{"id":152313,"date":"2022-06-06T18:46:59","date_gmt":"2022-06-06T18:46:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=152313"},"modified":"2022-06-06T18:46:59","modified_gmt":"2022-06-06T18:46:59","slug":"10-erros-comuns-na-reconciliacao-do-casamento-a-evitar-apos-a-infidelidade","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-erros-comuns-na-reconciliacao-do-casamento-a-evitar-apos-a-infidelidade\/","title":{"rendered":"10 erros comuns na reconcilia\u00e7\u00e3o do casamento a evitar ap\u00f3s a infidelidade"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Oh no! Your partner cheated on you, and it\u2019s all out now. In the wake of this affair, you realize that what you have is too valuable to throw away. Your partner agrees, and you try to form a new relationship. In fact, I\u2019ve been through it, too, and I understand.<\/p>\n<p><strong>A infidelidade \u00e9 a causa mais comum de div\u00f3rcio. Pode ser dif\u00edcil voltar ao caminho certo depois de descobrir que tem um c\u00f4njuge infiel, mas alguns erros f\u00e1ceis de evitar podem ajudar a simplificar o processo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Next up are the 10 common marriage reconciliation mistakes to avoid after infidelity that I\u2019ve picked out for you.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>Os 10 erros mais comuns na reconcilia\u00e7\u00e3o do casamento a evitar ap\u00f3s a infidelidade<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-152318\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-in-conflict-after-an-affair.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-in-conflict-after-an-affair.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-in-conflict-after-an-affair-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-in-conflict-after-an-affair-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-in-conflict-after-an-affair-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-in-conflict-after-an-affair-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-in-conflict-after-an-affair-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-in-conflict-after-an-affair-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-in-conflict-after-an-affair-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-in-conflict-after-an-affair-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-in-conflict-after-an-affair-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-in-conflict-after-an-affair-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-in-conflict-after-an-affair-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-in-conflict-after-an-affair-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-in-conflict-after-an-affair-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-in-conflict-after-an-affair-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<h3>1. Don\u2019t build walls<\/h3>\n<p><em>Sometimes, the best way to reconcile is to build bridges. I know you\u2019re asking yourself <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-perdoar-um-traidor\/\">se vale a pena perdoar-lhes<\/a>. Ambos os parceiros precisam de dedicar algum tempo para compreender o que aconteceu e porqu\u00ea. Isto pode ser feito falando sobre a experi\u00eancia e processando o que correu mal.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>O mais importante \u00e9 n\u00e3o construir muros \u00e0 sua volta e \u00e0 volta do seu parceiro. Ambos devem ser capazes de falar sobre o que correu mal sem se sentirem culpados ou envergonhados. Isto significa que deve ter sempre a mente aberta e estar disposto a perdoar a outra pessoa.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o construir muros ajuda as pessoas que foram enganadas ou tra\u00eddas pelos seus parceiros. O seu objetivo \u00e9 reduzir a hostilidade e a raiva que muitas vezes acompanham esta situa\u00e7\u00e3o. Significa tamb\u00e9m que n\u00e3o se deve guardar rancor nem tentar vingar-se deles.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Fazer demasiadas perguntas<\/h3>\n<p>\u00c9 claro que h\u00e1 muitos <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-perguntas-a-fazer-ao-seu-conjuge-infiel\/\">perguntas que deve fazer ao seu c\u00f4njuge que o trai<\/a>. O parceiro infiel \u00e9 muitas vezes aquele sobre o qual o parceiro tra\u00eddo faz perguntas. H\u00e1 muitas maneiras de tentar reconciliar-se e reparar o que aconteceu.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Uma dessas formas \u00e9 fazer demasiadas perguntas sobre a situa\u00e7\u00e3o e fazer com que o seu parceiro se sinta desconfort\u00e1vel.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Se n\u00e3o quiser fazer demasiadas perguntas, tente falar sobre outras coisas que aconteceram na vossa vida ou simplesmente passem algum tempo juntos sem falar do passado.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>A melhor maneira de se reconciliar depois de uma trai\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 n\u00e3o fazer demasiadas perguntas. Isto dar-lhe-\u00e1 a oportunidade de processar a situa\u00e7\u00e3o e de encontrar as suas pr\u00f3prias respostas. Tamb\u00e9m lhe d\u00e1 tempo para refletir sobre o que pretende para a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o futura.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Don\u2019t take revenge<\/h3>\n<p>Revenge is definitely not the best way to deal with cheating in a relationship. It is better to take time off from the relationship. The cycle of revenge is a common one that never leads to anything good. It\u2019s better to take time for yourself.<\/p>\n<p><em>Depois de descobrir que o seu parceiro o traiu, \u00e9 natural sentir-se magoado e zangado. Mas vingar-se n\u00e3o \u00e9 a melhor forma de seguir em frente e reconciliar-se. A vingan\u00e7a n\u00e3o \u00e9 a melhor forma de ultrapassar uma rutura de rela\u00e7\u00e3o ou de reconcilia\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Leva-nos por um caminho desnecess\u00e1rio de raiva, arrependimento e ressentimento que pode causar mais problemas do que os que resolve.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Este \u00e9 um tema que \u00e9 frequentemente abordado quando as pessoas lutam para se reconciliarem com os seus parceiros depois de estes as terem tra\u00eddo. \u00c9 importante compreender a situa\u00e7\u00e3o e n\u00e3o se vingar.<\/p>\n<h3>4. Don\u2019t say it\u2019s OK<\/h3>\n<p>No, it\u2019s not OK, and you both know it. I know it. Everyone knows it. It is hard to reconcile after cheating. But, it is important not to say it\u2019s OK. The decision of whether or not to reconcile depends on the individual and whether or not they think it is best for their partner.<\/p>\n<p><em>It\u2019s not easy to reconcile after cheating, especially if you\u2019re the person who was cheated on. There are some things you need to do to make the relationship stronger again.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Remember that it\u2019s important to take care of yourself, even when your partner is not yet ready to reconcile.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Many people whose partners have cheated on them have found themselves in a difficult situation. They are unsure of what to do next, and they don\u2019t know if they should try to reconcile with the person they were cheated on by. This can be a difficult situation.<\/p>\n<h3>5. Sem redes sociais<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-152317\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/spouses-ignoring-each-other-while-using-phones.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/spouses-ignoring-each-other-while-using-phones.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/spouses-ignoring-each-other-while-using-phones-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/spouses-ignoring-each-other-while-using-phones-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/spouses-ignoring-each-other-while-using-phones-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/spouses-ignoring-each-other-while-using-phones-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/spouses-ignoring-each-other-while-using-phones-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/spouses-ignoring-each-other-while-using-phones-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/spouses-ignoring-each-other-while-using-phones-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/spouses-ignoring-each-other-while-using-phones-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/spouses-ignoring-each-other-while-using-phones-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/spouses-ignoring-each-other-while-using-phones-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/spouses-ignoring-each-other-while-using-phones-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/spouses-ignoring-each-other-while-using-phones-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/spouses-ignoring-each-other-while-using-phones-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/spouses-ignoring-each-other-while-using-phones-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>As redes sociais s\u00e3o uma \u00f3ptima ferramenta para nos mantermos ligados aos amigos e \u00e0 fam\u00edlia. Tornaram-se tamb\u00e9m uma forma de as pessoas encontrarem o amor e casarem-se. Mas no que diz respeito \u00e0s rela\u00e7\u00f5es, quanto mais as pessoas utilizam as redes sociais, menor \u00e9 a probabilidade de se reconciliarem ap\u00f3s uma trai\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p><strong>A s\u00e9rio, mantenham a vossa trai\u00e7\u00e3o e reconcilia\u00e7\u00e3o, e melhor ainda, todo o vosso casamento fora das redes sociais! Esta \u00e9 a melhor maneira de reconstruir a confian\u00e7a. A tenta\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 demasiado grande e s\u00f3 vai piorar as coisas para si e para o seu parceiro.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It is not easy to reconcile with your partner after cheating, but there are ways you can help make the process smoother. This means no talking about your divorce or cheating on your accounts, just like you shouldn\u2019t involve other people in the whole process.<\/p>\n<h3>6. Don\u2019t involve friends or family<\/h3>\n<p>\u00c9 importante compreender que n\u00e3o deve envolver amigos ou familiares e deix\u00e1-los interferir na sua reconcilia\u00e7\u00e3o ap\u00f3s uma trai\u00e7\u00e3o. Isso s\u00f3 ir\u00e1 causar mais problemas para si e para o seu parceiro. Existem muitas formas de reconcilia\u00e7\u00e3o ap\u00f3s uma trai\u00e7\u00e3o, mas \u00e9 essencial saber qual a forma correcta de o fazer.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Isto pode resultar em mais problemas e sofrimento para ambas as partes envolvidas. Estes amigos e familiares tentar\u00e3o ajudar o traidor, dando-lhe conselhos, dizendo-lhe como se deve comportar e tentando facilitar-lhe a vida.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Isto pode levar a sentimentos de culpa e ressentimento, bem como prejudicar as rela\u00e7\u00f5es com essas pessoas. Eu sei. Ser <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-e-que-ser-enganado-nos-muda\/\">enganado muda-te<\/a>mas deve ser mantida em segredo e partilhada apenas com quem deve saber. Al\u00e9m disso, os seus filhos tamb\u00e9m n\u00e3o devem ser envolvidos.<\/p>\n<h3>7. Don\u2019t think you can do it all yourself<\/h3>\n<p><em>Algumas pessoas podem sentir que j\u00e1 fizeram o suficiente ao pedir desculpa, mas continuam a ter dificuldades com os seus parceiros. Podem sentir que fizeram tudo o que podiam, mas o processo de reconcilia\u00e7\u00e3o ainda n\u00e3o est\u00e1 a correr bem. \u00c9 aqui que as outras pessoas entram em a\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Os profissionais com forma\u00e7\u00e3o neste tipo de trabalho devem ser a sua primeira escolha. Para se reconciliar ap\u00f3s uma trai\u00e7\u00e3o, \u00e9 importante certificar-se de que n\u00e3o est\u00e1 a fazer tudo sozinho e que, em vez disso, conta com o apoio de outros.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A trai\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 uma situa\u00e7\u00e3o grave e n\u00e3o ser\u00e1 f\u00e1cil reconciliar-se com a sua cara-metade. \u00c9 importante reservar algum tempo do seu dia para fazer coisas que o fa\u00e7am sentir melhor, bem como para dar apoio ao seu parceiro.<\/p>\n<h3>8. Don\u2019t hold grudges<\/h3>\n<p>As pessoas que foram v\u00edtimas de infidelidade debatem-se frequentemente com a forma de seguir em frente ap\u00f3s esta trai\u00e7\u00e3o. \u00c9 importante n\u00e3o guardar rancor contra o seu parceiro para poder curar-se e dar sentido \u00e0 situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<strong>De facto, esta \u00e9 uma das mais importantes <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/recuperacao-de-casos\/\">fases de recupera\u00e7\u00e3o de um caso.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Isto porque \u00e9 essencial perdoar e esquecer, uma vez que isso o tornar\u00e1 mais feliz a longo prazo.<\/strong> Perdoamos os erros dos nossos amigos e familiares porque isso nos far\u00e1 mais felizes a longo prazo. Se perdoarmos algu\u00e9m, estamos a dar-lhe uma segunda oportunidade de ser feliz.<\/p>\n<h3>9. Don\u2019t helicopter<\/h3>\n<p>Helicopter parents are often criticized for not trusting their children\u2019s judgment and making decisions for them. <strong>No entanto, t\u00eam uma raz\u00e3o de ser: querem que os seus filhos estejam em seguran\u00e7a. H\u00e1 tamb\u00e9m parceiros helic\u00f3pteros que protegem demasiado os seus parceiros traidores.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>While there are many ways to tell your partner you cheated, don\u2019t helicopter in your way of reconciliation. This is the worst way to get a divorce because you will constantly be helicoptering over your partner while they try to find a way out.<\/p>\n<h3>10. N\u00e3o tomar decis\u00f5es extremas<\/h3>\n<p>Algumas pessoas podem n\u00e3o ser capazes de perdoar os seus parceiros por trai\u00e7\u00e3o, mas nem sempre \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio afastar-se deles para sempre.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Existem formas de se reconciliar com eles e de ultrapassar o passado. Este \u00e9 o \u00faltimo, mas n\u00e3o menos importante, dos 10 erros comuns de reconcilia\u00e7\u00e3o do casamento a evitar ap\u00f3s a infidelidade.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-os-casos-acontecem\/\">Os casos acontecem<\/a> because we take extreme measures. In other words, you don\u2019t want to get into another relationship yourself, file for divorce immediately, or move out. These are all rushed decisions you should wait for.<\/p>\n<h2>Chegou a altura do div\u00f3rcio, ou vai dar-lhes outra oportunidade?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-152316\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/spouses-arguing-during-divorce.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/spouses-arguing-during-divorce.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/spouses-arguing-during-divorce-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/spouses-arguing-during-divorce-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/spouses-arguing-during-divorce-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/spouses-arguing-during-divorce-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/spouses-arguing-during-divorce-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/spouses-arguing-during-divorce-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/spouses-arguing-during-divorce-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/spouses-arguing-during-divorce-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/spouses-arguing-during-divorce-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/spouses-arguing-during-divorce-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/spouses-arguing-during-divorce-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/spouses-arguing-during-divorce-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/spouses-arguing-during-divorce-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/spouses-arguing-during-divorce-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Esta \u00e9 uma quest\u00e3o que muitas pessoas se colocam. Com o aumento da tecnologia e das redes sociais, pode ser dif\u00edcil mantermo-nos actualizados. Para alguns de n\u00f3s, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/desamor-depois-de-uma-infidelidade\/\">apaixonar-se<\/a> n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma op\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Nesta sec\u00e7\u00e3o, abordarei as diferentes op\u00e7\u00f5es para os casais que foram tra\u00eddos e o que devem fazer para decidir se \u00e9 altura de se divorciarem ou n\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>In some cases, it\u2019s best to give them another chance because they have changed. In other cases, divorce is the only option.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Se o traidor, o membro da fam\u00edlia ou o c\u00f4njuge tra\u00eddo tiver problemas em prosseguir com o processo de cura, a reconcilia\u00e7\u00e3o deve ser interrompida ou suspensa.<\/p>\n<p><em>A decis\u00e3o de perdoar e esquecer n\u00e3o \u00e9 f\u00e1cil, especialmente quando se trata do casamento. Mas se foi tra\u00eddo, h\u00e1 uma hip\u00f3tese de conseguir perdoar e esquecer o caso e tentar novamente no processo de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/reconstruir-a-confianca-numa-relacao\/\">restabelecer a confian\u00e7a<\/a> com o seu parceiro.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>The first step in healing after infidelity is to forgive. So many people think that the only way to get over cheating is to divorce, but that\u2019s not always the case.<\/p>\n<p><em>Forgiving cheating is a complicated process that can take months or even years. You and your partner need to decide what\u2019s best for you both if you want a healthy relationship in the future. Of course, do so while doing couples therapy or<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/aconselhamento-de-casais\/\"> aconselhamento matrimonial<\/a> com um especialista em rela\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c9 importante ter tempo para recuperar ap\u00f3s um incidente de trai\u00e7\u00e3o. Pode ser dif\u00edcil pensar no futuro quando ainda se est\u00e1 a recuperar.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This goes if you are surviving infidelity through a sexual or emotional affair. A lot of people can\u2019t forgive a partner\u2019s infidelity and soon walk away from the relationship. The main thing is that you should focus on your well-being and see if infidelity recovery is your thing.<\/p>\n<p>O parceiro do caso pode ser um colega de trabalho, um antigo amante ou outro conhecido. O mais importante \u00e9 que a sa\u00fade mental do casal se mantenha positiva, independentemente de qual dos parceiros teve um caso.<\/p>\n<h2>Como salvar um casamento depois de uma infidelidade?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-152319\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-in-therapy.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-in-therapy.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-in-therapy-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-in-therapy-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-in-therapy-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-in-therapy-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-in-therapy-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-in-therapy-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-in-therapy-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-in-therapy-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-in-therapy-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-in-therapy-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-in-therapy-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-in-therapy-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>Quais s\u00e3o algumas das formas de salvar um casamento ap\u00f3s uma infidelidade? Algumas delas incluem:<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u2022 Being honest and open with your spouse about what happened and why it happened<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u2022 Reconnecting with your cheating partner by doing things together<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>- <strong>Arranjar tempo para os outros<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u2022 Couples counseling or professional help<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u2022 Talking about feelings, emotions, and thoughts<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>- <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/limites-nas-relacoes\/\">Estabelecer limites<\/a> para si pr\u00f3prio em primeiro lugar<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Infidelity is a difficult situation to face, especially when it\u2019s a spouse. There are many ways you can salvage a marriage after infidelity. This article will discuss some of the ways you can do so.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 poss\u00edvel salvar a rela\u00e7\u00e3o se a infidelidade tiver sido um incidente \u00fanico. Muitos casais conseguiram resolver os seus problemas ap\u00f3s a infidelidade e sair mais fortes do outro lado.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Para salvar um casamento ap\u00f3s uma infidelidade, ambas as partes t\u00eam de estar dispostas a resolver os seus problemas em conjunto. Ambas as partes precisam de ser honestas uma com a outra sobre o que aconteceu para poderem avan\u00e7ar de forma saud\u00e1vel.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00c9 tamb\u00e9m importante que ambas as partes assumam a responsabilidade pelos seus actos e enfrentem as consequ\u00eancias das suas escolhas para poderem avan\u00e7ar de forma saud\u00e1vel. Ambas as partes precisam de estar dispostas a perdoar-se mutuamente e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/citacoes-de-seguir-em-frente\/\">esquecer o passado<\/a> eles.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>Que limites devem ser estabelecidos ap\u00f3s uma infidelidade?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-152321\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/calm-couple-having-a-serious-conversation.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/calm-couple-having-a-serious-conversation.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/calm-couple-having-a-serious-conversation-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/calm-couple-having-a-serious-conversation-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/calm-couple-having-a-serious-conversation-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/calm-couple-having-a-serious-conversation-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/calm-couple-having-a-serious-conversation-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/calm-couple-having-a-serious-conversation-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/calm-couple-having-a-serious-conversation-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/calm-couple-having-a-serious-conversation-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/calm-couple-having-a-serious-conversation-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/calm-couple-having-a-serious-conversation-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/calm-couple-having-a-serious-conversation-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/calm-couple-having-a-serious-conversation-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/calm-couple-having-a-serious-conversation-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/calm-couple-having-a-serious-conversation-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Os limites que s\u00e3o estabelecidos ap\u00f3s a infidelidade no casamento s\u00e3o geralmente sobre quem pode ver o c\u00f4njuge, onde o c\u00f4njuge pode ir e o que os amigos e familiares podem fazer.<\/p>\n<p><strong>No entanto, tamb\u00e9m \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio estabelecer outros limites, tais como a quantidade de contacto que deve ser permitida com o c\u00f4njuge e o tipo de contacto que deve ser permitido.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00c9 claro que nunca se deve partilhar estes pormenores \u00edntimos com outras pessoas. E nunca conte ao <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-perguntas-a-fazer-ao-seu-conjuge-infiel\/\">c\u00f4njuge infiel<\/a> what they can or can\u2019t do. These are a few of the biggest mistakes when couples reconcile.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Uma das coisas mais importantes que um casal deve fazer ap\u00f3s uma infidelidade \u00e9 estabelecer limites. Os limites s\u00e3o regras com as quais ambos concordam enquanto casal. Os limites podem ser f\u00edsicos ou emocionais, e podem ser diferentes para cada pessoa da rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It is important to create your own boundaries no matter what. This is because you need to know what you are willing to tolerate and what you don\u2019t want in your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>O <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/estabelecer-limites-como-uma-mulher-de-grande-valor\/\">limites que devem ser estabelecidos<\/a> are going to depend on the couple\u2019s relationship and the needs of each individual. Some couples might decide to have open relationships, while others might decide not to have any sexual contact at all with their partner.<\/p>\n<h2>Quais s\u00e3o as coisas mais importantes a ter em conta depois de uma infidelidade?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-152322\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>A infidelidade \u00e9 um tema complexo e dif\u00edcil de abordar. Pode ser incrivelmente doloroso e avassalador. Dito isto, h\u00e1 alguns aspectos importantes a ter em conta ap\u00f3s uma infidelidade:<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>- <strong>It\u2019s not your fault.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u2022 Your life in a year will be better than it is now, and this will all be last year.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u2022 You deserve love and support from your partner, even if they don\u2019t want you back.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>- <strong>Tudo acabar\u00e1 por correr bem se vivermos um dia de cada vez.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u2022 You deserve to have your voice heard and know that<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sozinho-citacoes-proverbios\/\"> n\u00e3o est\u00e1 sozinho.<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u2022 You\u2019re capable of being happy and content with yourself even after infidelity.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>The most important thing to remember after infidelity is that you must take care of your mental health. Take time for yourself and remember that you\u2019re not alone.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>It can be difficult, but it\u2019s important to make sure that you prioritize <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-sinais-de-alerta-de-que-o-seu-parceiro-esta-a-arruinar-a-sua-saude-mental\/\">a sua pr\u00f3pria sa\u00fade mental<\/a> e o bem-estar em primeiro lugar.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s also important to make sure that you don\u2019t blame yourself for the infidelity. It\u2019s not your fault, and it shouldn\u2019t be your burden.<\/p>\n<h2>Quanto tempo dura um casamento depois de uma infidelidade?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-152320\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/angry-couple-sitting-on-couch.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/angry-couple-sitting-on-couch.png 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/angry-couple-sitting-on-couch-300x199.png 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/angry-couple-sitting-on-couch-1024x678.png 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/angry-couple-sitting-on-couch-768x509.png 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/angry-couple-sitting-on-couch-1536x1018.png 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/angry-couple-sitting-on-couch-735x487.png 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/angry-couple-sitting-on-couch-335x222.png 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/angry-couple-sitting-on-couch-347x230.png 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/angry-couple-sitting-on-couch-520x345.png 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/angry-couple-sitting-on-couch-640x424.png 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/angry-couple-sitting-on-couch-960x636.png 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/angry-couple-sitting-on-couch-1080x716.png 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/angry-couple-sitting-on-couch-150x99.png 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>Nem todos os casais s\u00e3o iguais. Muitos casais permanecem juntos e felizes depois de um caso extraconjugal, mas isso requer muito trabalho. A infidelidade nem sempre <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/vale-a-pena-salvar-o-meu-casamento\/\">terminar em div\u00f3rcio<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ainda assim, a dura\u00e7\u00e3o m\u00e9dia do casamento ap\u00f3s a infidelidade \u00e9 de tr\u00eas anos, mas varia consoante a situa\u00e7\u00e3o e o tempo que os casais demoram a recuperar dos seus problemas de infidelidade.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>It is not easy for couples to recover after infidelity, but some things can help them get through it. People often wonder what the average length of marriage after infidelity is, but there isn\u2019t an exact answer<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Os casamentos s\u00e3o constru\u00eddos com base na confian\u00e7a e na honestidade entre ambos os parceiros. Quando um dos parceiros trai, a confian\u00e7a \u00e9 quebrada e pode ser complicado reconstru\u00ed-la. No entanto, alguns sinais indicam que um casamento pode ainda ter uma hip\u00f3tese ap\u00f3s a infidelidade.<\/p>\n<p><em>Se seguir os 10 erros comuns de reconcilia\u00e7\u00e3o matrimonial a evitar ap\u00f3s a infidelidade, n\u00e3o ter\u00e1 problemas.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>Ir devagar<\/h2>\n<p>Na sequ\u00eancia de uma infidelidade, as emo\u00e7\u00f5es est\u00e3o ao rubro e as complica\u00e7\u00f5es abundam. \u00c9 f\u00e1cil cometer erros que podem levar ao div\u00f3rcio. No entanto, h\u00e1 muitas coisas que pode fazer agora mesmo para ajudar a proteger-se a si e ao seu casamento ap\u00f3s uma infidelidade.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ap\u00f3s uma infidelidade, os casais encontram-se muitas vezes numa situa\u00e7\u00e3o dif\u00edcil. N\u00e3o sabem ao certo o que fazer e como seguir em frente.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Quando se trata de reconcilia\u00e7\u00e3o matrimonial, \u00e9 importante que os casais sigam os 10 erros comuns de reconcilia\u00e7\u00e3o matrimonial a evitar ap\u00f3s a infidelidade.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Se deseja verdadeiramente que a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o ou casamento prossiga, tem de deixar o caso e a trai\u00e7\u00e3o para tr\u00e1s e tentar ultrapass\u00e1-los com o seu parceiro.<\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Oh no! Your partner cheated on you, and it\u2019s all out now. In the wake of this affair, you realize that what you have is too valuable to throw away. Your partner agrees, and you try to form a new relationship. In fact, I\u2019ve been through it, too, and I understand. Infidelity is the most&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":152323,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29626],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-152313","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-affair"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29626,"label":"affair"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/10-Common-Marriage-Reconciliation-Mistakes-To-Avoid-After-Infidelity-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29626,"name":"affair","slug":"affair","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29626,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","parent":29620,"count":132,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29626,"category_count":132,"category_description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","cat_name":"affair","category_nicename":"affair","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/152313","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=152313"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/152313\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/152323"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=152313"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=152313"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=152313"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}