{"id":15184,"date":"2020-06-23T11:05:43","date_gmt":"2020-06-23T11:05:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15184"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:48:01","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:48:01","slug":"9-formas-de-o-mentiroso-patologico-quebrar-os-jogos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/9-formas-de-o-mentiroso-patologico-quebrar-os-jogos\/","title":{"rendered":"9 maneiras de um mentiroso patol\u00f3gico te quebrar com seus jogos"},"content":{"rendered":"

While some of us lie to save hurting someone else\u2019s feelings, or to avoid conflict, there are people who can\u2019t seem to come to terms with the truth. Pathological liars have no moral compass.<\/p>\n

They use lies as a tool of manipulation, control and power, simply because they can. It has to feel empowering when you know that you can convince someone into something they know isn\u2019t the truth. But they are just so good at lying that they won\u2019t stop doing it.<\/p>\n

Talvez tenham come\u00e7ado a utiliz\u00e1-lo como um mal necess\u00e1rio, mas com o tempo tornou-se um h\u00e1bito para eles.<\/p>\n

Now, they don\u2019t know how to speak the truth even if they want to.<\/p>\n

Sair com um mentiroso pode mago\u00e1-la de muitas maneiras, desde distorcer a sua mente e questionar a sua sanidade mental, at\u00e9 sentir-se tra\u00edda e simplesmente destro\u00e7ada por amar algu\u00e9m que nunca \u00e9 honesto consigo.<\/p>\n

E h\u00e1 muitos sinais reveladores de que est\u00e1 a namorar um mentiroso compulsivo<\/a> a procurar para se salvar das formas como eles o podem quebrar.<\/p>\n

1. Ele esconde coisas de ti<\/h2>\n

\"mulher
\nHe doesn\u2019t want to get caught, so he will go out of his way to keep the lie going.<\/p>\n

Esconder\u00e1 o telem\u00f3vel, manter\u00e1 c\u00f3digos e palavras-passe em tudo e mant\u00ea-la-\u00e1 fora da sua vida privada tanto quanto poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n

E mesmo quando sentimos que algo n\u00e3o est\u00e1 bem, ele \u00e9 t\u00e3o bom a manipular-nos que acabamos por lhe pedir desculpa, apesar de ser ele que nos devia pedir desculpa.<\/p>\n

2. Ele mente sobre as coisas mais banais<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Basicamente, mentem sobre tudo. Desde o que comeram ao pequeno-almo\u00e7o, o que fizeram de manh\u00e3, at\u00e9 \u00e0 hora a que se deitaram.<\/p>\n

With them, you never know what the truth is and even when they know you can see through their lies, they still lie. It\u2019s not something they can\u2019t control, it\u2019s something that they don\u2019t want to control.<\/p>\n

Enquanto a lealdade \u00e9 uma das qualidades mais importantes<\/a> in a relationship, with them it\u2019s practically impossible to have it.<\/p>\n

3. Ele tem sempre uma desculpa<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer, ele \u00e9 capaz de inventar uma hist\u00f3ria inteira numa quest\u00e3o de segundos.<\/p>\n

While the rest of us stumble and stutter, trying to find the words to pull ourselves out of it, he doesn\u2019t even miss a beat.<\/p>\n

Ele ter\u00e1 uma desculpa no momento em que o confrontar sobre qualquer coisa, deixando-o a co\u00e7ar a cabe\u00e7a e a perguntar-se onde \u00e9 que as coisas correram mal.<\/p>\n

4. N\u00e3o h\u00e1 literalmente nada fora dos limites para ele estar a mentir<\/h2>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

While some of us will lie only to save hurting someone\u2019s feelings or to save our own ass (such as avoiding to answer, \u201cDid you eat my ice cream?\u201d), to a compulsive liar, nothing is sacred\u2014not even lying about whether he loves you or not, if he cheated on you or if he took something away from you.<\/p>\n

Ele n\u00e3o tem remorsos por a ter manipulado e far\u00e1 tudo o que for preciso para manter a farsa.<\/p>\n

5. Come\u00e7a a questionar a sua sanidade mental<\/h2>\n

\"Imagem<\/p>\n

Ele tem uma maneira de nos convencer que o c\u00e9u \u00e9 amarelo e o sol \u00e9 azul.<\/p>\n

Soon enough, you begin to question your own sanity, because he manages to convince you that things you experienced with him didn\u2019t even happen the way they did. He is that good.<\/p>\n

E sempre que te sentes incomodada por ele ter mentido, ele leva-te a acreditar que ele \u00e9 a v\u00edtima, por isso acabas por ser tu a pedir desculpa.<\/p>\n

O que se passa com mentirosos compulsivos<\/a> \u00e9 o facto de terem uma forma de nos fazer questionar a nossa pr\u00f3pria mente e a nossa pr\u00f3pria sanidade.<\/p>\n

6. Sente-se como o mau da fita por o ter questionado<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

A manipula\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 o seu jogo e ele domina-o na perfei\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o \u00e9 de admirar que se sinta o pior vil\u00e3o que alguma vez existiu, s\u00f3 porque se atreveu a questionar as suas hist\u00f3rias ou a sua lealdade.<\/p>\n

Ele vira o seu mundo de pernas para o ar sem sequer pensar nisso, desde que consiga o que quer.<\/p>\n

7. He never takes responsibility\u2014instead, he blames it on you<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Quando o apanha em flagrante e o confronta sobre o assunto, ou ele d\u00e1 a volta \u00e0 hist\u00f3ria e tenta convenc\u00ea-lo a ver a sua vers\u00e3o da verdade ou arranja maneira de o culpar a si.<\/p>\n

He only lied to protect you, he was afraid that you wouldn\u2019t be able to handle the truth, he was sure you were not interested in knowing the truth, etc.<\/p>\n

Ele nunca, e quero dizer nunca, assumir\u00e1 a responsabilidade pelas suas mentiras e jogos.<\/p>\n

8. Ele n\u00e3o tem remorsos<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Sem b\u00fassola moral e sem remorsos, ele \u00e9 um maldito mentiroso psicopata<\/a> que nunca se sentir\u00e1 culpado por te fazer sentir como se fosses o louco.<\/p>\n

Ele n\u00e3o mostrar\u00e1 uma \u00fanica vez o m\u00ednimo remorso por te ter partido em milh\u00f5es de peda\u00e7os, porque \u00e9 incapaz de o ter.<\/p>\n

This will make you feel like you are not worthy of someone\u2019s love, loyalty and honesty, while the only truth is that he was never able to give you any of it. All he was capable of giving you were lies and manipulations.<\/p>\n

9. Ele tira a tua seguran\u00e7a<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Os seus jogos destroem tudo o que pens\u00e1vamos saber. Os seus jogos<\/a> tiram-nos a seguran\u00e7a, a for\u00e7a e a capacidade de alguma vez confiarmos em algu\u00e9m ou em n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n

As rela\u00e7\u00f5es t\u00eam a ver com sentir-se seguro, respeitado e amado, e quando se namora com um mentiroso patol\u00f3gico, n\u00e3o se tem nada disso.<\/p>\n

Tira-nos a f\u00e9 no amor e parece que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 maneira de voltarmos a andar sozinhos depois de termos sido t\u00e3o destru\u00eddos que isso destruiu tudo o que \u00e9ramos.<\/p>\n

E quando pensamos que o conseguimos mudar, ele quebra-nos mais uma vez.<\/p>\n

Loving a liar is worse than walking through hell, so it\u2019s better to get away while you still can.<\/p>\n

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