{"id":152418,"date":"2022-06-08T16:03:03","date_gmt":"2022-06-08T16:03:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=152418"},"modified":"2022-07-21T13:01:06","modified_gmt":"2022-07-21T13:01:06","slug":"15-sinais-de-que-o-seu-casamento-vai-acabar-em-divorcio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/15-sinais-de-que-o-seu-casamento-vai-acabar-em-divorcio\/","title":{"rendered":"15 sinais de que o seu casamento vai acabar em div\u00f3rcio"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>According to statistics, the divorce rate among couples is skyrocketing. I mean, just look around you \u2013 <strong>Todas as pessoas que conhece j\u00e1 se divorciaram ou tencionam contactar um advogado de div\u00f3rcios em breve.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Mas quais s\u00e3o os factores mais comuns de previs\u00e3o do div\u00f3rcio? E o mais importante, <strong>em que \u00e9 que o vosso casamento \u00e9 diferente?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Well, I hate to be the one to tell you, but if you can relate to most of these 15 signs your marriage will end in divorce, it\u2019s not.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>15 sinais de que o seu casamento vai acabar em div\u00f3rcio<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-152489\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-1-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-1-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-1-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-1-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-1-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-1-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-1-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-1-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Veja isto como uma esp\u00e9cie de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/lista-de-controlo-do-divorcio\/\">\u201cshould I get a divorce?\u201d quiz<\/a>. Se preencher a maioria destes crit\u00e9rios, o seu casamento est\u00e1 condenado ao fracasso, quer queira quer n\u00e3o:<\/p>\n<h3>1. O amor n\u00e3o pode viver onde n\u00e3o h\u00e1 confian\u00e7a<\/h3>\n<p>The first warning sign you\u2019re heading to divorce is a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/uma-rapariga-com-problemas-de-confianca-esta-a-implorar-te-para-nao-fazeres-estas-12-coisas\/\">falta de confian\u00e7a<\/a> between you and your spouse. Come on, you can\u2019t have a healthy relationship with a friend or coworker if you don\u2019t trust each other \u2013 let alone the person you share a life with.<\/p>\n<p>H\u00e1 dois aspectos na falta de confian\u00e7a m\u00fatua.<\/p>\n<p>A primeira \u00e9 n\u00e3o ter confian\u00e7a neles.<strong> You can\u2019t rely on them when you need their help.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t know if they\u2019ll be there to pick up the pieces and if they won\u2019t back out on you when you\u2019re going through a rough patch.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Basically, you\u2019ve both forgotten about those \u201cthrough thick and thin\u201d vows.<\/strong> Illness, mental health issues, substance abuse problems, poverty, family drama? They\u2019re not who you can rely on in any of these situations.<\/p>\n<p>At the same time, you don\u2019t trust that they\u2019re telling the truth. You doubt every single word that comes out of their mouth. You question everything they say or do, and you have to double-check their every move.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, let\u2019s not forget that you don\u2019t trust each other&#8217;s judgment-making skills. Your partner is not the one whose advice you\u2019ll ask for simply because you don\u2019t think they are able to make a good choice.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Viol\u00eancia dom\u00e9stica<\/h3>\n<p>Um dos 15 sinais de que o seu casamento vai acabar em div\u00f3rcio \u00e9, sem d\u00favida, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/homem-7-coisas-agressor-domestico\/\">viol\u00eancia dom\u00e9stica<\/a>. Mas, por favor, n\u00e3o se esque\u00e7am de que existem muitos mais <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-tipos-de-violencia-domestica-e-formas-de-os-combater\/\">tipos de abuso<\/a> do que apenas f\u00edsico.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You may think that you two are good to go because you don\u2019t hit each other. However, if there is <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/consequencias-do-abuso-emocional\/\">abuso emocional<\/a> envolvidos, isso tamb\u00e9m \u00e9 um fator de previs\u00e3o do div\u00f3rcio.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sim, isto inclui tamb\u00e9m o abuso verbal. Se voc\u00ea e o seu parceiro continuam <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-conjuge-diz-coisas-que-o-magoam\/\">dizer coisas que magoam<\/a> e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/marido\/\">ser mau<\/a> to each other, it\u2019s a clear sign to start searching for the best divorce lawyer.<\/p>\n<p>And let\u2019s not forget about sexual abuse either. Yes, that happens in marriages as well.<\/p>\n<p>Just because you\u2019re married to someone doesn\u2019t mean they have the right to force you to sleep with them or do anything you don\u2019t want to do in bed. Your body is yours, and your significant other must respect your boundaries.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Falta de respeito<\/h3>\n<p>O respeito m\u00fatuo \u00e9 uma das bases de um casamento saud\u00e1vel. \u00c9 preciso<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-respeitar-o-seu-marido\/\"> respeita o teu marido<\/a> e esposa, e eles devem fazer o mesmo por si.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Mas n\u00e3o h\u00e1 qualquer vest\u00edgio de respeito quando se trata da sua <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/17-sinais-de-um-casamento-infeliz-e-como-resolve-lo\/\">casamento infeliz<\/a>n\u00e3o \u00e9? Bem, esse \u00e9 um dos sinais de div\u00f3rcio.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>O que \u00e9 que significa falta de respeito? Bem, se tiveres um <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sinais-que-nao-deve-ignorar\/\">marido desrespeitoso<\/a> or wife, they\u2019ll never take your needs into consideration. This goes hand in hand with a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/marido-egoista-um-homem-absorvido-por-si-proprio\/\">marido ego\u00edsta<\/a> ou esposa.<\/p>\n<p>Your spouse will never treat you as their equal. On the contrary, they\u2019ll always act as the <a href=\"http:\/\/vhttps\/\/herway.net\/dominant-husband-10-ways-to-be-the-alpha-in-your-marriage\">dominante.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>De acordo com isto, deve seguir o exemplo deles e ser o <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/tornar-se-uma-esposa-submissa\/\">submisso<\/a>, no questions asked. Nevertheless, please, don\u2019t confuse this with bedroom dynamics.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m talking about the fact that your SO makes all the decisions without ever including you. They don\u2019t respect your opinions and attitudes.<\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t listen to what you have to say, and most of the time, they treat you like a little kid.<\/p>\n<p>As if that wasn\u2019t enough, they also use every chance they get to insult and humiliate you \u2013 especially in front of others.<\/p>\n<h3>4. Diferentes planos para o futuro<\/h3>\n<p>Your presence might be near perfection, but the sad reality is that it\u2019s time for a divorce attorney if you don\u2019t have the same future plans.<\/p>\n<p>No, I\u2019m not talking about the fact that you want to go to New York and they want to visit the Caribbean this summer, so you can\u2019t reach a compromise.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s picture it this way: you want to move to a bigger city, but your spouse\u2019s lifelong dream is to live in the countryside. You want to chase your career while your SO wants you to be a stay-at-home parent.<\/p>\n<p><strong>And don\u2019t get me started about children. In fact, this is probably the biggest deal-breaker.<\/strong> This is something you two should have discussed before tying the knot, but if you haven\u2019t, and it turns out that you have different worldviews, you\u2019ve got yourself a problem.<\/p>\n<p>There is no compromise here. It\u2019s not like one person will agree to have kids against their will, or the other sentences themselves to a childless life, despite wanting children. In that case, both spouses, including the children, will end up miserable.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why divorce is the only solution to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-meu-casamento-acabou\/\">desistir.<\/a><\/p>\n<h3>5. Vis\u00f5es do mundo incompat\u00edveis<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-152490\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distant-couple-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distant-couple-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distant-couple-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distant-couple-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distant-couple-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distant-couple-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distant-couple-1-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distant-couple-1-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distant-couple-1-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distant-couple-1-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distant-couple-1-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distant-couple-1-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distant-couple-1-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distant-couple-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distant-couple-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distant-couple-1-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If two married people don\u2019t share important world views and have different opinions on significant matters that impact both of them and their lives together, that is a recipe for an unhappy marriage right there.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I\u2019m not saying that you and your spouse must have the same taste in music to make your marriage work. Despite being a team, you two are still two individuals, and it\u2019s normal that you won\u2019t agree on everything, nor should you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>However, let\u2019s say that one person is strictly religious and the other wants nothing to do with spirituality and wants to enjoy their earthly life without any limitations?<\/p>\n<p>E se um quiser viver com a fam\u00edlia alargada e o outro se fartar dela durante as f\u00e9rias, quanto mais n\u00e3o seja?<\/p>\n<p>The examples are endless, but I\u2019m sure you see where I\u2019m going. At the end of the day, two married people should at least have similar worldviews and shared moral values for their marriage to work.<\/p>\n<h3>6. Falta de intimidade f\u00edsica<\/h3>\n<p>Look, I\u2019m not saying that good sex is what a successful marriage is all about. However, the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thehivelaw.com\/blog\/divorce-statistics-us-divorce-rate-in-america\/\" rel=\"noopener\">taxa de div\u00f3rcio<\/a> among married couples who don\u2019t sleep together is immensely high. After all, your bedroom activities are what differentiates you from two roommates or best friends who just live together.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s one thing if this is just a phase. Nevertheless,<strong> se o seu <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-meu-casamento-sem-sexo-esta-a-matar-me\/\">o casamento torna-se sem sexo<\/a>, it\u2019s definitely time for a marriage counselor.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Mas <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/efeitos-da-falta-de-intimidade-fisica-numa-relacao\/\">falta de intimidade f\u00edsica<\/a> doesn\u2019t only mean that you two aren\u2019t having sex. It also includes a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/falta-de-afeto\/\">falta de afeto<\/a>, such as not sleeping together (in a literate sense of the word), no kissing, no cuddling, no holding hands, no hugging&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>There is, without a doubt, something hidden behind these behavior patterns, and if you don\u2019t work on it in time, it will definitely become one of the 15 signs your marriage will end in divorce.<\/p>\n<h3>7. Couples therapy doesn\u2019t work<\/h3>\n<p>When they go through a crisis they clearly can\u2019t resolve by themselves, responsible married couples go to marriage counseling. And that is the right thing to do. Actually, visiting a marriage counselor is probably the best thing you can do to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-salvar-um-casamento\/\">salvar o seu casamento<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Mas o que acontece quando a terapia de casal lhe abre os olhos e lhe mostra que a sua <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/vale-a-pena-salvar-o-meu-casamento\/\">marriage isn\u2019t worth saving<\/a>Apesar de todos os seus esfor\u00e7os? Bem, nesse caso, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 outra alternativa sen\u00e3o desistir.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I mean, you\u2019ve tried it all, including <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sinais-positivos-durante-a-separacao\/\">separa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/a> You\u2019ve followed all the <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/conselhos-matrimoniais\/\">conselhos matrimoniais<\/a> que o seu terapeuta familiar lhe deu, mas nada resultou. Nesta altura, a terapia tornou-se uma tortura.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s like you\u2019re giving CPR to someone who\u2019salready dead \u2013 nothing beneficial is going on, nor will it!<\/p>\n<h3>8. Infidelidade n\u00e3o perdoada<\/h3>\n<p>You\u2019re probably wondering why I didn\u2019t write just infidelity without the unforgiven part? The answer lies in the fact that some married couples manage to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.verywellmind.com\/infidelity-in-marriage-2300651\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">ultrapassar a infidelidade<\/a> e salvar o seu casamento apesar de isso acontecer.<\/p>\n<p>Mas se souberes que a tua mulher ou <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/8-sinais-de-que-ele-esta-a-trair\/\">o marido est\u00e1 a tra\u00ed-la<\/a> and you two just continue living as if nothing is happening, it\u2019s one of the 15 signs your marriage will end in divorce.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I am not only talking about physical infidelity here. It\u2019s the same if one of you is having an emotional affair. This is a major sign that something serious is missing in your marriage and that one of you isn\u2019t ready to be loyal and faithful.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Infidelity is one of the most significant forms of betrayal. Some couples pretend that they\u2019ve survived it, but they\u2019ve actually just swept everything under the carpet.<\/p>\n<p>Mais cedo ou mais tarde, os velhos dem\u00f3nios voltam para os assombrar. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ressentimento-no-casamento\/\">Ressentimento<\/a>Surgem os rancores, a raiva e o desejo de vingan\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<p>When that happens, the marriage actually ended a while ago \u2013 the couple just hasn\u2019t contacted their divorce attorney and thrown a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ideias-para-festas-de-divorcio\/\">div\u00f3rcio.<\/a><\/p>\n<h3>9. \u00c9 mais feliz sozinho do que acompanhado<\/h3>\n<p>Nobody can argue against spending time alone or with other people when you get married. It\u2019s not like you and your spouse became conjoined twins the moment you said \u201cI do.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>However, quality time is crucial for a happy marriage. I\u2019m not referring to you two sitting next to each other, watching TV, or scrolling through your phones.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I\u2019m talking about having meaningful conversations and doing things that make you both happy. I\u2019m talking about actually being present in each other\u2019s lives.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sadly, both you and your spouse are way happier alone than when you\u2019re together. You literally run away from one another and look for excuses not to be in the same room.<\/p>\n<p>This is a clear sign that you two can\u2019t stand each other, and it\u2019s possible that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/odeio-o-meu-marido\/\">odeia-os<\/a> e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-meu-marido-odeia-me-o-que-devo-fazer\/\">vice-versa<\/a>. H\u00e1 realmente mais alguma coisa para falar sobre este casamento?<\/p>\n<h3>10. You\u2019re already living like two single people<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-152491\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-in-a-fight.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-in-a-fight.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-in-a-fight-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-in-a-fight-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-in-a-fight-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-in-a-fight-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-in-a-fight-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-in-a-fight-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-in-a-fight-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-in-a-fight-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-in-a-fight-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-in-a-fight-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-in-a-fight-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-in-a-fight-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-in-a-fight-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-in-a-fight-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A dura verdade \u00e9 que o casamento entre si e o seu c\u00f4njuge praticamente s\u00f3 existe no papel, ou seja, em teoria. Na pr\u00e1tica, vivem como duas pessoas solteiras.<\/p>\n<p>Both of you are unfaithful or at least have emotional affairs. You spend most of your time apart, and in many cases, you have no idea where your SO is or what they\u2019ve been up to.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t spend holidays together, you don\u2019t visit each other\u2019s families, and you don\u2019t sleep together. <strong>If you have kids, you do your best to co-parent them, and that\u2019s about it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t consult each other before making important life decisions, nor are you included in one another\u2019s future plans. <strong>You\u2019re not a team or a union \u2013 you are just two individuals who happen to live together.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>11. No jealousy at all&#8230;<\/h3>\n<p>Your partner is not jealous of you and vice versa. Shouldn\u2019t that be a good thing? Well, excessive jealousy is not healthy \u2013 everyone knows that, but it\u2019s impossible not to be jealous at all, either. At least, it\u2019s not possible if there are any feelings left.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not talking about the fact that your SO trusts you. <strong>It\u2019s one thing that you know they wouldn\u2019t cheat on you even if their life depended on it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s not like that with the two of you. It\u2019s just that you don\u2019t care if they have an affair.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t care if your wife or <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/quando-o-seu-marido-olha-para-outra-mulher\/\">o marido olha para outra pessoa<\/a>, and you wouldn\u2019t care if they actually cheated on you either.<\/p>\n<p>Actually, deep down, you\u2019re praying that they\u2019d find someone else so they could give you a break or so you could use it as an excuse to finally make the decision to get a divorce.<\/p>\n<p>At the same time, your SO isn\u2019t <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/16-formas-eficazes-de-fazer-perder-a-preocupacao\/\">medo de te perder<\/a> either. They couldn\u2019t care less if you\u2019re flirting, texting, or even sleeping with someone else.<\/p>\n<p>Have you two become only friends, or are things like this because you can\u2019t stand each other anymore? I don\u2019t know, but I know one thing: this is one of the major signs that divorce is near.<\/p>\n<h3>12. &#8230; or too much jealousy<\/h3>\n<p>Por outro lado, demasiado <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-sinais-de-que-o-namorado-e-ciumento-e-perigosamente-possessivo\/\">ci\u00fame e possessividade<\/a> aren\u2019t healthy either. Your partner is not your parent, and you\u2019re not a little child who needs to ask for their permission to go out with friends or do something fun without them.<\/p>\n<p>Both you and your spouse must have a life outside of your relationship if you want your marriage to work. Not allowing each other to have friends, stalking each other\u2019s social media profiles, and not respecting boundaries won\u2019t get you anywhere.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Clinginess and neediness are not acceptable in a marriage. You might think that things are going great for now, but if you\u2019re too focused on one another, your union is not sustainable.<\/strong> Mais cedo ou mais tarde, um de v\u00f3s vai querer a sua liberdade de volta.<\/p>\n<p>If you plan on cheating, that\u2019s exactly what you\u2019re going to do, despite them constantly breathing down your neck. So, what exactly is the point of this<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/9-maneiras-pelas-quais-o-ciume-destroi-um-relacionamento\/\"> ci\u00fames que est\u00e3o a arruinar a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>?<\/p>\n<h3>13. Discuss\u00f5es pouco saud\u00e1veis<\/h3>\n<p>Todos <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/com-que-frequencia-os-casais-discutem\/\">brigas de casal<\/a>As discuss\u00f5es, por si s\u00f3, n\u00e3o s\u00e3o um sinal de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o pouco saud\u00e1vel. No entanto, as discuss\u00f5es podem ser saud\u00e1veis. Ou, para ser exato, deveriam ser saud\u00e1veis.<\/p>\n<p>Healthy couples know that it\u2019s them against the problem, not one against the other. They learn a lesson from every fight and come up with a solution.<\/p>\n<p>However, your fights are as toxic as your relationship. Your lack of communication skills have brought you to a point where you don\u2019t solve one problem at a time.<\/p>\n<p>Em vez disso, esperam que se acumulem e depois explodem. Ou est\u00e3o sempre a discutir e fazem um drama por cada pequena coisa.<\/p>\n<p><strong>De qualquer forma, acabamos sempre por <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-pior-coisa-que-um-marido-pode-dizer-a-sua-mulher\/\">insultarem-se uns aos outros<\/a> e amea\u00e7ando <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-separar\/\">pedir o div\u00f3rcio<\/a>. Voltamos a quest\u00f5es antigas, n\u00e3o resolvidas, e andamos em c\u00edrculos.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>There is gaslighting, manipulation, yelling and even abuse. The worst part is that you never reach a conclusion \u2013 you make up in bed, or you just stop talking for days.<\/p>\n<h4>N\u00e3o h\u00e1 qualquer luta<\/h4>\n<p>No entanto, o facto de n\u00e3o lutar tamb\u00e9m n\u00e3o \u00e9 um bom sinal.<strong> Um dos parceiros \u00e9 claramente <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-obstrucao-e-um-metodo-de-tratamento-silencioso-perfeito-para-os-narcisistas\/\">bloqueio<\/a> e evitar qualquer tipo de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o, o que inclui tamb\u00e9m as discuss\u00f5es.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A falta de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o foi o que vos meteu nesta confus\u00e3o. Talvez tenham dificuldade em exprimir-se, por isso optam por ficar calados, esperando que o problema desapare\u00e7a por magia.<\/p>\n<p>Or what\u2019s even worse \u2013 you have no intention of solving the problem because you couldn\u2019t care less about your relationship. You have no desire to fix it, and you just let everything be the way it is until one of you is brave enough to walk away.<\/p>\n<h3>14. Torna-vos a ambos infelizes<\/h3>\n<p>Dr. John Gottman, a couple\u2019s therapist and relationship expert, claims that being unhappy in your marriage is actually the most important reason marriages end. <strong>No fim de contas, tudo se resume a esta quest\u00e3o: o vosso casamento faz-vos sentir infelizes?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Se a resposta for sim, n\u00e3o vale a pena tentar lutar contra o div\u00f3rcio.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not saying that something \u201cbig\u201d has happened in your marriage. Maybe there wasn\u2019t abuse or infidelity included.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, at the end of the day, you don\u2019t feel happy with your partner. Instead of improving the quality of your life, they\u2019re doing the opposite.<\/p>\n<p>Deixem-me que vos diga que viver assim vos trar\u00e1, mais cedo ou mais tarde, s\u00e9rios problemas de sa\u00fade mental.<\/p>\n<h3>15. N\u00e3o h\u00e1 mais amor<\/h3>\n<p>As pessoas que mant\u00eam rela\u00e7\u00f5es duradouras, para n\u00e3o falar de casamentos, perdem o seu lado positivo ao fim de algum tempo. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/leia-isto-se-a-sua-relacao-de-longa-duracao-esta-num-marasmo\/\">Cair na rotina<\/a> \u00e9 bastante normal, e ningu\u00e9m espera que o seu casamento seja uma montanha-russa de emo\u00e7\u00f5es ap\u00f3s anos de uni\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p><strong>In fact, it\u2019s healthier if that feeling of being in love transforms into a more peaceful kind of love that includes respect, trust, and loyalty.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>No entanto, <strong>don\u2019t confuse this with a complete <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sinais-dolorosos-que-o-marido-nao-ama\/\">falta de amor.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A verdade \u00e9 que l<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-razoes-pelas-quais-o-amor-simplesmente-nao-e-suficiente-para-vos-manter-juntos\/\">ove por si s\u00f3 n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficiente<\/a> para um casamento bem sucedido. No entanto, continua a ser fundamental!<\/p>\n<p>When there is no love between you two, everything else is in vain. Many couples think it\u2019s okay to settle for a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sinais-de-um-casamento-sem-amor\/\">casamento sem amor<\/a>, but trust me \u2013 it\u2019s not.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t want to spend the rest of your life waking up next to someone you have no romantic feelings for. Sooner or later, one of you will get tired of this pathetic co-existence, and your marriage will fall apart.<\/p>\n<h2>Como \u00e9 que se sabe realmente quando \u00e9 que o casamento acabou?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-152493\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-facing-away-from-each-other.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-facing-away-from-each-other.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-facing-away-from-each-other-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-facing-away-from-each-other-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-facing-away-from-each-other-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-facing-away-from-each-other-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-facing-away-from-each-other-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-facing-away-from-each-other-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-facing-away-from-each-other-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-facing-away-from-each-other-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-facing-away-from-each-other-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-facing-away-from-each-other-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-facing-away-from-each-other-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-facing-away-from-each-other-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>O casamento est\u00e1 acabado quando ambos desistem de lutar por ele e quando um de v\u00f3s faz algo imperdo\u00e1vel.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In the first case, you\u2019re both tired of trying to revive something that\u2019s been dead for some time. You crave the day when one of you will finally give up this charade and you\u2019ll get your freedom back.<\/p>\n<p>In the other case, you can try your hardest to forgive something your SO did, but deep down, you\u2019re aware that they\u2019ve crossed the line. You do your best to accept their apology, but every time you look at them, their sin appears in front of your eyes.<\/p>\n<p>For some, this is abuse. For others, infidelity, and for some, it\u2019s disrespect&#8230; It can actually be anything \u2013 the bottom line is that after this, things can never go back to the way they were before.<\/p>\n<h2>O que s\u00e3o sinais de alerta num casamento?<\/h2>\n<p>Desonestidade, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-sinais-de-que-ele-e-um-traidor-em-serie-e-nao-se-importa-com-isso\/\">batota em s\u00e9rie<\/a>A falta de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o, o desrespeito, os problemas de confian\u00e7a, a interfer\u00eancia de terceiros na rela\u00e7\u00e3o e a falta de intimidade f\u00edsica s\u00e3o alguns dos sinais de alerta mais importantes a que se deve prestar aten\u00e7\u00e3o num casamento.<\/p>\n<p>Todas as pessoas t\u00eam problemas diferentes, mas nenhum dos aspectos acima referidos deve ser ignorado.<\/p>\n<h2>Como \u00e9 que se sabe se se est\u00e1 a caminho do div\u00f3rcio?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-152494\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-not-talking.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-not-talking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-not-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-not-talking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-not-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-not-talking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-not-talking-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-not-talking-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-not-talking-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-not-talking-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-not-talking-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-not-talking-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-not-talking-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-not-talking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-not-talking-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-not-talking-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re headed for divorce <strong>if you can\u2019t stand to look at each other anymore, if there is no love present, and if every conversation you try to have ends in an argument.<\/strong> O div\u00f3rcio est\u00e1 a aproximar-se se cada pequena coisa que o seu parceiro faz o irrita (e vice-versa).<\/p>\n<p>Al\u00e9m disso, se prestar mais aten\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0s imperfei\u00e7\u00f5es da pessoa do que \u00e0quilo que gostava nela, \u00e9 sinal de que o div\u00f3rcio est\u00e1 a chegar.<\/p>\n<h2>Que casamentos terminam em div\u00f3rcio?<\/h2>\n<p><strong>Os casais que se casam por press\u00e3o dos pares, por causa do dinheiro ou sem se amarem em geral divorciam-se mais cedo ou mais tarde. <\/strong>O mesmo se passa com os casais imaturos que pensam que o amor \u00e9 a \u00fanica coisa que importa e que se casam antes de verificarem a sua compatibilidade ou de se conhecerem devidamente.<\/p>\n<p>Basically, every marriage that doesn\u2019t have a balance between love and other things, such as trust and respect, will not last!<\/p>\n<h2>Para terminar:<\/h2>\n<p><strong>Just because you can relate to all these 15 signs your marriage will end in divorce doesn\u2019t make <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-salvar-um-casamento\/\">salv\u00e1-lo<\/a> absolutamente imposs\u00edvel.<\/strong> I\u2019ll be honest \u2013 if you\u2019ve reached this point, it will be extremely difficult to revive it.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, onde h\u00e1 vontade, h\u00e1 um caminho. Se acham mesmo que h\u00e1 algo por que lutar, v\u00e3o em frente. Confiem em mim, esta \u00e9 a vossa \u00faltima oportunidade de o fazer!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-153712\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/15-Signs-Your-Marriage-Will-End-In-Divorce-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"15 Sinais de que o seu casamento vai acabar em div\u00f3rcio Pinterest\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/15-Signs-Your-Marriage-Will-End-In-Divorce-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/15-Signs-Your-Marriage-Will-End-In-Divorce-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/15-Signs-Your-Marriage-Will-End-In-Divorce-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/15-Signs-Your-Marriage-Will-End-In-Divorce-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/15-Signs-Your-Marriage-Will-End-In-Divorce-Pinterest-735x1103.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/15-Signs-Your-Marriage-Will-End-In-Divorce-Pinterest-223x335.jpg 223w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/15-Signs-Your-Marriage-Will-End-In-Divorce-Pinterest-231x347.jpg 231w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/15-Signs-Your-Marriage-Will-End-In-Divorce-Pinterest-347x520.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/15-Signs-Your-Marriage-Will-End-In-Divorce-Pinterest-427x640.jpg 427w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/15-Signs-Your-Marriage-Will-End-In-Divorce-Pinterest-512x768.jpg 512w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/15-Signs-Your-Marriage-Will-End-In-Divorce-Pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/15-Signs-Your-Marriage-Will-End-In-Divorce-Pinterest-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/15-Signs-Your-Marriage-Will-End-In-Divorce-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>According to statistics, the divorce rate among couples is skyrocketing. I mean, just look around you \u2013 everyone you know has either already gotten a divorce or is planning to contact a divorce lawyer sometime soon. But what are the most common predictors of divorce? And most importantly, how is your marriage different? Well, I&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":152487,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29620],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-152418","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationships"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29620,"label":"RELATIONSHIPS"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/15-Signs-Your-Marriage-Will-End-In-Divorce-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29620,"name":"RELATIONSHIPS","slug":"relationships","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29620,"taxonomy":"category","description":"<b><i>Relationships are complicated, we know. 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That\u2019s why we try to untangle the web of rules, emotions and challenges to help you overcome any possible issues you might have trying to make your relationship work.<\/i><\/b>","cat_name":"RELATIONSHIPS","category_nicename":"relationships","category_parent":0}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/152418","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=152418"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/152418\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/152487"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=152418"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=152418"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=152418"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}