{"id":15227,"date":"2020-10-23T14:24:29","date_gmt":"2020-10-23T14:24:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15227"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:07:46","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:07:46","slug":"a-verdade-e-que-ela-finalmente-acabou-de-desaparecer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-verdade-e-que-ela-finalmente-acabou-de-desaparecer\/","title":{"rendered":"A verdade \u00e9 que ela finalmente deixou de sentir a tua falta"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ela pensava que nunca iria ganhar esta batalha. Era exaustiva e durava para sempre.<\/p>\n<p>You know, some happy moments pass in a heartbeat but when you\u2019re hurting it seems like it\u2019s taking an eternity.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>That\u2019s how she felt. Her minutes became hours of unbearable pain. Her heart felt like it had been stabbed with an ice pick and frozen forever.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Ela pensou que nunca mais sentiria amor. Pensou que a nuvem negra sobre a sua cabe\u00e7a nunca mais desapareceria.<\/p>\n<p>Pensou que estava presa numa rotina da qual n\u00e3o havia sa\u00edda.<\/p>\n<p>A sua viagem foi longa e dolorosa mas, no final, ela conseguiu. E conseguiu-o quando finalmente desistiu.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Ela desistiu de tentar voltar atr\u00e1s no tempo.<\/i><\/b> Ela percebeu que <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theodysseyonline.com\/why-the-past-should-stay-the-past\" rel=\"noopener\">o passado deve ficar no seu lugar<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Ela decidiu deixar os seus dem\u00f3nios e seguir em frente com a sua vida. Ela decidiu que tu n\u00e3o significavas nada para ela. J\u00e1 n\u00e3o significa mais.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Ela desistiu de o odiar<\/i><\/b><b>.<\/b> She knows it\u2019s your fault for putting her through the hell she lived in. She realized it was your fault she lost her beautiful self in a toxic relationship.<\/p>\n<p>She realized you manipulated her because you didn\u2019t know any better. And in the beginning, she hated you for that.<\/p>\n<p>Ela odiava cada fibra do teu ser. Mas quando ela finalmente o deixou ir, ela libertou-se de si.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Desistiu de se ressentir de si pr\u00f3pria.<\/i><\/b> Embora <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/stephenie-zamora\/i-dont-have-the-happy-ending-story-for-you-yet_b_8140958.html\" rel=\"noopener\">your story didn\u2019t have a happy ending<\/a>, it doesn\u2019t mean that it was unhappy from the start.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o, ela teve muitos momentos agrad\u00e1veis contigo e, infelizmente, guardou-os quando voc\u00eas acabaram. Ent\u00e3o, ela sentiu a tua falta. Ela queria que voltasses porque pensava que podias mudar, que podias voltar a ser a mesma pessoa que eras quando te conheceu.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123650 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-woman-is-sitting-next-to-the-pier.jpg\" alt=\"a mulher est\u00e1 sentada junto ao cais\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-woman-is-sitting-next-to-the-pier.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-woman-is-sitting-next-to-the-pier-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-woman-is-sitting-next-to-the-pier-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-woman-is-sitting-next-to-the-pier-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-woman-is-sitting-next-to-the-pier-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-woman-is-sitting-next-to-the-pier-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-woman-is-sitting-next-to-the-pier-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-woman-is-sitting-next-to-the-pier-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Mas, no fundo, ela sabia que isso n\u00e3o ia acontecer e, por isso, ressentiu-se durante muito tempo por querer estar consigo, apesar de saber que isso era mau para ela.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Finalmente, ela acordou do seu sonho e deixou de se odiar e de sentir a tua falta. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>But it wasn\u2019t easy all the time. Heartbreaks are like that. You think that you\u2019ll be okay in a day or two.<\/p>\n<p>You think you can conquer it all. More importantly, you decide that you will get over it and you convince yourself that you\u2019re fine, but you\u2019re not.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re not going to be fine for a long time.<\/p>\n<p>It all starts with anger after he leaves you. Then you move on to the \u2018fuck you\u2019 phase.<\/p>\n<p>Mas essa fase n\u00e3o \u00e9 consistente. Um momento<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/carta-a-rapariga-esforcou-se-muito-o-homem-nao-quis-saber\/\"> you don\u2019t care<\/a> e ele \u00e9 a \u00faltima coisa em que pensa, mas no momento seguinte d\u00e1 por si a olhar para as fotografias de voc\u00eas os dois, a chorar com o cora\u00e7\u00e3o aos saltos, com l\u00e1grimas pesadas como a\u00e7o a rolarem-lhe pelas faces.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s all about surviving. It\u2019s about keeping yourself sane. It\u2019s about healing and forgetting because in the end, you heal, you forgive and you move on with your life.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s just that when your heart gets broken, you feel like it\u2019s going to stay like that forever. You feel like your life isn\u2019t worth living.<\/p>\n<p>But then when it all passes, things don\u2019t seem as blue as they did back then.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123652 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-with-long-blonde-hair-sits-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher com longos cabelos loiros senta-se \u00e0 janela\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-with-long-blonde-hair-sits-by-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-with-long-blonde-hair-sits-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-with-long-blonde-hair-sits-by-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-with-long-blonde-hair-sits-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-with-long-blonde-hair-sits-by-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-with-long-blonde-hair-sits-by-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-with-long-blonde-hair-sits-by-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-with-long-blonde-hair-sits-by-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Esta rapariga percebeu que tinha de dar outra oportunidade \u00e0 sua vida. Ela percebeu que o tempo cura todas as feridas.<\/p>\n<p>Ela apercebeu-se de que tudo desaparecer\u00e1 um dia. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/vai-sentir-falta-de-perceber-que-nao-precisa\/\">She won\u2019t miss him<\/a> and she won\u2019t hate him.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s what happened. She was smart enough to give herself a chance to heal. She was smart enough to let time work in her benefit.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>She realized that she can\u2019t run away from pain. The sooner she feels it, the sooner it will pass.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>You have to feel pain and you have to learn the lesson, otherwise you\u2019ll be stuck in time, a very painful time. You\u2019ll be stuck inside your four walls, choking on your own tears and it will feel like an eternity.<\/p>\n<p>Tens de sofrer e o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o tem de sangrar enquanto as feridas ainda est\u00e3o frescas. Pensa nisso.<\/p>\n<p>Quando nos cortamos, sangramos e d\u00f3i. Mas com o passar do tempo, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/6-maneiras-de-curar-o-abuso-oculto\/\">d\u00f3i menos e a ferida cicatriza.<\/a> It has to. It\u2019s a law of nature.<\/p>\n<p>And although all of this may sound a bit cheesy, it\u2019s true. After some time, you don\u2019t look at the photos of the two of you together, and your tears don\u2019t feel heavy as steel.<\/p>\n<p>The thought of him doesn\u2019t make you sick anymore. It\u2019s true.<\/p>\n<p>Deixa de ter saudades dele.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-123648\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/The-Truth-Is-Shes-Finally-Done-Missing-You-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"A verdade \u00e9 que ela finalmente deixou de sentir a tua falta\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1499\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/The-Truth-Is-Shes-Finally-Done-Missing-You-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/The-Truth-Is-Shes-Finally-Done-Missing-You-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/The-Truth-Is-Shes-Finally-Done-Missing-You-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/The-Truth-Is-Shes-Finally-Done-Missing-You-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>She thought she would never win this battle. It was exhausting and it lasted forever. You know, some happy moments pass in a heartbeat but when you\u2019re hurting it seems like it\u2019s taking an eternity. That\u2019s how she felt. Her minutes became hours of unbearable pain. Her heart felt like it had been stabbed with&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":123647,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15227","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/The-Truth-Is-Shes-Finally-Done-Missing-You-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":1,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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