{"id":151532,"date":"2022-05-25T08:09:32","date_gmt":"2022-05-25T08:09:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=151532"},"modified":"2022-09-14T08:22:43","modified_gmt":"2022-09-14T08:22:43","slug":"problemas-mamais-nas-mulheres","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/problemas-mamais-nas-mulheres\/","title":{"rendered":"Sintomas, causas e tratamento dos problemas da m\u00e3e nas mulheres"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>We\u2019ve all dealt with at least one guy with an Oedipus complex. That\u2019s right, I\u2019m talking about men who remain little <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-sinais-de-que-ele-e-emocionalmente-imaturo\/\">mama\u2019s boys<\/a> apesar da sua idade e que esperam que a sua companheira continue a ser a sua m\u00e3e.<\/p>\n<p><strong>But what about mommy issues in women? Is that even a thing? Why isn\u2019t this topic addressed as much as the Oedipus complex?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Quais s\u00e3o as causas? Quais s\u00e3o os sinais de problemas mam\u00e1rios? Mais importante ainda, pode ser curado, e como?<\/p>\n<p>If you read on, you\u2019ll get all the answers you need and more!<\/p>\n<h2>O que s\u00e3o problemas com a mam\u00e3?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-151539\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-and-daughter-avoid-talking-after-a-fight.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-and-daughter-avoid-talking-after-a-fight.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-and-daughter-avoid-talking-after-a-fight-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-and-daughter-avoid-talking-after-a-fight-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-and-daughter-avoid-talking-after-a-fight-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-and-daughter-avoid-talking-after-a-fight-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-and-daughter-avoid-talking-after-a-fight-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-and-daughter-avoid-talking-after-a-fight-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-and-daughter-avoid-talking-after-a-fight-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-and-daughter-avoid-talking-after-a-fight-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-and-daughter-avoid-talking-after-a-fight-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-and-daughter-avoid-talking-after-a-fight-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-and-daughter-avoid-talking-after-a-fight-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-and-daughter-avoid-talking-after-a-fight-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-and-daughter-avoid-talking-after-a-fight-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Os problemas da mam\u00e3 s\u00e3o <strong>como uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o pouco saud\u00e1vel que teve com a sua m\u00e3e em crian\u00e7a influenciou negativamente a sua vida adulta.<\/strong> Se tem problemas com a m\u00e3e, isso significa que a rela\u00e7\u00e3o que tinha com a sua m\u00e3e teve um impacto negativo nas suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es rom\u00e2nticas e na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o com os seus filhos.<\/p>\n<h2>Uma mulher pode ter problemas com a m\u00e3e?<\/h2>\n<p><strong>Yes, women can have mommy issues. Mommy and daddy issues are in no way connected to the child\u2019s sex.<\/strong> Actually, it\u2019s a common misconception that females struggle more with daddy issues due to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relacoes-pai-filha-pouco-saudaveis\/\">rela\u00e7\u00f5es pai-filha pouco saud\u00e1veis<\/a> enquanto as feridas da m\u00e3e s\u00e3o reservadas apenas aos machos.<\/p>\n<h2>O que causa os problemas da m\u00e3e nas mulheres?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-151537\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-yelling-at-daugther.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-yelling-at-daugther.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-yelling-at-daugther-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-yelling-at-daugther-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-yelling-at-daugther-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-yelling-at-daugther-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-yelling-at-daugther-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-yelling-at-daugther-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-yelling-at-daugther-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-yelling-at-daugther-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-yelling-at-daugther-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-yelling-at-daugther-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-yelling-at-daugther-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-yelling-at-daugther-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-yelling-at-daugther-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Eis as causas mais comuns de uma mulher desenvolver uma ferida materna:<\/p>\n<h3>1. Maus tratos na inf\u00e2ncia<\/h3>\n<p>O primeiro fator que desencadeia o desenvolvimento de problemas com a m\u00e3e e com o pai \u00e9, sem d\u00favida, a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/impact-of-childhood-abuse-on-womens-adult-relationships-0925122\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">maus tratos sofridos em crian\u00e7a<\/a>. But let\u2019s be clear about something here: I\u2019m not only talking about physical or sexual abuse here.<\/p>\n<p><strong>There are other types of abuse, such as emotional abuse as well. The worst thing about emotional abuse is that it\u2019s incredibly hard to identify, and victims don\u2019t even recognize it as abuse.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Whatever abuse you\u2019ve been through, it has left consequences on your mental health \u2013 one way or another. And if your mother was the primary abuser or the enabler of the abuse (in the way that she didn\u2019t do anything to prevent it), you\u2019ll likely develop mommy issues later in life.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Mother\u2019s neglect<\/h3>\n<p>Mother\u2019s neglect is another cause of mommy issues. The problem with neglect is that people assume a neglecting parent is just one who doesn\u2019t provide food, shelter, and schooling for their children.<\/p>\n<p>Embora este seja um tratamento horr\u00edvel, existem outros padr\u00f5es de comportamento que podem ser classificados como neglig\u00eancia. Por exemplo,<strong> se ela <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/uma-carta-aberta-a-minha-mae-que-nunca-me-protegeu\/\">didn\u2019t provide protection<\/a> ou apoio emocional na sua primeira inf\u00e2ncia, ela negligenciou-o definitivamente.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>We\u2019re talking about the most important figure in an innocent person\u2019s life.<\/p>\n<p>If you didn\u2019t feel like your mother loved you enough, who will? If you didn\u2019t feel like you could go to her if you needed advice or just a hug, don\u2019t you think an experience like that would shape you into the person you are today?<\/p>\n<h3>3. Uma m\u00e3e pegajosa<\/h3>\n<p>However, being completely the opposite isn\u2019t right either. Your child should be the center of your world, right? Well, the thing is that your mom took this concept too literally.<\/p>\n<p>Moms who are overly clingy to their own children aren\u2019t doing them a favor either. We\u2019re talking about a woman who didn\u2019t have a life outside of yours.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Your birth gave her meaning, and all of her love and attention was directed towards you. This might sound amazing at first, but trust, it\u2019s not a healthy relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>This woman\u2019s only role was that of your mother. You replaced her partner, her female friends, and her entire family.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And whether you like to admit it or not, this kind of behavior suffocated you, especially in your teen years. She didn\u2019t allow you to be independent and never taught you the importance of setting boundaries.<\/p>\n<h3>4. M\u00e3e demasiado permissiva<\/h3>\n<p>How about a doting mother? Well, that\u2019s not good either.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, your mom should love you, no matter what you do. But that doesn\u2019t mean that she must love everything you do. Do you see the difference?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Uma m\u00e3e demasiado permissiva faz-nos pensar que somos donos do mundo. Tens o direito de tratar as pessoas como te apetece e podes fazer o que quiseres sem quaisquer consequ\u00eancias.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Quando eras crian\u00e7a, nunca foste disciplinado. Nunca foi posto de castigo e nunca sofreu as consequ\u00eancias do seu comportamento.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>On the contrary, you were permitted anything. You had unlimited finances, and your mother never told you \u201cno.\u201d And look how that turned out!<\/p>\n<p>Yes, she did this out of love. But at the same time, her behavior enabled bad actions, and that\u2019s never okay.<\/p>\n<p>And what happens when the real world hits you? That\u2019s right, you finally understand that it\u2019s not how things work.<\/p>\n<h3>5. M\u00e3e demasiado protetora<\/h3>\n<p>Finally, we arrived at overly protective moms. I\u2019m sure you know the type.<\/p>\n<p>Todos os pais do mundo morrem de medo que algo de mau possa acontecer aos seus filhos. Ningu\u00e9m gosta de ver os seus filhos cair e bater-se, quanto mais algo mais.<\/p>\n<p><strong>But healthy parents know that they can\u2019t protect their children from every bad thing in this world. So they let them learn by letting them go.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>However, your mother was different. She kept you in her arms for as long as she could \u2013 literally and figuratively.<\/p>\n<p>Esta mulher tinha medo de viver e transferiu os seus medos irracionais para si.<\/p>\n<p>Unlike the child from the previous passage, you were never allowed to do anything. You couldn\u2019t have a boyfriend, weren\u2019t allowed to travel with your friends, she didn\u2019t let you go out&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>A lista \u00e9 intermin\u00e1vel, mas o que interessa \u00e9 que este tipo de comportamento tamb\u00e9m deixou cicatrizes em si. E, claro, desenvolveu uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o pouco saud\u00e1vel com a sua m\u00e3e.<\/p>\n<h3>6. Pap\u00e9is errados<\/h3>\n<p>Your mom shouldn\u2019t be your best friend. And you shouldn\u2019t play the role of her mother either.<\/p>\n<p>Porque \u00e9 que vos estou a dizer isto? Bem, muitas m\u00e3es t\u00f3xicas invertem os pap\u00e9is com os seus filhos, pelo que os filhos acabam por tomar conta delas.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ou talvez a tua m\u00e3e quisesse ser fixe, por isso agiu sempre como tua melhor amiga em vez de ser rigorosa quando era apropriado. \u00c9 \u00f3bvio que esta mulher n\u00e3o tinha amigas, por isso planeou transformar-te numa.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Embora estas rela\u00e7\u00f5es entre m\u00e3e e filha possam ser divertidas, no fim de contas, isso significa que nunca teve a sua m\u00e3e a desempenhar o papel dela enquanto crescia (apesar de a sua m\u00e3e estar fisicamente presente na sua vida).<\/p>\n<p>Eu sei o que devem estar a pensar neste momento: todos os tipos de m\u00e3es e todos os estilos de educa\u00e7\u00e3o podem causar problemas de maternidade. Parece que nada \u00e9 suficientemente bom. Ent\u00e3o, como \u00e9 que uma m\u00e3e se deve comportar para evitar causar uma ferida materna nos seus pr\u00f3prios filhos?<\/p>\n<p>Well, the emphasis here is on the word \u201coverly.\u201d There is no balance in being overprotective, overpermissive, or overclingy.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/homens-com-problemas-com-a-mama\/\">11 sinais de homens com problemas com a m\u00e3e (+ 7 maneiras de lidar com eles)<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>Quais s\u00e3o os sinais de problemas mam\u00e1rios nas mulheres?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-151535\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-and-daughter-in-conflict.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-and-daughter-in-conflict.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-and-daughter-in-conflict-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-and-daughter-in-conflict-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-and-daughter-in-conflict-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-and-daughter-in-conflict-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-and-daughter-in-conflict-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-and-daughter-in-conflict-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-and-daughter-in-conflict-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-and-daughter-in-conflict-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-and-daughter-in-conflict-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-and-daughter-in-conflict-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-and-daughter-in-conflict-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-and-daughter-in-conflict-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/mother-and-daughter-in-conflict-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o complicada com a sua m\u00e3e resulta em outras rela\u00e7\u00f5es complicadas na sua vida adulta, e \u00e9 exatamente assim:<\/p>\n<h3>1. Comportamento pegajoso<\/h3>\n<p>You tend to be overly needy in all of your personal relationships, especially romantic relationships. It\u2019s more than clear that you crave the attention, love, and validation you didn\u2019t get from your mother when it should have been given to you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You live in constant fear that your partner will leave you when you least expect it. You\u2019re unaware of it, but you have some serious <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/para-todas-as-raparigas-com-problemas-de-abandono\/\">quest\u00f5es de abandono<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ou talvez penses que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/15-caracteristicas-que-definem-uma-namorada-pegajosa\/\">ser pegajoso<\/a> is the only way to show love? After all, that\u2019s what your mother taught you.<\/p>\n<p>If your boyfriend doesn\u2019t give you his undivided attention 24\/7, you assume that he\u2019s stopped loving you.<\/p>\n<p>The truth is that you know nothing about healthy boundaries. You\u2019re jealous and possessive, and the worst part is that you don\u2019t even see it.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Estilo de vincula\u00e7\u00e3o pouco saud\u00e1vel<\/h3>\n<p>De acordo com a teoria da vincula\u00e7\u00e3o, o seu <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-assim-que-se-age-no-amor-com-base-no-seu-estilo-de-ligacao\/\">estilo de fixa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> depende da rela\u00e7\u00e3o que tinha com o seu principal cuidador. Em termos simples, tem problemas de vincula\u00e7\u00e3o devido \u00e0 rela\u00e7\u00e3o tensa que tem com a sua m\u00e3e.<\/p>\n<p>Por exemplo, se tiver um <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/pessoa-que-evita-o-amor\/\">estilo de vincula\u00e7\u00e3o evitante<\/a>, it\u2019s because your mother neglected you as a child. The same goes for insecure attachment \u2013 you didn\u2019t get enough attention from your own mother and father.<\/p>\n<p>Por outro lado, se tiver um estilo de vincula\u00e7\u00e3o seguro, isso significa que teve uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de amor e carinho com o seu principal prestador de cuidados.<\/p>\n<p><strong>O que \u00e9 que isto tem a ver com as suas outras rela\u00e7\u00f5es pessoais? Bem, tu transferes isto <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/3-principais-estilos-de-vinculacao-e-como-afectam-a-sua-relacao\/\">estilo de fixa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> para as suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es rom\u00e2nticas, para as rela\u00e7\u00f5es com os seus amigos e para tudo o resto na sua vida adulta.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>3. Comportamento maternal nas rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/h3>\n<p>Motherly behavior in other relationships is quite common for mommy issues in women. You didn\u2019t have a healthy mother figure in your life, and you think that you\u2019ll compensate for this by becoming a mother figure to your romantic partner or friends.<\/p>\n<p>This is especially true if you are an older sibling. You were responsible for the caretaking of your entire family. You had to worry about your little brothers and sisters\u2019 well-being, and you transferred these behavior patterns to your adult relationships.<\/p>\n<p>Para al\u00e9m disso, <strong>sente falta de uma figura materna. Por isso, assume que todos os outros tamb\u00e9m sentem. Para si, esta \u00e9 a express\u00e3o m\u00e1xima do amor: criar o seu par rom\u00e2ntico ou o seu melhor amigo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>4. Baixa autoestima<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-151540\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/insecure-woman-covering-her-face.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/insecure-woman-covering-her-face.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/insecure-woman-covering-her-face-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/insecure-woman-covering-her-face-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/insecure-woman-covering-her-face-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/insecure-woman-covering-her-face-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/insecure-woman-covering-her-face-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/insecure-woman-covering-her-face-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/insecure-woman-covering-her-face-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/insecure-woman-covering-her-face-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/insecure-woman-covering-her-face-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/insecure-woman-covering-her-face-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/insecure-woman-covering-her-face-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/insecure-woman-covering-her-face-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/insecure-woman-covering-her-face-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You weren\u2019t given enough validation in your early childhood. You were never told that you were beautiful or smart.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Mas o mais importante \u00e9 que a tua m\u00e3e n\u00e3o te mostrou que eras suficientemente bom. A dura verdade<\/strong> <strong>is that she didn\u2019t love you how you wanted to be loved.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So now you think that you\u2019re unworthy of anyone\u2019s love. If the person who gave birth to you didn\u2019t see you as valuable enough and if she couldn\u2019t get herself to love and respect you, what can you expect from the rest of the world?<\/p>\n<p>Tudo isto causou grandes inseguran\u00e7as e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/50-citacoes-inspiradoras-sobre-a-autoestima-para-aumentar-a-confianca-no-dia-a-dia\/\">baixa autoestima<\/a> you don\u2019t know how to deal with properly. You have a distorted sense of self, and at the end of the day, you don\u2019t know how to love yourself.<\/p>\n<h3>5. Idealizar outras rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/h3>\n<p>I hate to break it to you, but you\u2019re a good candidate for <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/bombardeamento-de-amor\/\">bombardeamento de amor<\/a>. You\u2019re so desperate to receive the love you never got that you fall for other people\u2019s lies without any hesitation.<\/p>\n<p>Quantas vezes pensaste que ele era o tal? Quantas rela\u00e7\u00f5es rom\u00e2nticas imaginou que acabariam em casamento?<\/p>\n<p>Olha, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada de errado em fantasiar. Mas o teu problema \u00e9 que idealizas as tuas rela\u00e7\u00f5es pessoais.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Every time a new person enters your life, you assume that you\u2019ve finally found someone who will heal your inner child and fill your void.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Those expectations put rose-tinted glasses over your eyes. You fail to see someone\u2019s flaws, and you are blind to the red flags.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, naturalmente, acabamos sempre por ficar ainda mais desiludidos!<\/p>\n<h3>6. Depend\u00eancia emocional<\/h3>\n<p>You don\u2019t know what healthy boundaries mean. You\u2019re unfamiliar with the term independence.<\/p>\n<p>On the contrary, you\u2019re <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-que-e-a-dependencia-emocional-10-formas-de-a-ultrapassar-com-sucesso\/\">emocionalmente dependente<\/a> em toda a gente que amamos. E isso cria rela\u00e7\u00f5es pouco saud\u00e1veis.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t breathe without your partner. You think that your life would be pointless without them, and consequently, you develop relationship anxiety.<\/p>\n<p><strong>This can be the result of many factors, but they\u2019re all related to your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/8-sinais-de-que-foi-criado-por-uma-mae-toxica\/\">m\u00e3e t\u00f3xica<\/a>. Se ela era demasiado pegajosa, mostrava sinais de depend\u00eancia emocional, e ensinavam-lhe que isso era amor.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Por outro lado, se ela o negligenciou, passou toda a sua inf\u00e2ncia a desejar o seu amor. E isso tamb\u00e9m pode causar este tipo de depend\u00eancia.<\/p>\n<p>Whatever the reason is, the bottom line is the same: you can never allow your happiness to depend on someone else. And that\u2019s exactly what you\u2019ve been doing all along.<\/p>\n<h3>7. Cr\u00edticas excessivas<\/h3>\n<p>Mommy issues in women are connected with nagging, grumbling, and fault-finding. If you\u2019re one of those moms or wives who keep on criticizing her entire family, this is why you act that way.<\/p>\n<p>Desde que te lembras, nada do que fizeste foi suficientemente bom. Gritaram-lhe e abusaram de si de v\u00e1rias formas e adoptou esses padr\u00f5es de comportamento como normais.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Apesar de, no fundo, saberes que este comportamento \u00e9 t\u00f3xico, continuas a agir da mesma forma.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Why? Well, it\u2019s actually pretty simple: you don\u2019t know better.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s a little secret: people don\u2019t like this about you. They don\u2019t care if you\u2019re doing it for their own good \u2013 they feel like they\u2019re under constant attack, and nobody feels comfortable that way.<\/p>\n<h3>8. Indisponibilidade emocional<\/h3>\n<p>We\u2019ve already discussed overly clingy and emotionally dependent females with mother wounds.<\/p>\n<p>Mas e quanto a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sinais-mulher-emocionalmente-indisponivel\/\">indisponibilidade emocional<\/a>? Pode ser um dos sinais de problemas com a mam\u00e3 nas mulheres? Sem d\u00favida, sim.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re simply scared. <strong>A rela\u00e7\u00e3o mais importante que teve quando era crian\u00e7a acabou por n\u00e3o ser bem sucedida.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ent\u00e3o, o que se pode esperar dos melhores amigos, parceiros rom\u00e2nticos e outros membros da fam\u00edlia?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>With time, you\u2019ve developed a defense mechanism. You\u2019ve decided that the only way to keep yourself safe is to keep everyone else out.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t let people see the true you. You\u2019ve built thick and high walls around your heart to protect it.<\/p>\n<p>And you think that you\u2019re doing just fine like that. Well, you\u2019re not. You\u2019re actually missing out on a lot.<\/p>\n<h3>9. Quest\u00f5es de confian\u00e7a<\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/uma-rapariga-com-problemas-de-confianca-esta-a-implorar-te-para-nao-fazeres-estas-12-coisas\/\">Problemas de confian\u00e7a<\/a> are also very common with females who suffer from mommy issues. It\u2019s actually the same as with love.<\/p>\n<p>A pessoa em quem mais devias ter confiado (e o pior \u00e9 que confiaste mesmo) traiu-te. Ela apunhalou-te pelas costas e tratou-te como se fosses o seu pior inimigo.<\/p>\n<p><strong>So how could you ever get yourself to trust anyone again? If the woman who brought you into this world deceived you, why wouldn\u2019t some random guy you met a few months ago?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Bem, deixem-me contar-vos um pequeno segredo: nem toda a gente \u00e9 como a vossa m\u00e3e.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 this doesn\u2019t mean that you should live life recklessly. It doesn\u2019t mean that you should trust everyone who comes your way.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Mas, por favor, d\u00eaem a algumas pessoas o benef\u00edcio da d\u00favida.<\/strong> Eles podem surpreender-vos!<\/p>\n<h2>Como podem ser tratados os problemas da m\u00e3e nas mulheres?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-151534\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/blonde-woman-ignoring-her-mother.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/blonde-woman-ignoring-her-mother.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/blonde-woman-ignoring-her-mother-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/blonde-woman-ignoring-her-mother-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/blonde-woman-ignoring-her-mother-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/blonde-woman-ignoring-her-mother-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/blonde-woman-ignoring-her-mother-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/blonde-woman-ignoring-her-mother-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/blonde-woman-ignoring-her-mother-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/blonde-woman-ignoring-her-mother-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/blonde-woman-ignoring-her-mother-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/blonde-woman-ignoring-her-mother-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/blonde-woman-ignoring-her-mother-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/blonde-woman-ignoring-her-mother-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/blonde-woman-ignoring-her-mother-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Os problemas da mam\u00e3 podem ser curados? \u00c9 poss\u00edvel quebrar o ciclo e ser um tipo diferente de m\u00e3e para os seus filhos? Sim, e sim. E isto \u00e9 exatamente como o fazer!<\/p>\n<h3>1. Identificar o problema<\/h3>\n<p>Adquirir consci\u00eancia de si pr\u00f3prio \u00e9 o primeiro passo para resolver qualquer problema, incluindo este. Por isso, por muito que te custe, tens de voltar \u00e0 tua inf\u00e2ncia e repens\u00e1-la na tua cabe\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<p><strong>First and foremost, you have to accept that you have had a troubled relationship with your mother forever. This doesn\u2019t mean that you love her any less or that you accuse her of anything right away \u2013 you\u2019re just acknowledging that fact.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Which of your mother\u2019s behaviors hurt you the most? How did she impact your life right now? Why was your relationship unhealthy? What could have made it better?<\/p>\n<p>Dig deep inside of you to find the answers because you can\u2019t move on with your healing journey until you do.<\/p>\n<h3>2. A for\u00e7a para perdoar<\/h3>\n<p>O perd\u00e3o \u00e9 crucial para qualquer progresso! Isto significa que deves perdoar a tua m\u00e3e, mesmo que ela tenha sido a tua agressora?<\/p>\n<p>Well, you\u2019re the only one who can answer that question. However, letting go of resentment and hatred will take a huge burden off your chest \u2013 I can promise you that.<\/p>\n<p>I won\u2019t lie to you: it would be great to forgive your mother, especially if she didn\u2019t mean to hurt you (disclaimer: I\u2019m not talking about abusive mothers here). <strong>Isto n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma desculpa para o seu comportamento t\u00f3xico, mas acreditem em mim, ela fez o melhor que p\u00f4de.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>She loved you the way she considered best. It is likely that she was a victim of toxic parents herself. But unlike you, she wasn\u2019t strong enough to break the cycle.<\/p>\n<p>Mais importante ainda, por favor <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/antes-do-fim-do-ano-aprenda-a-perdoar-se-a-si-proprio\/\">perdoar-se a si pr\u00f3prio<\/a>. Remember: you\u2019re the victim here, and a little child can never be blamed for his or her parents\u2019 actions.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Curar a crian\u00e7a interior<\/h3>\n<p>Finally, it\u2019s time to heal your inner child. <strong>D\u00ea a si pr\u00f3prio o que mais desejava quando era apenas uma crian\u00e7a.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t care if we\u2019re talking about that toy you never got or more important things such as emotional support or validation. Sometimes, you have to engage in self-parenting practices, and that\u2019s perfectly fine as well.<\/p>\n<p>The point is to do whatever makes you happy. Engage in self-care and learn how to love yourself \u2013 that\u2019s the key to everything.<\/p>\n<h2>Para terminar:<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-151541\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/Sad-thoughtful-teen-girl-sits-on-chair.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/Sad-thoughtful-teen-girl-sits-on-chair.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/Sad-thoughtful-teen-girl-sits-on-chair-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/Sad-thoughtful-teen-girl-sits-on-chair-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/Sad-thoughtful-teen-girl-sits-on-chair-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/Sad-thoughtful-teen-girl-sits-on-chair-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/Sad-thoughtful-teen-girl-sits-on-chair-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/Sad-thoughtful-teen-girl-sits-on-chair-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/Sad-thoughtful-teen-girl-sits-on-chair-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/Sad-thoughtful-teen-girl-sits-on-chair-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/Sad-thoughtful-teen-girl-sits-on-chair-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/Sad-thoughtful-teen-girl-sits-on-chair-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/Sad-thoughtful-teen-girl-sits-on-chair-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/Sad-thoughtful-teen-girl-sits-on-chair-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/Sad-thoughtful-teen-girl-sits-on-chair-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ll be honest with you: mommy issues in women are as common as the Oedipus complex. And both conditions should not be taken lightly.<\/p>\n<p><strong>However, as long as you\u2019re here, it means you\u2019re perfectly aware that you have a problem. By just accepting that, you\u2019re one step closer to healing.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Good luck, you\u2019ve got this!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We\u2019ve all dealt with at least one guy with an Oedipus complex. That\u2019s right, I\u2019m talking about men who remain little mama\u2019s boys despite their age and who expect their female partner to continue parenting them. But what about mommy issues in women? Is that even a thing? Why isn\u2019t this topic addressed as much&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":151536,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29636],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-151532","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-help"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29636,"label":"self help"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/Symptoms-Causes-And-Treatment-Of-Mommy-Issues-In-Women-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29636,"name":"self help","slug":"self-help","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29636,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","parent":22911,"count":314,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29636,"category_count":314,"category_description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","cat_name":"self help","category_nicename":"self-help","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/151532","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=151532"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/151532\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/151536"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=151532"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=151532"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=151532"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}