{"id":152166,"date":"2022-06-03T10:18:02","date_gmt":"2022-06-03T10:18:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=152166"},"modified":"2022-06-08T08:58:29","modified_gmt":"2022-06-08T08:58:29","slug":"sinais-de-que-estao-a-namorar-nao-oficialmente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sinais-de-que-estao-a-namorar-nao-oficialmente\/","title":{"rendered":"Sinais de que voc\u00ea est\u00e1 namorando n\u00e3o oficialmente: Seguir em frente ou DTR?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Defining your relationship with someone you\u2019ve been seeing can be something you both dread and wish for. What if you\u2019re not on the same page?<\/strong> E se a outra pessoa quiser outra coisa e o que t\u00eam agora se perder?<\/p>\n

A lot of signs you are unofficially dating can tell you that you\u2019re beyond hanging out and moving into a new phase of your relationship. When you\u2019re involved in what relationship experts call a situationship, there are a few ways it can go.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Depende dos vossos sentimentos e inten\u00e7\u00f5es, e se ambos querem a mesma coisa, it might be time to either define your relationship or make space for a real one if this isn\u2019t it for you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Here\u2019s how to find out where you stand and what to do about it.<\/p>\n

Sinais de que est\u00e1 a namorar n\u00e3o oficialmente<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 muitos sinais de que se est\u00e1 a namorar n\u00e3o oficialmente<\/a>e podem dizer-nos muito sobre o tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o que se pode desenvolver.<\/p>\n

A casual relationship or a situationship may seem like a gray area, but it\u2019s important to note that it doesn\u2019t have to be a bad thing. You don\u2019t always need to have the talk \u2013 you can just enjoy having fun together.<\/strong><\/p>\n

No entanto, h\u00e1 alguns sinais que lhe dir\u00e3o que a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o passou para o territ\u00f3rio do romance,<\/strong> enquanto outros advertem you that you\u2019re on the threshold of a toxic relationship.<\/strong> There are ways to tell \u2013 you just have to take the leap.<\/p>\n

Mais do que um engate, menos do que um casal.<\/h3>\n

A lot of time, unofficial dating never turns into a serious relationship. This is completely fine if you\u2019re okay with it. Usually, as coisas complicam-se se o equil\u00edbrio das emo\u00e7\u00f5es se alterar,<\/strong> e enquanto uma pessoa est\u00e1 feliz como est\u00e1, a outra desenvolve sentimentos e quer seguir em frente.<\/p>\n

Here are some signs that, at the moment, you\u2019re happy being in a dating relationship. It\u2019s casual but not unimportant.<\/strong> Right now, you\u2019re just having fun, and while things might change in the future, at the moment, you\u2019re happy the way it is.<\/p>\n

1. V\u00eaem-se regularmente.<\/h3>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Even though you probably don’t call it going on dates, you see each other on a regular basis. Sometimes you go out, sometimes you stay in, but you see each other more often than not. Both of you take it as a given that you’ll see each other even when you don’t talk about it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

2. Est\u00e3o sempre a enviar mensagens de texto um ao outro.<\/h3>\n

Even when you’re not together, you stay in touch. It’s not only that mandam mensagens um ao outro todos os dias<\/a> \u2013 it’s that your texting never really stops. You don’t even hesitate to text them when you think of something they would like. There’s always something to talk about.<\/strong><\/p>\n

3. You\u2019re sexually compatible, but it\u2019s not just about that.<\/h3>\n

You\u2019ve had chemistry from the start, and this may be what drew you together. Still, there\u2019s something between you that’s more than just amigos com benef\u00edcios.<\/a><\/strong> You hang out without having sex, and things don\u2019t revolve around it. And yet, you\u2019re not quite together either.<\/p>\n

4. Tens ci\u00fames.<\/h3>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

You’re not a couple, but you don’t like it when there are hints that other people may be in the picture. Any mention of exes is irritating. This could be a sign that you want to change your relationship, or you’re just the kind of person who gets jealous easily.<\/strong><\/p>\n

5. You\u2019re not seeing other people.<\/h3>\n

De alguma forma acabaram por ser exclusivos<\/a> apesar de nunca terem falado sobre isso. You’re not dating anyone else, there are no flings, and you’ve forgotten you even had dating apps installed.<\/strong> It probably isn\u2019t even on purpose \u2013 it\u2019s just that it never occurs to you at all to look elsewhere.<\/p>\n

6. Tens piadas internas.<\/h3>\n

Lots of your jokes are of the \u2018you had to be there\u2019 kind because when you spend as much time with someone as you do, you have lots of experiences and make memories that don\u2019t include other people.<\/strong> Provavelmente tamb\u00e9m t\u00eam alcunhas que utilizam uns com os outros.<\/p>\n

7. Podem falar uns com os outros.<\/h3>\n

You\u2019re able to talk to each other about more than just what you\u2019ve been up to and what you\u2019re into. You\u2019ve shared things with each other that you don\u2019t talk about easily, and you were there to listen when they shared theirs.<\/strong><\/p>\n

8. You’re comfortable with each other.<\/h3>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

It might take a while for people to become comfortable around each other, but you\u2019re already there. Sentem-se suficientemente descontra\u00eddos um com o outro para serem quem s\u00e3o<\/strong>. You might not have reached the point of intimacy yet, but you don\u2019t feel like you have to hold back around them.\u017e<\/p>\n

9. Existem alguns sentimentos.<\/h3>\n

Maybe it\u2019s not love, but there\u2019s probably some level of caring for each other that you feel. If someone asked you how you felt, defining it might be hard. You like them, that\u2019s for sure, but you don\u2019t really know what you want to do with those feelings at the moment.<\/strong><\/p>\n

10. Evita rotular as coisas<\/a>.<\/h3>\n

What are you? You don\u2019t know, and you might or might not care. At this point, things might work for the both of you as they are, but it\u2019s unlikely that your relationship will stay the way it is. Ou se desvanece ou se torna s\u00e9rio<\/strong>. Only the two of you can decide which way it\u2019s going.<\/p>\n

Dever\u00e1 torn\u00e1-lo oficial?<\/h3>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Por vezes, uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o casual \u00e9 j\u00e1 uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica. Se sentir que est\u00e1 a precisar, talvez seja a altura certa para definir a rela\u00e7\u00e3o e chamar-vos oficialmente um casal<\/strong>. Se o fizer, pode dar-vos um empurr\u00e3o para se tornarem ainda mais pr\u00f3ximos.<\/p>\n

Here are the signs that you\u2019re already unofficially official:<\/p>\n

1. Ambos querem estar juntos.<\/h4>\n

This is really the most important thing when you think about relationships \u2013 s\u00f3 pode ser bem sucedido se ambas as pessoas o quiserem.<\/strong> Only then will you put in the work and give it your all. If you\u2019re both on the same page, then making it official is just a formality.<\/p>\n

2. Voc\u00eas querem-se um ao outro nas vossas vidas.<\/h4>\n

Because you want to be part of each other\u2019s lives, criam espa\u00e7o e tempo um para o outro<\/a><\/strong>. It goes from small things, like keeping toothbrushes in each other\u2019s bathrooms, to more significant ones, like a standing invitation to each other\u2019s family gatherings.<\/p>\n

3. J\u00e1 parece oficial.<\/h4>\n

The only difference between a \u2018real relationship\u2019 and what you have is that you\u2019ve never really sat down and talked about it. A raz\u00e3o mais prov\u00e1vel \u00e9 que nunca se apercebeu da necessidade de o fazer e limitou-se a seguir o fluxo.<\/strong> Se os seus sentimentos em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a isto mudarem, talvez seja altura de conversar.<\/p>\n

4. People sort of assume you\u2019re together.<\/h4>\n

Um bom sinal de que you\u2019re giving off couple vibes<\/a> is if people already think you are one. It doesn\u2019t even have to mean that you\u2019re doing couple-y things where others can see, just that something about the two of you tells others that you\u2019re together.<\/p>\n

5. You\u2019ve talked about the future.<\/h4>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

While you\u2019ve never talked about having an official relationship, you\u2019ve already talked about doing things together in the future. Including each other in your future plans \u2013 such as having made vacation plans for the summer together or even more long-term plans \u2013 means that j\u00e1 se v\u00eaem como parceiros.<\/strong><\/p>\n

6. Being vulnerable with each other isn’t scary.<\/h4>\n

Sharing your softer sides with each other doesn\u2019t make you feel like you\u2019re at risk of getting hurt. Instead, tem confian\u00e7a em que a outra pessoa o aceitar\u00e1 e o far\u00e1 sentir-se acarinhado e compreendido.<\/strong><\/p>\n

7. Estar juntos \u00e9 uma prioridade<\/a>.<\/h4>\n

You always have time for each other. When you don\u2019t, you make time. Passar tempo juntos \u00e9 a coisa mais importante para os dois<\/strong>e preferem sacrificar outras coisas do que deixar de se verem um ao outro.<\/p>\n

8. You care about each other’s opinions.<\/h4>\n

Quando temos algo a acontecer nas nossas vidas, queremos partilh\u00e1-lo com a outra pessoa e saber o que ela pensa sobre o assunto. Quando t\u00eam de tomar uma decis\u00e3o importante, querem ouvir a sua opini\u00e3o. Taking into account each other\u2019s opinions and thoughts is one of the signs that you see each other as partners.<\/strong><\/p>\n

9. Confiam uns nos outros.<\/h4>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

You\u2019re the first person they come to when something good, bad, funny, or important happens and vice versa. Quando precisamos de alguma coisa, \u00e9 com eles que contamos para nos ajudarem.<\/strong> Sabem que podem desabafar uns com os outros sem serem julgados.<\/p>\n

10. You know each other\u2019s friends and families.<\/h4>\n

You have not only met each other\u2019s family and friends, but you\u2019re also close to some of them by now. N\u00e3o se separarem dos vossos entes queridos \u00e9 mais um passo para se inclu\u00edrem um ao outro nas vossas vidas.<\/strong> They all probably assume you\u2019re official.<\/p>\n

11. Continua encontros rom\u00e2nticos<\/a>.<\/h4>\n

You don’t just hang out; you go on actual dates that have been carefully planned. You’re happiest when you’re together, and you want that time to be as special as possible.<\/strong> You have a good time when you’re together casually, but you also make an effort to spend romantic time together.<\/p>\n

12. V\u00eaem-se a si pr\u00f3prios como uma unidade.<\/h4>\n

Passar muito tempo juntos e criar la\u00e7os estreitos faz com que comecemos a ver-nos como uma unidade. Both of you use \u201cwe\u201d to talk about what you\u2019ve been doing because you\u2019re always doing things together.<\/strong> Mas tamb\u00e9m sentimos que o facto de estarmos juntos \u00e9 o que torna tudo especial.<\/p>\n

13. You’re not interested in anyone else.<\/h4>\n

Even though you\u2019re not officially in a committed relationship, in your hearts, you are. Nenhum de voc\u00eas tem qualquer interesse em ver outras pessoas, e a pr\u00f3pria ideia deixa-o desconfort\u00e1vel.<\/strong> Other people don\u2019t really exist for you, and you don\u2019t mind at all.<\/p>\n

14. You’re always talking about them to other people.<\/h4>\n

Whatever you\u2019re talking about, you can always find a way to turn the topic of conversation to them. Your friends and family members think it\u2019s cute and just a little bit annoying.<\/strong> But you can\u2019t help yourself \u2013 they\u2019re such an important part of your life that you can\u2019t think of anything that doesn\u2019t involve them.<\/p>\n

15. Sente uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional<\/a> durante o sexo.<\/h4>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

When you have sex, it feels intimate and significant. You\u2019re comfortable and uninhibited with each other, and you\u2019re able to communicate freely. A sua vida sexual \u00e9 divertida e saud\u00e1vel, mas h\u00e1 algo que vai para al\u00e9m do simples facto de passarem um tempo agrad\u00e1vel juntos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Quando seguir em frente<\/h3>\n

People get into relationships out of convenience or boredom and spend time with someone they don\u2019t really like enough to see themselves having a serious relationship with. Estar juntos pode aproximar-nos, mas tamb\u00e9m pode fazer com que n\u00e3o gostemos um do outro.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sometimes it\u2019s an acquaintance you start having sex with and hanging out with, so it\u2019s not even a clear FWB situation but something not here nor there.<\/p>\n

Things can change, though, and you\u2019re in for heartbreak if one person starts developing feelings for the other.<\/strong> Then it\u2019s nothing but bad news because the other person might still not really care.<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s how to tell that it\u2019s better to get out before someone gets hurt:<\/p>\n

1. You don’t make plans.<\/h4>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

When your relationship is one of convenience, you don\u2019t really try. You\u2019ll meet up only if the mood strikes and you have nothing better to do.<\/strong> If you\u2019ve made plans and something more interesting came up, it would be annoying, so you usually see each other on a whim.<\/p>\n

2. You don\u2019t talk about the future.<\/h4>\n

Os planos para o futuro, em especial, nunca surgem<\/a>. You don\u2019t think about them in that sense at all \u2013 picturing yourself with them down the road makes you feel bad because that would mean no one better came along. Prefere manter os seus planos para o futuro em aberto.<\/strong><\/p>\n

3. You don’t go on romantic dates.<\/h4>\n

N\u00e3o t\u00eam interesse em ser rom\u00e2nticos um com o outro. Hanging out is fine, even when it\u2019s just the two of you, but doing lovey-dovey stuff with them makes you break out in hives<\/strong>. You\u2019d rather not share romantic dinners or cuddle with this person if you have a choice.<\/p>\n

4. If someone else came along, you’d stop seeing them easily.<\/h4>\n

Outra pessoa pode facilmente arrebatar qualquer um de v\u00f3s. If someone you liked better came along, you\u2019d have no problem never seeing them again.<\/strong> It\u2019s not that you\u2019re sitting around and waiting for a better option, but if one came along, it would be easy to leave your current situation.<\/p>\n

5. You don’t really mention them to others.<\/h4>\n

\"tr\u00eas<\/p>\n

Pode sentir que as outras pessoas o julgariam se soubessem que est\u00e1 a namorar com elas. Talvez n\u00e3o, mas you don\u2019t want to risk it because you yourself don\u2019t like the fact that you\u2019re together, so you don\u2019t even want to be reminded of it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

6. You’re not crazy about being seen with them in public.<\/h4>\n

Maybe you\u2019re a little ashamed of your current relationship, or maybe you simply don\u2019t want to make any effort when it comes to them, but you don\u2019t want other people to see you together. If someone you know spotted you together, it would lead to questions and explanations, and you really don\u2019t want that.<\/strong><\/p>\n

7. Vai a lugares isolados.<\/h4>\n

Beyond just not being seen together, you\u2019re not too keen on going to places where there are a lot of people because you\u2019d feel uncomfortable about your behavior. You don\u2019t really like yourself when you\u2019re together, and you\u2019d rather keep it to yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

8. There’s no evidence of you being together.<\/h4>\n

You don\u2019t take pictures together, you don\u2019t share anything involving each other on social media, and you don\u2019t keep anything to remind you of them<\/strong>. At the moment, you\u2019re not eager to share your status, and you know that when you split up, you won\u2019t want to be reminded of this relationship.<\/p>\n

9. You’re only ‘together’ because it\u2019s convenient.<\/h4>\n

The main reason there\u2019s anything between you is because it\u2019s convenient. You\u2019re having fun hanging out and hooking up, but that\u2019s all there is.<\/strong> No entanto, quanto mais tempo ficar com eles, mais se afasta de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o com futuro.<\/p>\n

10. Nenhum de v\u00f3s quer nada s\u00e9rio<\/a> uns com os outros.<\/h4>\n

If neither of you really wants to be together, it\u2019s a clear sign that your relationship should probably end. It\u2019s not that you dislike each other, and it\u2019s not just a physical relationship, but something about them simply makes you not want to actually be together.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Como definir a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

The first thing before you decide to go into defining your relationship is to make sure that it really bothers you that there\u2019s no label. Don\u2019t feel pressured to define it if you\u2019re happy with it the way it is.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Quando o fizeres, abre o assunto, it\u2019s very important that you\u2019re able to express what you feel to the other person without worrying about what will happen to your relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You might both agree that you\u2019re fine with things as they are or that one of you needs more time before talking about the status of your relationship. A healthy relationship is based on open communication, and you have to be able to tell each other your concerns for a long-term relationship to be possible.<\/p>\n

1. Certifique-se de que est\u00e1 realmente interessado.<\/h3>\n

Em primeiro lugar, deve come\u00e7ar por pensar nos seus pr\u00f3prios sentimentos. Est\u00e1 interessado nesta pessoa?<\/a>ou a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 um h\u00e1bito nesta altura?<\/strong> Como \u00e9 que se sente em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a eles e consegue imaginar-se com eles no futuro?<\/p>\n

2. Pense na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/h3>\n

What\u2019s your relationship like? We talked about different versions of an unofficial relationship \u2013 which one does yours resemble? Gostas de como te faz sentir?<\/strong> Gostam de passar tempo juntos? Gostaria que as coisas mudassem ou ficassem na mesma?<\/p>\n

3. Descobrir o que a outra pessoa quer.<\/h3>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Mesmo antes de iniciar a conversa, you can tell how the other person feels from their behavior, but you shouldn\u2019t jump to conclusions.<\/strong> It\u2019s good to wait until you have an inkling that they might be on the same page, but you\u2019ll never know for sure until you actually talk to them.<\/p>\n

4. Ser honesto.<\/h3>\n

Don\u2019t try to downplay your feelings in fear that they\u2019re not reciprocated or that you\u2019ll get hurt. Seja aberto e informe a outra pessoa se precisar que o seu estado de relacionamento mude.<\/strong> Maybe they\u2019ve been waiting for you to make the first move this whole time. Maybe they\u2019re not ready.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve done the earlier steps and carefully examined your feelings, your relationship, and thought about what how they act tells you about their feelings, there\u2019s a chance that you\u2019re at the point where the both of you want the same thing.<\/strong><\/p>\n

5. Fa\u00e7a-o de forma casual.<\/h3>\n

Don\u2019t try to force anything, though. Make sure you\u2019re not coming on too strong<\/a> and demanding things if the other person isn\u2019t ready.<\/strong> If it\u2019s too soon, and you still need to spend more time together to be sure, give the both of you time and revisit the conversation later.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s a chance that both of you will decide that it\u2019s time to end things. It might be for the best if it just wasn\u2019t working, but you shouldn\u2019t grieve for something that wasn\u2019t right for either of you<\/strong>. Instead, look forward to the first date with someone new you\u2019re about to meet.<\/p>\n

Se perceberem que ambos querem uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica oficial, parab\u00e9ns! Take things easy at this point, and treat it as a new relationship even though you\u2019ve been together for some time.<\/strong> The reason for this is that things have changed, even though it seems they haven\u2019t that much, and it might take some time to get used to it.<\/p>\n

Fazer funcionar<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

When you\u2019ve moved past hanging out and you\u2019re actually spending significant time together, you might recognize yourself in some of these signs you are unofficially dating.<\/p>\n

Some of them mean that a casual relationship is fine at the moment. Some tell you to have the talk and make your romance official, while it\u2019s also possible that you shouldn\u2019t really continue this relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Any relationship coach will tell you that it\u2019s the feelings of both people involved that make all the difference, and this applies in this case as well. When the willingness to invest yourself in the relationship is on the same level, you\u2019re able to make things work.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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