{"id":15191,"date":"2020-07-23T11:12:59","date_gmt":"2020-07-23T11:12:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15191"},"modified":"2022-01-09T19:16:18","modified_gmt":"2022-01-09T19:16:18","slug":"deu-prioridade-a-tentativa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/deu-prioridade-a-tentativa\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 por isso que ela desistiu de tentar ser a sua prioridade"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"H\u00e1 uma altura em que temos de deixar de atravessar oceanos por pessoas que nem sequer saltariam po\u00e7as por n\u00f3s.\"<\/span><\/em><\/p>\r\n

Many asked her how she could let him go so easily. Many asked her why she didn\u2019t fight harder, why ela desistiu<\/a> quando estavam destinados a ficar juntos. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Little did they know that she didn\u2019t give up but he didn\u2019t even try anymore. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

They acted as if it was all her fault, as if it was her job to keep him or to make him stay. As if they didn\u2019t know that you can\u2019t keep someone who doesn\u2019t want to stay. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Ele colocou uma dist\u00e2ncia entre os dois.<\/b> Maybe he didn\u2019t do that willingly, maybe something stole his attention, but maybe he didn\u2019t really care for her anymore. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Talvez ele se tenha fartado. Talvez a tenha tomado como garantida. Seja como for, deixou de a considerar uma prioridade. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Concentrou-se na sua vida. <\/b>Ele concentrou-se em lidar com toda a gente menos com ela. Ficou t\u00e3o ocupado com a sua vida que se esqueceu da vida que tinha com ela.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

\"mulher<\/p>\r\n

Ele esqueceu-se das necessidades dela e ela transformou-se numa daquelas <\/span>mulheres emocionalmente negligenciadas<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Ela deixou de ser uma prioridade para ele. <\/b>He didn\u2019t bother to call just to hear her voice. He was always busy. He never had time for dates or to spend some quality time with her.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

He even spent more time with his friends than he did with her. He started leaving her alone too much and he allowed days to pass when they didn\u2019t hear from each other. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Ela tentou falar com ele.<\/b> She tried to tell him that things had started going downhill and how he wasn\u2019t the same person he used to be. She tried so hard to open his eyes. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

No final do dia, ele era <\/span>a sua alma g\u00e9mea, o seu parceiro de vida<\/span><\/a>com quem ela via o seu futuro. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Despite what everyone else thought, she didn\u2019t just give up on him. She really tried, but he didn\u2019t see the same things she did. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Para ele, tudo estava bem.<\/b> N\u00e3o havia necessidade de trabalhar em nada. Ele disse que eram <\/span>bom<\/span><\/i> e que ela estava apenas a ser paranoica. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

And then he went off and didn\u2019t reply to her messages for hours and when he finally did, it was just a one-word message. Something was off, but he didn\u2019t care to fix it.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

\"mulher<\/p>\r\n

Perhaps he thought he\u2019d still have her, even when he stopped putting any effort into their relationship. But he was wrong. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Durante muito tempo, ela tentou encaixar-se na agenda dele.<\/b> Durante tanto tempo, ela foi <\/span>inclinar-se para tr\u00e1s para ele s\u00f3 reparar nela. Parecia que ela estava a morrer s\u00f3 para ter um pouco do seu tempo. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

S<\/span>he really tried. But she didn\u2019t manage to succeed. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Por fim, quando viu que ele tinha deixado de fazer dela a sua prioridade, desistiu de tentar ser uma. <\/b>Desistiu de lhe telefonar, desistiu de lhe enviar mensagens de texto constantemente, desistiu de tentar que ele reparasse nela. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

She gave up on making plans because she knew he\u2019d cancel them last minute anyway. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Now it\u2019s time for people to understand that <\/span>objectivos de relacionamento<\/span><\/a> s\u00e3o mais do que colocar uma hashtag por baixo de uma fotografia gira no Instagram. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

It\u2019s making time for the person who loves you even when your schedule is crazy. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

It\u2019s responding as soon as you see a message because it\u2019s not like those thirty seconds will harm your work. It\u2019s constantly trying to keep the love burning and not just hoping things will work even when you don\u2019t try.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

\"mulher<\/p>\r\n

Ela apercebeu-se de que precisava de parar de se esfor\u00e7ar tanto por algu\u00e9m que j\u00e1 tinha desistido h\u00e1 muito tempo. <\/b><\/p>\r\n

She realized she should stop tearing her self-worth down for a man who didn\u2019t even notice her anymore.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

She realized that she should stop trying too. That way, in case she meant anything to him, he\u2019d notice her pulling away and reach back to her. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

E se ele a deixasse ir facilmente, isso significava que n\u00e3o se importava de a perder. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

If he didn\u2019t reach out to her, if he didn\u2019t hear the wake-up call, it meant she had done right when she chose to stop trying. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Because regardless of how much it hurts, it\u2019s always better to break yourself once by leaving than to allow yourself to be broken every day by letting him take you for granted. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

When you have to fight to be someone\u2019s priority, then that\u2019s a sign that it\u2019s time to invest your efforts into a relationship with someone who you won\u2019t need to beg to make time for you but with someone who\u2019s going to give it to you willingly and on his own. <\/b><\/p>\r\n

Sometimes when others aren\u2019t willing to make you their priority it\u2019s your task to make yourself a priority and take care of yourself. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Esque\u00e7a o que os outros dizem ou o que acham que deve fazer. Cuide sempre de si em primeiro lugar. <\/span><\/p>\r\n\r\n

\"\u00c9<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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