{"id":15248,"date":"2020-07-26T09:47:56","date_gmt":"2020-07-26T09:47:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15248"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:11:42","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:11:42","slug":"todas-as-raparigas-com-medo-de-se-mexerem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/todas-as-raparigas-com-medo-de-se-mexerem\/","title":{"rendered":"Isto \u00e9 para todas as raparigas que t\u00eam medo de seguir em frente"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sometimes, your reasoning keeps telling you that you\u2019ve deu tudo o que podia a um homem<\/a> who clearly doesn\u2019t deserve you. You know that this man has treated you poorly and that he will never change, despite all of your hopes and efforts.<\/p>\n

Sabe muito bem que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 mais nada que possa fazer por ele e pela vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Ele nunca te amou como devia e nunca foi o homem que devia ter sido.<\/p>\n

Enquanto o tentava consertar, acabou por se quebrar a si pr\u00f3pria. E, embora estivesse sempre presente para ele, ele nunca esteve ao seu lado para a ajudar a recompor-se. Por isso, sabe que afastar-se \u00e9 a sua \u00fanica op\u00e7\u00e3o razo\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n

Mas, apesar de tudo isto, h\u00e1 algo que o impede de seguir em frente e de nunca olhar para tr\u00e1s. Sempre que quer deixar tudo para tr\u00e1s, o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e a sua mente debatem-se.<\/p>\n

Continua a esperar que as coisas mudem, que este homem veja finalmente o seu verdadeiro valor e que toda a sua dor compense.<\/p>\n

Your conscience doesn\u2019t allow you to walk away, despite everything he did to you.<\/p>\n

Tem a certeza de que ele precisa de si e sente-se mal por deix\u00e1-lo sozinho a lutar contra os seus dem\u00f3nios.<\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

And you don\u2019t know why, but deep down you are also medo de seguir em frente com a sua vida<\/a>.<\/p>\n

You are even ashamed of feeling this way, because your reasoning keeps telling you it\u2019s the only thing you should do.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s get one thing straight\u2014moving on is terrifying and it is never simple. Despite the fact that the situation you are in overwhelms you, at least it is something familiar.<\/p>\n

Pode n\u00e3o compreender porque \u00e9 que seguir em frente \u00e9 assustador quando claramente n\u00e3o est\u00e1 satisfeito com a sua vida neste momento, mas est\u00e1 assustado porque est\u00e1 familiarizado com as coisas a que se est\u00e1 a agarrar e seguir em frente traz-lhe incerteza.<\/p>\n

Com o tempo, habituaste-te \u00e0 dor que esse homem te causava e isso tornou-se parte de quem eras. Com o tempo, tornou-se a \u00fanica coisa que te definia.<\/p>\n

You are afraid of moving on because it is a step into the unknown, a step out of your comfort zone. Remember, there is nothing wrong with being scared and you shouldn\u2019t let anyone else tell you differently.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

The hardest part about moving on is letting go. You are not just letting go of the person you\u2019ve loved for so long, you are also letting go of all of the past the two of you had and all the future you hoped you would have.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 finalmente a deixar de lado todos os seus planos, sonhos e esperan\u00e7as ligados a ele.<\/p>\n

Quando se segue em frente, esquece-se todas as coisas que poderiam ter acontecido e percebe-se que elas teriam acontecido se estivessem destinadas a acontecer.<\/p>\n

Quando se segue em frente, est\u00e1-se finalmente a deixar essa pessoa no passado, onde ela realmente pertence.<\/p>\n

When you move on, you are finally realizing it\u2019s about time to libertar-se<\/a> from someone you\u2019ve been stuck with for so long.<\/p>\n

E estou aqui para vos dizer que s\u00e3o capazes de o fazer, apesar de todos os vossos medos. Estou aqui para vos dizer que as pessoas v\u00e3o entrar e sair da vossa vida.<\/p>\n

The ones who don\u2019t stay by your side are simply not worthy of you. And it\u2019s time for you to accept that.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Estou aqui para vos dizer que, apesar de todos os vossos medos, esperam-vos grandes coisas e pessoas fant\u00e1sticas.<\/p>\n

I know you are scared that your heart won\u2019t be open to love again once it has been broken. But, trust me\u2014it will heal. You will heal.<\/p>\n

Lembre-se, n\u00f3s atra\u00edmos aquilo para que estamos preparados. Quando seguir em frente e se permitir estar pronto para grandes coisas e para pessoas que o merecem, elas aparecer\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

And that is when everything will finally make sense. That is when you\u2019ll realize that everything that has been happening to you was for a reason. All of the pain you\u2019ve been through will be worth it.<\/p>\n

Tudo aquilo por que est\u00e1s a passar tornar-se-\u00e1 uma li\u00e7\u00e3o valiosa para ti.<\/p>\n

And that is when you\u2019ll understand that moving on from your past was the best decision you have ever made.<\/p>\n

Por isso, tenha medo. Mas encontre tamb\u00e9m a for\u00e7a em si pr\u00f3prio para ultrapassar esse medo e para, finalmente, afastar o passado e seguir em frente.<\/p>\n

\"Isto<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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