{"id":151229,"date":"2024-11-04T22:00:00","date_gmt":"2024-11-04T21:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=151229"},"modified":"2024-11-04T10:01:39","modified_gmt":"2024-11-04T09:01:39","slug":"o-que-leva-um-narcisista-a-loucura","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-que-leva-um-narcisista-a-loucura\/","title":{"rendered":"15 maneiras de enlouquecer os narcisistas e de os enganar"},"content":{"rendered":"

When you\u2019re dealing with someone que tem NPD<\/a>Quando a pessoa se sente mal, assume que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada que possa fazer para a magoar emocionalmente. Mesmo quando tenta, eles encontram sempre uma forma de fazer com que o tiro saia pela culatra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But I\u2019m here to end your misery. Once you learn what drives a narcissist insane, you can give them a taste of their own medicine and reverse the roles once and for all!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Estas 15 t\u00e1cticas v\u00e3o ajud\u00e1-lo a enlouquecer o seu narcisista!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. O tratamento silencioso<\/h2>\n\n\n
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If you\u2019re looking for formas de magoar algu\u00e9m com um comportamento narcisista<\/a>, the best way to do so is by ignoring them. Yes, that\u2019s right, I\u2019m telling you to give them the tratamento silencioso<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Desde que te lembras, deste o teu m\u00e3e narcisista<\/a>O pai, a m\u00e3e ou o parceiro queriam exatamente o que queriam de si. Chorou, implorou-lhes que mudassem ou discutiu com eles at\u00e9 perder todas as suas for\u00e7as.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And what did you accomplish with this? That\u2019s right, one big, fat nothing. So, why wouldn’t you change tactics? Why wouldn\u2019t you try ignoring them and behaving like they don\u2019t exist?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trust me, this is what will trigger their narcissistic rage in the blink of an eye. And that\u2019s when you\u2019ll have them right where you want them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Perder o controlo<\/h2>\n\n\n
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O que \u00e9 comum a todas as pessoas com NPD? Entre outras coisas, um dos seus objectivos finais \u00e9 ter controlo<\/a> sobre as suas v\u00edtimas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Narcisistas, sociopatas e psicopatas emocionais<\/a> will get possessive because they\u2019re scared of losing control over you.<\/strong> You have to be aware that you\u2019re dealing with man\u00edacos do controlo<\/a>. Tudo tem de ser \u00e0 maneira deles ou n\u00e3o tem de ser de maneira nenhuma.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s why you must show them that they can\u2019t rule over you. You\u2019re the only one in charge of your own life. How do you do that? Well, you can start by disobeying them about some seemingly little things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No entanto, o mais importante \u00e9 mostrar-lhes que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o t\u00eam qualquer influ\u00eancia sobre si. Pelo menos, n\u00e3o tanto como costumavam ter.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Aceitar cr\u00edticas<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Here\u2019s every narcissist\u2019s biggest secret: they have incredibly baixa autoestima<\/a>. Quem diria, n\u00e3o \u00e9?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bem, na verdade, eles escondem o seu verdadeiro eu porque odeiam a pessoa que s\u00e3o. As pessoas com perturba\u00e7\u00e3o da personalidade narc\u00edsica t\u00eam uma perce\u00e7\u00e3o muito fr\u00e1gil do seu valor pr\u00f3prio.<\/strong> That\u2019s why being criticized is one of their biggest fears. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eles investem muito tempo e energia na constru\u00e7\u00e3o de um rosto aparentemente perfeito que mostram ao mundo. Assim, no momento em que as criticamos sobre a mais pequena coisa, causamos uma les\u00e3o narc\u00edsica.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You don\u2019t even have to do it on purpose. You can jokingly say you don\u2019t like their new shirt or that they could have cleaned the house a bit better. On a conscious level, they know that you’re joking or that you mean well. However, their fragile ego can\u2019t stand admitting and accepting something like this.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. N\u00e3o ser o centro das aten\u00e7\u00f5es<\/h2>\n\n\n
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O que \u00e9 que um narcisista precisa? Valida\u00e7\u00e3o e admira\u00e7\u00e3o. O que leva um narcisista \u00e0 loucura? N\u00e3o ter nada disso!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if we\u2019re talking about your pais narcisistas<\/a>, romantic partner, or friend \u2013 they\u2019re all the same when it comes to this. Estas pessoas gostam de estar na ribalta. De facto, precisam de aten\u00e7\u00e3o como uma pessoa normal precisa de ar para respirar.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, what happens when someone else becomes your center of attention? A narcissist goes completely crazy. But you know what the funniest thing about this is? They can\u2019t take that you\u2019re your own center of attention either.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The moment that happens, a narcissist feels like they\u2019re losing the ground they walk on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Ser chamado \u00e0 aten\u00e7\u00e3o pelas suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es<\/h2>\n\n\n
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How great would it be if we could all do whatever the hell we wanted without anyone pointing out our mistakes? Well, that’s exactly what every narc expects of their victim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00e1 que ter em conta uma coisa: estas pessoas debatem-se com uma falta de empatia.<\/strong> Se, por exemplo, acabar com uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o narcisista<\/a>, your ex will never feel guilty for breaking your heart. Not only that \u2013 they\u2019ll also be surprised if you gather the courage to call them out on their actions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And if you really refuse to give them a second chance and explain that your behavior is just a reaction to their actions, they\u2019ll be stunned.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We\u2019re talking about someone who thinks they\u2019re smarter than the rest of the world. So, they\u2019ll go crazy once you tell them straight that you know exactly what they\u2019re doing and that you don\u2019t plan on putting up with it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Other people\u2019s happiness<\/h2>\n\n\n
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We\u2019ve already established that a lack of empathy is one of the most common tra\u00e7os narc\u00edsicos<\/a>. This doesn\u2019t only mean that they can\u2019t sympathize with someone else\u2019s pain.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This lack of empathy also means that they don\u2019t have the ability to be happy for other people. They just can\u2019t stand someone else\u2019s happiness and will do everything in their power to destroy it.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

No fim de contas, todos os narcisistas s\u00e3o apenas invejosos. No fundo, sabem que n\u00e3o podem sentir a verdadeira e pura felicidade e odeiam todos os que s\u00e3o capazes de a sentir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Basically, if you want to drive a narcissist crazy, it\u2019s enough to show them that you\u2019re genuinely happy. Once they realize that all of the jogos mentais<\/a>, gaslighting, e abuso emocional<\/a> they put you through didn\u2019t kill your spirit, they will be devastated.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Espelhar-se num narcisista<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Como fazer acabar com um narcisista<\/a>? It\u2019s enough to treat them the same way they treat everyone else. Just give them a taste of their own medicine. Inverta a mesa e fa\u00e7a-os andar um quil\u00f3metro no seu lugar.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This kind of behavior is called mirroring a narcissist. Don\u2019t worry, you won\u2019t become just like them for real. You\u2019re a normal person, and you\u2019re only pretending to be like this to play with a narc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But I\u2019m warning you: narcissistic mirroring is anything but easy. It includes numerous manipulation tactics, such as bombardeamento de amor<\/a> (seguido de fantasma<\/a>), gaslighting, tratamento silencioso, etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Let\u2019s get one thing straight: I would never advise doing any of these things to some other random person. However, sometimes, this is the only way to ferir emocionalmente um narcisista<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Quebrar o seu feiti\u00e7o<\/h2>\n\n\n
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What drives a narcissist insane? Well, the fact that their victim managed to break their spell. It\u2019s the realization that you got to the bottom of their intentions. It\u2019s that you got them all figured out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Basically, they get upset the moment you realize that you\u2019re a victim of abuso narc\u00edsico<\/a>. Compreender isso \u00e9 o primeiro passo para escapando-lhes,<\/a> e eles sabem-no muito bem.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

They don\u2019t want you to take off your rose-tinted glasses. They\u2019ll do everything in their power to prevent you from seeing properly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But when you finally get rid of their magic, they don\u2019t know what to do. You\u2019re no longer enchanted, and they don\u2019t have as much influence over you as they used to have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. The victim\u2019s independence<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Lembra-se de termos falado de um narcisista que perde o controlo? \u00c9 preciso saber que estas pessoas esperam que os seus parceiros, amigos e familiares sejam emocionalmente dependentes delas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No entanto, o que acontece quando a sua v\u00edtima deixa de ser emocionalmente dependente<\/a> on them? Well, that\u2019s another thing a narc can\u2019t stand. O seu mundo deixou de girar \u00e0 volta deles, o que destr\u00f3i imediatamente o seu sentido de autoestima.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, I\u2019m not only talking about emotional independence. I\u2019m talking about any kind of independence, including financial, social, and so on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They will go insane if they see that you\u2019re capable of making your own decisions without their involvement. It looks like you don\u2019t need them anymore, which means practically nothing is holding you back from leaving.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Qualquer pessoa ser melhor do que eles<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Todas as pessoas que sofrem de perturba\u00e7\u00e3o da personalidade narc\u00edsica t\u00eam s\u00e9rios problemas de autoestima. Tentam escond\u00ea-lo, mas comparam-se constantemente com toda a gente \u00e0 sua volta, incluindo amigos, familiares, parceiros rom\u00e2nticos, colegas de trabalho e at\u00e9 pessoas que passam por elas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In their twisted sense of reality, they have to be better than everyone else. On the contrary, they\u2019re completely worthless.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

To them, people\u2019s entire existence on this planet is nothing but a big competition. <\/strong>Ent\u00e3o, o que leva um narcisista \u00e0 loucura? A terr\u00edvel perce\u00e7\u00e3o de que algu\u00e9m \u00e9 melhor do que ele. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s enough for you to praise their coworker and tell them that they have a good sense of humor or to tell them that you like their best friend\u2019s new car. Normal people wouldn\u2019t even notice these remarks. But a narc will think about them for days!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Tratamento ordin\u00e1rio<\/h2>\n\n\n
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One of the first red flags to pay attention to when figuring out if someone is a narcissist is this person\u2019s sense of self-importance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s the irony of their personalities: they actually lutar com grandes inseguran\u00e7as<\/a>, but at the same time, they think that they\u2019re more important than the rest of the world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Estas pessoas esperam um tratamento VIP onde quer que v\u00e3o. Querem sentir-se como a realeza, sempre sob as luzes da ribalta. <\/strong>But what if that doesn\u2019t happen? What if you invite them to a party? You don\u2019t ignore them, nor do you welcome them as a special guest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trust me, that would crush them more than anything! It means that they\u2019ve lost the ability to get any reaction from you. And that was the only superpower they had. If that doesn\u2019t destroy them, nothing will!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

12. Embara\u00e7o p\u00fablico<\/h2>\n\n\n
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If you know a thing or two about narcissism, you know that people with NPD are usually the most prominent members of society. It doesn\u2019t matter what kind of abuso narc\u00edsico<\/a> you\u2019re going through \u2013 your abuser will always do their best to hide it from the world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

After all, why do you think gaslighting is so important to them? They\u2019re terrified that you\u2019ll speak out about their actions. They want to prevent it so badly that they\u2019re ready to persuade you that you\u2019re imagining things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, what drives a narcissist insane? Destroying their public image! They can\u2019t stand being embarrassed in front of other people.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Criticizing and humiliating them when you\u2019re with company will do the trick. But you know what will destroy them completely? Showing the world their true colors! Lifting the mask they show everyone and revealing who they really are will crush them more than anything!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

13. N\u00e3o conseguir o que quer<\/h2>\n\n\n
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It doesn\u2019t matter if we\u2019re talking about little things or huge decisions. A narcissist has to have everything go their way. Have you forgotten? After all, we\u2019re talking about the most intelligent and capable people in the whole wide world!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Todos, especialmente as suas v\u00edtimas, t\u00eam de os ouvir e seguir as suas indica\u00e7\u00f5es. \u00c9 mais uma coisa que os faz sentir superiores e que os ajuda a manter a sua auto-confian\u00e7a. Por isso, o que os enlouquece \u00e9 o facto de as coisas n\u00e3o correrem como eles querem.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

For example, you\u2019re in a rela\u00e7\u00e3o narc\u00edsica<\/a>. O seu parceiro rom\u00e2ntico planeou insult\u00e1-lo, mas depois come\u00e7ou a enganar-vos<\/a>. They were sure that things would go smoothly, as always. They would manage to convince you that you\u2019re overreacting and imagining things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But this time, you reacted differently. You stick to your story, and you don\u2019t allow them to brainwash you with their manipulation tactics. Not getting the outcome they were expecting leaves them confused. However, you have to be careful about this one because it also triggers narcissistic rage!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

14. Ser chamado \u00e0 aten\u00e7\u00e3o para as suas inseguran\u00e7as<\/h2>\n\n\n
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A diferen\u00e7a entre uma pessoa normal e uma pessoa com narcisismo \u00e9 a forma como percepcionam estas inseguran\u00e7as. As pessoas normais sabem que ningu\u00e9m \u00e9 perfeito. Sabem que as inseguran\u00e7as s\u00e3o perfeitamente normais; fazem o seu melhor para as ultrapassar e, por vezes, at\u00e9 brincam com elas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

On the other hand, every narc pretends to be flawless. They deceive the world into thinking that they love their true selves even though that couldn\u2019t be further from the truth.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you look closely, you\u2019ll get to the bottom of as suas inseguran\u00e7as<\/a>. You\u2019ll find out what they hate about themselves the most. And once you find that out, it\u2019s time to tackle these insecurities. But make sure to pretend that you\u2019re doing it by accident.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019ll get an even better effect if you do it in public.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

15. N\u00e3o estabelecer contacto<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Finally, if you\u2019re wondering what drives a narcissist insane, the answer is: n\u00e3o estabelecer contacto<\/a>! Isto inclui n\u00e3o falar com eles, bloquear o seu n\u00famero<\/a>, ignoring their text messages, not visiting places you know you might run into them, not mentioning their name to your mutual friends…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Significa cort\u00e1-los completamente e viver a sua vida como se eles nunca tivessem feito parte dela. <\/strong>Mas h\u00e1 algo que \u00e9 preciso ter em conta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quando normalmente n\u00e3o entrar em contacto<\/a> with someone, you\u2019re doing it to get them back. You want them to feel your absence so they can appreciate your presence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, this shouldn\u2019t be your primary goal when dealing with a narc. Trust me \u2013 you don\u2019t want this person back, and you don\u2019t want them obcecado por ti<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019re going no contact for two reasons. First of all, you\u2019re doing it to drive your narc crazy. But at the same time, you should be doing it to help yourself heal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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When you\u2019re dealing with someone who has NPD, you assume that there is nothing you can do to hurt them emotionally. Even when you try, they always find a way to make it backfire on you. But I\u2019m here to end your misery. Once you learn what drives a narcissist insane, you can give them…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":176217,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-151229","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/15-Ways-To-Drive-Narcissists-Insane-And-Play-Them.jpg",960,540,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":233,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":233,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/151229","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=151229"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/151229\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":176284,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/151229\/revisions\/176284"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/176217"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=151229"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=151229"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=151229"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}