{"id":151800,"date":"2022-05-30T12:24:26","date_gmt":"2022-05-30T12:24:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=151800"},"modified":"2022-05-30T12:26:17","modified_gmt":"2022-05-30T12:26:17","slug":"quanto-tempo-namorar-antes-de-ficar-noivo-aos-30-anos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/quanto-tempo-namorar-antes-de-ficar-noivo-aos-30-anos\/","title":{"rendered":"Quanto tempo para namorar antes de ficar noivo aos 30 anos: 10 coisas a saber"},"content":{"rendered":"

When you\u2019re in your 30s, it feels like everything starts speeding up at an incredible pace. You\u2019re no longer in high school, and finding out that your friend is getting married or is pregnant isn\u2019t the biggest rumor you\u2019ve heard during recess \u2013 it\u2019s actually the only type of news you\u2019ve been getting lately.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Por outro lado, n\u00e3o est\u00e1 a acontecer nada de especial na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria. Ent\u00e3o, you can\u2019t help but wonder how long to date before getting engaged in your 30s.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Well, that\u2019s why I\u2019m here \u2013 to clear all your doubts away and give you the answer you\u2019ve been looking for.<\/p>\n

Quanto tempo para namorar antes de ficar noivo aos 30 anos<\/h2>\n

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I\u2019ll tell you right away: there is no set time in which you must get engaged if you\u2019re in your 30s.<\/strong> Mas se quiser conselhos de especialistas, seis meses \u00e9 o m\u00ednimo que se deve namorar com algu\u00e9m antes de come\u00e7ar a falar em p\u00f4r um anel.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00c9 o tempo m\u00ednimo necess\u00e1rio para conhecer a outra pessoa. O que \u00e9 ainda mais importante \u00e9 o facto de a fase de lua de mel ter terminado.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t even think about getting engaged to someone whose true colors you haven\u2019t seen. When you\u2019re in the fase de lua de mel<\/a>Nada do que eles fazem o incomoda. No entanto, isso muda com o tempo, e \u00e9 preciso ver se voc\u00eas os dois se conseguem realmente aturar um ao outro.<\/p>\n

Naturalmente, a resposta a esta pergunta depende de muitos factores. Nem todas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es atingem o mesmo n\u00edvel de seriedade ap\u00f3s o mesmo per\u00edodo de tempo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sometimes, you meet each other\u2019s families, go on a few vacations (or at least weekend getaways) and talk about the future in the primeiros tr\u00eas meses<\/a>. On the other hand, there are situations where you haven\u2019t made things official and have no clue where you stand after a whole year of dating and sleeping together.<\/p>\n

Do you see where I\u2019m going? It all depends on the dynamics of your relationship.<\/p>\n

10 perguntas a fazer a si pr\u00f3prio antes de ficar noivo aos 30 anos:<\/h2>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

I know you\u2019re wondering how long to date before getting engaged in your 30s, but trust me, there are also other questions to answer before taking this big step. Some of these questions will make you understand that the amount of time you\u2019re dating someone is not the only thing to consider before tying the knot. Here are the most important ones:<\/strong><\/p>\n

1. Estou a faz\u00ea-lo por press\u00e3o dos colegas?<\/h3>\n

Before you ask yourself, \u201chow long should you wait before getting engaged?\u201d you must ask yourself, \u201cwhy do you want to get engaged in the first place?\u201d<\/strong> Tem alguma coisa a ver com a tua idade?<\/p>\n

Would you even think about spending the rest of your life with someone if you weren\u2019t 30 years old? Would you see them as your pessoa para sempre<\/a> se fosses mais novo?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sei que a maior parte dos teus amigos j\u00e1 s\u00e3o casados e t\u00eam filhos ou, pelo menos, est\u00e3o noivos. Deves estar a pensar no teu rel\u00f3gio biol\u00f3gico a contar<\/a> tamb\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

However, trust me when I tell you that you mustn\u2019t think about these factors when making such a big decision. This is not high school, and it\u2019s not the same as when you started wearing make-up just because all of your friends were doing it.<\/p>\n

Repeat after me: you can\u2019t get engaged because of peer pressure. Well, technically, you can, but it shouldn\u2019t affect your decision in any way whatsoever.<\/p>\n

2. Somos financeiramente est\u00e1veis?<\/h3>\n

Detesto ser eu a rebentar a vossa bolha e a matar o romance, mas ficar noivo e eventualmente dar o n\u00f3 n\u00e3o \u00e9 s\u00f3 amor. H\u00e1 uma coisa chamada seguran\u00e7a financeira que tamb\u00e9m tem de ter em conta antes de tomar uma decis\u00e3o t\u00e3o importante.<\/p>\n

Se quiser um casamento bem sucedido<\/a>Para que a pessoa em causa e o seu c\u00f4njuge sejam financeiramente est\u00e1veis, \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio que ambos tenham uma situa\u00e7\u00e3o financeira est\u00e1vel.<\/strong> You\u2019re not teenagers, and as harsh as this sounds, at this age, you should be aware that you can\u2019t live on love.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 I\u2019m not saying that you must marry rich. I\u2019m not telling you to marry for money if you don\u2019t love the person you\u2019re with either.<\/p>\n

However, if you two can\u2019t pay rent, put food on the table, and take care of other living expenses, it means you should wait to get engaged a bit longer.<\/p>\n

Wedding planning itself takes a lot of time and money, let alone the actual marriage. Please, don\u2019t forget that this is also an important part of the equation.<\/p>\n

3. E quanto \u00e0 compatibilidade?<\/h3>\n

Quanto tempo \u00e9 que se deve namorar antes de ficar noivo aos 30 anos? Bem, antes de vos dar a resposta a esta pergunta, tenho de vos perguntar se j\u00e1 verificaram o vosso compatibilidade de rela\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

I guess you\u2019re in a rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria<\/a> at\u00e9 agora. Mas j\u00e1 passou algum tempo sozinho para saber se funciona em conjunto ou n\u00e3o?<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s forget about butterflies now. I\u2019m not talking about all those great, romantic dates you had together.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m talking about spending time together in terms of living together. Trust me, dating someone and viver com eles<\/a> s\u00e3o dois conceitos completamente diferentes.<\/p>\n

Can you stand being with this person 24\/7? Yes, I know that you won\u2019t be spending all of your days together, but sometimes, that will happen as well.<\/p>\n

T\u00eam hor\u00e1rios semelhantes? T\u00eam os mesmos pontos de vista sobre a vida e o futuro? Est\u00e3o de acordo quanto a valores importantes? E quanto aos vossos gostos e avers\u00f5es?<\/p>\n

Look, the truth is that you\u2019re both old enough to change the essence of your personalities. Therefore, if you can\u2019t find common ground on some important things, maybe you should reconsider your decision to get engaged.<\/p>\n

4. Queremos ter filhos?<\/h3>\n

Here\u2019s something else you should consider before choosing your life partner: how do you both feel about having children. Do you even want a family? If yes, when?<\/p>\n

Tenciona trabalhar para ter filhos desde j\u00e1 ou acha que deve esperar? Quantos filhos espera ter? T\u00eam a mesma opini\u00e3o sobre a educa\u00e7\u00e3o dos filhos?<\/p>\n

Este \u00e9 outro ponto n\u00e3o negoci\u00e1vel.<\/strong> If you don\u2019t want kids and your significant other dreams of becoming a parent, you can\u2019t marry them and expect them to change their mind sometime in the future. Of course, it goes both ways.<\/p>\n

A lot of couples date for a significant amount of time without tackling this topic. Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 you shouldn\u2019t be talking about it in the first couple of months of dating usually.<\/strong><\/p>\n

However, if you\u2019re already wondering how long to date before getting engaged in your 30s, it means that you\u2019re in a serious relationship, and these questions must be answered.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Padrasto e madrasta<\/h4>\n

Se este n\u00e3o for o vosso primeiro casamento e ambos (ou um de v\u00f3s) j\u00e1 ter filhos de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o anterior<\/a>Por outro lado, este \u00e9 um fator a ter em conta antes de responder \u00e0 quest\u00e3o de saber quanto tempo deve namorar antes de ficar noivo aos 30 anos.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not bringing a new person into your life only \u2013 you\u2019re bringing a step-parent into your child\u2019s life, and that is a huge deal.<\/strong><\/p>\n

O mesmo se aplica a ambos os casos. Se o seu potencial parceiro j\u00e1 tem filhos, est\u00e1 preparado para assumir o papel de madrasta ou padrasto?<\/p>\n

5. Est\u00e3o a fazer de mim uma pessoa melhor?<\/h3>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

Instead of rushing things just because \u201cit\u2019s time\u201d or because you are at the \u201caverage age to get engaged and married,\u201d why don\u2019t you ask yourself some more important questions, such as, \u201care they making me a better person?\u201d<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 I\u2019m not saying that your potential life partner should change you. On the contrary, you should only get engaged to someone who loves the true you.<\/p>\n

However, they shouldn\u2019t make you perder-se<\/a>e n\u00e3o devem, de modo algum, ser o pior de si.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve been together for enough time, they should know you enough to get the best out of you. They should be the wind beneath your wings and the person who makes you become the a melhor vers\u00e3o poss\u00edvel de si pr\u00f3prio.<\/a><\/p>\n

If they\u2019ve achieved that, it really doesn\u2019t matter if you\u2019ve been together since last year or three months ago.<\/p>\n

6. Divertimo-nos juntos?<\/h3>\n

A vida j\u00e1 \u00e9 suficientemente dif\u00edcil por si s\u00f3. Nunca se sabe que tipo de dificuldades nos esperam pelo caminho.<\/p>\n

Naturalmente, o pessoa certa<\/a> won\u2019t back out on you the first time you encounter a problem \u2013 that shouldn\u2019t even be a debate.<\/p>\n

However, you should spend the rest of your life with someone who is fun to be around as well. But be careful, I\u2019m not talking about the fun you have when you meet someone new.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you two have reached the one-year mark and they can still make you laugh like no one else, it\u2019s definitely time to start discussing engagement \u2013 if you get along in other ways as well, that is.<\/p>\n

7. Estamos apaixonados ou amamo-nos um ao outro?<\/h3>\n

This one might sound weird, but trust me, I haven\u2019t made a mistake with this question. Actually, it\u2019s one of the most important questions to ask yourself before figuring out how long to date before getting engaged in your 30s.<\/p>\n

Being in love is awesome. There are butterflies in your tummy, and you feel like you\u2019re in seventh heaven.<\/p>\n

Tudo o que a sua pessoa faz \u00e9 incrivelmente giro e acha que a pode perdoar por qualquer coisa.<\/p>\n

Well, this is a fairytale. On the other hand, getting engaged and eventually married is real life. And for that, it\u2019s not enough for you to be in love with your partner. You must love them.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s right, there is a grande diferen\u00e7a<\/a>. Estar apaixonado por algu\u00e9m e am\u00e1-lo<\/a> s\u00e3o dois conceitos diferentes.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You love someone when you\u2019ve seen them at their best and their worst. You love them when you can put up with them being sad or angry.<\/p>\n

You love them when their presence feels like home \u2013 when they become your best friend besides your lover.<\/p>\n

So now you tell me, how long does it take for a couple to reach that phase? I\u2019ll help you and tell you that there is no universal answer \u2013 it\u2019s all individual.<\/strong><\/p>\n

However, if you\u2019re still not there, it\u2019s a good sign that you shouldn\u2019t get engaged just yet.<\/p>\n

8. Trata-se de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel?<\/h3>\n

Tente olhar para a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o como um espetador objetivo. Parece-lhe saud\u00e1vel?<\/p>\n

Voc\u00eas respeitam-se mutuamente? S\u00e3o livres de falar e dar a vossa opini\u00e3o, mesmo que n\u00e3o estejam de acordo?<\/p>\n

Com que frequ\u00eancia discutem? S\u00e3o capazes de passar uma semana inteira juntos sem uma grande discuss\u00e3o?<\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 que fazer depois de lutar<\/a>? Como \u00e9 que resolvem as vossas discuss\u00f5es? Levam-nas para o quarto, varrem-nas para debaixo do tapete ou falam sobre elas?<\/p>\n

Voc\u00eas s\u00e3o iguais? D\u00e3o prioridade um ao outro? Colocam aproximadamente a mesma quantidade de esfor\u00e7o<\/a> para este romance?<\/p>\n

Take off your rose-tinted glasses and do your best to answer these questions as honestly as possible. Each of the answers is important because they all determine whether you\u2019re in a rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/a> ou n\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Keep in mind that some couples don\u2019t manage to build a healthy relationship after years of dating while others do it in months!<\/p>\n

9. Estou feliz?<\/h3>\n

Esta pessoa \u00e9 fazer-vos felizes<\/a>? E, mais importante, acha que eles t\u00eam o que \u00e9 preciso para continuar a faz\u00ea-lo sentir-se assim para o resto da sua vida?<\/p>\n

Because that\u2019s the only thing that matters at the end of the day \u2013 if you\u2019re genuinely happy with someone or not.<\/p>\n

You can love them to the moon and back, and you two can share the same life values and plans for the future, but if they\u2019re making your life even more difficult than it already is, what\u2019s the point?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sei o que devem estar a pensar agora: toda a gente devia ser feliz<\/a> on their own. And I couldn\u2019t agree more. But your partner should make you at least a bit happier!<\/p>\n

10. O que \u00e9 que a minha intui\u00e7\u00e3o me est\u00e1 a dizer?<\/h3>\n

Por \u00faltimo, deve perguntar ao seu intui\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> para obter tamb\u00e9m uma opini\u00e3o. \u00c9 demasiado cedo para falar de noivado? Ou \u00e9 a altura certa para abordar este assunto?<\/p>\n

Do you feel like you\u2019ve had the chance to get to know your significant other enough? Do you sentir-se seguro<\/a> com eles?<\/p>\n

V\u00eaem-se os dois a envelhecer juntos? Conseguem imagin\u00e1-los como a m\u00e3e ou o pai dos vossos filhos?<\/p>\n

Sometimes, you have to turn off all logic and let your heart guide you. That\u2019s the best way to make the right decision!<\/p>\n

Quanto tempo \u00e9 que as pessoas namoram antes de ficarem noivas aos 30 anos?<\/h2>\n

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De acordo com alguns estudos sobre casais que se casaram na casa dos 30 anos, a maioria dos inquiridos afirmou que ficaram noivos no primeiro ano de namoro<\/strong>. If they hadn\u2019t made it official, they started living together or at least began discussing the possibility of getting engaged.<\/p>\n

Quanto tempo \u00e9 que as pessoas namoram antes de ficarem noivas?<\/h2>\n

Embora n\u00e3o exista um prazo determinado para ficar noivo, a maioria dos casais fica noiva algures entre um e cinco anos de namoro.<\/strong> No entanto, existem outros factores que influenciam este n\u00famero, como a idade, a educa\u00e7\u00e3o, a estabilidade financeira e outras diferen\u00e7as individuais.<\/p>\n

Namorar torna-se mais dif\u00edcil aos 30 anos?<\/h2>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

Olhar para as coisas de uma s\u00f3 perspetiva, Os encontros tornam-se realmente mais dif\u00edceis quando se chega a uma certa idade.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Em primeiro lugar, h\u00e1 menos pessoas solteiras para namorar. Al\u00e9m disso, parte-se do princ\u00edpio de que se tem cada vez menos tempo para assentar, pelo que muitas pessoas se lan\u00e7am em rela\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e9rias e casamentos por pura press\u00e3o dos pares.<\/p>\n

Outra coisa que torna os encontros mais dif\u00edceis na casa dos 30 anos \u00e9 o facto de bagagem emocional<\/a> everyone carries by that age. You\u2019re not just falling in love with a new person \u2013 you\u2019re also learning to love all of their heartbreaks, abandonment traumas, trust issues, and everything else that has shaped them into who they are today.<\/p>\n

Of course, it goes both ways. You\u2019re bringing all of your emotional baggage as well, and you\u2019re aprender a amar<\/a> algu\u00e9m de novo.<\/p>\n

Mas sabe porque \u00e9 que namorar \u00e9 mais f\u00e1cil na casa dos 30?<\/strong> Well, for the first time ever, you know what you want. And most importantly, you know what you don\u2019t want.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t lose time and energy on rela\u00e7\u00f5es que est\u00e3o condenadas ao fracasso<\/a> desde o primeiro encontro. Tem padr\u00f5es e importantes factores de desempate<\/a>, and you\u2019re not ready to change for anyone!<\/p>\n

\u00c9 demasiado tarde para casar aos 30 anos?<\/h2>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

Firstly, let\u2019s get one thing straight: it\u2019s never too late to get married<\/strong> if you\u2019re marrying the right person. If you feel like it, you might as well get married in a nursing home. Or you don\u2019t have to marry at all<\/a> \u2013 the choice is all yours.<\/p>\n

Actually, according to many experts, it\u2019s better to get married in your 30s than sooner.<\/strong> At this age, you\u2019re mature enough to know what you want, what you\u2019re ready to put up with, and what you shouldn\u2019t tolerate, no matter what.<\/p>\n

Esta \u00e9 a idade em que se aprende a reconhecer amor verdadeiro<\/a> but also the age when you know that love isn\u2019t the only thing necessary to spend the rest of your life with someone.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s the age when you no longer romanticize love and when you\u2019re more than capable of seeing all the sinais de alerta.<\/a> The age when you\u2019ve probably reached some level of financial security and when you can take care of yourself.<\/p>\n

Assim, de acordo com tudo isto, parece que os 30 anos s\u00e3o de facto a melhor idade para casar!<\/p>\n

Para terminar:<\/h2>\n

O mais importante \u00e9 n\u00e3o ficar obcecado com a quest\u00e3o de quanto tempo deve namorar antes de ficar noivo aos 30 anos. Trust me: you won\u2019t be late whatever you decide and whatever happens.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Even if you don\u2019t get engaged and even if the worst-case scenario happens and this relationship fails, so what? You still have a lot of time on your hands.<\/p>\n

Time for heartbreaks, first dates, and time to master this dating game. Just make sure you follow your own pace and don\u2019t let anyone tell you there is a time frame in which something like this must happen.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When you\u2019re in your 30s, it feels like everything starts speeding up at an incredible pace. You\u2019re no longer in high school, and finding out that your friend is getting married or is pregnant isn\u2019t the biggest rumor you\u2019ve heard during recess \u2013 it\u2019s actually the only type of news you\u2019ve been getting lately. On…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":151809,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29623],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-151800","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-marriage"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29623,"label":"marriage"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/How-Long-To-Date-Before-Getting-Engaged-In-Your-30s-10-Things-To-Know-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29623,"name":"marriage","slug":"marriage","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29623,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. Learning how to recognize red flags and deal with issues will help you make your marriage successful.","parent":29620,"count":474,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29623,"category_count":474,"category_description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. Learning how to recognize red flags and deal with issues will help you make your marriage successful.","cat_name":"marriage","category_nicename":"marriage","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/151800","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=151800"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/151800\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/151809"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=151800"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=151800"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=151800"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}