whatsoever except those that involve a hotel room.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t talk, you don\u2019t travel, you don\u2019t watch movies together. You\u2019re only spending time with one another when you\u2019re sleeping together.<\/p>\n<p>What does this tell you? That they\u2019re still very much physically attracted to you, but that\u2019s about it.<\/p>\n<h3>5. &#8230; or they avoid physical intimacy altogether<\/h3>\n<p>Let\u2019s get one thing straight: we\u2019re not talking about an emotional affair here, are we? That is why it\u2019s quite unusual for your partner to avoid physical intimacy.<\/p>\n<p>I just told you that it\u2019s bad if <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-sinais-inegaveis-de-que-so-quer-sexo-e-nao-amor\/\">eles s\u00f3 querem dormir contigo<\/a>. And now I\u2019m telling you that it\u2019s bad if they <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-razoes-tristes-para-ele-nao-querer-dormir-consigo\/\">don\u2019t want to sleep with you<\/a> either. What\u2019s going on?<\/p>\n<p>Well, the trick is in finding balance \u2013 one of the things your relationship clearly doesn\u2019t have.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 it\u2019s one thing if they\u2019re tired or if this is just a phase. You can\u2019t expect anyone to be turned on 24\/7 or for your sex life to always be at its peak.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s also understandable if you know that they\u2019re going through something. Maybe they\u2019re dealing with additional stress at work or something similar. In that case, this is not a red flag you should pay attention to.<\/p>\n<p><b>No entanto, se os seus <\/b><b>desinteresse<\/b><b> in physical intimacy lasts for some time and there is no valid explanation behind it, you\u2019ve got yourself a problem.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>What\u2019s even worse is that they refuse to talk about it. Whenever you tackle the issue, they accuse you of having only one thing on your mind.<\/p>\n<h4>O que \u00e9 que isto significa?<\/h4>\n<p>Well, that they\u2019ve probably stopped seeing you as their emotional partner. Instead, you\u2019ve become something like a best friend to them.<\/p>\n<p>Pode tentar reavivar o brilho ou contentar-se com um <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/fases-dos-assuntos-emocionais\/\">caso emocional<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h3>6. Ningu\u00e9m sabe de ti<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-150780 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/the-imagined-woman-looks-into-the-distance.jpg\" alt=\"a mulher imaginada olha para longe\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/the-imagined-woman-looks-into-the-distance.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/the-imagined-woman-looks-into-the-distance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/the-imagined-woman-looks-into-the-distance-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/the-imagined-woman-looks-into-the-distance-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/the-imagined-woman-looks-into-the-distance-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/the-imagined-woman-looks-into-the-distance-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/the-imagined-woman-looks-into-the-distance-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/the-imagined-woman-looks-into-the-distance-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/the-imagined-woman-looks-into-the-distance-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/the-imagined-woman-looks-into-the-distance-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/the-imagined-woman-looks-into-the-distance-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/the-imagined-woman-looks-into-the-distance-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/the-imagined-woman-looks-into-the-distance-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/the-imagined-woman-looks-into-the-distance-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Keeping your relationship a secret is what an extra-marital affair is all about, I know. However, it\u2019s impossible to keep something like that a secret for so long from literally everyone.<\/p>\n<p><b>Quando come\u00e7aram a namorar, o vosso <\/b><b>batoteiro<\/b><b> showed you off. Of course, they made sure only people they trusted knew about you, which didn\u2019t include anyone who would tell on them to their spouse.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>No entanto, agora parece que j\u00e1 ningu\u00e9m sabe de si, nem mesmo os seus <\/b><b>melhores amigos<\/b><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Does this mean that they\u2019ve become more careful? But for what reason if they\u2019re planning to file for divorce?<\/p>\n<p>Either way, that\u2019s not hidden behind this change of behavior. I hate to break it to you, but they simply don\u2019t feel the need to talk about you anymore. Yes, it\u2019s as simple as that.<\/p>\n<p>At the same time, they don\u2019t plan to keep you around for much longer, so they don\u2019t see the need to bring you up in conversation.<\/p>\n<h3>7. Trabalhar no seu casamento<\/h3>\n<p>J\u00e1 reparou que o seu parceiro est\u00e1 realmente a esfor\u00e7ar-se por salvar o seu casamento, ou sou s\u00f3 eu?<\/p>\n<p>Whenever you try to reach out, they\u2019re always with them. They started mentioning their SO more, even though they try not to do so.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe they haven\u2019t told you anything about their reconciliation outright. However, I\u2019m sure you stalk their social media accounts or have mutual friends.<\/p>\n<p>You found out that they\u2019re living their lives like every other married couple. It looks like they\u2019ve just had a crisis, and now, they\u2019re doing everything to overcome it and rebuild the healthy relationship they once had.<\/p>\n<p>They\u2019re traveling together, going to the movies, and attending social functions. Basically, they\u2019re doing everything your partner isn\u2019t doing with you.<\/p>\n<p><b>Of course, you\u2019ve never had a problem with them <\/b><b>passar o tempo<\/b><b> com outros <\/b><b>membros da fam\u00edlia<\/b><b>. However, it seems like they\u2019re using this as an excuse to get closer to their SO.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Isto \u00e9 dif\u00edcil de engolir. Parece que eras apenas um tempero para o casamento deles. Obviamente, deste-lhes o suporte de vida de que precisavam.<\/p>\n<p>But hey, it\u2019s better to realize it in time before you lose any more time with this person.<\/p>\n<h4>Terapeuta familiar<\/h4>\n<p>O maior sinal de alerta de que o seu parceiro est\u00e1 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-salvar-um-casamento\/\">trabalhar no seu casamento<\/a> is that they\u2019re seeing a family therapist. You have to understand that they consider their relationship so important that they want to make it work at all costs.<\/p>\n<p>Both them and their SO are aware that they have problems \u2013 nobody can argue against that. These problems are above their area of expertise.<\/p>\n<p>However, they\u2019re so willing to work on them that they involve a professional to give them a hand.<\/p>\n<h3>8. Arranjar desculpas<\/h3>\n<p>Um dos sinais de que o seu parceiro est\u00e1 a perder o interesse est\u00e1 escondido nas desculpas que ele continua a dar, seja qual for a situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>You ask them about divorce? They will tell you that they can\u2019t leave their spouse because they\u2019re emotionally blackmailing them, because they have a mortgage together, or for the kids\u2019 sake.<\/p>\n<p>You ask them why they spend so little time with you? They keep telling you that they have to work extra hours, that they\u2019re busy at work, that they\u2019re tired, or that they just can\u2019t fit you into their schedule.<\/p>\n<p>Parece-lhe familiar? Bem, a verdade \u00e9 que eu poderia continuar, pois existem in\u00fameros exemplos de comportamentos semelhantes.<\/p>\n<h4>Porque \u00e9 que isto est\u00e1 a acontecer?<\/h4>\n<p>Mas o que \u00e9 que todos estes padr\u00f5es t\u00eam em comum? <b>That\u2019s right \u2013 they\u2019re all excuses.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>E acabamos sempre com um grande e gordo nada. Sabes que <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-por-isso-que-ele-te-mente-com-base-no-seu-signo-do-zodiaco\/\"><b>they\u2019re lying<\/b><\/a><b> to you, but the worst part is that they\u2019re getting away with it.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>This is not something you want to hear, but they\u2019re giving you these excuses just so you leave them alone. It\u2019s easier to deceive you to get back off their back than to tell you that they don\u2019t want to spend time with you.<\/p>\n<h3>9. Promessas vazias<\/h3>\n<h3><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-150781 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-talking-to-a-man.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher a falar com um homem\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-talking-to-a-man.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-talking-to-a-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-talking-to-a-man-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-talking-to-a-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-talking-to-a-man-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-talking-to-a-man-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-talking-to-a-man-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-talking-to-a-man-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-talking-to-a-man-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-talking-to-a-man-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-talking-to-a-man-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-talking-to-a-man-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-talking-to-a-man-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-talking-to-a-man-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/h3>\n<p>Excuses never come alone. They\u2019re always followed by <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-mais-palavras-doces-e-promessas-vazias-quero-honestidade-e-esforco\/\">promessas v\u00e3s<\/a>. And you\u2019ve been getting a bunch of those as well.<\/p>\n<p>Quando \u00e9 que se v\u00e3o divorciar? Em breve. Quando \u00e9 que vais ter o lugar que mereces na vida deles? J\u00e1 o tens.<\/p>\n<p>Amar-te-\u00e3o para sempre? Claro que sim. V\u00eaem-no como a sua alma g\u00e9mea? Quem mais poderia ser?<\/p>\n<p><b>Todos os<\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/as-suas-palavras-nao-significam-nada-se-nao-as-apoiar-com-accoes\/\"><b> estas palavras<\/b><\/a><b> soariam perfeitamente se fossem apoiados por <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-que-ela-precisa-e-de-um-homem-de-acao-e-nao-de-um-homem-de-palavras\/\"><b>ac\u00e7\u00f5es reais<\/b><\/a><b>. But when it comes to your relationship, that\u2019s definitely not the case.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Each one of these lines and promises are empty. Your partner\u2019s words don\u2019t match their deeds. And that\u2019s the whole problem.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, it hasn\u2019t always been like this. On the contrary, it started happening once they started losing feelings for you.<\/p>\n<h3><b>10. You\u2019ve become their last resort<\/b><\/h3>\n<p>Whether you like to admit it or not, the truth is that you\u2019ve become this person\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/cansado-e-sempre-a-ultima-escolha\/\">\u00faltima escolha<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Quando come\u00e7aram a namorar, eles estavam dispostos a largar tudo s\u00f3 para passar tempo consigo. Sa\u00edam de casa \u00e0s escondidas para o ver, cancelavam reuni\u00f5es e compromissos profissionais para estarem ao seu lado.<\/p>\n<p><b>Eras a sua prioridade e ocupavas claramente o primeiro lugar na sua vida. No entanto, tudo isso mudou com o tempo.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Lately, they\u2019ve only been calling you when everyone else stands them up. Everything and everyone has become more important than you.<\/p>\n<p>Their family (including their spouse), work, best friends, hobbies\u2026 you name it.<\/p>\n<p>And you don\u2019t have a problem with them having a place in their life. After all, you know what you signed up for.<\/p>\n<p>Tem um problema com o facto de, obviamente, j\u00e1 n\u00e3o haver lugar para si.<\/p>\n<h3>11. Os teus sentimentos v\u00eam em \u00faltimo lugar<\/h3>\n<p>J\u00e1 tentou falar com o seu parceiro sobre todas estas coisas que o incomodam? Com certeza que sim!<\/p>\n<p>Alguma vez foi uma conversa proveitosa? Claro que n\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Why is that so? Well, isn\u2019t it obvious? At the end of the day, your feelings don\u2019t matter to them.<\/p>\n<p><b>Por muito doloroso que seja compreender esta ideia, <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ele-nao-quer-saber-de-si\/\"><b>they don\u2019t give a damn<\/b><\/a><b> se eles partem o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o ou n\u00e3o.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t care if they leave you hanging, waiting for them to show up as they promised. They don\u2019t care if you cry yourself to sleep.<\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t give a damn about the fact they\u2019re ruining your future. They don\u2019t care how you feel.<\/p>\n<p>Por outro lado, certificam-se de que n\u00e3o magoam o seu par. Certificam-se de que n\u00e3o perturbam a sua vida aparentemente perfeita.<\/p>\n<p>It seems like everyone\u2019s emotions, needs, and well-being are significant. Everyone, except yours, that is.<\/p>\n<h3>12. It\u2019s all about them<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-150782 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-looks-out-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher imagin\u00e1ria olha pela janela\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-looks-out-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-looks-out-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-looks-out-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-looks-out-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-looks-out-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-looks-out-the-window-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-looks-out-the-window-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-looks-out-the-window-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-looks-out-the-window-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-looks-out-the-window-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-looks-out-the-window-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-looks-out-the-window-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-looks-out-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-looks-out-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Isn\u2019t it clear? Your entire relationship revolves around your partner.<b> It\u2019s pretty obvious that you two aren\u2019t equal here.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>It\u2019s not just about the fact that you two are spending less and <\/b><b>menos tempo<\/b><b> together. It\u2019s also about the quality of that time.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Quando foi a \u00faltima vez que falou sobre si? Quando \u00e9 que os seus sonhos, medos e problemas foram o tema principal da conversa?<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s right, you can\u2019t even remember.<\/p>\n<p><b>Mesmo quando os dois se envolvem numa comunica\u00e7\u00e3o significativa, acaba sempre com eles a queixarem-se e voc\u00ea a ser o seu ombro para chorar.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re very understanding of all their troubles. You even listen to them talk about their marital problems.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re there to give them advice, hear them out, or give them a hand even when they don\u2019t ask for one.<\/p>\n<p>Mas ser\u00e1 que eles retribuem o favor? De certeza que n\u00e3o!<\/p>\n<p>Whenever you need them, they\u2019re nowhere to be found. They\u2019re too busy to listen to you, let alone help you out with your issues.<\/p>\n<p><b>It\u2019s time to ask yourself this: Am I this person\u2019s emotional partner or a pro-bono therapist?<\/b><\/p>\n<h3>13. They\u2019re annoyed by everything you do<\/h3>\n<p>What are some of the first signs your affair partner is losing interest? Well, this one doesn\u2019t have a lot to do with affairs in general \u2013 it also answers the question of how to tell if your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/12-sinais-de-que-esta-a-perder-o-interesse-em\/\">o parceiro est\u00e1 a perder sentimentos<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Quando tudo o que faz irrita o seu parceiro, uma coisa \u00e9 certa: a paix\u00e3o j\u00e1 passou h\u00e1 muito tempo!<\/p>\n<p><b>I\u2019m mostly talking about those <\/b><b>pequenas coisas<\/b><b> they used to find interesting and cute. But now, they\u2019re literally bothered by the way you breathe.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s exactly what\u2019s going on in your affair.<\/p>\n<p>Por exemplo, costumava ter ci\u00fames. O seu parceiro via isso como um sinal do seu amor por ele. Sentia-se lisonjeado pela sua natureza possessiva.<\/p>\n<p>Now, all of a sudden, they can\u2019t stand this side of you.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s like that with everything. They\u2019re annoyed by the way you kiss them and make love to them, your text messages, how you look, talk, and behave.<\/p>\n<p>I hate to break it to you, but this person\u2019s disinterest is quite visible \u2013 you\u2019re just refusing to see it.<\/p>\n<h3>14. H\u00e1 mais algu\u00e9m<\/h3>\n<p>Okay, so they\u2019re cheating on their spouse with you \u2013 we\u2019ve got that covered. But once they start cheating with a third (or should I say fourth?) person, it\u2019s time to pick up what\u2019s left of your dignity and walk away.<\/p>\n<p><b>I mean, come on, you won\u2019t allow yourself to be cheated on by a person who\u2019s cheating on someone with you, will you?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>If this is the case, the truth is that you\u2019re dealing with a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-sinais-de-que-ele-e-um-traidor-em-serie-e-nao-se-importa-com-isso\/\">batoteiro em s\u00e9rie<\/a>. These people don\u2019t care who their lover is \u2013 as long as they are in a position to commit adultery.<\/p>\n<p>Detesto ter de te dizer isto, mas nunca foi por tua causa. Eles s\u00f3 queriam fazer batota, e tu eras conveniente.<\/p>\n<p>You obviously no longer give them the thrill they were getting at the beginning of your affair. Of course, this has nothing to do with you \u2013 this person is just moving from one victim to another.<\/p>\n<p>E, infelizmente, o vosso tempo acabou.<\/p>\n<h4><b>Why didn\u2019t they leave you?<\/b><\/h4>\n<p>Well, why would they? If they have a chance to jiggle between the three of you, that\u2019s exactly what they will do.<\/p>\n<h3>15. A tua intui\u00e7\u00e3o diz-te<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-150783 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-on-a-board-and-looks-into-the-distance.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher imagin\u00e1ria senta-se numa t\u00e1bua e olha para a dist\u00e2ncia\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-on-a-board-and-looks-into-the-distance.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-on-a-board-and-looks-into-the-distance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-on-a-board-and-looks-into-the-distance-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-on-a-board-and-looks-into-the-distance-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-on-a-board-and-looks-into-the-distance-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-on-a-board-and-looks-into-the-distance-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-on-a-board-and-looks-into-the-distance-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-on-a-board-and-looks-into-the-distance-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-on-a-board-and-looks-into-the-distance-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-on-a-board-and-looks-into-the-distance-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-on-a-board-and-looks-into-the-distance-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-on-a-board-and-looks-into-the-distance-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-on-a-board-and-looks-into-the-distance-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-on-a-board-and-looks-into-the-distance-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>At the end of the day, there is something even stronger than all of these signs your affair partner is losing interest. That\u2019s right, I\u2019m talking about your gut feeling.<\/p>\n<p>Podem tentar enganar-nos o mais que puderem, mas, no fundo, sabemos que as coisas n\u00e3o s\u00e3o as mesmas.<\/p>\n<p>Nota-se na forma como nos olham, na <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-que-e-que-o-beijo-dele-diz-sobre-os-seus-sentimentos-em-relacao-a-si\/\">a forma como te beijam<\/a>e, de um modo geral, na forma como o tratam.<\/p>\n<p>As much as you\u2019re trying to tell yourself that you\u2019re imagining things, you know the harsh truth. You\u2019re aware that your intuition is showing you signs you can no longer ignore.<\/p>\n<p>A \u00fanica quest\u00e3o \u00e9: o que \u00e9 que vai fazer em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a isso?<\/p>\n<h2>Como \u00e9 que se sabe se um caso acabou?<\/h2>\n<p>If your affair partner has reconnected with their spouse as if nothing happened, your affair is over, even if they didn\u2019t break up with you outright. Don\u2019t expect them to be brave enough to end things with you directly. Instead, they\u2019ll let you make the conclusion yourself.<\/p>\n<h2>Como \u00e9 que os namoros acabam normalmente?<\/h2>\n<p>A maioria dos casos termina com a reconcilia\u00e7\u00e3o do casal, embora estes casamentos acabem normalmente em div\u00f3rcio, seguida de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de compromisso com a terceira pessoa. De acordo com alguns estudos, apenas uma pequena percentagem de parceiros infi\u00e9is deixa efetivamente as suas mulheres ou maridos para construir uma vida com os seus amantes.<\/p>\n<h2>Para terminar:<\/h2>\n<p>I know that it was heartbreaking for you to relate to most of these signs your affair partner is losing interest. But they\u2019re here, and they\u2019re very much real.<\/p>\n<p><b>I don\u2019t mean to judge you, but this affair would\u2019ve ended one way or another. And it\u2019s definitely much better for you to know where you stand.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>To be honest, you have no other option but to leave even before seeing all these signs. However, now after you\u2019ve seen them, you know what your only choice is!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Let\u2019s be honest: being the other woman or the other man is bad enough. But having to doubt your partner\u2019s feelings in the middle of this chaos is a nightmare in itself. However, before you jump to any conclusions, you have to be sure what\u2019s really happening. Are you really seeing signs your affair partner&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":150777,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29626],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-150776","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-affair"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29626,"label":"affair"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/15-Warning-Signs-Your-Affair-Partner-Is-Losing-Interest-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29626,"name":"affair","slug":"affair","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29626,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","parent":29620,"count":132,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29626,"category_count":132,"category_description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","cat_name":"affair","category_nicename":"affair","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/150776","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=150776"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/150776\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/150777"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=150776"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=150776"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=150776"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}