{"id":151195,"date":"2022-05-20T07:31:24","date_gmt":"2022-05-20T07:31:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=151195"},"modified":"2022-11-22T12:15:41","modified_gmt":"2022-11-22T12:15:41","slug":"se-ele-gosta-de-mim-porque-e-que-ainda-namora-online","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-ele-gosta-de-mim-porque-e-que-ainda-namora-online\/","title":{"rendered":"Se ele gosta de mim, porque \u00e9 que ainda namora online? 9 raz\u00f5es comuns"},"content":{"rendered":"

If he likes me, why is he still online dating? I don\u2019t think there is a girl in the world of encontros modernos<\/a> who hasn\u2019t asked herself this question at least once before.<\/p>\n

Eu sei que sim.<\/p>\n

J\u00e1 sabe como \u00e9: h\u00e1 qu\u00edmica forte<\/a>. You like him, and you know he likes you. You\u2019ve been dating for a while, but all of his dating profiles are still active.<\/strong><\/p>\n

De acordo com a minha experi\u00eancia, eis as raz\u00f5es mais comuns para este tipo de comportamento.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Se ele gosta de mim, porque \u00e9 que ainda namora online?<\/h2>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

Veja estas raz\u00f5es e veja se o seu homem preenche algum destes requisitos:<\/p>\n

1. Manter as suas op\u00e7\u00f5es em aberto<\/h3>\n

Detesto ter de rebentar a sua bolha desde o in\u00edcio: este homem est\u00e1 a manter os seus perfis de encontros online abertos porque \u00e9 mantendo as suas op\u00e7\u00f5es em aberto. <\/a><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying he doesn\u2019t like you, but the fact is that he isn\u2019t sure about you.<\/p>\n

Does this mean that he\u2019s seeing other girls? Probably yes. I can\u2019t claim this for sure, but he\u2019s definitely texting them. Otherwise, why would he still have all of these dating websites installed?<\/p>\n

The harsh truth is that he\u2019s checking to see which girl he likes the most. You\u2019re just one of as suas escolhas<\/a> \u2013 not his priority.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re doing the same thing, this shouldn\u2019t bother you too much, especially if you\u2019re in the initial stages of your relationship.<\/p>\n

Tamb\u00e9m precisa de perceber que os encontros online podem ser incrivelmente viciantes. As melhores aplica\u00e7\u00f5es de engate<\/a> s\u00e3o essencialmente concebidos para serem um jogo que te faz voltar para mais.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t check the app for a few days you start getting notifications or emails telling you about all the other women you\u2019re missing out on.<\/p>\n

This can be really tough for anyone to ignore. If you\u2019re trying to diet but are constantly bombarded by your Instagram feed full of delicious-looking food you might be tempted to look at a few posts!<\/p>\n

However, if you\u2019re not keeping your options open, the last thing you need is a guy who can\u2019t make up his mind about you<\/a>. By accepting this kind of treatment, you\u2019re settling for less.<\/p>\n

Afinal, o que \u00e9 que se deve fazer? Ficar pacientemente sentado e esperar que ele escolher-te<\/a>?<\/p>\n

Compete with all these other girls on his dating apps and try to prove to him that you\u2019re the best? No, not if you have any self-respect.<\/p>\n

2. Um impulso para o ego<\/h3>\n

Se ele gosta de mim, porque \u00e9 que ainda namora online<\/a>? Well, have you ever thought that he\u2019s dealing with some major insecurities, and Bumble, Tinder, OkCupid, Match.com, and other online dating apps serve as an ego boost?<\/p>\n

No, this is not me asking you to understand him. You\u2019re a grown woman, and you shouldn\u2019t have to deal with homens inseguros<\/a> que t\u00eam dificuldade em curar a sua autoestima de uma forma saud\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n

Deixem-me explicar o que se passa exatamente aqui. You\u2019re not enough for this guy.<\/strong><\/p>\n

But this doesn\u2019t mean that you, as a person or as a woman, are not enough. Nothing you or anyone else ever does or gives this type of man will ever be enough.<\/strong><\/p>\n

The fact is that he craves attention from a bunch of girls. It doesn\u2019t matter how these women look, behave, or treat him.<\/p>\n

If some of them swipe right on Tinder, he\u2019ll think of himself as man enough. He immediately starts feeling better and considers himself more attractive than he actually is.<\/p>\n

Emocionalmente imaturo<\/h4>\n

Isto faz dele emocionalmente imaturo<\/a>? Sem d\u00favida!<\/p>\n

Tenho de vos avisar que este homem tem s\u00e9rios problemas em manter-se fiel. Sim, isso inclui rela\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e9rias e tamb\u00e9m o casamento.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll always choose a lux\u00faria a curto prazo sobre o amor a longo prazo<\/a>. And at this point, it doesn\u2019t even matter se ele gosta de si<\/a> or not and if you\u2019re in love with him.<\/p>\n

The bottom line is that you don\u2019t need a man like this by your side.<\/p>\n

3. Um h\u00e1bito antigo<\/h3>\n

Let\u2019s not jump to conclusions before checking all options. I\u2019m not here to justify this man, but it\u2019s possible that he isn\u2019t planning to date other women just because he is active on online dating sites.<\/p>\n

Bem, o que se est\u00e1 sempre a esquecer \u00e9 que os velhos h\u00e1bitos custam a morrer. E para ele, isto n\u00e3o passa de um h\u00e1bito.<\/p>\n

Yes, the truth is that it\u2019s a habit that affects you badly. But have you ever considered talking to him about it?<\/p>\n

Maybe deleting his online dating profiles didn\u2019t even cross his mind. That\u2019s exactly why you should remind him to do so.<\/strong><\/p>\n

But there is something you should pay close attention before deciding whether he\u2019s still on dating apps out of habit or if there is another hidden reason behind it.<\/p>\n

Ele est\u00e1 a passar tempo nestas aplica\u00e7\u00f5es de encontros online? Ou s\u00f3 as tem instaladas?<\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t receive notifications when you two are together, if he doesn\u2019t post new pics, and if he\u2019s always offline (even though he\u2019s online on Messenger or WhatsApp), he\u2019s probably forgotten he\u2019s even got them installed.<\/p>\n

4. He\u2019s just bored<\/h3>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s give him the benefit of the doubt and assume that he\u2019s just doing it out of boredom. I know what you must be thinking right now: \u201cHow can he be bored if he has me?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

You know how you pointlessly scroll through Facebook, Instagram, and other social media? Truth be told, most of the time, you have no idea what you\u2019re looking at because your mind is somewhere else.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Well, that\u2019s exactly what he\u2019s doing with all of these dating websites.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He\u2019s checking whether he\u2019ll find some of his friends, coworkers, or acquaintances there. No, he won\u2019t ask them on a first date \u2013 he will maybe tease them a little. In fact, if he runs into his buddies, he\u2019ll probably even make fun of them, and that\u2019s it.<\/p>\n

This is another scenario in which you should be open and tell him that you\u2019re bothered that he is still online dating. If este gajo gosta de ti<\/a>, he\u2019ll delete all of his profiles immediately.<\/p>\n

5. He doesn\u2019t trust you<\/h3>\n

Newsflash: women aren\u2019t the only ones who deal with serious trust issues.<\/p>\n

Have you ever tried looking at things from a different perspective? Has it ever crossed your mind that your man is still on dating apps because he\u2019s afraid you\u2019ll hurt him?<\/p>\n

LOL, that sounds insane, doesn\u2019t it? Well, the truth is that it makes a lot of sense to him.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s actually a great guy, and he\u2019s crazy about you. In fact, he\u2019s so in love with you that isso assusta-o.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, em vez de se abrirem e levarem a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o para o pr\u00f3ximo n\u00edvel, o seu quest\u00f5es de confian\u00e7a<\/a> est\u00e3o a ret\u00ea-lo. O resultado final \u00e9 que ele espera o pior de si.<\/p>\n

He is almost sure that you\u2019re going around behind his back, and he is basically trying to beat you to it.<\/p>\n

In this case, dating apps serve as a defense mechanism for him. The only way for you to make him delete them is to show him that you\u2019re trustworthy.<\/p>\n

6. Interpretou mal os seus sinais<\/h3>\n

Okay, this one is a tough one, but I\u2019m sorry, it simply has to be said. You\u2019re asking yourself, \u201cIf he likes me, why is he still online dating?\u201d But how are you even so sure that he likes you in the first place?<\/p>\n

Is it possible that you misinterpreted his signs? You\u2019re into this man \u2013 that\u2019s clear. But does he really feel the same way about you?<\/p>\n

Alguma vez te convidou para sair? Se a resposta for sim, chegaram ao segundo encontro?<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re not sure whether he\u2019s into you<\/a> or not, there is no shame in asking him directly. Tell him that he\u2019s been sending you mixed signals and that you have no clue if he\u2019s just being nice<\/a> ou se ele gosta de ti a s\u00e9rio.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Even if he gives you an answer you don\u2019t want to hear, at least you\u2019ll know where you stand. It\u2019s much better than leading yourself on.<\/p>\n

7. Ele tem uma perce\u00e7\u00e3o diferente da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h3>\n

You\u2019re craving a committed relationship. But does the guy you like feel the same way?<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 there is definitely algum tipo de atra\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> entre voc\u00eas os dois. Mas talvez ele esteja a enviar-lhe sinais de que s\u00f3 est\u00e1 interessado em encontros casuais<\/a>?<\/p>\n

You enrich his sex life, but he\u2019s not ready to take your relationship to the next level. Yes, he should have been clearer about it, but if you look at his signals close enough, you\u2019ll see that his actions speak louder than words.<\/p>\n

Este homem isn\u2019t interested in an exclusive relationship<\/a>. When you come to think about it, he never promised you anything \u2013 you jumped to conclusions by yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ele nunca falou sobre rotular a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o,<\/a> e mesmo quando se tenta abordar esse tema, ele evita-o a todo o custo.<\/p>\n

Whenever you two meet up, he only cares about one thing: physical pleasure. I hate to break it to you, but you\u2019re probably nada mais do que um engate<\/a>.<\/p>\n

And there would be nothing wrong with that \u2013 if you wanted the same. But the problem is that you two clearly have different aspirations.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s obviously a player and not the type of man you\u2019re looking for.<\/p>\n

8. He\u2019s emotionally unavailable<\/h3>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

If he likes me, why is he still online dating? Another possibility is that, sadly, you\u2019re lidar com uma pessoa que tem medo de compromissos.<\/a><\/p>\n

This man is quite different from a player. He doesn\u2019t have any intention of jumping from one hook-up to another. Keeping his sex life spicy is not his number one priority.<\/p>\n

No entanto, ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 material de namorado<\/a> ou. Este gajo tem medo de rela\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e9rias.<\/p>\n

He was probably hurt in the past, or he just values his independence. He\u2019s emotionally unavailable.<\/p>\n

No momento em que come\u00e7a a apaixonar-se, tenta fugir.<\/p>\n

And that\u2019s exactly what happened with you. He\u2019s fallen head over heels for you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mas ainda n\u00e3o est\u00e1 preparado para o admitir a si pr\u00f3prio.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So, he is still active on dating apps just to prove a point to himself. He won\u2019t ask any of these girls on a first date, let alone initiate something more with them.<\/p>\n

Online dating sites keep him convinced that he is a single man and that you haven\u2019t succeeded in caging him!<\/p>\n

9. Prefere a vida em linha \u00e0 vida real<\/h3>\n

Modern dating wouldn\u2019t exist without social media, dating sites, and platforms. And yes, looking from one point of view, they really do make dating a lot easier.<\/p>\n

No entanto, algumas pessoas ficam t\u00e3o envolvidas num mundo online que perdem a capacidade de funcionar na vida real. Se o seu homem \u00e9 um desses homens, detesto dizer-lhe isto, mas ele nunca vai apagar as suas aplica\u00e7\u00f5es de encontros.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He\u2019s addicted to online dating, and he won\u2019t heal from it overnight. He\u2019s not interested in going out or hanging out with his friends to meet new people.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s replaced clubs, restaurants, hobbies, and his entire social life with the online world. You don\u2019t have to worry about him cheating when he goes out, but you definitely should be worried about the girls on his phone!<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 21 tipos de namorados online que devem ser evitados e com os quais se deve ter cuidado<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

O que fazer?<\/h2>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

Now that you got the answer to the question, \u201cIf he likes me, why is he still online dating?\u201d it\u2019s time to do something about your problem!<\/p>\n

1. Descobrir o que se pretende<\/h3>\n

Before you act on this issue, you have to know what it is that you want. Why are you actually bothered by your man\u2019s online activities?<\/p>\n

Are you scared that he\u2019ll date other women? Are you jealous because you care about him or because his behavior hurts your ego?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Queres uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de compromisso ou n\u00e3o te importas com engates?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Maybe you want to keep your options open as well. Maybe you\u2019re not sure whether he\u2019s the one<\/a> you should settle with. In that case, you\u2019re both on the same page, and there is absolutely no problem.<\/p>\n

No entanto, se pretender algo mais, deve seguir os passos seguintes.<\/p>\n

2. Tem o direito de se queixar?<\/h3>\n

You won\u2019t like this, but you have to ask yourself if you have the right to complain before actually complaining. Mas, por favor, esque\u00e7am os vossos desejos e analisem a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o da forma mais realista poss\u00edvel.<\/strong><\/p>\n

As much as you’d like to, you can\u2019t sleep with a guy once and call him the next day demanding exclusivity and asking him to delete Tinder or any other dating website he is on.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying that you should wait ages before you do so, but you have to ask yourself if he\u2019s given you any reason to think that he likes you for real.<\/p>\n

3. Falar diretamente com ele<\/h3>\n

Once you\u2019ve established this, it\u2019s time to talk to him straightforwardly. Look, your man is not a mind reader.<\/p>\n

I know you\u2019d want him to delete these apps by himself, but honey, most men don\u2019t work like that. Sometimes, they need to be explicitly told what is expected of them.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00c9 por isso que \u00e9 preciso diz-lhe como te sentes.<\/a> Tell him that his apps make you feel insecure and that you feel like he doesn\u2019t respect you enough.<\/p>\n

Be honest and don\u2019t play any mind games because that approach might backfire on you.<\/p>\n

The \u201cwhat are we?\u201d talk<\/h4>\n

Nevertheless, you have to be ready for this conversation to be followed by the infamous \u201cwhat are we?\u201d talk. It\u2019s natural that you\u2019ll tackle the issue of your relationship and finally decide where you stand.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t avoid this talk, and don\u2019t be afraid that it will make you look desperate. You\u2019re a woman who knows what she wants, and it\u2019s finally time he realizes this as well.<\/p>\n

4. Peixe-gato<\/h3>\n

E se concordar em iniciar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de compromisso<\/a>, mas continua ativo em sites de encontros online?<\/p>\n

Ok, ent\u00e3o este n\u00e3o \u00e9 o conselho mais saud\u00e1vel poss\u00edvel. E eu sei que te disse para n\u00e3o fazeres jogos, mas \u00e0s vezes, tempos desesperados exigem medidas desesperadas.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t know what your guy is doing on all those dating sites, make a fake profile. Or just ask a close friend to get in touch with your guy.<\/p>\n

I bet he\u2019ll act as if he were single. This way, you\u2019ll have proof that he\u2019s lying to you.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Just a heads up: this is only a good idea if you are really leaving him! You can\u2019t show up with a bunch of screenshots just to end up forgiving him.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Porque \u00e9 que os homens s\u00e3o rudes quando gostam de ti? (11 Raz\u00f5es +Dicas)<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que sabes se um rapaz online gosta mesmo de ti?<\/h2>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

Aqui est\u00e3o alguns dos sinais mais comuns de que um rapaz online est\u00e1 realmente interessado em si:<\/strong><\/p>\n

1. Est\u00e1 sempre a mandar-lhe mensagens.<\/p>\n

2. Ele inicia a conversa.<\/p>\n

3. You don\u2019t have to wait for his reply.<\/p>\n

4. Ele convida-a para um primeiro encontro.<\/p>\n

Quando \u00e9 que ele deve apagar o seu perfil de encontros?<\/h2>\n

Um homem deve apagar os seus perfis de encontros no momento em que inicia uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria<\/a>. Ideally, he shouldn\u2019t wait for his girlfriend to nag about it, but he should do it himself.<\/p>\n

Para terminar:<\/h2>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

Instead of asking yourself, \u201cIf he likes me, why is he still online dating?\u201d why don\u2019t you ask yourself, O que \u00e9 que ainda estou a fazer com este homem?<\/em><\/strong> Don\u2019t ever give more than you receive, and don\u2019t settle for less<\/a> do que merece!<\/p>\n

I know you\u2019re tired of looking for the one, but trust me, it\u2019s way better to ser solteiro<\/a> do que estar com algu\u00e9m que s\u00f3 a trata como uma das suas op\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not telling you to leave right away. But if he continues spending time on online dating sites even though you specifically ask him not to, it\u2019s more than clear that he doesn\u2019t care about you enough!<\/p>\n

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If he likes me, why is he still online dating? I don\u2019t think there is a girl in the world of modern dating who hasn\u2019t asked herself this question at least once before. I know I have. You know the drill: there is strong chemistry. You like him, and you know he likes you. You\u2019ve…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":151197,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-151195","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/If-He-Likes-Me-Why-Is-He-Still-Online-Dating-9-Common-Reasons-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/151195","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=151195"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/151195\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/151197"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=151195"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=151195"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=151195"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}