{"id":152210,"date":"2022-06-05T09:38:18","date_gmt":"2022-06-05T09:38:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=152210"},"modified":"2022-06-06T12:30:15","modified_gmt":"2022-06-06T12:30:15","slug":"aborrecido-numa-relacao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/aborrecido-numa-relacao\/","title":{"rendered":"Porque \u00e9 que se sente aborrecido numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e o que fazer em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a isso"},"content":{"rendered":"

Even when you\u2019re happy in a romantic relationship, you can\u2019t take it for granted. Instead, you should always be mindful of the fact that \u00e9 preciso esfor\u00e7o para construir e cultivar a intimidade necess\u00e1ria para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o feliz.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Feeling bored in a relationship shows you that there\u2019s something about it that isn\u2019t working<\/strong>. In a way, boredom is a good thing because it lets you know that you should pay attention to what\u2019s going on and what you need to change.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 normal sentir-se aborrecido numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/h2>\n

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Quando falamos de aborrecimento numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, isso pode significar uma de duas coisas. Uma delas \u00e9 o conforto que se sente quando o entusiasmo que se sentia no in\u00edcio de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o diminui com o tempo<\/strong>, enquanto o outro \u00e9 um sentimento de insatisfa\u00e7\u00e3o com a rela\u00e7\u00e3o que resulta da falta de esfor\u00e7o.<\/strong><\/p>\n

1. Conforto<\/h3>\n

O primeiro tipo de aborrecimento numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 completamente natural. Quando a fase de lua de mel passa<\/a>Adapta-se \u00e0 sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/strong>. A paix\u00e3o inicial pela pessoa amada arrefece com o tempo e a montanha russa de sentimentos intensos acalma-se.<\/p>\n

O t\u00e9dio n\u00e3o \u00e9 a mesma coisa que estar confort\u00e1vel. When a relationship is stable and steady, it means that it\u2019s based on commitment, affection, understanding, and support.<\/strong> Estar \u00e0 vontade com o seu parceiro significa que confia nele e que pode ser voc\u00ea mesmo com a outra pessoa.<\/p>\n

It also doesn\u2019t imply that it is impossible to keep the relationship exciting because you have grown used to it. A verdadeira felicidade numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o a longo prazo adv\u00e9m do equil\u00edbrio entre a excita\u00e7\u00e3o e a intimidade.<\/strong><\/p>\n

2. Aborrecimento<\/h3>\n

O t\u00e9dio \u00e9 causado por uma falta de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o e de esfor\u00e7o. Quando falta uma destas duas coisas, cai-se na rotina e perde-se o interesse.<\/p>\n

Sem conversas profundas para conhecer melhor o seu parceiro<\/a> a um n\u00edvel profundo, s\u00f3 aprendemos coisas superficiais sobre eles e acreditamos que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 mais nada.<\/strong> Quando se toma a rela\u00e7\u00e3o como garantida, fica-se insatisfeito e infeliz. A sua vida amorosa perde o entusiasmo e o sentimento de realiza\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Feeling bored with your relationship doesn\u2019t automatically mean that it’s over<\/strong>. Most couples go through rough patches, and it\u2019s important to remember that problems in your relationship need work, not giving up.<\/p>\n

Boredom is a red flag letting you know that you need to pay more attention to your relationship and motivates you to make a change in the areas that aren\u2019t working.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00c9 fundamental tratar o t\u00e9dio logo que se aperceba dele, pois pode conduzir a problemas mais graves. Unless things change, you\u2019ll start to feel a loss of interest, affection, and attention for your partner, which could lead to the end of your relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sinais de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o aborrecida<\/h2>\n

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If you\u2019ve been experiencing some of these problems, it could indicate that you\u2019re feeling bored in a relationship. It\u2019s more likely that only a few and not all or most of these signs apply to you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Utilize esta lista para se orientar e saber o que deve procurar e reconhecer os aspectos a que deve prestar aten\u00e7\u00e3o:<\/p>\n

1. You don’t try to solve the problems in your relationship.<\/h3>\n

\u2022 You ignore your problems even when you notice them.<\/p>\n

\u2022 You don\u2019t deal with them because you don\u2019t know how.<\/p>\n

\u2022 It seems too hard to solve your problems, so you don\u2019t want to bother at all.<\/p>\n

2. N\u00e3o tens nada para falar.<\/h3>\n

\u2022 You don\u2019t share things with your partner.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Even small talk is difficult.<\/p>\n

\u2022 You\u2019re not interested in what they have to say.<\/p>\n

\u2022 You don\u2019t talk about your feelings.<\/p>\n

\u2022 You’d rather sit in awkward silence than try to find something to talk about.<\/p>\n

3. Evita passar tempo com o seu parceiro.<\/h3>\n

\u2022 You make excuses not to spend time together.<\/p>\n

\u2022 You dislike spending time together.<\/p>\n

\u2022 You prefer spending time with other people.<\/p>\n

\u2022 It\u2019s much more enjoyable being on your own than with your partner.<\/p>\n

4. You’re often irritated with your partner for no reason.<\/h3>\n

\u2022 You\u2019re always annoyed with your partner but don\u2019t know why.<\/p>\n

\u2022 You feel like you’re both looking for the slightest flaws in each other.<\/p>\n

\u2022 You lash out at your partner over small things.<\/p>\n

\u2022 You pick senseless fights.<\/p>\n

5. Sente que n\u00e3o tem nada em comum.<\/h3>\n

\u2022 You feel like your opinions are completely different.<\/p>\n

\u2022 You feel like you don\u2019t want the same things.<\/p>\n

\u2022 You don\u2019t share any interests.<\/p>\n

\u2022 You feel like you\u2019re not really friends.<\/p>\n

6. Gostavas de poder mudar de parceiro.<\/h3>\n

\u2022 You don\u2019t like your partner\u2019s behavior, personality, or how they treat you.<\/p>\n

\u2022 You wish they could be different from what they are, but you don\u2019t talk to them about it.<\/p>\n

\u2022 You feel distant from your partner, so you don\u2019t understand them.<\/p>\n

7. You think about what it\u2019s like being single.<\/h3>\n

\u2022 You look at other people, curious about what it would be like to be with them.<\/p>\n

\u2022 You’re thinking about what dating someone would be like.<\/p>\n

\u2022 You wonder about what it would feel like not to be in a relationship.<\/p>\n

8. Sente-se menos atra\u00eddo pelo seu parceiro.<\/h3>\n

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\u2022 You\u2019re not as interested in your partner sexually as you used to be.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Your emotional attraction is not as strong.<\/p>\n

\u2022 It feels mutual.<\/p>\n

9. A sua vida sexual deixou de ser excitante.<\/h3>\n

\u2022 You don\u2019t have sex as often as you used to.<\/p>\n

\u2022 When you do have sex, it\u2019s more exercise than fun.<\/p>\n

- You\u2019re not sexually interested in each other.<\/a><\/p>\n

\u2022 You don\u2019t feel like working on your sex life.<\/p>\n

10. You don’t have fun together.<\/h3>\n

\u2022 You can\u2019t remember the last time you had fun together.<\/p>\n

\u2022 You have more fun on your own than with your partner.<\/p>\n

\u2022 When you want to do something fun, you\u2019re reluctant to include them.<\/p>\n

11. A vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o tornou-se rotineira.<\/h3>\n

\u2022 Your relationship feels like a chore and an obligation.<\/p>\n

\u2022 You are in a rut, and every day is the same.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Nothing your partner does surprises or excites you.<\/p>\n

12. A sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de romance desapareceu.<\/h3>\n

\u2022 There\u2019s no joy in small shared moments and touches with your partner.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Neither of you tries to be romantic.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Your relationship feels cold.<\/p>\n

13. You’re concerned about the future of your relationship.<\/h3>\n

\u2022 You two never talk about the future.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Thinking about the future makes you feel uneasy.<\/p>\n

\u2022 You\u2019re wondering if you even have a future together.<\/p>\n

14. You don’t appreciate each other the way you used to.<\/h3>\n

\u2022 You’ve lost interest in your partner’s life, thoughts, and feelings or interests.<\/p>\n

\u2022 You aren’t as attentive to each other as you once were.<\/p>\n

- Tomam-se uns aos outros como garantidos.<\/a><\/p>\n

15. You’ve stopped caring.<\/h3>\n

\u2022 You don\u2019t feel like it\u2019s worth bothering to try making your relationship work.<\/p>\n

\u2022 You don\u2019t really care what happens.<\/p>\n

\u2022 You\u2019re starting to feel like things are hopeless.<\/p>\n

Causas do t\u00e9dio nos relacionamentos<\/h2>\n

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A lack of trying, intimacy, and communication can cause boredom in a relationship. Here\u2019s how it happens:<\/p>\n

1. You don\u2019t have meaningful conversations.<\/h3>\n

Only having casual conversations or talking about unimportant things will make your connection suffer. If you don’t talk about your feelings but instead focus on small talk, gossip, or similar, it\u2019s difficult to feel like you and your partner understand each other.<\/p>\n

2. You don’t listen to each other.<\/h3>\n

Unless you\u2019re really listening to what the other person is saying when you\u2019re talking, it\u2019s impossible to learn things about them, which is how you should keep discovering new things about each other.<\/p>\n

3. There’s no emotional intimacy.<\/h3>\n

If you don’t allow yourselves to be vulnerable with each other and share your hopes, dreams, thoughts, and opinions, you won\u2019t be able to establish an emotional connection. Without an emotional connection, it\u2019s impossible to feel the closeness of a true partnership.<\/p>\n

4. You’re ignoring your feelings.<\/h3>\n

When you ignore your feelings about your relationship or your partner, you won\u2019t be able to deal with them. Hurt feelings that are left to fester can cause resentment and anger. Instead, you should work on developing a relationship in which feelings are discussed and accepted.<\/p>\n

5. You’re not making an effort.<\/h3>\n

N\u00e3o mostrar interesse, aten\u00e7\u00e3o e afeto ao seu parceiro e n\u00e3o estar presente quando ele precisa de si \u00e9 muitas vezes causado por uma falta de vontade de trabalhar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e n\u00e3o por uma falta de sentimentos. A raz\u00e3o para isso \u00e9 o facto de acreditar que uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o deve funcionar por si s\u00f3.<\/p>\n

6. You\u2019ve become overly comfortable.<\/h3>\n

Even when you\u2019re confident in your relationship, you can never take it for granted. When things are working, it\u2019s easy to get stuck in your comfort zone and stop giving your attention to the relationship. T\u00eam de se apoiar mutuamente<\/a> and talk to each other \u2013 if you’re not really trying, even the happiest relationship won\u2019t work.<\/p>\n

7. You’ve forgotten about romance.<\/h3>\n

When you stop making an effort for each other, and you\u2019re never romantic, charm can disappear from your relationship. Casual touches, flirting, and compliments go a long way in making things more exciting and fun.<\/p>\n

8. As mudan\u00e7as na sua vida est\u00e3o a afetar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/h3>\n

Problemas de dinheiro, demasiadas horas de trabalho, um novo beb\u00e9 e outras quest\u00f5es da vida podem ter um impacto na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Por exemplo, os casais que est\u00e3o a tentar construir uma vida est\u00e1vel podem muitas vezes sentir falta de entusiasmo por se concentrarem em coisas pr\u00e1ticas em vez da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

9. You’ve lost yourself in your relationship.<\/h3>\n

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If it\u2019s always \u2018we\u2019 and never \u2018I,\u2019 you might have invested too much in the relationship and lost yourself. You need more time to care for yourself before you dedicate your efforts to your relationship.<\/p>\n

10. You\u2019ve neglected your personal goals.<\/h3>\n

Quando as coisas se acalmarem, poder\u00e1 ficar ressentido com o seu parceiro se suspender todos os planos que tinha quando entrou na rela\u00e7\u00e3o. \u00c9 necess\u00e1rio ter objectivos para alcan\u00e7ar para a realiza\u00e7\u00e3o pessoal.<\/p>\n

11. You don’t have interests of your own.<\/h3>\n

If you\u2019ve invested too much of yourself into your relationship and all your interests and hobbies are shared with your partner, you might start feeling suffocated.<\/p>\n

12. You don’t share any goals and interests.<\/h3>\n

Conversely, if both of you have very distinct goals and interests, you can feel as if you\u2019re not connected at all.<\/p>\n

13. You’re not making time for each other.<\/h3>\n

If you\u2019re too busy to make time for your partner and vice versa, you\u2019re prioritizing other things over them. Make it a habit to include each other in your lives, and don\u2019t neglect to give each other time and attention.<\/p>\n

14. You don’t give each other attention.<\/h3>\n

If you\u2019re neglecting each other\u2019s needs, ignoring each other, and not learning new things about each other regularly, you will grow apart. Giving your partner attention is necessary.<\/p>\n

15. Tem expectativas irrealistas<\/a><\/h3>\n

After the honeymoon phase, most relationships settle down and become more solid and less intense. If you thought that this change wouldn\u2019t happen to you, something as natural as becoming comfortable around your partner might make you feel like things are not okay.<\/p>\n

16. Esqueceste-te porque gostas do teu parceiro.<\/h3>\n

When you forget why you were attracted to your partner in the first place, you might lose sight of why you\u2019re in the relationship at all. Pay attention and try to recognize the things about them that once excited you.<\/p>\n

17. You’re neglecting physical intimacy.<\/h3>\n

When you don\u2019t feel excited about having sex together, and it becomes just something that should be done, it loses its purpose. If your sex life has become routine, it might be pushing you apart instead of bringing you closer.<\/p>\n

18. Nunca tens discuss\u00f5es.<\/h3>\n

Nunca discutir numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o pode ser pior do que discutir demasiado. A complac\u00eancia e o excesso de compromissos impedem-no de partilhar coisas com as quais a outra pessoa pode n\u00e3o concordar, com o objetivo de manter a paz. Aceitar argumentos<\/a> \u2013 allow yourself different opinions, and let your partner share theirs.<\/p>\n

19. You’re stuck in a routine.<\/h3>\n

If you\u2019re always doing the same things and going to the same places, sooner or later, you become stuck in a rut. A lack of new experiences can make you stop feeling attracted to your partner because you become too used to them, and they never surprise you anymore.<\/p>\n

20. Espera-se que as coisas melhorem por si pr\u00f3prias.<\/h3>\n

N\u00e3o tentar resolver os problemas \u00e9 uma das raz\u00f5es por detr\u00e1s de rela\u00e7\u00f5es mal sucedidas. Os problemas raramente desaparecem por si pr\u00f3prios e, quanto mais tempo se negligencia as coisas, mais dif\u00edcil se torna resolv\u00ea-las. Todas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es precisam de trabalho e esfor\u00e7o.<\/p>\n

What To Do If You\u2019re Bored In A Relationship<\/h2>\n

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It takes work to cultivate a healthy relationship, but it shouldn\u2019t be a struggle. You must avoid complacency and make an effort to nurture intimacy. Mostre ao seu parceiro que o aprecia e fa\u00e7a-o sentir-se amado.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Furthermore, you must not neglect your own life outside your relationship. Unless you’re happy with yourself, it’s unlikely that you’ll be happy in your relationship. These are os passos para resolver a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/a><\/p>\n

1. Figure out if you’re really bored or actually comfortable.<\/h3>\n

First of all, examine your expectations. Being content isn’t boredom, and your expectations might be unrealistic if you believe that every day has to be exciting and intense.<\/p>\n

Furthermore, if you\u2019re used to more drama in a relationship than your current one has, talvez esteja a confundir estabilidade com aborrecimento<\/strong>. On the other hand, if you\u2019re feeling restless with your partner, things might not be working.<\/p>\n

Neste caso, pense nas partes da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o que s\u00e3o aborrecidas e no que deve mudar para a melhorar. Figure out whether you\u2019re committed to making the relationship work and if you want to be in it in the first place.<\/strong><\/p>\n

2. Concentre-se na sua vida pessoal.<\/a><\/h3>\n

Think about whether your boredom extends to the rest of your life or if you\u2019re only bored in your relationship. O sentimento de t\u00e9dio pode ser causado pela monotonia da vida quotidiana, por problemas pessoais ou por problemas de sa\u00fade mental.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 a esfor\u00e7ar-se noutras partes da sua vida ou est\u00e1 apenas a descansar? Make sure you’re first happy and fulfilled outside of your relationship, and then you can focus on your partner.<\/strong><\/p>\n

3. Explore a verdadeira raz\u00e3o por detr\u00e1s do seu t\u00e9dio.<\/h3>\n

When you\u2019ve established that it\u2019s not your expectations or your personal life and that you actually are bored with the relationship, try to determine a raz\u00e3o exacta do seu t\u00e9dio.<\/strong> When you find why, commit to solving your problems and don\u2019t only look for a temporary solution.<\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 que parece aborrecido na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/strong> Maybe you\u2019re doing the things you\u2019ve always done, but you or your partner may have changed. Use this chance to learn more about yourself and each other and decide to never stop learning.<\/p>\n

Comprometam-se a falar um com o outro sobre os vossos problemas, a rir juntos e a desenvolver uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional.<\/strong><\/p>\n

4. Trabalhar a intimidade.<\/a><\/h3>\n

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A intimidade, a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de estar perto do seu parceiro, \u00e9 fundamental numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Para a trabalhardeve optar por ser honesto com o seu parceiro sobre os seus sentimentos e pensamentos<\/strong>. Concentrar-se numa verdadeira comunica\u00e7\u00e3o: abrir-se e falar com o seu parceiro sem medos e inibi\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

Think about the things you do like in your relationship, and don\u2019t neglect those either.<\/strong> Fa\u00e7a o esfor\u00e7o necess\u00e1rio para se sentir pr\u00f3ximo do seu parceiro atrav\u00e9s da intimidade f\u00edsica e da liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional.<\/p>\n

5. Despertar o romance.<\/h3>\n

Romance is the part of relationships that makes things exciting. You don\u2019t have to spice things up with things like role-playing or regular date nights if that\u2019s not your thing, but instead, encontrar uma forma de mostrar constantemente afeto e aten\u00e7\u00e3o ao seu parceiro.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Be thoughtful and attentive to your partner’s needs and wants.<\/strong> Be present, and don’t be distant. Don\u2019t save romantic gestures for special occasions, but do things just because.<\/p>\n

Inclua nas suas interac\u00e7\u00f5es di\u00e1rias coisas como dar as m\u00e3os, abra\u00e7ar, beijar, tocar, namoriscar e fazer elogios para se aproximar do seu parceiro e tornar o tempo que passam juntos mais doce.<\/p>\n

6. Experimentar coisas novas em conjunto.<\/h3>\n

Experimentar coisas novas em conjunto pode ajudar-vos a restabelecer a liga\u00e7\u00e3o e a encontrar formas de trazer de volta a paix\u00e3o e o entusiasmo. A partilha de novas actividades significa a partilha de novas experi\u00eancias, mem\u00f3rias e sentimentos.<\/strong> Passem tempo juntos a fazer coisas divertidas, como experimentar um novo passatempo ou um novo restaurante, ou fa\u00e7am algo com significado para ambos.<\/p>\n

7. Tentar aconselhamento em mat\u00e9ria de rela\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/a><\/h3>\n

If you believe that it would be useful or you need hands-on guidance, visiting a couple\u2019s therapist or a relationship coach together may be your best bet. N\u00e3o \u00e9 preciso ter vergonha de procurar ajuda para problemas de relacionamento, e trabalhar com um profissional pode dar-lhe ferramentas para resolver os seus problemas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Quando \u00e9 que se deve acabar?<\/h2>\n

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So you\u2019ve tried things like sharing interests, having date nights, and maybe even visiting a relationship expert, and none of it was enough to make you feel better about your relationship. If nothing works, you shouldn\u2019t ignore the option to end the relationship.<\/p>\n

These are signals that suggest that maybe this relationship isn\u2019t meant to be:<\/p>\n

1. Se decidir que n\u00e3o vale a pena salvar a rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/h3>\n

Quando tudo estiver dito e feito, if your relationship feels more like a chore than a partnership, and you don’t feel like putting in work, dragging it out will only end in resentment and even more heartache than rutura<\/a><\/strong> when you realize it\u2019s wrong<\/a> and you don\u2019t want to try.<\/p>\n

2. If you’ve tried everything and you’re still unhappy.<\/h3>\n

Boredom is one of the reasons relationships fail, but it\u2019s not the only one. Even if you\u2019ve tried to deal with the problem of feeling bored, it won\u2019t help if there are other things that stop you from being happy, such as aus\u00eancia de confian\u00e7a, prioridades diferentes ou falta de empenhamento.<\/strong><\/p>\n

3. Se o seu parceiro o est\u00e1 a atrasar.<\/h3>\n

When you\u2019re determined to work on yourself \u2013 your mental health, your interests, your career, or any other aspect of your life \u2013 and your partner isn\u2019t giving you support, or even worse, holds you back, your relationship probably doesn\u2019t have a future.<\/strong><\/p>\n

4. Se you’re incompatible.<\/a><\/h3>\n

Even when there\u2019s attraction, feelings, and desire for a relationship, a lack of compatibility can make a relationship impossible. If your values, lifestyles, sexual needs, habits, or other qualities don\u2019t fit, you\u2019ll only be for\u00e7ar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> with someone who isn\u2019t for you<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

5. If you\u2019ve fallen out of love.<\/h3>\n

If one of the reasons for drifting apart is because you\u2019re not in love with your partner anymore, it\u2019s not likely that those feelings will come back<\/strong>. Se, em vez de argumentos, escolherem o desprezo; em vez de se ouvirem uns aos outros, fica na defensiva<\/a>; if you\u2019ve checked out instead of trying to solve problems, it might be time to call it quits.<\/p>\n

Cultive a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

Estar aborrecido numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o pode ser uma fase ou um motivo de alarme. A forma como lida com isso depende do facto de acreditar suficientemente na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o para se esfor\u00e7ar. A maneira de escapar ao t\u00e9dio \u00e9 mostrar interesse genu\u00edno pelo seu parceiro e concentrar-se em construir intimidade.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Quando o seu parceiro se torna verdadeiramente seu companheiro e algu\u00e9m que aprecia, ama e confia, o tipo de aborrecimento que significa um problema na rela\u00e7\u00e3o desaparecer\u00e1. The only kind of boredom you\u2019ll feel is the good kind, where you can sit around together and do nothing and enjoy those moments.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Even when you\u2019re happy in a romantic relationship, you can\u2019t take it for granted. Instead, you should always be mindful of the fact that it takes effort to build and nurture the intimacy necessary for a happy relationship. Feeling bored in a relationship shows you that there\u2019s something about it that isn\u2019t working. In a…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":152221,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-152210","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Why-Youre-Bored-In-A-Relationship-What-To-Do-About-It-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/152210","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=152210"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/152210\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/152221"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=152210"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=152210"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=152210"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}