{"id":15209,"date":"2018-02-23T14:05:35","date_gmt":"2018-02-23T14:05:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15209"},"modified":"2022-01-17T15:38:27","modified_gmt":"2022-01-17T15:38:27","slug":"6-factores-de-rutura-para-evitar-comecar-uma-nova-relacao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-factores-de-rutura-para-evitar-comecar-uma-nova-relacao\/","title":{"rendered":"6 factores de rutura a evitar quando se come\u00e7a uma nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Quando come\u00e7amos uma nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o, normalmente ficamos cegos por essa nova pessoa e n\u00e3o conseguimos ver a sua verdadeira face. Enquanto estamos apaixonados, tendemos a ignorar algumas coisas sobre o nosso parceiro que, mais tarde, acabam por ser um grande problema na rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Este \u00e9 um comportamento aceit\u00e1vel quando se \u00e9 adolescente, mas assim que se entra na casa dos 20 anos, h\u00e1 algumas coisas que devem ser consideradas desde o in\u00edcio de cada nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Aqui est\u00e3o 6 delas.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>1. Ele n\u00e3o est\u00e1 emocionalmente dispon\u00edvel<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>Existem diferentes tipos de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/15-caracteristicas-dos-homens-emocionalmente-indisponiveis\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">emocionalmente indispon\u00edvel<\/a> people. Some of them are simply closed individuals with high walls around them and they don\u2019t want to open up to love. Others are emotionally unavailable because of the amount of emotional baggage they are carrying from something that should have stayed in the past. We all have a romantic past, but having one or more relationships behind you is not the same as taking loads of emotional baggage into a new relationship. Remember, you are no one\u2019s rebound and no one\u2019s shoulder to cry on. If you meet someone who is obviously emotionally unavailable for any possible reason, don\u2019t take it as a challenge and don\u2019t make it your mission to tear down their walls or to help them get over the person before you. This is one of the deal-breakers you should avoid from the start if you don\u2019t want to get yourself hurt in the future.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>2. The two of you don&#8217;t want the same things from life<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>When you are entering into a new relationship, nobody can know where things will lead you. And while you shouldn\u2019t make long-term plans right at the beginning, it is always a good idea to have at least one serious talk with your partner. One important thing you need to check is if the two of you are on the same page and if you expect the same things from this relationship. If you are looking for a serious, long-term relationship and he doesn\u2019t want anything serious at the moment and is after a casual fling, or vice versa, you will have a problem and maybe it\u2019s best for the two of you to go your separate ways right away.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>3. Ele tem medo de se comprometer<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>Se um <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marieclaire.com\/sex-love\/a3595\/fear-of-commitment-relationship\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">o homem tem medo do compromisso<\/a>, he will probably tell you so from the very start. But, sadly, many women take this as a challenge, thinking they will be the one to change him and make him a monogamous, faithful man\u2014and this is one of the biggest mistakes you can make. If someone tells you they are not ready for commitment and you are looking for a real relationship, please believe them and walk away immediately. In most cases, guys who say they are not ready for anything serious actually want to have all the benefits of being a boyfriend, but don\u2019t want to have any of the responsibilities and the duties a real relationship brings. Usually, these guys are players and you need to avoid them without a shadow of a doubt. Otherwise, you will spend years waiting for him to come to his senses and that will probably never happen.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>4. Ele est\u00e1 a controlar<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>Quando conhecemos um rapaz que demonstra ci\u00fames, no in\u00edcio podemos sentir-nos lisonjeados, pensando que \u00e9 a forma de ele mostrar o quanto gosta de n\u00f3s e o quanto tem medo de nos perder. E, embora todos n\u00f3s sejamos ciumentos at\u00e9 certo ponto e um pouco de ci\u00fame possa ser doce, tamb\u00e9m pode ser um sinal da sua natureza controladora. Se vir que um homem \u00e9 demasiado possessivo e ciumento desde o in\u00edcio, \u00e9 prov\u00e1vel que ele esteja apenas a preparar o terreno para o seu futuro controlo. Antes de dar por isso, pode encontrar-se numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o abusiva, por isso \u00e9 melhor evitar estas coisas desde o in\u00edcio.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>5. Ele \u00e9 manipulador<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>Outro<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-tipos-de-homens-indisponiveis-a-evitar\/\"> tipo de homem que deve evitar<\/a> is the one who is too good to be true. We all have flaws and you shouldn\u2019t allow yourself to be misled by someone who hides his imperfections, while emphasizing yours. Usually, these guys are the ones who recognize your insecurities and use them to manipulate you. In the beginning, they know what it is exactly that you need to hear, but that is all a part of their manipulation. At first, they appear to be perfect, but as time goes by, they show their true colors. But because they are such a good actor, when you get to know their true face, you are usually already madly in love with them and it can be <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/hard-leave-one-love\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">dif\u00edcil de mover<\/a> longe deles.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>6. Voc\u00eas os dois n\u00e3o s\u00e3o compat\u00edveis<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>The last, but definitely not least deal-breaker you should pay attention to is compatibility. Many women get distracted by the attraction and the passion they feel toward a guy and they don\u2019t pay attention to other important things, such as compatibility. Although the feeling of being in love is important in the beginning and it is something that moves you toward a person, that feeling fades away and is not the basis for a healthy relationship. You should find someone who has the same world views and similar ambitions to you. If you happen to find a guy who puts you through an emotional roller coaster but deep down you know that the two of you are not compatible, maybe it is time to rethink your relationship before it goes any further. <!--codes_iframe--> <!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When we start a new relationship, we are usually blinded by this new person and we fail to see their true face. While we are in love, we tend to overlook some things about our partner which later turn out to be a big deal in the relationship. 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