{"id":152054,"date":"2022-06-02T10:02:57","date_gmt":"2022-06-02T10:02:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=152054"},"modified":"2022-06-30T20:28:11","modified_gmt":"2022-06-30T20:28:11","slug":"quando-ele-se-apercebe-que-o-bloqueou","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/quando-ele-se-apercebe-que-o-bloqueou\/","title":{"rendered":"O que acontece quando ele percebe que voc\u00ea o bloqueou"},"content":{"rendered":"

A melhor maneira de lidar com algumas situa\u00e7\u00f5es na vida \u00e9 afastar-se delas. Blocking someone works the same way: you’re done and gone, bye<\/b>. But it’s not always that easy.<\/p>\n

Most of the time, you block a guy when you can’t deal with him anymore. You either broke up and want to move on, you’ve been talking and don\u2019t like his behavior, or you’re not interested, but he won’t take the hint.<\/p>\n

A raz\u00e3o pela qual te preocupas com o que acontece quando ele se apercebe que o bloqueaste depende completamente da tua raz\u00e3o para o bloqueares. If you’ve blocked him to make him miss you, though, you’re setting yourself up for heartache.<\/b><\/p>\n

Keep reading because we’ll tackle all the reasons for blocking him and how to handle these situations in a way that will benefit you the most.<\/p>\n

Ser\u00e1 que ele vai entrar em contacto quando se aperceber que o bloqueou?<\/h2>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

Bloqueia-se um indiv\u00edduo por uma de duas raz\u00f5es<\/a>: you really want nothing to do with him, or you’re trying to play games. There’s a third option somewhere in between where you’re kind of sick of him, but you’d give him a chance.<\/p>\n

The short answer is, he\u2019ll probably get in touch if you give him any hint that you\u2019re still into him. <\/b>But this isn\u2019t what you should be focusing on. Instead, think about a) why he\u2019s doing it in the <\/b>primeiro lugar<\/b> and b) what it\u2019s going to be like if you take him back.<\/b><\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9 que ele veio a correr quando fechou a porta? S\u00f3 para ver que ainda o queres e que ele ainda te pode ter.<\/b> It\u2019s not because he\u2019s suddenly changed for the better or because he regrets how he treated you.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get excited because he\u2019s back and pretends that he\u2019s changed. <\/b>You know he hasn\u2019t. What was he like before you broke up and you blocked him? He\u2019ll be the same again.<\/p>\n

Neste momento, as quest\u00f5es mais importantes s\u00e3o:<\/p>\n

1. Est\u00e1s farta dele e esperas que o facto de o bloqueares fa\u00e7a com que ele te deixe em paz?<\/h4>\n

Whether a guy you\u2019ve blocked because you don\u2019t want him in your life will leave you alone depends on a lot of things, but mostly on what kind of guy he is. A guy who isn\u2019t toxic but your relationship just didn\u2019t work out will probably <\/b>compreender por que raz\u00e3o teve de o cortar<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

Is he selfish and egotistical, and you\u2019ve had enough? He probably won\u2019t be able to stand that you\u2019re moving on<\/b>E ele pode aparecer \u00e0 sua porta para ver se ainda tem poder sobre si.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let him reel you back in \u2013 control the situation by any means necessary. As long as he keeps finding ways to contact you, you should stand your ground and continuar a rejeit\u00e1-lo at\u00e9 ele meter isso na cabe\u00e7a<\/b>.<\/p>\n

Your main focus should be to continue saying no and remember why you don\u2019t want him in your life.<\/p>\n

2. Did you block him because you’re hoping that this is a way to get him to want you?<\/h4>\n

Let’s get straight to the point: if you’re resorting to blocking him to get his attention, you’re only hurting yourself. If the question \u201cWhat happens when he realizes I blocked him?\u201d really means \u201cWill he miss me and come looking for me?\u201d then the answer is \u201cNo.\u201d<\/b><\/p>\n

The only thing he\u2019ll miss is knowing that you\u2019re available whenever he wants, and he\u2019ll try to change that.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re only helping him in getting the ego boost that comes from knowing he can come back to mess with you whenever he wants, only to go back to his ways as soon as he proves his point.<\/b><\/p>\n

Bloqueando-o apenas para fazer jogos mentais<\/a>, you gain nothing. When you\u2019re dealing with a narcissist or a common variety jerk, he\u2019ll try to get in contact with you when you block him to get validation that he can get you at any time, and when he gets what he wants, you\u2019ll be left hurt and alone<\/b>.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Como irritar o seu namorado: 160 Ideias<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9 que o bloqueio \u00e9 bom para si<\/h2>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

First of all, you shouldn\u2019t be afraid of the block feature. Aposto que tanto a sua lista de contactos privados como a sua <\/b>contas nas redes sociais<\/b> provavelmente ficaria mais feliz se bloqueasse algumas pessoas neste momento.<\/b><\/p>\n

For example, if someone is negative or annoying on social media or posts things that upset you, you don\u2019t have to deal with it. Unfriending, unfollowing, and blocking are a form of setting boundaries and a way to practice self-care.<\/p>\n

Blocking isn\u2019t an extreme step to take, and you don\u2019t owe anyone to be in contact with them if you don\u2019t want to.<\/b> It\u2019s not a power trip to choose who you want to talk to and what you want to see.<\/p>\n

9 boas raz\u00f5es para o bloquear + 1 raz\u00e3o errada para o fazer<\/h3>\n

Some people talk about the psychological impact of getting blocked like it\u2019s their basic human right for you to be available. If someone is accusing you of being rude or immature for doing it, they\u2019re probably offended that you\u2019re prioritizing your own <\/b>bem-estar<\/b> sobre eles.<\/b><\/p>\n

Como o bloqueio \u00e9 visto como uma coisa t\u00e3o m\u00e1, pode nem sequer pensar em faz\u00ea-lo quando realmente o deve fazer. Aqui est\u00e3o algumas situa\u00e7\u00f5es em que deve bloquear um rapaz.<\/p>\n

1. Voc\u00eas separaram-se, e queres esquec\u00ea-lo<\/a><\/h4>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

Quando se aceita a separa\u00e7\u00e3o e se quer seguir em frente, a forma mais eficaz de o fazer \u00e9 utilizar a regra de n\u00e3o estabelecer contacto. Distanciar-se do seu <\/b>ex-namorado<\/b> ajuda-o completamente a ganhar perspetiva e elimina a tenta\u00e7\u00e3o de se aproximar.<\/b><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to let him know you\u2019re going to block him. If you\u2019re broken up and you\u2019re done, you\u2019re doing what\u2019s best for you by removing all the ways to keep in touch.<\/b> Se ele conseguir contact\u00e1-la quando se aperceber de que o bloqueou, mantenha-se firme e continuar a dizer n\u00e3o<\/b> a qualquer tipo de conversa, de conv\u00edvio ou de tentativas de reconcilia\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Manter a amizade quando se precisa de esquecer algu\u00e9m \u00e9 imposs\u00edvel. Talvez no futuro isso possa acontecer, mas, neste momento, deves proteger-te e n\u00e3o deixar que ele te atraia de novo. Think of the reasons you broke up, and if those reasons still exist, hold your own and don\u2019t unblock him.<\/b><\/p>\n

2. You’re over him, but you still don’t want to keep in touch<\/h4>\n

If some time has passed and you managed to get over him, it doesn\u2019t have to mean that you have to talk to him or be friends. Algumas pessoas que n\u00e3o puderam fazer a sua visita rom\u00e2ntica <\/b>trabalho de relacionamento<\/b> pode ultrapassar isso, mas <\/b>don\u2019t feel pressure to try to stay friends<\/b><\/a> if you don\u2019t want to.<\/b><\/p>\n

This is especially true if your relationship had a lot of problems or if you were unhappy about how he treated you. Even after some time has passed, and you\u2019re sure you\u2019re over him, you don\u2019t have to have any contact with him whatsoever.<\/p>\n

3. You started seeing someone else and don\u2019t want him involved<\/h4>\n

Quando entra numa nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o depois de terminar com um tipo que gosta de saber os seus assuntos, bloque\u00e1-lo \u00e9 a sua melhor op\u00e7\u00e3o. If you\u2019ve moved on, you don\u2019t need reminders, passive-aggressive remarks, and comments from your ex.<\/b><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t just cut off contact when it comes to calls and text messages. If you block him on social media, you won\u2019t have to deal with comments on pictures about how he also has a new girlfriend or whatever else he feels compelled to say.<\/p>\n

4. You like him, but you don’t think a relationship is possible<\/h4>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

Just liking someone isn\u2019t always enough for a relationship. There can be a ton of reasons for it, from different values to circumstances. It\u2019s a good idea not to play yourself but seguir em frente antes que os seus sentimentos se tornem demasiado fortes e <\/b>desgosto<\/b> torna-se inevit\u00e1vel.<\/b><\/p>\n

Blocking a guy you\u2019re just getting to know might seem like too much, but do you really want to keep seeing him on your timeline looking all cute when you know you\u2019ll fall in love and nothing can come from it? Bloqueie-o para o seu <\/b>paz de esp\u00edrito<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

5. You’re not interested in him, and he won’t accept it<\/h4>\n

Some guys think that they can wear you down by being persistent when you don\u2019t like them. The sad thing is, por vezes, s\u00e3o bem sucedidos porque algumas mulheres decidem aceitar ou t\u00eam pena deles, pelo que lhes d\u00e3o uma oportunidade<\/b>.<\/p>\n

When you make it clear that you don’t want to talk to him, but he still tries to pursue you, he\u2019s not being a romantic fool in love \u2013 he\u2019s disrespecting you<\/b><\/a>. It\u2019s not cute that he doesn\u2019t take your \u2018no\u2019 seriously, no matter what he says.<\/p>\n

Block a man like this as soon as he shows you what he\u2019s like.<\/p>\n

6. He’s too much<\/h4>\n

Algu\u00e9m de quem se pode ter gostado pode mudar a forma como se sente por ser demasiado cedo. There are people who like to move fast in relationships, and so as long as you\u2019re on the same page, it\u2019s not a problem.<\/b><\/p>\n

If he starts saying how you\u2019re his entire world while you\u2019re still not sure you want to know his last name, it might be a good idea to cut him off. He might simply be the type who falls easily, but it also might be a red flag that he\u2019s playing a game.<\/b><\/p>\n

7. He’s a player<\/h4>\n

When he\u2019s clearly a player, it\u2019s a good idea to block him immediately. If he comes on too strong as soon as you meet, makes sexual comments the first time you talk to each other and is generally skeevy, don\u2019t give him the time of day.<\/p>\n

Sooner or later, a guy like that is going to hurt you, so it\u2019s best to stop things before they even start. <\/b>A sua autoestima vai agradecer-lhe.<\/p>\n

8. He isn\u2019t single<\/h4>\n

\"a<\/p>\n

Se sabe ou suspeita que ele pode estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, n\u00e3o deve ter nada a ver com ele. Ele provavelmente tem v\u00e1rios <\/b>contas falsas<\/b> ou perfis em que ele fala com v\u00e1rias mulheres at\u00e9 que uma ou mais mordam.<\/b><\/p>\n

Cut him off while you still can because a guy like this won\u2019t change, no matter what he says. If he cheats with you, he\u2019ll cheat on you.<\/b><\/p>\n

9. He’s toxic or a narcissist<\/h4>\n

A man who\u2019s a liar, who always makes you feel insecure or emotionally exhausted, and if you\u2019re always unhappy, will turn your entire relationship into a struggle that will only benefit him.<\/p>\n

Ficar com ele pode mago\u00e1-la profundamente e pode ter um efeito devastador no seu estado emocional e influenciar todas as suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es futuras.<\/b><\/p>\n

Se notar signs that he\u2019s toxic<\/a>, you shouldn\u2019t only stop seeing him \u2013 you should block him everywhere, from WhatsApp and Facebook to blocking his phone number. If he\u2019s a <\/b>narcisista,<\/b> deve reconhecer a sua<\/b> abuso emocional<\/b><\/a> and get out before it\u2019s too late.<\/b><\/p>\n

+ The wrong reasons you\u2019re blocking him. (Don\u2019t unblock him!)<\/b><\/h4>\n

A raz\u00e3o errada para o bloquear \u00e9 fazer jogos mentais. You\u2019re forcing your relationship<\/a> if you\u2019ve blocked him:<\/p>\n